You’ve found the Kingdom Sexuality podcast!
We are Alana, Kyle, and Tiera -- three friends who are taking Christian married couples on a journey of transforming your sex life. We tackle the questions the church forgot to answer - like:
• Why did no one prepare us for this part of marriage?
• How can we keep passion alive years later?
• What does God think about oral sex, orgasm, and that would kind of intimacy you both want?
With interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q+As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a thriving, fulfilling, and God-honoring sex life.
Because yes - Christians can talk about sex too.
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You’ve found the Kingdom Sexuality podcast!
We are Alana, Kyle, and Tiera -- three friends who are taking Christian married couples on a journey of transforming your sex life. We tackle the questions the church forgot to answer - like:
• Why did no one prepare us for this part of marriage?
• How can we keep passion alive years later?
• What does God think about oral sex, orgasm, and that would kind of intimacy you both want?
With interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q+As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a thriving, fulfilling, and God-honoring sex life.
Because yes - Christians can talk about sex too.
Join us as we kick off the new year with a casual and light-hearted chat about our favorite moments from the past year and exciting plans for the future! We dive into our marriage resolution guide, share personal highlights, and reflect on the growth of our podcast. Don't a special offer to the listeners + some secret news about what's coming in 2026!
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Episodes:
217: Rubber up and Rub Her Up
220: The Why Behind This
230: Higher Drive Wife
239: Can Music Make Sex Better
243: Car Sex
249: Justin Whitmel Earley
256: Erin Walsh
264: Joey Odom
268: Jay Stringer
228: Level Up Your Sex Life
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and New Year Plans- 00:00
Welcome Back to the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast- 41:22
Verse of the Day: 2 Corinthians 5:17- 83:61
Sponsor Break- 93:89
Light and Casual Episode Chat- 99:00
Marriage Resolution Guide Questions- 124:33
Favorite Episodes of the Past Year- 152:46
Year Highlights- 648:27
Marriage Resolution Questions- 814:03
Podcast Plans for Next Year- 1553:36
Year-End Reflections- 1837:56
Closing Prayer- 1957:86
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Tune in as the KS team interviews Jay Stringer to explore the profound impact of childhood on adult behaviors. Jay shares insights from his book "Unwanted," discussing how understanding our past can lead to healing and growth. You're in for a candid conversation that blends personal stories with expert advice!
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Episodes:
211: Jay Stringers previous KS episode
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Introduction to the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast- 00:41
Guest Introduction: Jay Stringer- 01:05
Verse of the Day: Psalm 139:17- 01:14
Jay's Background and Work- 03:04
Discussion on Childhood and Behavior- 04:51
Jay's Journey to Becoming a Counselor- 09:22
Overview of Jay's Book 'Unwanted'- 13:34
From Shame to Curiosity to Healing- 16:30
Counseling and Childhood Influence- 24:41
Closing Prayer- 41:02
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Curious how to keep things spicy over the holidays?? We share how YOU guys keep things spicy and intentional despite the busyness of the Christmas season. Plus we share some of our own Christmas traditions and even how we all met!
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Episodes:
214: Sex When Family Is Around
220: The Why Behind This
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[00:36] Introduction and Welcome
[01:04] Verse of the Day
[01:12] Christmas Episode Ideas
[01:19] Listener Suggestions
[02:00] Practical Tips[02:06] Past Episode Reference
[02:40] Personal Stories
[10:52] Christmas Traditions
[10:59] Favorite Christmas Movies and Songs
[11:30] Christmas Cookies and Traditions
11:40] Closing Prayer
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You asked, and a pastor answered! Join Tiera and Alana as they dive into an enlightening conversation with Pastor Phil Collins, exploring the intersection of faith, intimacy, and personal growth. Discover how sex can be a form of worship, the importance of mutual care in marriage, and the role of the church in addressing sensitive topics.
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Approximate time stamps:
00:43.3 - Introduction and Welcome
02:30.8 - Phil Collins' Background
05:54.6 - Pastors and Sexual Intimacy
08:31.3 - Church and Sexuality
14:09.3 - Sex as Worship
20:27.9 - Convictions About Sexual Acts
40:51.6 - Mutual Care in Marriage
46:10.9 - Intimacy Beyond Intercourse
48:29.2 - Incorporating Spiritual Practices
51:46.1 - Common Counseling Issues
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Christmas is all fun and games until you realize you haven’t had sex since the Elf on the Shelf showed up. In this special Q&A we dive into holiday stress, low desire, full houses, and how to actually prioritize each other during the chaos. Cozy up, this episode is real and super helpful!
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(00:00:00) Introduction and Episode Overview
(00:03:00) Impact of Family Dynamics on Intimacy
(00:09:00) Managing Holiday Stress and Expectations
(00:15:00) Creative Ways to Maintain Connection
(00:21:00) Balancing Family Obligations and Personal Traditions
(00:27:00) Post-Holiday Letdown and Planning Ahead
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Is your phone stealing more from your marriage than you realize? Joey Odom from Reclaimwell joins us to unpack the data, the spiritual side of self-control, and how couples and churches can use tech without losing intimacy. Such a needed conversation in a world that never stops buzzing.
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Approximate Timestamps:
(0:00) Introduction
(1:31) Verse Discussion
(3:01) Guest Introduction
(4:01) Joey's Story
(10:01) Reclaimwell's Journey
(15:01) Cultural Impact
(20:01) Spiritual Implications
(30:01) Practical Advice
(40:01) Impact on Relationships
(50:01) Final Thoughts and Prayer
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Purity culture shaped a lot of us… but what happens when those old messages start showing up in your marriage? In this episode, therapist Ashley Hudson breaks down how shame, fear, and performance pressure sneak into intimacy and what healing can actually look like. If you’ve ever wondered why sex still feels complicated even though you’re married, this one’s going to hit home.
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Resources:
My Counselor Online (Christian sex therapy): You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Ashley’s book
Pearl In Process Website
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Tune in as we share our experience from the Weekend to Remember marriage retreat! We answer the questions you sent in on Instagram: what actually happens at a retreat, costs, hesitant spouses, and how are marriages will be impacted from this weekend away.
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In this episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest questions couples ask: how often should we be having sex? We’ll break down what research actually says about sexual frequency, why comparison steals joy, and how to find a healthy rhythm that fits your marriage and season of life. This conversation will help you let go of “normal” and focus instead on connection, communication, and grace.
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Episodes:
Opposites: Wants
Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
Scheduled vs Spontaneous Sex
Sex & Stress episode
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In this episode, Dr. Juli Slattery joins Alana and Tiera to talk about what it really means to surrender our sexuality to God. They unpack why so many Christians struggle to trust Him with their desires, how intimacy points to something deeper, and what surrender looks like in everyday life.
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Episodes:
Previous episode with Juli
Resources:
Authentic Intimacy website
Java With Juli Podcast
Surrendered Sexuality book
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Can stress really kill your sex life? Yep- but the flip side might surprise you. We’re breaking down the science of stress, the power of intimacy, and God’s design for connection in hard seasons.
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Episodes:
Sleep & Sex Episode
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Feeling like your sex life’s stuck on repeat? In this episode, we’re talking about how to break out of the “vanilla cycle” and bring excitement, creativity, and fun back into the bedroom. Let's make intimacy feel adventurous again!
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Episodes:
Condom Episode
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Sex Challenges
Yes No Maybe Guide
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Think your testosterone levels are off? Tune in as we unpack how this powerful hormone affects sex drive, energy, and connection- for both men and women. Learn the signs of imbalance, what testing looks like, and how hormones impact your marriage and intimacy!
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Resources Mentioned:
Everlywell
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In this powerful and tender conversation, we sit down with therapist Erin Walsh to unpack how past sexual wounds can affect intimacy, marriage, and faith. Whether you’ve personally experienced trauma or love someone who has, this episode is a gentle reminder that God’s healing reaches even the most broken places- and that real intimacy is still possible!
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Resources Mentioned In The Episode:
Sex, Jesus, and the Conversations the Church Forgot by Mo Isom
The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Wray Gregoire
Scientific American Book of Love, Sex, and the Brain by Judith Horstman
Erin’s email: erin@selahsupport.ca
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Does being well-rested really boost your desire? In this episode, the KS team will dive into what science and Scripture say about the link between sleep and sex. You’ll learn how prioritizing rest can fuel connection, joy, and even desire in your marriage!
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Episodes Mentioned:
Intimacy When You Have Young Kids
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This week, we sit down with Greer Jones to talk neurodivergence in marriage. She shares about ADHD, autism, sensory differences, and how those things can impact a sex life. Greer shares her story, practical tools, and hope-filled tips to help couples stay connected and thrive despite differences.
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Episodes:
Talk Dirty To Me episode
Resources:
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BetterHelp
Neurodiverse Love
The Unfinished Idea
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In this special Q&A, Alana and Tiera are answering real questions sent in by women! Everything from navigating pregnancy and postpartum intimacy, to boosting confidence in your husband, to finally figuring out foreplay and orgasms. You’re not alone in your questions, so let’s unpack them together!
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Episodes:
Painful Sex? Vaginismus? Interview with Jessica Seitz episode
The Female Cycle & Pleasure episode
Orgasms: What Are They & How Can I Have One??
Orgasms: Toys, Technique, & Troubleshooting
Orgasms: Multiple Orgasms
Orgasm Q&A!
Products:
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Resources:
Christian Friendly Sex Positions website
Flirtation Experiment book
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Better Sex Through Mindfulness book
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This week, we’re tackling your real questions from the inbox. From navigating orgasms through mindfulness, to wrestling with erotic literature as a Christian, to the heartbreak of being divided on having more kids- we’re digging deep into the struggles that couples face behind closed doors.
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Episodes:
Opposites: Love Languages Episode 102
"My Husband Was Addicted To Porn" part one
"The Impact Of His Porn Addiction On Me" part two
Resources:
5 Love Languages Quiz
My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
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Better Sex Through Mindfulness Book
Awaken Love
Writing Erotica Guide
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We’re busting some of the biggest myths around sex and intimacy in marriage- from “sex should be just like the movies” to “men always want it more” to “you’ll just automatically know what to do in bed.” We’ll unpack the lies, share some laughs, and point you back to the truth God designed for marriage!
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Links from today’s episode:
Higher Desire Wife episode
Lower Desire Husband episode
Christian Sex Therapy: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
Christian Friendly Sex Positions sex position cards
Passionista book
Starting Life Together Bundle
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Is your phone stealing from your marriage? In this episode, we unpack how tech can quietly kill intimacy, connection, and trust - and share practical ways to set boundaries, guard your heart, and put your spouse before your screen.
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Episode 246: Is This Normal Part 1
Episode 247: Is This Normal Part 2
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You’ve found the Kingdom Sexuality podcast!
We are Alana, Kyle, and Tiera -- three friends who are taking Christian married couples on a journey of transforming your sex life. We tackle the questions the church forgot to answer - like:
• Why did no one prepare us for this part of marriage?
• How can we keep passion alive years later?
• What does God think about oral sex, orgasm, and that would kind of intimacy you both want?
With interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q+As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a thriving, fulfilling, and God-honoring sex life.
Because yes - Christians can talk about sex too.