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Life of And
Tiffany Sauder, IBJ Media
313 episodes
1 week ago
The Life of And podcast is for high-achieving women and working parents who are ready to stop living a life of “have to” and start designing a life they actually want. It’s a space where we talk honestly about the things we’re often afraid to admit — even to ourselves. The exhaustion. The ambition. The loneliness. The joy. The tension of wanting more without losing yourself in the process. If you’re in the thick of it — feeling stretched, tired, hopeful, driven — this is your invitation to take a breath, get real, and find your way back to your own Life of And.
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The Life of And podcast is for high-achieving women and working parents who are ready to stop living a life of “have to” and start designing a life they actually want. It’s a space where we talk honestly about the things we’re often afraid to admit — even to ourselves. The exhaustion. The ambition. The loneliness. The joy. The tension of wanting more without losing yourself in the process. If you’re in the thick of it — feeling stretched, tired, hopeful, driven — this is your invitation to take a breath, get real, and find your way back to your own Life of And.
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Life of And
295: 2025 Was a Test. 2026 Is the Blueprint.

When you are building a career, raising a family, and carrying the weight of constant opportunity, it can feel like you are moving fast without a clear line of sight, especially as one year closes and another begins.


In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany and Sam reflect on 2025 and look ahead to 2026, unpacking the tension women feel between unprecedented opportunity and profound exhaustion. They explore why burnout has become so common for working women, how cultural expectations and outdated systems contribute to it, and what it actually takes to build a sustainable life that grows alongside your ambition. Through personal stories, hard-earned lessons, and a clear framework for boundaries, priorities, and leadership, Tiffany shares how women can stop brute-forcing life and start building a life with clarity, intention, and hope.


What You’ll Learn:

  • Why women experience burnout at the height of opportunity and how we got here culturally over the last 40 years
  • How outdated systems and invisible domestic labor create exhaustion even when careers are thriving
  • Why boundaries must be defined alongside goals to build a sustainable life


For more from Tiffany:

Check out Tiffany’s 2025 Holiday Gift Guide: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-Guide

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 


Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(01:38) The tension facing modern working women

(02:57) Lessons learned from testing in 2025

(07:03) Podcast rebrand and audience growth milestones

(13:07) Corporate partnerships and executive retreats explained

(21:02) Personal transitions shaping leadership decisions

(22:21) Defining boundaries alongside ambitious goals

(23:13) Choosing family presence without losing ambition

(25:24) Why self-prioritization is personal responsibility

(27:20) Tracing forty years of women’s progress

(30:41) Cultural expectations fueling burnout and guilt

(34:28) Technology changed work, but not expectations

(37:20) Outsourcing ordinary tasks to regain capacity

(41:56) Scaling the Life of And framework

(45:02) Gratitude for the Life of And community


Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius


 Your Holiday Gift Guide Starts Here: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-Guide

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2 weeks ago
50 minutes

Life of And
294: The Goal-Setting Advice Every Ambitious Woman Needs to Hear

What if the limits you’re carrying into next year are actually just leftovers from last year?


In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with monthly mentor and longtime partner Brian Kavicky of Lushin to dig into the mindset traps that keep leaders stuck, especially the belief that the future must be an incremental extension of the past. Together, they explore why small, “reasonable” goals drain energy, how setting massive goals forces clarity, and what to do in the uncomfortable space where you still don’t know how you’ll achieve them.


They also break down the difference between momentum and real data, why experimentation is essential in seasons of growth, and how to avoid confusing positive feedback with actual market traction. Tiffany shares the behind-the-scenes details of her testing process as she builds Life of And, including the experiments that are working, those that aren’t yet, and what she’s learning from early conversations with companies and ERGs.


You’ll walk away with a framework to:

  • Use experimentation to validate ideas and accelerate learning
  • Build a healthy sales culture that centers on solving real problems
  • Shift from founder-dependent revenue to team-powered growth
  • Identify when to let go so your team can scale what you started


Wish you could talk it out with BK? Good news, you can! Book time with Brian Kavicky here. 


For more from Tiffany:

Check out Tiffany’s 2025 Holiday Gift Guide: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-Guide

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 


Mentioned in this episode:

  • 286: Why You Need To Stop Apologizing
  • 290: How to Set Goals That Scare You (and Actually Hit Them)


Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(02:28) Incremental vs. massive goals

(04:19) Exploring big goals

(10:10) Setting and testing hypotheses

(11:12) Experimentation and data collection

(16:37) Leveraging speaking engagements

(18:49) Setting priorities and testing pro forma

(20:14) Understanding market feedback and inventor syndrome

(23:23) Rebuilding sales culture at Element Three

(25:18) Defining and building a sales culture

(33:16) Scaling revenue and leadership development


Check out the apps and sponsor of this episode:

  • This episode is sponsored by Lushin. As part of our ongoing content partnership, Brian Kavicky joins the podcast monthly to share insights on leadership and sales. No compensation is received for referrals.
  • Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

 Your Holiday Gift Guide Starts Here: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-Guide

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3 weeks ago
38 minutes

Life of And
293: The Secret to How Busy Working Women Can Build a Life They Won’t Quit On

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with Chris Ewing, a strongman competitor, father of three daughters, and co-founder of Odyssey Resilience, to unpack the real mechanics of personal growth. Chris shares how his obsession with physical strength eventually became a deeper pursuit of emotional, moral, and mental resilience. Together, they challenge the myth of motivation, revealing why it so often fails, and how a compelling personal vision can replace it with something far more durable.


Chris outlines the structure behind resilience from morning routines to decision-making frameworks, and explores how clarity of vision gives weight and meaning to our daily discipline. Tiffany opens up about her own struggles with sticking to habits during a chaotic season of life, and Chris offers both empathy and hard truths. 


What You’ll Learn:

  • Why failure is the catalyst for real growth, and how to train resilience on purpose
  • How to define your own vision so clearly that it drives your daily decisions
  • What “emotional resonance” means and why couples should fill out vision worksheets separately


If you’re interested in working with Chris, check out this link:

  • Odyssey Resilience: https://www.odysseyresilience.org/ 


For more from Tiffany:

Check out Tiffany’s 2025 Holiday Gift Guide: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-Guide

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 


Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(01:27) Meet Chris Ewing: strongman competitor

(02:36) The journey to strongman

(06:01) The importance of vision

(15:13) Balancing personal and shared visions

(21:20) Defining and training resilience

(23:17) Defining resilience and habit formation

(24:21) The importance of a morning routine

(26:36) Teaching and implementing routines with family

(28:13) Personal reflections on routine and discipline

(30:56) Challenges in maintaining healthy habits

(38:45) Mindset and personal responsibility


Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius


 Your Holiday Gift Guide Starts Here: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-Guide

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1 month ago
47 minutes

Life of And
292: Leading Without Losing Yourself: One Working Mom’s Story

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with Rachel Downey, founder & CEO of Share Your Genius, to unpack a year of deep personal work that changed how she leads. Rachel shares the mantra that anchored her: “If I take care of myself, the business will take care of itself,” and how trading survival mode for stewardship reshaped her decisions, calendar, and confidence.


From learning to linger in hard things to setting bigger, simpler goals, Rachel explains why trusting her instincts, deciding faster, and paying for expertise helped turn anxiety into momentum. She also gets practical about morning routines, cutting distractions, and the role of faith in separating identity from outcomes, so the business can grow without consuming the person running it.


For more from Tiffany:

Sign up for the Insider’s Newsletter: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/TS-Newsletter-Subscribe

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 


What You’ll Learn:

  • How self-care, faith, and identity work can unlock clearer, faster leadership decisions
  • Why “simple over everything” and hiring for gaps create scalable growth
  • How to balance seasons of triage with the discipline required to dream again


Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(00:42) Meet Rachel and Share Your Genius

(01:50) 2024: fatigue and reality checks

(04:39) 2025 plan: simple, bigger bets

(07:12) Trusting instincts as a leadership skill

(11:12) Self-care as an operating system

(18:15) Books that replaced numbing with nourishment

(19:36) Pruning commitments and reframing worthiness

(26:43) Discipline that makes space to dream

(31:15) The case for a real podcast strategy


For more from Rachel, check out these links:

  • LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelelstsdowney/
  • Share Your Genius: https://www.shareyourgenius.com 


Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius


 Your Holiday Gift Guide Starts Here: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-Guide

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1 month ago
34 minutes

Life of And
291: Ask Me Anything: Holidays, Motherhood & Figuring It All Out

When you’re juggling career, family, and the countless “shoulds” of everyday life, it’s easy to feel stretched thin, especially as the holidays approach.


In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany and Sam sit down for a special “Ask Tiffany Anything” edition: covering everything from navigating the chaos of the holiday season and surviving sick weeks with kids, to moving homes, raising teenage daughters, and keeping your own ambitions alive in the midst of it all. Through honest stories and practical advice, Tiffany shares the systems, boundaries, and mindset shifts that help her manage the tension between doing it all and doing what matters most.


What You’ll Learn:

  • Simple strategies for planning during busy seasons (without losing your mind)
  • A practical way to reframe ambition so it aligns with your current season of life
  • Why open communication with your kids, your partner, and yourself is the foundation for balance and growth


Join Tiffany’s Newsletter to Receive Her Ultimate Holiday Gift Guide:

Sign up here: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-Guide


Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(00:44) Special episode: ask Tiffany anything

(01:43) Navigating the holiday season

(06:14) Handling sick season with kids

(11:39) Moving to a new home

(14:33) Building relationships with your kids

(17:15) Funny cocaine story

(17:42) Open family communication

(18:05) Perceptive daughter

(20:21) Morning drink routine

(20:55) Health and digestion

(23:33) Balancing ambition and family

(30:59) Home manager tips

(34:53) Proud parenting moment


Check out the app mentioned in this episode:

  • Create the ultimate wishlist with Giftful


Episodes and Posts Mentioned:

  • 290: How to Set Goals That Scare You (and Actually Hit Them)
  • Implied Expectations vs Explicit Agreements


Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius


 Your Holiday Gift Guide Starts Here: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-Guide

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1 month ago
37 minutes

Life of And
290: How to Set Goals That Scare You (and Actually Hit Them)

What if you could stop letting past performance set the limits for what’s possible next year?


In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with mentor and recurring guest Brian Kavicky of Lushin to talk about what really keeps leaders stuck: the belief that the past predicts the future. Together, they unpack why incremental goals drain energy, how to set “stupid big” goals that reignite belief, and how to get people around you aligned with the vision instead of just following instructions.


They also explore why waiting for the perfect time to start only prolongs anxiety, how to translate goals into team priorities, and what it looks like to connect ambitious vision to daily action through Brian’s “goal–how–what” framework.


You’ll walk away with a framework to:

  • Set goals based on possibility, not past performance.
  • Align your team by connecting outcomes to shared purpose.
  • Turn procrastination into decisive momentum.
  • Use your “cookbook” system to translate goals into daily behaviors.


Wish you could talk it out with BK? Good news, you can! Book time with Brian Kavicky here. 


For more from Tiffany:

Sign up for the Insider’s Newsletter: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/TS-Newsletter-Subscribe

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 


Mentioned in this episode:

  • 286: Why You Need To Stop Apologizing


Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(01:16) Listener feedback and real-time coaching

(03:07) Setting bigger goals to break out of ruts

(06:14) Reframing how we set and anchor goals

(10:28) The what and how framework for goal setting

(14:16) Pruning and refocusing for growth in 2026

(16:31) Balancing ambition with family and personal values

(19:40) Aligning vision with team outcomes

(28:03) Understanding procrastination and action

(35:57) Tiffany’s reflection on partnership and growth


Check out the apps and sponsor of this episode:

  • This episode is sponsored by Lushin. As part of our ongoing content partnership, Brian Kavicky joins the podcast monthly to share insights on leadership and sales. No compensation is received for referrals.
  • Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
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2 months ago
37 minutes

Life of And
289: The Working Mom’s Guide to Business Travel: Live Coaching Session with Kelly Hiller

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with Kelly Hiller, CMO of Purdue University, to talk about what it looks like to hold ambition and family in the same hand. Kelly opens up about preparing for Purdue’s most significant media moment, the expedition to confirm the discovery of Amelia Earhart’s plane, and the personal conflict of leaving her family behind for the most extended work trip of her career.


From the weight of mom guilt to the courage it takes to pursue once-in-a-lifetime opportunities, this conversation is an honest look at how to chase big dreams without losing yourself in the process. Kelly shares what she hopes her daughters learn from watching her, and how to reframe guilt into living your values differently, not abandoning them.


For more from Tiffany:

Sign up for the Insider’s Newsletter: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/TS-Newsletter-Subscribe

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 


What You’ll Learn:

  • How to navigate ambition and family responsibilities without regret
  • Why guilt is often more about perception than values
  • What it means to model courage and resilience for the next generation

Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(03:13) The Amelia Earhart expedition

(05:51) Navigating work and family responsibilities

(08:58) Preparing the family for the trip

(11:36) Support systems and emotional preparation

(14:55) Logistics and practical solutions

(23:02) Family meetings and communication

(29:52) Reflecting on the experience

(33:11) Planning Thanksgiving and birthday celebrations

(35:19) Reflecting on past mistakes and learning

(36:42) Importance of family presence and support

(39:16) Balancing work and family responsibilities

(45:20) Preparing family for temporary absence

(47:43) Maintaining family connections during absence

(01:02:53) Courage, legacy, and the Boilermaker way


For more from Kelly, check out these links:

  • LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-hiller/


Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius


 Your Holiday Gift Guide Starts Here: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-Guide

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2 months ago
1 hour 4 minutes

Life of And
288: 6 Mistakes That Nearly Took Me (and My Business) Out

When you're juggling business and personal life, it's easy to feel overwhelmed. But what if instead of burning out, you could recalibrate and keep moving forward with intention?


In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany shares pivotal lessons from her journey as an entrepreneur, wife, and mother of four. She reflects on the six biggest mistakes she wishes she had avoided — from confusing growth with running a business to believing that good intentions guarantee good outcomes. Tiffany emphasizes how much it matters to slow down and move with purpose, not speed, and how intentional leadership makes all the difference.

If you’re an executive interested in joining a one-day mini-retreat focused on the Life of And framework, shoot us an email at tiffany@tiffanysauder.com


What You’ll Learn:

  • The difference between growing a business and running one
  • Why being well-known doesn’t always equal success
  • How slowing down in business might actually move you forward


For more from Tiffany:

Sign up for the Insider’s Newsletter: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/TS-Newsletter-Subscribe

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 


Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(02:13) Lesson 1: Growing vs. running a business

(04:32) Lesson 2: Being well known vs. being successful

(09:55) Lesson 3: Moving fast vs. moving forward

(13:12) Lesson 4: Good intentions vs. good outcomes

(15:50) Lesson 5: Motivating vs. leading

(19:10) Lesson 6: Relationships and elasticity


Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

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2 months ago
23 minutes

Life of And
287: When Doing It All Feels Impossible

When “doing it all” starts to feel impossible, it’s easy to believe your only option is to quit.


In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany shares a raw, real story about helping her teenage daughter, Aubrey, navigate the overwhelm of school, swimming, and show choir — and how a Friday night meltdown turned into a masterclass in renegotiating what matters.

Through the Life of And framework, Tiffany shows how to reframe guilt, lead with values, and find practical solutions when life feels too heavy to hold. It’s a relatable parenting moment — and a reminder that you can have it all, just not all at once… and never without intention.


If you’re an executive interested in joining a one day mini-retreat focused on the Life of And framework, shoot us an email at tiffany@tiffanysauder.com


What You’ll Learn:

  • How to tell when you’re actually overcommitted vs. just emotionally drained
  • A step-by-step way to renegotiate your commitments with clarity and agency
  • Why values, not guilt, should guide your decisions about what stays and what goes


For more from Tiffany:

Sign up for the Insider’s Newsletter: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/TS-Newsletter-Subscribe

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Learn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 


Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(00:57) The Sauders’ big move

(01:44) Finding humor in the daily mess

(03:30) The Life of And Toolbox

(04:23) Aubrey’s overloaded schedule of school, swim, and show choir

(09:02) Breaking down Aubrey’s hours

(11:16) Applying the LOA framework to regain balance

(17:43) How small changes created significant relief for Aubrey

(19:19) Details about the Life of And Academy


Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

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2 months ago
21 minutes

Life of And
286: Why You Need To Stop Apologizing

What if you could keep your edge in busy seasons without apologizing for your power away?


In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with mentor and recurring guest Brian Kavicky of Lushin to discuss the hidden cost of reflexive apologies and how to replace them with ownership, clarity, and momentum. They get into why “I’m sorry” often functions as self-protection (and subtle manipulation), when a genuine apology is warranted, and what to say instead so that relationships can strengthen and move forward.


Then, Tiffany and Brian connect this mindset to execution: the “cookbook” system for daily behaviors, scheduling what matters on your calendar, and using year-end energy to set meaningful goals for 2026. They also offer a virtual, two-part goal-setting experience built around Life’s Roadmap, bucket-list thinking, and friction-removal, so you don’t just dream; you do.


You’ll walk away with a framework to:

  • Ditch reflexive apologies and replace them with facts, ownership, and gratitude (“Thanks for your patience…here’s where I’m at”).
  • Spot real vs. faux guilt so you only apologize for actual value violations.
  • Run your “cookbook” like a pro. Block it on the calendar, measure it, and adjust fast when you slip.
  • Finish 2025 strong & set up 2026 with a practical plan.


Wish you could talk it out with BK? Good news, you can! Book time with Brian Kavicky here. 


For more from Tiffany, sign up for her newsletter: https://tiffany-sauder.mykajabi.com/TS-Newsletter-Subscribe

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Check out Tiffany’s website: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 


Mentioned in this episode:

  • 278: When Everything Feels Like Too Much—Start Here
  • 282: The Formula for Finishing the End of the Year Strong


Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(01:47) The impact of unnecessary apologies

(04:04) Alternatives to apologizing

(12:06) Real-life examples and reflections

(16:52) The trap of apologizing in sales

(19:10) Struggles with maintaining goals

(22:38) Managing a busy schedule

(24:30) The importance of goal setting

(28:36) Avoiding burnout and embracing adventure


Check out the apps and sponsor of this episode:

  • This episode is sponsored by Lushin. As part of our ongoing content partnership, Brian Kavicky joins the podcast monthly to share insights on leadership and sales. No compensation is received for referrals.
  • Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
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3 months ago
32 minutes

Life of And
285: The Networking Formula No One Talks About

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany shares two deeply personal lessons that are shaping her journey right now: learning to honor the emotions tied to leaving her family home and discovering a formula for meaningful networking. From the hard pause of packing up a decade of memories to the courage of showing vulnerability in professional settings, she opens up about the messy and the practical sides of growth.


Through stories of transition, connection, and reframing what progress really looks like, Tiffany highlights why letting yourself feel is just as important as moving forward with intention. She also offers her simple yet powerful formula for networking (proximity plus vulnerability equals progress) and shows how it can change the way we build relationships in life and business.


For more from Tiffany, sign up for her newsletter: https://tiffany-sauder.mykajabi.com/TS-Newsletter-Subscribe

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Check out Tiffany’s website: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 


What You’ll Learn:

  • Why giving yourself space to feel emotions can unlock new momentum
  • How proximity and vulnerability together create real progress
  • Practical tools to make networking authentic, approachable, and sustainable


Timestamps:
(00:00) Intro

(01:36) Facing struggles while moving homes

(07:28) Why networking shapes real progress

(12:52) Practical strategies for stronger networking

(22:45) Key networking takeaways to remember


Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

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3 months ago
24 minutes

Life of And
284: 5 Things That Are Secretly Destroying Your Confidence with Nicole Kalil

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with keynote speaker and author Nicole Kalil to discuss the real engine of confidence. It’s not the polished image or the applause, but firm, bold trust in yourself. Nicole shares the “confidence derailers” that quietly chip away at us (overthinking, perfectionism, comparison, people-pleasing, and external validation) and offers a practical path back to action and self-trust.


From navigating image, aging, and norms without losing authenticity to parenting confidence in a feedback-saturated world, this conversation is an honest look at how to build confidence that lasts, and what to do when achiever mode burns you out.


For more from Tiffany, sign up for her newsletter: https://tiffany-sauder.mykajabi.com/TS-Newsletter-Subscribe

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Check out Tiffany’s website: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 


What You’ll Learn:

  • Why “firm, bold trust in self” beats external validation every time
  • The five confidence derailers and how action becomes the antidote
  • How to model and parent confidence without creating a validation dependency


Timestamps:
(00:00) Intro

(02:04) Nicole’s crash after “faking confidence”

(09:21) Defining confidence as firm self-trust

(16:21) The five derailers that chip away at confidence

(20:37) Why validation feels good but becomes addictive

(22:22)  Navigating the line between authenticity and appearance

(29:06) How Nicole models and parents confidence at home

(34:11) What she’d add to Validation Is For Parking today

(35:32) Hard lessons from burning out on book promotion

(38:00) On achiever mode, scarcity thinking, and abundance

(41:11) Nicole’s podcast and workbook for building confidence


For more from Nicole, check out these links:

  • Website: https://nicolekalil.com/
  • Confidence Quiz & FREE 40+ Page Confidence Building Workbook: https://nicolekalil.com/confidencequiz
  • This Is Woman's Work Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-is-womans-work-with-nicole-kalil/id1493225373 on Apple (or wherever you listen to podcasts)
  • Validation Is For Parking Book: https://geni.us/ValidationIsForParking
  • LinkedIn:  www.linkedin.com/in/nicolekalil
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicolemkalil/

Check out the sponsor of this episode:

Created in partnership with Share Your Genius

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3 months ago
43 minutes

Life of And
[REPLAY] 7 Tips to Find Clothes You Look Great In

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany shares her lifelong love for clothes and the lessons they’ve taught her about confidence, self-expression, and feeling comfortable in your own skin. From growing up sewing in 4H to navigating fashion on a budget, she reflects on how clothing can be less about vanity and more about freeing yourself to show up fully in the world.


Tiffany walks through seven practical tips, from column dressing and photo albums of outfits to buying things before you need them, making dressing up simpler and more joyful. Along the way, she offers candid stories from her own life that show how the right clothes can help you forget yourself and focus on what matters most.


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Episodes, speaking, and more:
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What You’ll Learn:

  • Why dressing to forget yourself helps you focus on your talents and energy
  • How to use simple systems like column dressing and outfit albums to save time and stress
  • Why knowing what looks good on you—and putting it on repeat—frees you from decision fatigue


Timestamps:
(00:00) Intro

(01:11) Growing up with fashion and sewing

(03:15) The concept of 'dress to forget yourself'

(04:32) Seven tips for finding clothes you look great in

(05:48) Tip 1: Follow influencers with similar features

(07:03) Tip 2: Column dressing

(09:20) Tip 3: Create an outfit album

(11:31) Tip 4: Know your style and stick to it

(13:21) Try-on sessions and closet organization

(15:27) The benefits of mail ordering

(16:40) Buy before you need


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3 months ago
20 minutes

Life of And
283: Why Ego Is the Biggest Threat to Your Joy

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany opens up about the tug-of-war between ego-driven choices and values-driven living. From moments of comparison on social media to big decisions about family and career, she shares candid reflections on how to stay grounded in what matters most.


Through stories of collaboration, vulnerability, and even navigating her family’s upcoming home transition, Tiffany highlights the small but powerful choices that shape not only her own experience, but also the people around her. 


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Check out Tiffany’s website: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 


What You’ll Learn:

  • Why values-driven choices lead to more joy than ego-driven decisions
  • How collaboration and vulnerability accelerate growth
  • The ripple effect your reactions have on others in work and life


Timestamps:
(00:00) Intro

(00:50) Honest reflections on self-care and routines

(02:21) Choosing values over ego in decisions

(04:04) Supporting others’ success without comparison

(08:54) Collaboration and vulnerability that spark growth

(14:03) Family choices during home transition season

(18:14) Leading teams with steady reactions

(21:50) Reflections on growth and gratitude


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3 months ago
23 minutes

Life of And
282: The Formula for Finishing the End of the Year Strong

What if your productivity and energy could soar just by setting the right goals and tracking your progress with precision?

In this episode, Tiffany sits down with her mentor, Brian Kavicky, to discuss the importance of having a clear plan for the rest of the year and beyond. As the year draws to a close, they explore how to finish strong—both personally and professionally—while laying the groundwork for a successful 2026.

Tiffany and Brian break down the powerful framework that has helped Tiffany refocus and regain momentum in her life.

You'll walk away with a clear 4-step framework to:

  • Set realistic, actionable goals for the short and long term
  • Stay on track with a daily "cookbook" to manage your time and priorities
  • Use scorecards to measure progress and keep the momentum going
  • Avoid burnout by embracing consistent, sustainable action

Wish you could talk it out with BK? Good news, you can! Book time with Brian Kavicky Here. 


Mentioned in this episode:

  • 278: When Everything Feels Like Too Much—Start Here


Timestamps:
(00:00) Intro

(01:13) Finishing strong this year

(02:10) The importance of defining goals

(04:39) Planning ahead for 2026

(11:11) Using a cookbook for habits

(16:49) Thanking partners and final thoughts

(17:26) Setting weekly and monthly goals

(17:43) Adapting to change at your pace

(18:13) Understanding your personal habits

(22:28) The importance of scorecards

(24:00) Personal goals and professional growth

(29:07) Embracing urgency and resetting goals

(31:48) Summarizing steps for success


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4 months ago
35 minutes

Life of And
281: What If You Built the “Perfect Life” and Still Felt Stuck?

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with therapist, author, and podcaster Danielle Ireland for a conversation about growth, discomfort, and agency. Danielle shares how confidence is earned in hindsight by moving through what feels hard, plus the mindset shifts that help us tell the difference between being tired on a Wednesday and being out of alignment at a soul level. They explore the traps of external validation and people-pleasing, and how choosing values over ego can look like “editing” your life with truth and kindness.


Tiffany and Danielle also talk about parenting for resilience (letting kids cross the threshold of discomfort), journaling as directed self-dialogue, what it means to be a “pollinator” versus a “jackhammer” in career seasons, setting boundaries without abandoning yourself, and simple ways to create community so growth doesn’t have to feel lonely.


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What You’ll Learn

  • How to distinguish temporary friction from signs you need to edit your commitments
  • A values-first framework (truth × kindness) for saying clear yeses and noes
  • Simple scripts to help kids (and adults) hold big feelings and build real confidence


Connect with Danielle:

Website: https://danielleireland.com/

The Don’t Cut Your Own Bangs podcast: https://danielleireland.com/podcast/

Wrestling a Walrus: A book for little people with big feelings: https://danielleireland.com/wrestling-a-walrus

Treasured: A journal for unearthing you: https://danielleireland.com/journal 


Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(01:24) Danielle’s transformative journey and career

(02:20) The power of vulnerability and connection

(03:56) Navigating personal and professional growth

(06:41) Embracing change and overcoming fear

(08:46) The role of therapy and self-discovery

(11:05) Balancing achievement and authenticity

(17:36) The importance of external validation

(19:07) Navigating life’s transitions

(27:18) Ego vs. values-driven decisions

(29:44) Understanding the common denominator in relationships

(30:20) Commitment, clarity, and priorities

(31:10) Discerning loyalty and discomfort

(32:28) The importance of emotional awareness

(34:35) Internal processes vs. external perceptions

(37:41) Parenting and the threshold of discomfort


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4 months ago
52 minutes

Life of And
280: 3 Time Hacks for Busy Seasons

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany shares her go-to toolkit for finding capacity in life’s busiest seasons. Whether it’s juggling work, family, health priorities, or big personal projects like a home renovation, her simple framework: “stop, cut in half, stack” helps you reclaim time without sacrificing what matters most.


Through personal examples from her current 8 to 12 week sprint, Tiffany shows how intentional choices, temporary renegotiations, and a “keep it easy” mindset can turn chaos into a manageable, even enjoyable, rhythm.


For more from Tiffany, sign up for her newsletter: https://tiffany-sauder.mykajabi.com/TS-Newsletter-Subscribe

Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauder

Check out Tiffany’s website: https://www.tiffanysauder.com 


What You’ll Learn:

  • How to use the “stop, cut, stack” method to instantly free up capacity
  • Ways to renegotiate commitments without letting people down
  • How to keep simple things simple in a season of high demand


Mentioned in this episode:

  • 278: When Everything Feels Like Too Much – Start Here


Timestamps:
(00:00) Intro

(01:18) Tiffany’s current life challenges

(01:51) Core principles for managing busy seasons

(02:22) What can I stop?

(03:44) What can I cut in half?

(06:33) Keep it simple

(09:26) Dealing with demanding times


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4 months ago
13 minutes

Life of And
279: 5 Tools For When You Feel Scattered, Stuck, or Behind

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany shares how simple mindset shifts and small actions can help regain control when life feels overwhelming. Drawing from her own experiences balancing personal, professional, and family responsibilities, she highlights the power of "minimums"—small, achievable actions that keep you grounded.

Tiffany also introduces her "cookbook" approach, a method to map out daily behaviors that lead to big results, whether managing work, a house renovation, or life’s chaos. By focusing on the right actions, you’ll see the outcomes follow. If you’re ready to move from surviving to thriving, this episode is for you.

For more from Tiffany, sign up for her newsletter: https://tiffany-sauder.mykajabi.com/TS-Newsletter-Subscribe


What You’ll Learn:

  • How defining your "minimums" helps maintain progress during busy seasons
  • Tiffany’s personal "cookbook" approach for achieving success in both work and life
  • Practical tips for organizing your time and prioritizing what's most important


Mentioned in this episode:

  • 278: When Everything Feels Like Too Much – Start Here
  • 149: The Power of Minimums

Timestamps:
(00:00) Intro

(01:06) Managing change and converging priorities

(02:24) Lessons learned from Brian's coaching

(07:22) How to make unknowns known

(10:23) Recommitting to your personal minimums

(15:53) Difference between directional and specific goals

(17:21) Gratitude for partners and setting goals

(18:34) Why Tiffany struggles with her Apple Watch

(19:03) Creating a personal cookbook for success

(20:38) Using a sales cookbook to succeed

(22:09) Applying the cookbook concept to life

(28:42) Evaluating and reflecting on summer priorities

(32:24) Managing both careers and caregiving roles

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4 months ago
35 minutes

Life of And
278: When Everything Feels Like Too Much—Start Here

What if the reason you feel overwhelmed… is because you haven’t written down what you don’t know?

In this raw and totally unscripted episode, Tiffany opens up about the chaos of her current season—think: a major home renovation, full family schedule, growing a business, and trying to stay present in her marriage. If you've ever felt like you're underwater with your goals, you're going to feel seen here.

Tiffany brings her longtime coach and mentor, Brian Kavicky, into a real-time conversation to figure out what’s causing the stress—and how to reset.

You'll walk away with a clear 4-step framework to:

  • Untangle your overwhelm
  • Get clarity fast
  • Define your non-negotiables
  • And build the confidence to move forward (even when life is messy)

Wish you could talk it out with BK? Good news, you can! Book time with Brian Kavicky Here. 


Mentioned in this episode:

  • 271: Mid-Year Slump? Here’s How Top Performers Reset
  • 262: Hope Restored: The Marriage Intensive That Changed Everything
  • 256: Why You Keep Getting in Your Own Way (with Brian Kavicky)


Timestamps:
(00:00) Intro

(01:02) Mid-year reflection and reset

(03:33) Financial and personal pressures

(06:51) Overcoming uncertainty and prioritization

(21:20) Navigating the purge process

(22:03) Organizing your newspace

(22:38) Concerns about budget and decision-making

(24:04) Finding the right people for the job

(28:40) Setting priorities and non-negotiables


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  • This episode is sponsored by Lushin. As part of our ongoing content partnership, Brian Kavicky joins the podcast monthly to share leadership and sales insights. No compensation is received for referrals.
  • Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
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5 months ago
39 minutes

Life of And
277: 5 Tips to get Dressed with Confidence

In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany explores how something as simple as getting your colors done can create real clarity—in your closet and in your confidence.

She’s joined by Maggie Link, a certified color analyst and founder of Ease, who helps women stop second-guessing their outfits and start showing up with more self-assurance. Together, they unpack how knowing your palette can make everything from back-to-school shopping to big life moments feel a whole lot easier.

Tiffany reflects on her own color analysis experience (spoiler: she’s a dark winter), what it revealed about her wardrobe, and why it’s not about fashion perfection—it’s about feeling like yourself again. Whether you’re navigating a closet refresh or just want to spend less time staring at your clothes, this conversation is all about making space for what matters most.

If you’ve ever said, “I have nothing to wear,” this one’s for you.

For more from Tiffany, sign up for her newsletter: https://tiffany-sauder.mykajabi.com/TS-Newsletter-Subscribe


What You’ll Learn:

  • Why knowing your colors leads to faster, more confident decisions
  • How Maggie helps clients apply color analysis without a full wardrobe overhaul
  • Simple ways to start—like lipstick and blush—that make a big impact fast


Real Life Color & Style Tools

  • Use your color palette to simplify everyday outfit decisions
  • Anchor your wardrobe in a few core pieces that match your season
  • Treat lipstick and blush as quick wins for looking put-together fast
  • Shop intentionally by season to build a cohesive, confidence-boosting closet


Connect with Maggie:

  • Website: https://www.easecolorandstyle.com/
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/easecolorandstyle


Timestamps:
(00:00) Intro

(03:06) Maggie’s journey to becoming a color analyst

(07:10) Building a business from scratch

(11:02) How a color session actually works

(14:22) The confidence shift after getting your colors done

(17:10) Back-to-school shopping with intention

(21:00) The truth about hair color and undertones

(24:18) Easy makeup swaps that make a difference

(26:50) Building a wardrobe that works for your life

(31:08) Shopping smarter by season and brand

(33:39) When you feel good, you show up better

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5 months ago
35 minutes

Life of And
The Life of And podcast is for high-achieving women and working parents who are ready to stop living a life of “have to” and start designing a life they actually want. It’s a space where we talk honestly about the things we’re often afraid to admit — even to ourselves. The exhaustion. The ambition. The loneliness. The joy. The tension of wanting more without losing yourself in the process. If you’re in the thick of it — feeling stretched, tired, hopeful, driven — this is your invitation to take a breath, get real, and find your way back to your own Life of And.