The Healing Power of Kindness



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Dr. Sydney Fontanares: Kindness is an act, or it's a practice. It's something you cultivate. So being able to be intentional about when we practice kindness and asking ourselves those questions and reflect on it. The question that I like to use is you know “How can I bring kindness into my day – whether to me or another person in any small way?”, and just starting off my day with that and ending my day with that.



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Lois Paula: Whether you're hoping to heal the world or heal yourself. This podcast is here for you to highlight how kindness moves.



Nan: Yes, how it moves you to action – you yourself. Or how it just makes you feel something so good, it's contagious. You might have been touched by a simple act of kindness, you might want tips on how you can act now in your community or you just love the feeling of doing good.



Lois Paula: Welcome to Kindness Moves, a new podcast brought to you by the INC Giving Project. We’re your hosts LP and Nan. 



Nan: Hi.



Lois Paula: So today on Kindness Moves, we talk more in depth on how kindness heals. It's a topic that actually resonates with many of you, especially as we’ve all gained this new perspective this past year. And some of us are even more focused on our emotional and mental health.



Nan: That’s so true, LP. We've all had to adjust. I'm sure we've all had to learn to reshift our focus and I'm sure everyone has had to pick up some broken pieces to try to make the best of our different situations.



Lois Paula: So in terms of kindness. How can it help really? You know, are good deeds truly capable of being healthy for the heart, the mind for the soul? You know, for example Nan, if you think back to, for instance, you know, a rough time in your life, what's one thing that might have helped you?



Nan: You know, it's no secret, 2020 was such a rough year for almost everyone right, to varying degrees, and my family and I, we were no strangers to that. Unfortunately, I lost my mom in 2020. And that was definitely the darkest moment in my life. What was interesting though was even though it was the darkest moment, you know, kindness, really was one of those beacons of light and kindness from family members from brothers and sisters in the faith, from friends – that that kindness really helped us to maintain that that positive outlook and mood, you know, so kindness really does move and help others.



Lois Paula: Absolutely and firstly I just want to thank you for sharing that Nan. Our hearts are truly with you and everyone who have grieved especially this last year alone the loss of someone or even something you know I'm sure all of us have lost something – plans or a future, you know, that we were hoping to have. But you're right, having a community, it strengthens us, it reminds us that there's still so much more to gain in life from all the blessings that we have and for me personally, it's, it's my kids, actually, you know, they remind me to take more moments to laugh and be present and to be more joyful so their kindness their natural being of you know them being kids it, it truly does help me. Yeah, so we talked about today, how can we use kindness to help, ourselves first, so that ultimately we can be of better help to other people. Actually, before we even get to that, what is this feeling anyways? That feeling of being affected, just by one simple act of kindness. Why is it so powerful?