Amanda Maqabuka Gibe returns to the studio with Pastor Mvinjelwa for Part 2 of their discussion on Selfishness in Marriage. They explore how putting personal needs, pride, or comfort above the marriage harms trust, intimacy, and unity. The conversation highlights subtle forms of selfishness—emotional withdrawal, financial secrecy, lack of help at home, or demanding one’s own way—and how these create distance between spouses. They begin guiding couples toward a more Christ-like, sacrificial love that considers the other person’s needs and the health of the relationship above individual preference.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe returns to the studio with Pastor Mvinjelwa for Part 1 of their discussion on Selfishness in Marriage. They explore how putting personal needs, pride, or comfort above the marriage harms trust, intimacy, and unity. The conversation highlights subtle forms of selfishness—emotional withdrawal, financial secrecy, lack of help at home, or demanding one’s own way—and how these create distance between spouses. They begin guiding couples toward a more Christ-like, sacrificial love that considers the other person’s needs and the health of the relationship above individual preference.

Amanda Maqebuka and Pastor Makhaba discuss the purpose of marriage in Part 1, urging intentional entry beyond peer pressure, lust, or financial gain. Couples must discern God's calling, seeking a partner aligned with shared values, spiritual maturity, and complementary strengths for companionship, procreation, and mutual sanctification. Preparation involves self-examination, premarital counseling, and clarity on roles to build covenant love that glorifies God. They warn against superficial motives, emphasizing marriage as a divine institution for growth, legacy, and reflecting Christ's love for the church.

Amanda Maqebuka and Pastor Makhaba discuss the purpose of marriage in Part 1, urging intentional entry beyond peer pressure, lust, or financial gain. Couples must discern God's calling, seeking a partner aligned with shared values, spiritual maturity, and complementary strengths for companionship, procreation, and mutual sanctification. Preparation involves self-examination, premarital counseling, and clarity on roles to build covenant love that glorifies God. They warn against superficial motives, emphasizing marriage as a divine institution for growth, legacy, and reflecting Christ's love for the church.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe continues discussing "Understanding Love Languages Part 2," focusing on the five love languages as introduced by Dr. Gary Chapman. These include: 1. Words of Affirmation: expressing love through spoken or written praise and appreciation. 2. Quality Time: giving focused, undistracted attention to your partner. 3. Physical Touch: showing love through affectionate touch like hugs and kisses. 4. Acts of Service: demonstrating love by doing helpful tasks and favors. 5. Receiving Gifts: giving thoughtful presents that symbolize love and care. Amanda explains how recognizing and speaking your partner’s primary love language can deepen emotional connection and strengthen relationships. Each language offers a unique way of expressing care that meets different emotional needs, and understanding these can improve communication and intimacy.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe discusses "Understanding Love Languages Part 1," focusing on the five love languages as introduced by Dr. Gary Chapman. These include: 1. Words of Affirmation: expressing love through spoken or written praise and appreciation. 2. Quality Time: giving focused, undistracted attention to your partner. 3. Physical Touch: showing love through affectionate touch like hugs and kisses. 4. Acts of Service: demonstrating love by doing helpful tasks and favors. 5. Receiving Gifts: giving thoughtful presents that symbolize love and care. Amanda explains how recognizing and speaking your partner’s primary love language can deepen emotional connection and strengthen relationships. Each language offers a unique way of expressing care that meets different emotional needs, and understanding these can improve communication and intimacy.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Nokuthula Ncethani discuss "Waiting On The Lord Part 1," reflecting on Nokuthula's personal journey. She shares her struggles and hurts before marriage, emphasizing that there is no one-size-fits-all formula for relationships because everyone’s experiences differ. Nokuthula talks about how she finally found the right partner and their marriage journey, highlighting lessons such as patience, faith, and trusting God's timing. The discussion encourages listeners to embrace their unique paths, remain hopeful, and learn from others’ experiences while understanding that God’s timing is perfect for each individual.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Nokuthula Ncethani discuss "Waiting On The Lord Part 1," reflecting on Nokuthula's personal journey. She shares her struggles and hurts before marriage, emphasizing that there is no one-size-fits-all formula for relationships because everyone’s experiences differ. Nokuthula talks about how she finally found the right partner and their marriage journey, highlighting lessons such as patience, faith, and trusting God's timing. The discussion encourages listeners to embrace their unique paths, remain hopeful, and learn from others’ experiences while understanding that God’s timing is perfect for each individual.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Sinoxolo Nozozo discuss the importance of Working On Yourself before Saying I Do. Preparing for marriage is not about being a perfect wife but about learning to understand, love, and be kind to yourself. This self-care shapes how you will show up in your marriage, influencing how you relate to and support your spouse. Emphasizing personal growth and self-awareness before marriage helps build a stronger, healthier relationship foundation.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Sinoxolo Nozozo discuss the importance of Working On Yourself before Saying I Do. Preparing for marriage is not about being a perfect wife but about learning to understand, love, and be kind to yourself. This self-care shapes how you will show up in your marriage, influencing how you relate to and support your spouse. Emphasizing personal growth and self-awareness before marriage helps build a stronger, healthier relationship foundation.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Pastor T discuss Kinds of Intimacy in marriage Part 1. They explore different types of intimacy that build a strong marital bond beyond just the physical aspect. Key types include emotional intimacy (sharing feelings and supporting each other), physical intimacy (non-sexual touch like hugging and holding hands), intellectual intimacy (sharing thoughts and ideas), experiential intimacy (doing activities and creating memories together), creative intimacy (collaborating on projects), and spiritual intimacy (growing together in faith), and financial intimacy. Understanding and nurturing these types of intimacy helps deepen connection, trust, and love in marriage.​

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Pastor T discuss Kinds of Intimacy in marriage Part 1. They explore different types of intimacy that build a strong marital bond beyond just the physical aspect. Key types include emotional intimacy (sharing feelings and supporting each other), physical intimacy (non-sexual touch like hugging and holding hands), intellectual intimacy (sharing thoughts and ideas), experiential intimacy (doing activities and creating memories together), creative intimacy (collaborating on projects), and spiritual intimacy (growing together in faith), and financial intimacy. Understanding and nurturing these types of intimacy helps deepen connection, trust, and love in marriage.​

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe returns to the studio with Ms. Mawande to discuss A hustling young wife - makoti. They explore the challenges and responsibilities faced by young wives today based on her life journey, touching on themes of perseverance, balancing family and career, and navigating expectations within marriage. The discussion highlights the strength and determination required to thrive as a modern makoti while staying rooted in cultural values and personal growth.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe welcomes Pastor Mandy Praise to the studio for an essential discussion on The Right Foundation of Marriage. Pastor Mandy, a devoted family man, father, and husband of twelve years, serves as a minister of the Most High God. Together, they explore the fundamental principles that establish a strong marital foundation and examine why this foundation is critical to lasting union. The conversation unpacks the essential elements required for building marriages that endure through seasons and trials. Their insights provide couples with biblical wisdom and practical understanding for establishing their homes on solid ground.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe welcomes Pastor Mandy Praise to the studio for an essential discussion on The Right Foundation of Marriage. Pastor Mandy, a devoted family man, father, and husband of twelve years, serves as a minister of the Most High God. Together, they explore the fundamental principles that establish a strong marital foundation and examine why this foundation is critical to lasting union. The conversation unpacks the essential elements required for building marriages that endure through seasons and trials. Their insights provide couples with biblical wisdom and practical understanding for establishing their homes on solid ground.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe returns to the studio to address a critical question: Have you felt distant from your spouse or wondered about the disconnection in your marriage? She explores the seasons when couples experience relational disconnection and offers practical guidance for navigating these challenging periods. Amanda provides valuable insights and strategies for identifying the root causes of marital distance. Her discussion equips listeners with actionable tools to restore intimacy and strengthen their union.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe returns to the studio to address a critical question: Have you felt distant from your spouse or wondered about the disconnection in your marriage? She explores the seasons when couples experience relational disconnection and offers practical guidance for navigating these challenging periods. Amanda provides valuable insights and strategies for identifying the root causes of marital distance. Her discussion equips listeners with actionable tools to restore intimacy and strengthen their union.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Mrs. Maqelana, also known as Mamisto, who have been married for 26 years, discuss "Secrets to a Strong Marriage Through Life's Ups and Downs." They emphasize healthy habits like good communication, respect, and maintaining romance. They address common challenges and share tips for resolving conflicts with patience and forgiveness. Parenting together and sharing faith strengthen the marriage, helping couples navigate life's ups and downs and build a lasting, loving relationship.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Mrs. Maqelana, also known as Mamisto, who have been married for 26 years, discuss "Secrets to a Strong Marriage Through Life's Ups and Downs." They emphasize healthy habits like good communication, respect, and maintaining romance. They address common challenges and share tips for resolving conflicts with patience and forgiveness. Parenting together and sharing faith strengthen the marriage, helping couples navigate life's ups and downs and build a lasting, loving relationship.

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe welcomes Pastor Khaya Maphinda to the studio to discuss "Journey and Secrets of a Strong Marriage Part 2." Pastor Maphinda, from East London, is a marriage counselor, marriage officer, and author of four books on families. He runs marriage seminars, conferences, and leadership seminars focused on family and is the founder of the Family Enrichment & Restoration Institute, which operates separately from the church. As a father of three, Pastor Maphinda brings practical wisdom to building strong marriages, emphasizing commitment, communication, mutual respect, and seeing marriage as a ministry and lifelong covenant. His insights aim to strengthen families and equip couples for lasting, healthy relationships.