Today, I am joined by Beyond the Bookends Blogger and literary expert, Kirsten Baritz.  Kirsten and I had the honor of interviewing the brilliant Carola Lovering, author of Tell Me Lies, which has become an overnight success and hit series on Hulu. We dive deep into the characters of Stephen & Lucy and explore the insidious nature of the narcissistic abuse. We also take a close look at some key differences between the hit show and Lovering’s work.   A Book Website for Women & Moms who Love to Readbeyondthebookends.com IG @beyondthebookends   Carola Lovering website  carolalovering.com ---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1 

In this episode, we are joined with borderline personality disorder expert, speaker, and therapist Dr. Courtney Tracy. Dr. Tracy discusses the complexity of living with borderline personality disorder, its treatment, and managing stigma. We also take an in-depth look at the overlap between borderline personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder. IG:@the.truth.doctorYT: The Truth Doctor ShowSnap: Therapist ReactsTwitter: @_thetruthdoctor---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1 

Narcissistic abuse takes a massive toll on our mental well-being; but what about our physical self? In today’s episode, we explore the impact of narcissist abuse on our bodies and how it affects our physical health. ---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1  

In today’s episode we sit down with actor, podcaster, author, and former NXIVM member Sarah Edmondson as she opens up about her personal experiences inside the NXIVM cult. We take a close look at the coercive control tactics used by NXIVM leaders and discuss how Sarah was able to escape and begin her healing journey. Sarah's journey can be seen in the current HBO documentary series, The Vow. http://sarahedmondson.com/book https://www.hbo.com/the-vow https://www.alittlebitculty.com/ http://sarahedmondson.com/---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1 

Today we discuss how Disney fairytales have truly f’ed up our perceptions of relationships and why this matters. 

In today's episode we take a look at how the words we use contribute to our mental wellness and strategies to improve our mood based solely on changing how we speak.---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1

Today we discuss the behaviors of a narcissist during a very emotionally heightened time of year- the holidays. We explore why these toxic patterns are so prevalent during this time of year and offer strategies to help you through this holiday season.  ---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1

In this week’s episode we are joined by one of our favorite duo and podcast co-hosts Shrink Chicks. We talk all things relationships, attachment styles, and dating. ---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1

Today we look into the minds of therapists. That’s right…what are the therapists thinking during sessions and how do they manage their internal dialogue? ---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1

In this session, we talk with documentary film producer and director, Katrina Sorrentino. We dive into Katrina’s personal experience with narcissistic abuse, which she brilliantly captured in her latest documentary short film, Tidal. Katrina talks in depth about the making of her documentary and shares with listeners details of her own healing journey. Tidal website - https://tidaldocumentary.com Katrina's website - https://www.treentreen.com And for donations @treenaphoto on Venmo or PayPal at katrinasorrentino@gmail.com  ---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1

Today’s episode breaks down what happens in our relationships when we change our behaviors, even just the slightest bit. We talk about how changing our patterns throws the relationship dynamics off balance, allowing for the potential of meaningful change. ---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1

Today we revisit the topic of narcissistic parents and dive deep into the dynamics between a narcissistic mother and her child. For more on this also check out Season 1: Session 13. ---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1

Today we talk with renowned therapist and author, Elizabeth Earnshaw, LMFT. Liz is the author of I Want This to Work and co-founder of OURS, a 100% virtual premarital counseling service for the young modern couple. In this session, Liz offers listeners a new take on couples counseling; one that is highly accessible and...fun? Follow Liz on IG @lizlistens or visit her website https://www.withours.com/---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1

This statement is one I hear so often with my patients; this deep feeling of regret, sadness, and anger that they have “wasted” years of their lives in an abusive relationship with a narcissist This episode takes an in-depth look at these feelings and offers an acceptance-based perspective for moving forward.Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit: www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1

Today we had the pleasure of speaking with Tina Swithin, world renowned narcissistic abuse advocate and strategist for those going through the divorce process with a narcissist. Tina is the author of “Divorcing a Narcissist,” creator of the internationally known blog “One Mom’s Battle,” and founder of the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program. In this session, Tina speaks with us on how to navigate through a divorce from a narcissist. She also discusses the immediate need for education and training in narcissistic abuse within the family court system and beyond. You can follow her @onemomsbattle or visit her website www.onemomsbattle.com/---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1

In this episode we dive into the reasons behind why a “new” partner seems to appear rather suddenly following a breakup with a narcissist.---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1

This episode explores what Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is (and is not) and Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD). Someone with OCD experiences significant anxiety and dysfunction, whereas someone with OCPD is rarely distressed by their behaviors, having limited awareness of how these behaviors impact others. Other than the “O,” “C,” and a “D,” these two disorders actually have very little in common.---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1 

The car is a tool often used by a narcissist to control and instill fear in their partner. This episode explores how being in the passenger seat can make for an extremely stressful situation and how best to handle this scenario. We also break down why your sleep is frequently used as a manipulation tactic by someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder.---Follow Dr. Z on instagram @dr.z_psychologist Follow Dr. Z on YouTube Dr. Jaime Zuckerman Follow Dr. Z on Twitter @drzpsychologist Follow Dr. Z on Facebook @drjaimezuckermanFollow Dr. Z on TikTok @dr.z_psychologist  To schedule a coaching session with Dr. Z visit:www.drjaimezuckerman.com To schedule a therapy session visit Dr. Z’s group practice (PA state residents only): www.zgrouptherapy.com   To purchase Dr. Z’s latest books:Find Your Calmhttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Calm-Workbook-Anxiety/dp/1577152999/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CCR680A3MT79&keywords=find+your+calm&qid=1663034747&sprefix=%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1 Find Good Habitshttps://www.amazon.com/Find-Good-Habits-Workbook-Workbooks/dp/1577153014/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=QE63CTN5FEG3&keywords=find+good+habits+book&qid=1663034796&sprefix=find+good+ha%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-1 

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Today, we discuss the abuse commonly experienced after exiting a narcissistic relationship, something called post-separation abuse. We often assume that the abuse stops once the relationship ends. However, this is not always the case, particularly with narcissistic abuse. In this session, we explore the characteristics of post-separation abuse, and discuss general boundary setting strategies.Buy my new anxiety workbook - 'Find Your Calm'https://amzn.to/3q29PRk