Are you ready to take control of your dating life and attract the women you want? In Episode 58 of the "Just Ask Her" podcast, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt celebrate a year of growth, share their impressive Spotify Wrapped stats, and answer real listener questions about dating challenges, mindset shifts, and self-confidence.
In this episode:
Whether you’re struggling with dating setbacks, wondering how to be the “chooser” in your love life, or just want to hear real, no-nonsense advice from women who get it, this episode is packed with actionable tips and inspiration.
Resources mentioned:
Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts to help more listeners find us!
Feeling alone this Christmas Eve? You’re not the only one. In this special holiday episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt get real about why so many men find themselves single during the holidays—and what you can do to make sure next year is different.
We’re not here as coaches or experts, but as your family—your older or younger sister, your mom—ready to tell you the truth you need to hear. We’ll talk about the real reasons you’re stuck in your dating life, the stories you tell yourself that keep you from moving forward, and the steps you can take to break the cycle of loneliness.
Key topics include:
You’re not broken, and you’re not alone. Tune in for honest, no-BS advice, encouragement, and a promise: next Christmas can be different—if you decide to do the work.
Subscribe for weekly episodes with actionable tips, real talk, and the support you need to change your dating life for good.
Merry Christmas from Gracie, & Tracy
Welcome back to Just Ask Her, the no-nonsense dating advice podcast for men who want real answers from a woman’s perspective! In Episode 56, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle your toughest dating dilemmas, from decoding mixed signals to making the most of first dates.
In this episode:
Plus: Rapid-fire Q&A, reality TV talk, and why being the chooser (not just the chosen) is the key to dating success.
Resources & Links:
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and share with your friends. Your support helps more men find real, actionable dating advice!
Tune in next week for a special holiday episode!
Show Notes
Episode 55: Why She Didn’t Text Back: Real Talk on Dating Apps, Instagram DMs, and Moving On
Welcome back to Just Ask Her—the no-nonsense dating advice podcast for men, hosted by dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt. In this episode, Gracie and Tracy tackle three listener submissions that highlight the most common struggles men face in modern dating: ghosting, mixed signals, and the frustration of online dating.
In this episode:
Plus:
Key Takeaways:
Resources Mentioned:
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and share with your friends! New episodes every Wednesday.
Should You Approach Her When She's Alone? Ghosting, Rejection & Building Real Confidence (Ep. 54)
Show Notes:
Listener submissions spark honest conversations about:
Plus, Gracie and Tracy share personal stories, Thanksgiving chaos, and announce the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal—designed to help you track, reflect, and level up your dating life.
Don’t miss the practical advice, mindset shifts, and real talk that will help you date with more confidence and clarity.
Listener questions featured from: James, Kyle, Jake, and Miguel.
Resources mentioned:
New episodes every Wednesday!
You’ll learn:
Plus, hear about the new Self-Made Man Dating Journal, designed to help you track your progress and break old patterns.
Tune in for honest advice, relatable stories, and the mindset shifts you need to succeed in modern dating.
Subscribe for new episodes every Wednesday, and follow Gracie on Instagram & TikTok @datingwithgracie.
Grab your copy of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal on Amazon
Episode Description:
Gratitude, Growth, and Real Talk: Navigating Dating Challenges & Self-Trust
In this special Thanksgiving and birthday episode, Gracie and Tracy reflect on the power of gratitude, embracing new chapters, and the lessons learned at 25.
They answer listener questions about moving on after betrayal, dating after divorce, and how to handle fast-paced connections in the digital age. Plus, they introduce the Self-Made Man Dating Journal—designed to help you track your progress and date with intention.Feeling stuck in your dating life or struggling to move on after heartbreak?
In this episode, Gracie and Tracy get real about gratitude, personal growth, and the messy realities of modern dating. They answer listener questions about letting go of toxic relationships, dating after divorce, and how to communicate your needs and boundaries.
Whether you're navigating new connections or healing from the past, you'll find practical advice and encouragement to help you trust yourself and date with intention.
Plus, discover the new Self-Made Man Dating Journal—your guide to tracking progress and building better relationships.
Listen now for a dose of honesty, hope, and inspiration!
Welcome to the anniversary episode of Just Ask Her! Gracie and Tracy celebrate a full year of empowering single men with honest, actionable dating advice. In this special episode, they reflect on the journey so far, the growth of their community, and the impact the show has had on listeners around the world.
To mark the occasion, Gracie and Tracy take your most-asked dating questions out of the studio and into the real world—specifically, the Mall of America! Hear candid, unfiltered answers from women of all ages and backgrounds as they share what really matters in dating, what green and red flags they look for, and their best advice for men looking to improve their love lives.
Highlights:
The story behind the podcast’s evolution and its first anniversary
Why men’s vulnerability and willingness to seek advice is so powerful
The importance of mindset and community in dating success
On-the-street interviews with women answering your top dating questions:
Most attractive qualities in a man
Approaching women: what works and what doesn’t
Dating apps vs. real life vs. mutual friends
Height, self-improvement, and who should pay for the first date
Biggest red and green flags
The best advice for single men
Reflections on the value of honest conversations and the supportive Just Ask Her community
Resources:
Thank you for being part of our journey! If you’ve found value in the show, the best anniversary gift you can give is to share this episode with someone who needs it and leave us a review. Here’s to many more years of real talk and real results!
It’s our one-year anniversary! To celebrate, Gracie and Tracy take your most-asked dating questions to the Mall of America, getting honest answers from real women. Tune in for fresh perspectives, heartfelt reflections, and practical advice that will help you date with confidence. Don’t miss this special episode packed with insights, laughs, and gratitude for our amazing community. Share, review, and keep your questions coming—because no matter where you are, you can always Just Ask Her.
Episode 51: Breaking Patterns & Building Self-Trust in Dating
Description:
In this episode of "Just Ask Her," Gracie and Tracy dive into three listener submissions that highlight the real challenges men face in modern dating. From navigating attachment styles and dating app fatigue to finding emotionally available partners and breaking free from self-sabotaging patterns, this episode is packed with actionable advice and heartfelt coaching. Plus, Gracie announces the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal, designed to help single men reflect, grow, and date with intention.
Show Notes:
Intro & Halloween Banter
Gracie and Tracy kick off the episode with some lighthearted Halloween talk, sharing personal stories and family traditions.
Submission 1: Sal’s Story
Sal, a father of four and firefighter, shares his journey from anxious to secure attachment style.
Struggles with dating app fatigue and finding emotionally available women.
Gracie and Tracy discuss the pitfalls of over-labeling attachment styles, the scarcity mindset, and the importance of real-life connections.
Advice: Leverage your strengths in real-world environments, seek shared purpose, and remember that every "failed" connection brings you closer to alignment.
Submission 2: Kyle’s Question
Kyle wonders why it seems women don’t have hobbies and how to meet like-minded singles.
Discussion on generational trends, burnout, and the importance of reframing blanket statements.
Tips: Switch up your social activities, challenge self-sabotaging beliefs, and remember that the right partner will appreciate your diverse interests.
Submission 3: Greg’s Pattern
Greg, an Australian Air Force sergeant, describes a recurring pattern of women pulling away.
Gracie and Tracy explore confirmation bias, self-trust, and the importance of detaching from painful narratives.
Practical steps: Name the pattern neutrally, detach from identity, decide what you’ll do differently, and let people reveal themselves over time.
Resource Mentioned:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal – Now available on Amazon! Designed to help single men track dates, reflect, and grow. Limited first run—grab yours before they’re gone.
Listener Call to Action:
If you enjoy the show, please rate and review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and share with friends!
Submit your questions for future episodes.
Connect with Gracie:
Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracie
New episodes every Wednesday!
Episode 50: Real Dating Questions Answered – Confidence, Signals & Starting Over
Description:
In this milestone 50th episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle real listener questions about modern dating. From overcoming shyness and reading signals to building confidence and starting over after a long relationship, Gracie and Tracy deliver no-nonsense advice straight from a woman’s perspective. Plus, they announce the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal and tease a special anniversary episode coming soon!
Whether you’re struggling to approach someone new, wondering how to get noticed, or navigating the dating scene after years away, this episode is packed with practical tips, research-backed insights, and encouragement to help you take control of your dating life.
Show Notes:
00:00 – Welcome & Introduction
01:30 – Listener Submission #1: Should I ask out the Home Depot girl?
05:00 – How to read signals vs. friendly behavior
08:30 – Building confidence and taking action despite shyness
12:00 – The truth about rejection and courage in dating
15:00 – Launch Announcement: Self-Made Man Dating Journal
18:00 – Listener Submission #2: Why don’t women notice me?
22:00 – The science of attraction and nonverbal cues
25:00 – How to shift from seeking validation to radiating confidence
29:00 – Listener Submission #3: Dating after a 30-year relationship
33:00 – Navigating small communities and changing your identity
37:00 – Advice for starting over and expanding your social circles
41:00 – Anniversary Episode Teaser: “Man on the Street” Q&A
44:00 – How to submit your questions for the special episode
46:00 – Final thoughts & where to find Gracie online
Resources Mentioned:
Submit your questions for the anniversary episode via the show’s submission form
Follow Gracie on Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracie
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review Just Ask Her on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and share it with your friends!
Episode 49: Ghosted, Blocked, and Bouncing Back — Real Dating Dilemmas & Self-Made Man Advice
Episode Description:Are you tired of feeling stuck in your dating life, confused by mixed signals, or left wondering why she ghosted you? In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle real listener submissions about ghosting, blocking, and the emotional rollercoaster of modern dating.
From decoding sudden disappearances to reframing rejection and building emotional resilience, Gracie and Tracy offer no-nonsense advice straight from a woman’s perspective. They break down the “self-made man” mindset, share practical tips for handling heartbreak, and answer tough questions about honesty, closure, and moving forward.
Plus, enjoy a fun behind-the-scenes recap of their recent trip to Ireland, complete with cultural takeaways and travel mishaps!
Show Notes:
Resources Mentioned:
Subscribe for new episodes every Wednesday!
Dating After Divorce – Confidence, Apps & Real Connections for Men Over 40 Ep. 48
Hosts: Gracie Pleschourt & Tracy Pleschourt
In This Episode:
[00:00] Welcome & Introduction
[01:30] Listener Question: Starting Over After Divorce at 45
Breaking old routines and building new momentum
Is there a “market” for divorced men over 40?
How to meet new women and rebuild your social circle
The fastest-growing demographic on dating apps
The importance of self-awareness: knowing what you want and what you bring to the table
Tips for getting comfortable with dating apps
How to treat dating as research, not a performance
[18:00] The Self-Made Man Dating Journal Launch
How journaling can help you track progress and avoid repeating old patterns
Building confidence and clarity through reflection
Where to get the journal (Amazon link in show notes)
[22:00] Listener Question: Revealing a Physical Difference (Amputee Experience)
How to talk about insecurities and physical differences with confidence
Why your story and self-acceptance matter more than “the reveal”
The power of vulnerability and authenticity in dating
[30:00] Listener Question: Competing for Women’s Attention
Why confidence and self-value matter more than “winning” attention
Shifting from scarcity to abundance mindset
Practical tips to stand out: eye contact, conversation, and authenticity
How to become unforgettable by making women feel seen and at ease
[40:00] Final Thoughts & Where to Find Gracie
Follow Gracie on Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracie
Apply for 1:1 coaching (link in show notes)
Rate & review the podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts
Resources Mentioned:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1
1:1 Coaching Application https://gracie.clickfunnels.com/optin1758810316648
Follow Gracie: Instagram & TikTok @datingwithgracie
Subscribe for new episodes every Wednesday!
Are you tired of feeling like someone’s backup plan in your dating life? In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle real listener questions about complicated romantic situations, building self-confidence, and setting healthy boundaries.
From navigating “work spouse” dynamics and emotional gray areas to overcoming social anxiety with women and learning to trust yourself after heartbreak, Gracie and Tracy offer no-nonsense advice to help you take control of your love life. Whether you’re struggling to move on from a relationship, worried about making social mistakes, or wondering if you should pursue someone who’s already taken, this episode is packed with actionable insights and tough love.
Show Notes:
Resources Mentioned:
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and share with your friends! Got a question for Gracie and Tracy? Submit it for a chance to be featured in a future episode.
Are you tired of feeling stuck in your dating life, striking out on dating apps, or wondering why nothing seems to work? In this episode, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt answer real listener questions and share no-nonsense advice to help men attract the women they want and build lasting confidence.
What You’ll Learn:
Why dating apps might not be working for you—and what to do instead
The mindset shifts that turn “invisible” guys into irresistible partners
How to break free from self-sabotaging beliefs and rewrite your dating story
Practical tips for meeting women in real life (and why it’s often more effective than apps)
How to stand out at speed dating events and make a memorable first impression
The truth about confidence, self-worth, and why women are drawn to men who trust themselves
How to handle rejection, scarcity mindset, and the pressure to “have it all figured out”
Listener Questions Answered:
“I’ve been on dating apps for 20 years with no luck. What am I doing wrong?”
“How do I prep for a speed dating event and avoid the friend zone?”
“Why do I feel like every woman is already taken, and how do I stop feeling average?”
Special Segment:
Introducing the Self-Made Man Dating Journal—your new tool for tracking dates, building self-awareness, and making real progress in your love life. Limited batch available on Amazon—grab yours before they’re gone!
Join the Conversation:
Take our poll on Spotify and let us know: Do you love the personal banter, or do you prefer us to get straight to the dating advice?
Share your thoughts and questions for future episodes!
Connect with Gracie:
Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracie
Check out Gracie’s membership for hands-on coaching and support https://form.typeform.com/to/zJkel6VK?utm_source=xxxxx
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and share with a friend!
No matter where you are or what your situation is—just ask her.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome & Listener Feedback
06:00 – Why Dating Apps Aren’t Working
18:00 – Mindset Shifts for Dating Success
30:00 – Real-Life Dating Tips & Speed Dating Advice
45:00 – Overcoming Scarcity and Building Confidence
55:00 – Introducing the Self-Made Man Dating Journal
60:00 – Final Thoughts & Calls to Action
Resources Mentioned:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1
Gracie’s Membership https://form.typeform.com/to/zJkel6VK?utm_source=xxxxx
Break the Cycle: Real Advice for Dating Confidence, Moving On, and Finding Love
Episode 45 – Just Ask Her Podcast
Episode Summary:
In this episode, Gracie and Tracy tackle some of the most common and challenging dating dilemmas sent in by listeners. From navigating on-again, off-again relationships to overcoming self-doubt and building confidence, this episode is packed with real talk and actionable advice for anyone looking to level up their love life.
What You’ll Learn:
How to recognize and break free from unhealthy relationship cycles
Why you can’t “save” someone else—and how to set healthy boundaries
The truth about attraction, self-image, and why confidence matters more than looks
How to handle rejection, negative comments, and the pressure of dating apps
Practical tips for moving on after heartbreak and getting back into the dating scene
When to follow up (and when to move on) in online dating conversations
Why chemistry on the first date isn’t everything—and what to focus on instead
Listener Submissions Featured:
Todd: Struggling with an on-again, off-again relationship and wondering if he should wait or move on
Drew: Battling self-confidence issues and negative feedback while re-entering the dating world
Anonymous: Unsure about next steps after a breakup and facing challenges with dating apps and first dates
Special Segment:
Gracie and Tracy announce the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal—designed to help single men track their dating experiences, reflect, and grow. Limited quantities available on Amazon!
Resources & Links:
Connect with Gracie on Instagram and TikTok: @datingwithgracie
Support the Show:
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and share with your friends!
New episodes every Wednesday. No matter where you are or what your situation is—just ask her.
Episode 44: Living at Home, Gym Love, and Mixed Signals
Hosts: Gracie Pleschourt & Tracy Pleschourt
Struggling with dating while living at home? Unsure if you should make a move at the gym? Confused by mixed signals from someone you like? In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle your toughest questions with no-nonsense, real-world advice.
We answer listener submissions about:
Key Takeaways:
Connect with Gracie:
Support the Show:
Purchase the Self-Made Man Dating Journal:
New episodes every Wednesday!
Episode 43: Stood Up Again? Real Talk on Dating Disappointments, Blind Dates & Building Confidence
Show Notes:
Links Mentioned:
Episode Description:
Ever been stood up and wondered, “Is it me, or is this just modern dating?” In this episode, Gracie and Tracy get real about dating disappointments, blind dates, and the mindset shifts that can help you bounce back stronger. They answer listener questions about being stood up, navigating first-date nerves, and dating with ADHD or social anxiety. Plus, they announce the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal—a must-have for anyone serious about improving their dating life.
Tune in for honest advice, practical tips, and a reminder that you’re not alone in the dating game. Whether you’re tired of ghosting, anxious about blind dates, or just want to build more confidence, this episode is for you!
New episodes every Wednesday. Don’t forget to rate, review, and share!
Episode 42 – Real Stories, Real Advice: Overcoming Dating Struggles
In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle real listener questions about the challenges men face in modern dating.
You’ll hear three honest stories:
Plus, discover the new Self-Made Man Dating Journal—designed to help you track your progress, reflect on your experiences, and become more intentional in your dating life.
If you’re ready to take control of your dating journey, this episode is packed with actionable advice, mindset shifts, and encouragement. Don’t forget to rate the show, share it with friends, and follow Gracie on Instagram and TikTok @datingwithgracie for daily tips!
Resources mentioned:
New episodes every Wednesday. No matter where you are or what your situation is—just ask her!
Episode 41 – Flirting, Ghosting, and Setting Standards: Real Dating Advice for Men
In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle some of the most vulnerable and confusing moments in modern dating. They answer real listener questions about:
Gracie and Tracy share research-backed flirting tips, advice for building confidence, and practical strategies for moving on after rejection. They also discuss the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal, designed to help single men reflect, grow, and date with intention.
Whether you’re struggling to make the leap from friendship to romance, reeling from a sudden ghosting, or just want to date with more clarity and confidence, this episode is packed with honest insights and actionable advice.
Mentioned in this episode:
If you enjoy the show, please rate us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and share this episode with your friends!
Follow Gracie on Instagram and TikTok @datingwithgracie for more tips and updates.
New episodes every Wednesday. No matter where you are or what your situation is—just ask her.
Episode 40: How to deal, think about and learn from rejection, and what to do now
Welcome back to Just Ask Her, the no-BS podcast for real dating advice straight from a woman’s point of view! In this milestone 40th episode, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle your toughest questions about moving on, healing, and dating with confidence after heartbreak.
In this episode:
Submission 1 (Chris, 32, UK Firefighter):
Chris finds himself repeatedly attracting women who are fresh out of relationships and struggling emotionally. Gracie and Tracy break down the “rescuer” dynamic, discuss the difference between chemistry and true connection, and offer practical steps for setting dating standards, recognizing patterns, and staying in the “chooser” role.
Submission 2 (Anonymous, 27, Med Student):
After a nine-year relationship, Anonymous is back in the dating world and wonders if a recent date didn’t work out due to timing or lack of interest. The hosts share how to separate facts from stories, process rejection, and keep moving forward without waiting for a “maybe.”
Submission 3 (Matthew, 28, Law Student):
Matthew is healing from a recent breakup and wants advice on both moving on and planning a new date. Gracie and Tracy discuss the importance of not waiting until you “feel ready,” making decisions ahead of time, and taking small, confident steps forward.
Special Segment:
The Self-Made Man Dating Journal is now available on Amazon! Gracie and Tracy introduce their new journal designed to help single men track their dating experiences, reflect, and grow with intention. Limited first run—grab yours before they’re gone! (Link in show notes)
Key Takeaways:
Resources & Links:
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and share with your friends! New episodes drop every Wednesday.
No matter where you are or what your situation is—just ask her.
Episode 39: Dating After Divorce, Overcoming Insecurities & Navigating Workplace Romance
In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt answer real listener questions about the challenges men face in modern dating.
Topics Covered:
Key Takeaways:
Resources Mentioned:
Connect with Gracie:
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and share with friends!