I grew up thinking that my parents were this kind of asexual couple who had 4 kids who somehow poof’d into reality by some sort of seemingly immaculate conception.   Almost like I was Jesus…   Ok just kidding…   But for real as far as I could tell my parents had sex 4 times…   There were 4 children in my family…   Besides that it was not a subject that was ever spoken about…   Intimacy was never really shown.   So the question is how much affection should you show in front of your kids?   I understand that this is a wide open discussion that almost nobody is going to agree on.   Here is our take on it.   Sit back, grab a drink, relax and let’s chat.   Please share your perspective on this in the comments section…   We’d love to hear from you.   Welcome to the Cantina   #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback #marriage #fitness #fitcouple #fithusband #fitwife #locosonlycantina #divorce @locosonlycantina @life_is_cherry @cherie_preece_life_is_cherry #lifeischerry @judas_preece #love #lifeischerry #findinglove #liveyourbestlife #whatmenwantinrelationships #whatmenwantinawife #livetolove #shesjustnotthatintoyou #womenandsex #sex #couplesandsex #intimacyinmarriage

We live in a time where the thought of doing anything for a man makes the modern woman’s skin crawl.   The question is why…   Have gender roles in relationships really changed all that much?   Is a man still expected to get the door for his woman?   Are men still expected to front the bill for dates?   Is the man still expected to take care of the yard and fix the cars?   Is the man still expected to fix things around the house?   Is the man still responsible to protect his woman while out on the town if something were to happen?   When a window breaks downstairs and wakes you up… Who is it that goes downstairs in the dark to confront the unknown danger lurking around every corner?   This is the way it should be… These things should not go away.   So why then should it be so repulsive and appalling to the modern woman to do anything at all in service of a man?   Is going into the kitchen and making him the proverbial “sammich” really such a bad thing?   Grab a drink, kick back, relax and let's chat about it.   #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback #marriage #fitness #fitcouple #fithusband #fitwife #locosonlycantina #divorce @locosonlycantina @life_is_cherry @cherie_preece_life_is_cherry #lifeischerry @judas_preece #love #lifeischerry #findinglove #liveyourbestlife #whatmenwantinrelationships #whatmenwantinawife #livetolove #shesjustnotthatintoyou #womenandsex #sex #couplesandsex #intimacyinmarriage 

Yup! Absa-fuckin-lutely he does! Is he just a sex craved pig of a man or is he normal? Is it misogynistic for him to expect regular sex in a marriage or is she kind of evil for denying him of that? Men and women have different sex drives… that’s for sure. It’s a problem that many couples never seem to be able to come to grips with and it destroys relationships. So what do we need to do about that? How do we ensure that we can have a long fulfilling marriage both emotionally and sexually? Kick back, grab a drink (unless you are driving of course) and let’s talk about it.

Fact of life…   Girls want bad boys.   Yup, even your wife.   It is what it is boys and girls so listen up.   Like it or not, unless you check yourself out of the system and condemn yourself to a life of solitude you are locked into this game for the long haul.   The game never ends and those who refuse to play lose.   So grab a drink, kick back and let’s chat   Why do good girls love bad boys???   #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback #marriage #fitness #fitcouple #fithusband #fitwife #locosonlycantina #divorce @locosonlycantina @life_is_cherry @cherie_preece_life_is_cherry #lifeischerry @judas_preece #love #lifeischerry #findinglove #liveyourbestlife #whatmenwantinrelationships #whatmenwantinawife #livetolove #shesjustnotthatintoyou #womenandsex #sex #couplesandsex #intimacyinmarriage 

There are times in marriage when you are both upset for legitimate reasons at the same time.   There are times when you are both down in the dumps at the same time.   There are times when each of you  is finding it difficult to function and you need  the other to be there for you at the very same time.   So how the hell do you find the strength to lift the other up when you need somebody to be there to lift you?   This can be one of the scenarios that can get out of control and spiral down hill fast and can lead to the destruction of your marriage.   Have you ever heard a couple say they really loved each other but it just didn’t work out?   Well we’re willing to bet that this was the cause of huge chunk of those divorces.     When you are both upset…   When you are both sad…   When you are both down in the dumps…   When you are both stressed…   Whatever the feeling may be…   There will come a time when you both need the other to “fix” them or make them feel better.   So how do you find the strength to give your partner what they need and revive your relationship when you can’t find the strength within yourself or maybe you simply don’t want to?   This is a major fork in the road…   You can either continue down this path or make the hard decision to take action and make tomorrow better.   Let’s chat about it.   #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback #marriage #fitness #fitcouple #fithusband #fitwife #locosonlycantina #divorce @locosonlycantina @life_is_cherry @cherie_preece_life_is_cherry #lifeischerry @judas_preece #love #lifeischerry #findinglove #liveyourbestlife #whatmenwantinrelationships #whatmenwantinawife #livetolove #shesjustnotthatintoyou #womenandsex #sex #couplesandsex #intimacyinmarriage

Does your wife have a low sex drive?   Does she always have a headache?   Is she always too tired?   You may not think she is into sex…   Here’s the thing…   She is just as interested in sex as you are!   So what the actual hell is going on then???   Grab a drink, sit back and relax and let’s unravel this mystery that continues to stump married men from sea to fucking shining sea.   Whenever she says I don’t want to have sex you can always finish her sentence with two more little words and all will make sense..   What are they???   Listen and find out!   Cheers! #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback #marriage #fitness #fitcouple #fithusband #fitwife #locosonlycantina #divorce @locosonlycantina @life_is_cherry @cherie_preece_life_is_cherry #lifeischerry @judas_preece #love #lifeischerry #findinglove #liveyourbestlife #whatmenwantinrelationships #whatmenwantinawife #livetolove #shesjustnotthatintoyou #womenandsex #sex #couplesandsex #intimacyinmarriage 

Alright let’s talk about the 800 lb gorilla in the room   Why is it ok to talk about how men should be, how they should act, how they should dress, how much money they need to make etc….   But it’s not ok to talk about how women should be in their relationships???   Grab a drink, kick back and let’s fight this battle…   What do men expect from their women within their relationships???   #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback #marriage #fitness #fitcouple #fithusband #fitwife #locosonlycantina #divorce @locosonlycantina @life_is_cherry @cherie_preece_life_is_cherry #lifeischerry @judas_preece #tonyrobbins #sagerobbins #love #lifeischerry #findinglove #liveyourbestlife #whatmenwantinrelationships #whatmenwantinawife #livetolove

Today we decided to look to the almighty Tony Robbins for some relationship wisdom.   Sit back relax and join us as we review the 7 Keys of Love and Relationships according to the Guru of all Guru’s Tony and his wife Sage Robbins.   Tony & Sage Robbins Full Video: https://youtu.be/CAo6UaKBYwI Cheers! #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback #marriage #fitness #fitcouple #fithusband #fitwife #locosonlycantina #divorce @locosonlycantina @life_is_cherry @cherie_preece_life_is_cherry #lifeischerry @judas_preece #tonyrobbins #sagerobbins #love #lifeischerry #findinglove #liveyourbestlife

Months ago Cherie made a decision to give herself a gift for her 40th birthday.   That gift was to be the best version of herself that she could possibly be.   She wanted to enter into her 4th decade on this earth in the best shape  of her life.   She killed it.   Kick back, grab a drink, and let's talk about the process…    Most importantly… Check out our Youtube Channel & Watch till the end for her results vid.   #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback #autonomy #marriage #fitness #fitcouple #fithusband #fitwife #locosonlycantina #divorce @locosonlycantina @life_is_cherry @cherie_preece_life_is_cherry #lifeischerry @judas_preece #thesuttleartofnotgivingafuck #markmanson #zerofucks #zerofucksgiven #fitover40 #fitness #fitcouple 

The unfortunate truth is that most of us wander through this life trying to be whoever the hell it is that we think we are supposed to be.   When you are living your life to appease others opinions of you, how the hell are you ever supposed to know who you truly are let alone find your own path in life???   Your life and how you live it is none of their goddam business!   Yet on the flip side it is also none of your goddam business what others think you!   It is up to you to forge your own path in life…   And if others don’t like it???   Well… Screw em!   Grab a drink..   Sit back…   Relax..   And let's chat about giving zero fucks.   #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback #autonomy #marriage #fitness #fitcouple #fithusband #fitwife #locosonlycantina #divorce @locosonlycantina @life_is_cherry @cherie_preece_life_is_cherry #lifeischerry @judas_preece #thesuttleartofnotgivingafuck #markmanson #zerofucks #zerofucksgiven

It’s just a name right?   Is it really all that important?   Who had it right?   Our grandparents with their old school way of creating one family unit under one family name?   Or is it our younger woke culture who believe they can remain autonomous within their relationships.   Are you giving up a part of yourself by taking the man’s name in in marriage?   Or are you signing on to something much bigger and better than yourself by creating a family under one family name?   Kick back grab a drink and lets talk about some controversial questions that seem to keep popping up in today's culture of marriage.   #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback #autonomy #marriage #fitness #fitcouple #fithusband #fitwife #locosonlycantina #divorce @locosonlycantina @life_is_cherry @cherie_preece_life_is_cherry #lifeischerry @judas_preece

Everybody needs to be free to live their lives the way they see fit.   But how much freedom do you actually want within a marriage???   How much freedom is healthy?   How much freedom will destroy a relationship?   Almost without exception whenever we hear one or both partners talking about how they need “autonomy” in their marriage that marriage is only months away from being over.   We agree that a degree of freedom is healthy…   We also agree that it can go too far and become a detriment to your relationship.   If you want complete autonomy stay single.   If you want a good solid relationship that will last the test of time hangout for the next hour or so and let’s talk this through.   Remember marriage is not a me vs you game…   Marriage is an us against the world game!   Grab a drink, kick back and relax with us while we chat it up in the Cantina.   #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback #autonomy #marriage #fitness #fitcouple #fithusband #fitwife #locosonlycantina #divorce @locosonlycantina @life_is_cherry @cherie_preece_life_is_cherry #lifeischerry @judas_preece 

Did you forget that you took a vow?   Through better or worse…   Till death do us part…   Did you ever stop to think as to what exactly that might look like?   50+% divorce rate…   Kids being ripped away from parents and moved house to house.   We live in a world today where people give up far too quickly.   Most give up long before the “D” word ever comes up.   They get comfortable…   They become content…   They stop trying…   Then they act surprised that their partner has lost something…   Attraction…   Admiration…   Respect…   Divorce seems to come out of nowhere but really it’s been in the works for months if not years.   Let's chat about how to overcome this or better yet if you are just starting out never need to face it at all.   Check out the video by Jordan Peterson that we talked about: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm-8m9tBm1-/?igshid=MDM4ZDc5MmU=   #jordanpeterson #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback #andrewtate #fitness #fitcouple #fithusband #fitwife #locosonlycantina #divorce @locosonlycantina @life_is_cherry @cherie_preece_life_is_cherry #lifeischerry @judas_preece

LIfe is HARD!   Relationships are HARD!   Marriage is HARD!   SO FUCKING WHAT???   It’s time we get a little more old school in our approach and attack life when it gets difficult…   Instead of running from it!   Our grandparents didn’t get divorced because they got their feelings hurt.   They didn’t crawl under a rock and give up because life threw them a couple of curve balls.   They didn’t have that option.   They stood up tall and pulled up their big boy/big girl pants and figured that shit out!   In this family we do hard things.   Success in any aspect in life comes from one's ability to FIO (Figure it out!)   Let’s have a chat about it.   FIO!!!   #locosonlycantina #lifeischerry #marriage #livingourbestlife #marriedlife #datingadvice #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback

“Statistics show that 56% of men and 34% of women who commit infidelity rate their marriage as happy or very happy.”   SO WHAT THE ACTUAL F@#K???   Why then do people stray in otherwise happy marriages?   We have some ideas…    Join us for a chat on infidelity and what, if anything, can be done to prevent it.   Join our group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/locosonlycantina   Video we talked about:  https://youtu.be/u0STqvF0BDs   #locosonlycantina #lifeischerry #marriage #livingourbestlife #marriedlife #datingadvice #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback

Sometimes in relationships we are asked to step outside of our comfort zones and support our partners in things that simply do not interest us.   Some people refuse…   They tell themselves they can have their hobbies and I’ll have my own.   It’s true, we are not always going to be overly excited to do the things our partners want to do.   We can however be there for them regardless.   They will appreciate the effort.   And who knows, you may just find yourself with a new passion yourself.   Life is exciting!    Try all the shit.   You never know what the next thing is to light your fire.   You never know when and where you might be introduced to new friends that you might one day call your extended family.   Join us for a chat on how Cherie was surprised to find herself with a whole new family by supporting Brandon in a passion that she didn’t quite understand at first.   #locosonlycantina #lifeischerry #marriage #livingourbestlife #marriedlife #datingadvice #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback

Join us as we go the rounds about this controversial subject.   Join our group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/locosonlycantina   #locosonlycantina #lifeischerry #marriage #livingourbestlife #marriedlife #datingadvice #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback

Don’t be boring!   Don’t be lame!   Get your ass out of the house and show her a good time.   And oh yeah… End it with a bang!   Join our group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/locosonlycantina   #locosonlycantina #lifeischerry #marriage #livingourbestlife #marriedlife #datingadvice #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback

In a world full of all of this woke/PC nonsense men are finding themselves more and more confused as to what in the actual hell their women really want in their men.   Men want to please their women so they talk, they listen, they comply yet their women still aren't happy.   Most of today’s men are confused as hell as to how it is they actually please their wife.   They wonder where they went wrong and how to fix it.   How do we bring the spark back?   The answer is not all that complicated actually and truthfully it's as old as time.   Let's discuss…   Join us for blunt, pull no punches chat on what it is that women really want.   Join our group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/locosonlycantina   #locosonlycantina #lifeischerry #marriage #livingourbestlife #marriedlife #datingadvice #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage #bringthesparkback

10 Tips To Supercharge Your Marriage   Your relationship is only as good as you make it   Yes it is up you   Today we look over advise from 10 couples who have been married 10 plus years and discuss   Join us for a chat about 10 ways to supercharge your marriage. Article: https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/relationships/g4872/marriage-tips-from-longtime-couples/   Join our group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/locosonlycantina     #locosonlycantina #lifeischerry #marriage #livingourbestlife #marriedlife #datingadvice #dateyourspouse #dateyourwife #dateyourhusband #relationshipgoals  #sexymarriage #passsionatemarriage