Who better to learn about relationships than people who are in long-term relationships? In this episode, Imani chats with Andrew (Ondy), Stephanie, and Richelle about the real talk about being in a committed relationship with lots of laughs and analogies along the way.
In this episode, Imani and Steph talk about Steph’s high school crush, Peter, the heartbreak that happens when you don’t get the guy in the end and the importance of being able to understand our own feelings. Bonus content? Some pretty helpful tips on dating during a pandemic!
In this episode, Imani and Nicole talk about the shenanigans that occur when you’re trying to flirt in high school, the shenanigans that happen when you start dating within a friend group, and how commitment is a choice one makes every day.
In this episode, Imani and Kelley talk about the joys of falling in love, the spontaneity that can come with it, and the what it means to practice being open and honest with your communication.
You can find Kelley’s work at the links below!
http://www.kelleyvandilla.com/
https://www.vandilladirecting.com/
https://www.playgroundofempathy.com/
I can’t believe I’m typing this, but in this episode, I chat with Pool Boy aka High School Crush aka the biggest crush I can remember - Jake S! In this episode, Jake and I diagnose our friendship during those formative high school years with each other and in our high schools and get to know one another as adults.
In this episode, Emma and I chat about our work crushes and how confusing they can be, the powering feeling that comes from acting on your crushes, and looking for love in judgement-free zones.
In this episode, my friend (codename Ilana!) and I discuss the importance of clear and consistent communication, how to honor and value every relationship, and having that long-haul, crushing crush.
In this episode, Harriet and I talk about how cool it is to actually meet (and date!) your kind-of-famous crush, the importance of knowing your values in looking for a partner, and the pros and cons of staying friends with exes.
In this episode, former crush, Matt M., and I talk about how we managed to navigate our on & off college relationship by being on the same page, feeling understood in relationships and as nerdy creatives.
In this episode, AJ (@alexiajcurrie) and I talk about having crushes on people we admire, look up to, and want to support. It’s an episode celebrating Black Girl Magic, the differences in the Black experience, and what it means to build the foundations of a strong relationship.
In this episode, I interview my friend and kick-ass medical professional, Audrey! After almost a decade of friendship, we chat about some of our common dating pitfalls, the difficulties dating in NYC, and finding friend-approved partners.
In this episode, I interview my dear friend, Kevin Frost (Twitter: @Kev_Kev_93, IG: @frost_things_first) about the frustrations of bad timing, friendship dynamics during and after college, and what it means to be honest with yourself and others about wants, needs, and boundaries.
In this episode, I interview my objectively cool kid sister, Nia Robinson (@niarobinson__)! She shares her thoughts about internalized attraction, the core fun of having a crush, and how her faith and confidence are guiding her search for a long term partner.
In this episode, Katharine Wei (@weikatharine) shares her experience growing up in social circles where talking about boys was just part of daily life, how she’s continued to learn about herself, and how vulnerability has been even more important during quarantine.
In this episode, I chat with Vero Garcia Valdez about first crushes and first heartbreaks, the validation of things coming full circle, how societal expectations and norms impact how we navigate our relationships, and the importance of having a support system.
In this episode, we talk a lot about therapy and heartbreak and how it can be hard to recover. If you’re looking for someone to talk to, the following resources are a great starting point.
NAMI - National Alliance on Mental Illness
BetterHelp - Online Counseling and Therapy. The advice blog is one of my personal favorite resources as well.
MyWellbeing - Recommends a therapist based on your preferences.
Psychology Today - Online therapist finder and articles about the practice of psychology.
In this episode, I chat with close friend (and former crush of mine!) Aaron Z! In addition to getting sidetracked by all of our favorite conversation topics, Aaron and I explore the early stages of our friendship, take a look at our relationship when I was crushing hard, reflect on what our friendship is now, and the work we did to get there.
In this episode, I talk with my friend (codename: Sabrina) about her college crush, Josh, about mixed signals from crushes, setting standards, and the pros and cons of dating apps.
In this episode, I talk with one of my best friends, Suruchi Avasthi (@suruchiavasthi) about her crush on debate team cutie, Charlie, how she’s been understanding her tendency to crush on men who happen to look the same, and how learning more about herself is changing the way she views dating and relationships.