Send us a text We walk through the hard reality of choosing divorce, and what happens after choosing divorce. From safety and legal steps to grief, co‑parenting, church dynamics, and how to cling to God when you feel abandoned. The aim is simple and honest: protect your life, tell the truth about pain, and rebuild with hope. • why we address divorce during holidays • safety first in abusive situations • legal process basics and costs • identity rebuilding and new routines • breakup bud...

Send us a text Merry Christmas! We pause the heavy topics to share warmth, joy, and a blessing for Christmas while keeping Jesus at the center and love by faith at the forefront. We also invite couples to a simple one‑hour, on‑demand workshop, The Relationship Renovation Workshop, with a 33‑page blueprint to strengthen marriage for the new year. • holiday chaos named and kept light • Puerto Rican traditions through Three Kings Day • reminders to keep Jesus central • encouragement to love by ...

Send us a text When you're on the brink of divorce, we pray this message will encourage and uplift you to reconsider. We share a frank, hope-filled plan for couples on the brink of divorce, from transforming prayer and inviting real community to humble conversations and non‑negotiable counseling. Faith frames the fight while practical steps make repair possible and safe. • Why changing prayer from “fix them” to “change me” unlocks progress • When safety and biblical grounds mean you step awa...

Send us a text In this episode, we discuss the Biblical grounds for divorce. We open Scripture to explore when divorce is biblically permitted and how God’s heart aims to protect people, not trap them in harm. We unpack adultery, abandonment, and abuse with care, then point to humility, repentance, and real-world steps toward safety, healing, and peace. • scriptural grounds for divorce: adultery, abandonment, abuse • Jesus’ correction of casual divorce in Matthew 19 • heart-level adultery an...

Send us a text In our new series, "Defeating Divorce," we start off by asking WHY Christian couples get divorced? We open the season’s toughest theme with honesty and hope, asking why Christian couples still end up divorced and how to push back with faith, rhythm, and practical tools. We share our no “D-word” rule, our hardest years, and a path to rebuild identity, intimacy, and unity. • loss of connection through selfish focus and unacknowledged effort • boredom and busyness replacing...

Send us a text In our final episode of the Temptations series, we talk about how to guard our marriage against temptation. We unpack how temptation seeds itself in thoughts and desires, grows through secrecy and isolation, and fractures trust when left in the dark. We offer practical ways to confess early, involve church community, use Scripture as sword and shield, and remember the real enemy isn’t your spouse. • guarding mind and heart from early temptation • moving from look to secret and...

Send us a text We confront the real reasons why couples are tempted to skip church and offer honest, practical ways to rebuild trust, rhythm, and community without pretending church is perfect. From burnout and offense to pride and preference, we point back to grace, ownership, and shared responsibility. • why church exists as a body, not an event • healthy vs emotionally unhealthy church cultures • who leads the family to church and why it’s shared • seasons of weakness and how to cover a s...

Send us a text We explore the temptation to keep secrets in marriage, the difference between confidentiality and secrecy, and why even “small” omissions can damage trust. We share practical ways to disclose hard truths with grace, plus boundaries that protect privacy without hiding from your spouse. • defining secrecy versus withholding versus confidentiality • holiday surprises and why patterns matter • common hidden areas like spending, drinking, and private chats • how secrecy triggers in...

Send us a text We open season three by naming a quiet truth: couples are tempted to look away... from each other and from God. We map where that drift starts, why it feels good in the moment, and how to turn attention back to covenant, accountability, and hope. • returning from break and finding a healthy rhythm • new monthly series focuses on temptation • defining “the temptation to look” beyond wandering eyes • women’s escapes through venting, wine, and gossip • safe counsel that points ba...

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Send us a text We have a very SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT for you! The countdown is on, and we’re stepping back to the mic with a promise: Season 3 of Love by Faith lands on November 4th! And our first series of the new season is designed to spark honest, growth-focused conversations that couples actually want to have. We’ve been building behind the scenes for months—resting, refueling, and reshaping the way we serve you—so we can bring more clarity, more courage, and more practical help right...

Send us a text In their final season two episode, Kyle and Selina explore what it means to create a lasting ministry legacy as a married couple. God calls us to more than just companionship in marriage—He invites us to build something meaningful together that impacts His kingdom. • The maximum reach in marriage is leaving a lasting ministry legacy that wouldn't be successful without both spouses • Finding your ministry calling requires identifying where God has shown up most powerfully...

Send us a text This episode is about building a legacy of lasting financial wealth beyond the 401(k) plan. Kyle and Selina explore what it means to build a lasting financial legacy that extends beyond the accumulation of wealth to developing proper money mindsets for future generations. They explore practical ways couples can establish financial foundations that will benefit their children and communities. • Breaking generational financial curses through intentional money management • ...

Send us a text In this "legacy" episode, Kyle and Selina discuss building a strong and healthy future together. Kyle and Selina tackle the often overlooked topic of health legacy and its profound impact on marriage relationships, exploring how today's health choices shape dreams for a shared future. • Health legacy affects your marriage in both longevity and quality of the relationship • Gym workout experiences together can create unexpected conflicts when expectations aren't aligned •...

Send us a text Creating last family connections requires intentionally choosing how to navigate relationships with extended family while creating meaningful traditions that will shape your children's future. In this episode, Kyle and Selina share how to create a family legacy! • Create clear family boundaries early in marriage to establish your values and priorities • Have honest conversations with extended family about your boundaries and expectations • Be the bridge by making efforts to ma...

Send us a text Making and maintaining meaningful friendships takes intentionality, vulnerability, and divine guidance, especially as we journey through different life seasons where not everyone who starts with us remains. • True friendship isn't measured by transaction or reciprocity but is guided by the Holy Spirit for specific purposes • Building legacy friendships requires effort from both parties, becoming more challenging as responsibilities increase • Making friends begins with vulnera...

Send us a text Kyle and Selina explore how partners can effectively support each other through anxiety by understanding different responses and creating practical strategies for mental wellness. They share personal experiences that illuminate the contrast between Kyle's tendency to push through anxiety and Selina's need for space and decompression. • Creating a "code word" to signal when anxiety is taking over • Acknowledging how partners can inadvertently trigger each other's anxiety • Prov...

Send us a text Anxiety is born from fear and our desire to control situations beyond our reach. In this episode, we confront anxiety at its source-- fear vs. control-- and share about breaking the cycle of anxiety. We explore how anxiety impacts marriages, attacks individuals, and stems from feeling overwhelmed by life's uncertainties. • Anxiety fundamentally comes from fear – fear of outcomes, others' reactions, or lack of control • The "five-foot radius" concept helps identify what w...

Send us a text Anxiety manifests differently for men and women, affecting relationships in unique ways that require understanding and patience. In this episode, Kyle and Selina talk openly about what men and women are REALLY anxious about! • Men often experience performance-based anxiety related to success, accomplishment, and providing • Image anxiety affects men significantly, from caring about yard appearance to comparing themselves with peers • Overcommitment and saying yes to everything...

Send us a text Kyle and Selina open up about their personal experiences with anxiety in marriage, sharing how it manifested differently for each of them and revealing the spiritual dimensions of anxiety attacks. • Anxiety often shows up during major life transitions like moving into a new home or changing cities • Selina experienced debilitating panic attacks that prevented her from functioning normally • Kyle internalized his anxiety, using it as motivation rather than letting it overwhelm ...