You’ve found the Kingdom Sexuality podcast!
We are Alana, Kyle, and Tiera -- three friends who are taking Christian married couples on a journey of transforming your sex life. We tackle the questions the church forgot to answer - like:
• Why did no one prepare us for this part of marriage?
• How can we keep passion alive years later?
• What does God think about oral sex, orgasm, and that would kind of intimacy you both want?
With interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q+As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a thriving, fulfilling, and God-honoring sex life.
Because yes - Christians can talk about sex too.
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You’ve found the Kingdom Sexuality podcast!
We are Alana, Kyle, and Tiera -- three friends who are taking Christian married couples on a journey of transforming your sex life. We tackle the questions the church forgot to answer - like:
• Why did no one prepare us for this part of marriage?
• How can we keep passion alive years later?
• What does God think about oral sex, orgasm, and that would kind of intimacy you both want?
With interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q+As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a thriving, fulfilling, and God-honoring sex life.
Because yes - Christians can talk about sex too.
Tune in as we share our experience from the Weekend to Remember marriage retreat! We answer the questions you sent in on Instagram: what actually happens at a retreat, costs, hesitant spouses, and how are marriages will be impacted from this weekend away.
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Resources:
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Family Life website
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In this episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest questions couples ask: how often should we be having sex? We’ll break down what research actually says about sexual frequency, why comparison steals joy, and how to find a healthy rhythm that fits your marriage and season of life. This conversation will help you let go of “normal” and focus instead on connection, communication, and grace.
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Episodes:
Opposites: Wants
Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
Scheduled vs Spontaneous Sex
Sex & Stress episode
Resources:
My Counselor Online (Christian sex therapy): You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
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In this episode, Dr. Juli Slattery joins Alana and Tiera to talk about what it really means to surrender our sexuality to God. They unpack why so many Christians struggle to trust Him with their desires, how intimacy points to something deeper, and what surrender looks like in everyday life.
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Episodes:
Previous episode with Juli
Resources:
Authentic Intimacy website
Java With Juli Podcast
Surrendered Sexuality book
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Can stress really kill your sex life? Yep- but the flip side might surprise you. We’re breaking down the science of stress, the power of intimacy, and God’s design for connection in hard seasons.
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Episodes:
Sleep & Sex Episode
Our Products:
30 Prayer For Your Spouse bundle
Resources:
Awaken Love
Men are from Mars Women are from Venus
Garden City
Ruthless Elimination of Hurry
Habits of the Household
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Feeling like your sex life’s stuck on repeat? In this episode, we’re talking about how to break out of the “vanilla cycle” and bring excitement, creativity, and fun back into the bedroom. Let's make intimacy feel adventurous again!
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Episodes:
Condom Episode
Our Products:
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
Sex Challenges
Yes No Maybe Guide
Resources:
CFSP Sex Tips
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Think your testosterone levels are off? Tune in as we unpack how this powerful hormone affects sex drive, energy, and connection- for both men and women. Learn the signs of imbalance, what testing looks like, and how hormones impact your marriage and intimacy!
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Resources Mentioned:
Everlywell
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BeLovedFertility.ca: Use discount code: KSFOLLOWER for $50 off any package
Mira Fertility: Use code KINGDOM for $40 off your order!
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This episode is sponsored by the Dwell Audio Bible App! Go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get it for 25% off. Join us and ‘press play’ on scripture!
In this powerful and tender conversation, we sit down with therapist Erin Walsh to unpack how past sexual wounds can affect intimacy, marriage, and faith. Whether you’ve personally experienced trauma or love someone who has, this episode is a gentle reminder that God’s healing reaches even the most broken places- and that real intimacy is still possible!
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Resources Mentioned In The Episode:
Sex, Jesus, and the Conversations the Church Forgot by Mo Isom
The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Wray Gregoire
Scientific American Book of Love, Sex, and the Brain by Judith Horstman
Erin’s email: erin@selahsupport.ca
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This episode is sponsored by Brooklyn Bedding!
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Does being well-rested really boost your desire? In this episode, the KS team will dive into what science and Scripture say about the link between sleep and sex. You’ll learn how prioritizing rest can fuel connection, joy, and even desire in your marriage!
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Episodes Mentioned:
Intimacy When You Have Young Kids
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This episode is sponsored by Brooklyn Bedding!
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This week, we sit down with Greer Jones to talk neurodivergence in marriage. She shares about ADHD, autism, sensory differences, and how those things can impact a sex life. Greer shares her story, practical tools, and hope-filled tips to help couples stay connected and thrive despite differences.
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Episodes:
Talk Dirty To Me episode
Resources:
My Counselor Online: use our link for $25 off
BetterHelp
Neurodiverse Love
The Unfinished Idea
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This episode is sponsored by Brooklyn Bedding!
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In this special Q&A, Alana and Tiera are answering real questions sent in by women! Everything from navigating pregnancy and postpartum intimacy, to boosting confidence in your husband, to finally figuring out foreplay and orgasms. You’re not alone in your questions, so let’s unpack them together!
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Episodes:
Painful Sex? Vaginismus? Interview with Jessica Seitz episode
The Female Cycle & Pleasure episode
Orgasms: What Are They & How Can I Have One??
Orgasms: Toys, Technique, & Troubleshooting
Orgasms: Multiple Orgasms
Orgasm Q&A!
Products:
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
Resources:
Christian Friendly Sex Positions website
Flirtation Experiment book
Passionista book
Better Sex Through Mindfulness book
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This episode is sponsored by Brooklyn Bedding!
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This week, we’re tackling your real questions from the inbox. From navigating orgasms through mindfulness, to wrestling with erotic literature as a Christian, to the heartbreak of being divided on having more kids- we’re digging deep into the struggles that couples face behind closed doors.
Links from today’s episode:
Episodes:
Opposites: Love Languages Episode 102
"My Husband Was Addicted To Porn" part one
"The Impact Of His Porn Addiction On Me" part two
Resources:
5 Love Languages Quiz
My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Products:
5 Love Languages Book
Better Sex Through Mindfulness Book
Awaken Love
Writing Erotica Guide
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We’re busting some of the biggest myths around sex and intimacy in marriage- from “sex should be just like the movies” to “men always want it more” to “you’ll just automatically know what to do in bed.” We’ll unpack the lies, share some laughs, and point you back to the truth God designed for marriage!
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Links from today’s episode:
Higher Desire Wife episode
Lower Desire Husband episode
Christian Sex Therapy: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
Christian Friendly Sex Positions sex position cards
Passionista book
Starting Life Together Bundle
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Is your phone stealing from your marriage? In this episode, we unpack how tech can quietly kill intimacy, connection, and trust - and share practical ways to set boundaries, guard your heart, and put your spouse before your screen.
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Links from today’s episode:
Dwell Audio Bible App: use our link for 25% off!
Episode 246: Is This Normal Part 1
Episode 247: Is This Normal Part 2
Beating 50 Percent: use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!
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This episode is sponsored by the Dwell Audio Bible App! Go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get it for 25% off. Join us and ‘press play’ on scripture!
Join Alana and Kyle as they sit down with author, lawyer, and speaker Justin Whitmel Earley to talk about why friendship is essential- not just for our faith, but for our marriages and sex lives too. If you’ve ever wondered why marriage alone can’t meet every relational need, or how to take the first step out of loneliness, this conversation is for you.
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Links from today’s episode:
The Body Teaches The Soul
Habits Of The Household
Intentional Fatherhood Podcast
Justinwhitmelearley.com
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Ever had that random moment where your spouse does something totally normal… and it suddenly makes you cringe? Welcome to “the ick.” The KS Team unpacks why it happens, how it can sneak into your sex life, and practical ways to move past it so you can rebuild connection, attraction, and intimacy.
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Links from today’s episode:
My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link!
Better Help
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We’re back with Part 2 of your “Is this normal?” questions!! Diving into everything from awkward initiations and feeling overstimulated to newlywed fears, ADHD moments in bed, and tricky emotional dynamics. Plus, you'll get the final results of the 'pimple popping poll' at the end!
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Links from today’s episode:
Awaken Love Book
Episode 189: With Josh Spurlock
Episode 166: Initiating 101
Episode 184: Dispelling Wedding Night Fears
Christian Friendly Sex Positions Website
Episode 180: Pregnancy & Postpartum Q&A
Episode 120: Thoughts During Sex
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In this episode, we're tackling all your “Is this normal?” questions. From quick finishes and tingling after orgasm to clean-up quirks and unexpected turn-ons. It’s real talk, no shame, and lots of “oh wow, us too!” moments. (At least, some of us...) You’re not as weird as you think, we promise.
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Links from today’s episode:
Splash Blanket: code KINGDOM for 10% off!
Jess Seitz : Pain Free Intimacy (code KS5 to get 5% off!)
TempDrop: Use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off
Coconu lube: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off
Awaken Love
Better Sex Through Mindfulness
Higher Drive Wife episode 230
Lower Drive Husband episode 242
How To Make Sex A Priority episode 240
Intimacy When You Have Small Kids episode 133
Getting Out Of A Sex Slump episode 224
What’s Not Allowed In The Bedroom episode 236
She Comes First Book
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You sent the questions, and we’re going there- nothing is off the table in this spicy Q&A episode! We’re talking wedding night surprises, lingerie debates, feeling stuck in your sex life, taboo thoughts, Shibari (yup), and so much more. Let’s get into it!
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Links from today’s episode:
Episode 220: The Why Behind This
Evree - use the code KINGDOM for 10% off!
When She Is The One Addicted To Porn
My Counselor Online - You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link!
Free Spice It Up Guide
Free Yes No Maybe Guide
Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire: Episode 177
Prioritizing Sex Episode
The Marriage Gift Book
Dwell Bible App - use the link for 25% off
5 Day Couples Devotional
Masturbation Episode
Mentionables - code KINGDOM for 10% off
Level Up Your Sex Life episode 228
Talk Dirty To Me: Episode 141
Hanna Vaginismus: episode 187
Jess with Pain Free Intimacy- Use the code KS5 to get 5% off!
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What if the secret to a stronger marriage wasn’t another serious talk- but a round of mini golf or a spontaneous dance party in the kitchen? This episode dives into why having fun together might be the spark your marriage needs. From shared hobbies to laughter that leads to deeper intimacy- we're talking playful, powerful connection with a Kingdom twist.
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Is car sex off-limits for Christian couples? In this fun and practical episode, the KS team unpacks the legality, logistics, and creative possibilities of taking intimacy into the backseat. Whether you've got a sedan or a Sprinter van- we’ve got tips, laughs, and biblical encouragement to help you connect wherever the moment takes you.
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Links from today’s episode:
Mentionables (code KINGDOM for 10% off!)
Coconu Singles (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off!)
His Pleasure Sex Challenge
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You’ve found the Kingdom Sexuality podcast!
We are Alana, Kyle, and Tiera -- three friends who are taking Christian married couples on a journey of transforming your sex life. We tackle the questions the church forgot to answer - like:
• Why did no one prepare us for this part of marriage?
• How can we keep passion alive years later?
• What does God think about oral sex, orgasm, and that would kind of intimacy you both want?
With interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q+As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a thriving, fulfilling, and God-honoring sex life.
Because yes - Christians can talk about sex too.