Marcus had a chance to hang out with Actor/Comedian/Voiceover Icon Patrick Warburton.  You know him from such well-known roles as Puddy on Seinfeld, and the voice of Buzz Lightyear, Joe from Family Guy, and The Tick (among many others).   We discussed his character “Mayor Windancer” in the new movie Zootopia 2 (out in theaters 11/26) and how much fun he had in that role (He calls him an absolutely preposterous “gaffoon.”). We also talked about what his favorite role has been, what it’s like to transition from the screen to the VO booth, to the (stand-up comedy) stage. Plus how his family keeps him in shape, in check, and whether or not they care if he’s famous. Such a fun hang!

Catch him in Zootopia 2: In theaters November 26th! 

Revenge Quitting A Job:
Ever thought about walking out of your job without notice? You’re not alone. We’re diving into the trend of “revenge quitting,” why nearly half of U.S. workers have done it, and the crazy reasons behind it, from toxic workplaces to poor management. Plus, we’re sharing our own stories and experiences with quitting (or almost quitting) in style.  

Things Your Parents Swore By That Turned Out to Not Be True:
Ever wondered if everything your parents told you was true? From “don’t drive with the dome light on” to “wait 30 minutes after eating before swimming,” we’re diving into the myths, old wives’ tales, and advice that might have been a little… off. Join us as we separate fact from fiction, laugh at the lessons we learned, and maybe discover which parental warnings were totally unnecessary.  

What's Trending:
Today we’re covering it all from weather updates, what Marcus brought in for lunch, the newly announced Dictionary Word of the Year, and a celebratory shoutout to National Carbonated Beverage With Caffeine Day. It’s random, it’s fun, and we’re sharing our own takes along the way.  

Second Date Update:
Nico’s date with Vanessa started off sweet: Italian food in Burlingame, beach talk, and a cute saucy moment he handled with care. But just as quickly as it started, she ghosted. We uncover the story behind the no-show.  

3 Things You Can Do To Avoid Holiday Drama:
We’re breaking down three expert-backed ways to dodge holiday drama: setting boundaries, taking a walk, and avoiding the over-indulging trap. Plus, we share our own stories of what actually works (and what definitely doesn’t).  

Good News:
Disney is helping L.A. rebuild after the wildfires—from restoring a destroyed park to supporting holiday events and toy drives. We dive into the story and what it means for Altadena.

Awkward Run-ins with Your Ex:
Running into an ex is never smooth… especially when it happens in public. Marcus and Taylor swap awkward ex-run-in stories and relive the hilarious moment they unexpectedly bumped into one of Taylor’s exes over the weekend.  

Things Your Parents Swore By That Turned Out to Not Be True:
Ever wondered if everything your parents told you was true? From “don’t drive with the dome light on” to “wait 30 minutes after eating before swimming,” we’re diving into the myths, old wives’ tales, and advice that might have been a little… off. Join us as we separate fact from fiction, laugh at the lessons we learned, and maybe discover which parental warnings were totally unnecessary.  

What's Trending:
From sunny skies to stormy vibes, we’re talking weather updates, geeking out over the new Moana movie trailer, and celebrating National Princess Day, all in one episode. Join us for laughs, fun takes, and a little royal magic!  

Second Date Update:
What happens when your dream date suddenly ghosts? Bryce says he and “Carissa” connected over comedy, late-night eats, and one hilarious fork-drop moment. But when we get Clarissa on the phone, she reveals the date was over before appetizers. And yes, it starts with her name.  

Revenge Quitting A Job:
Ever thought about walking out of your job without notice? You’re not alone. We’re diving into the trend of “revenge quitting,” why nearly half of U.S. workers have done it, and the crazy reasons behind it, from toxic workplaces to poor management. Plus, we’re sharing our own stories and experiences with quitting (or almost quitting) in style.  

Good News:
Imagine being pinned under a flipped ATV in a pond and then being saved by three local boys and a neighbor’s quick thinking. We dive into this real-life miracle and swap stories of everyday heroes we’ve encountered.

Gen Z Calls Out Tone-Deaf Comments Older People Keep Making:
In this episode, we’re talking about the most cringe comments young people hear from older generations. From outdated advice to wild assumptions, these moments will have you laughing, cringing, and nodding along.  

Thanksgiving Kitchen Disasters:
Thanksgiving is all fun and games… until something catches fire. Marcus and Taylor swap their best kitchen disaster stories and play hilarious listener talkbacks about holiday meals gone wrong.  

What's Trending:
From Broadway magic hitting the big screen to buzzer-beaters and beautiful hikes—Marcus and Taylor cover the Wicked movie release, the latest in sports, and why National Hiking Day deserves more love.  

Second Date Update:
Tapas, sangria, and a spoon swap—what could go wrong? Trent thought he nailed his date with Kayla, but after their Walnut Creek night out, she vanished faster than a reality show rose ceremony. Let’s unpack this one.  

Awkward Run-ins with Your Ex:
Running into an ex is never smooth… especially when it happens in public. Marcus and Taylor swap awkward ex-run-in stories and relive the hilarious moment they unexpectedly bumped into one of Taylor’s exes over the weekend.  

Good News:
This week, we’re talking about the “Kindest Kids in America.” Twenty incredible elementary schoolers were honored at the U.S. Capitol on World Kindness Day for the compassion they’ve shown in their communities. We dig into how this national initiative—started by a Utah school counselor—uses kindness to combat bullying, plus the inspiring stories behind these young heroes.

Pet Peeves:
Got a weird pet peeve? You’re not alone. This episode, we’re exposing the oddly specific things that drive people up the wall.  

How Far Will Parents Go for Their Kid’s Sports Dream?
From early morning practices to big league dreams, many parents believe their child is the next sports superstar—68% say their kid is above average, and 1 in 6 think they’ll go pro. We’ll break down how youth sports are starting to feel more like the big leagues, with parents investing time, money, and hope into their young athletes.  

What's Trending:
Strap in! We’re talking about the weird weather, giving some love to Furry Friday, diving into the world of sports, and honoring the greatest day of the year: National Pickle Day.  

Second Date Update:
Lucas and Erin met online, hit a Redwood City pub for dinner, laughed, swapped TV favorites, and split a dessert. He thought sparks were flying — until she ghosted. We track down Erin to figure out why.  

Gen Z Calls Out Tone-Deaf Comments Older People Keep Making:
In this episode, we’re talking about the most cringe comments young people hear from older generations. From outdated advice to wild assumptions, these moments will have you laughing, cringing, and nodding along.  

Good News:
The Saturday before Thanksgiving isn’t just for grocery runs—it’s a chance to give back. We’re diving into Safeway’s “Nourishing Neighbors” campaign and how volunteers help raise over 250,000 meals for families in Alameda County. Your holiday spirit could help change lives.

How Long Does it Take for a Guest to Overstay Their Welcome?
How long is too long? Marcus and Taylor share personal tales of guests who overstayed their welcome.  

The Wild Side of the Turkey Hotline:
Over 10,000 calls on Thanksgiving alone—and 40 years of turkey wisdom. We explore Butterball’s Turkey Talk-Line, the hotline that’s saved home cooks from holiday chaos.  

What is Your Favorite Scent?
Marcus and Taylor dive into their favorite scents, plus a few unexpectedly weird ones they can’t help but love.  

What's Trending:
We’re talking the unexpected Hello Kitty x Kikkoman collab, a look at this week’s weather, the latest in sports, and what’s happening with SNAP benefits and the looming government shutdown.  

Second Date Update:
A cozy night in downtown Campbell: drinks, tacos, and a dog in a sweater. Eli thought he and Marissa had something real—shared laughs, shared snacks, and shared love for dogs and Trader Joe’s. But a few days later, she disappeared without a word. What went wrong?  

Pet Peeves:
Got a weird pet peeve? You’re not alone. This episode, we’re exposing the oddly specific things that drive people up the wall.  

Good News:
Bob Ross fans, listen up! Thirty of his iconic paintings are hitting the auction block to support small and rural public TV stations facing funding cuts. It’s art for a cause—keeping the shows he loved alive.

What is Your Favorite Scent?
Marcus and Taylor dive into their favorite scents, plus a few unexpectedly weird ones they can’t help but love.  

Drivers Most Likely To Break The Law At These Specific Times Of Day:
Turns out there are two specific times of day when drivers are most likely to ignore the law—and you’ve probably been on the road during both. We break down the study, the stats, and our own driving confessions.  

What's Trending:
SNAP benefits, happy hour, and sports: we’re covering everything from serious to silly in one episode. Grab a drink and tune in.  

Second Date Update:
Italian dinner? Check. Hike talk? Check. Mutual dislike for chatty movie-goers? Check. Everything seemed perfect for Adam and Brittany… until she ghosted him. Time to figure out what went wrong.  
The Wild Side of the Turkey Hotline:
Over 10,000 calls on Thanksgiving alone—and 40 years of turkey wisdom. We explore Butterball’s Turkey Talk-Line, the hotline that’s saved home cooks from holiday chaos.  

Good News:
A Colorado family is bringing Thanksgiving to truckers on the road. With homemade turkey dinners and handwritten cards, they aim to serve hundreds of drivers who keep our shelves stocked while away from home.

How Long Does it Take for a Guest to Overstay Their Welcome?
How long is too long? Marcus and Taylor share personal tales of guests who overstayed their welcome.  

Awkward Phases:
Growing up means trying on all kinds of identities—and doing some spectacularly weird things along the way. From odd outfits to imaginary powers, we’re revisiting the cringe (and hilarious) childhood phases we’ll never forget.  

What's Trending:
From stormy skies to bedtime-themed lodgings, we’re exploring the weird and wonderful this week. Marcus also reveals the origin of his beloved Christmas corgi decoration—and trust us, it's peak holiday energy. Tune in for all the feels and a few laughs.  

Second Date Update:
They met at a mall for tacos — what could go wrong? Nate says the date was “over before it started,” but Emily might have a different take. No second date, but plenty to talk about.  

What is Your Favorite Scent?
Marcus and Taylor dive into their favorite scents, plus a few unexpectedly weird ones they can’t help but love.  

Good News:
An 8-year-old in Burlington turned a Little Free Library into a food pantry, and the neighborhood responded in a big way. Tune in for a feel-good story about kindness and community during tough times.

Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing?
This episode, Marcus and Taylor unpack the idea of whether having a boyfriend is “embarrassing,” and Taylor offers Marcus some insider insight into the modern dating world from a woman’s perspective.  

Is it Too Early to Put Up the Christmas Decorations?
Marcus shares his plans for putting up Christmas decorations, and we debate whether it’s actually too early to start.  

What's Trending:
This week, we break down the latest on the government shutdown, take a nostalgic trip with Sesame Street, decode the quirks of area codes, and catch up on the biggest sports headlines.  

Second Date Update:
Lauren and Matt matched on Tinder and hit it off over burgers and bad dating stories. She thought it was the start of something real — he thought it was... a lot. What went wrong? We unpack their first (and only) date.  

How Long Does it Take for a Guest to Overstay Their Welcome?
How long is too long? Marcus and Taylor share personal tales of guests who overstayed their welcome.

What is Your Favorite Scent?
Marcus and Taylor dive into their favorite scents, plus a few unexpectedly weird ones they can’t help but love.  

How Much Exercise it Takes to Burn Off Halloween Candy:
Struggling to resist the leftover Halloween candy? You’re not alone. The National Academy of Sports Medicine broke down how much exercise it takes to burn off popular treats—numbers that might make you think twice before dipping back into the candy bowl.  

What's Trending:
On today’s episode, we’re talking standout eats from the SF Street Food Festival, our favorite finds at the SF Coffee Festival, and the latest stories shaking up the sports world.  

Second Date Update:
Coffee by the beach, shared love for surfing and punk music, and laughs about big families in a town where everyone knows everyone… Eric calls in to tell us about Tara and get to the bottom of why she ghosted him.  

Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing?
This episode, Marcus and Taylor unpack the idea of whether having a boyfriend is “embarrassing,” and Taylor offers Marcus some insider insight into the modern dating world from a woman’s perspective.  

Good News:
San Jose’s own Chrizia Dela Rosa has been named a 2026 California Teacher of the Year—celebrated for her 14 years of inspiring students in the East Side Union High School District.

Show Start: Jillian shares her personal IVF and egg retrieval journey, offering insight, emotion, and hope along the way  

Introducing our new show host: Jon Comouche! We’re giving him some advice—and maybe teasing him a little about how handsome he is.  

What's Trending: From the dazzling super moon lighting up the sky to rumors about Ariana Grande’s secret project, we’re covering it all. Plus, the most popular baby names of 2025 are out, and we’re celebrating both National Nacho Day and National Men Make Dinner Day, so there’s plenty to talk (and eat) about!  

Second Date Update: Cocktails, chemistry, and… ghosted? Evan shares his story of meeting Mariah and the date that didn’t go as planned.  

How Much Exercise it Takes to Burn off Halloween Candy: We’re breaking down how long it really takes to burn off your favorite Halloween treats—from pushups for Snickers to jump rope for Reese’s. You might rethink that second Twix after hearing this one!  

Good News: A 12-year-old junior lifeguard in Southern California didn’t hesitate when a boat capsized, helping save five people from the water. From flagging down a jet ski to giving first aid, his quick thinking proves why the junior lifeguard program is so important—and everyone is expected to be okay!

Have You Ever Gotten Out of a Ticket After Being Pulled Over?:
Producer Taylor tells Marcus how she dodged a ticket this morning, and Marcus might have a story to top it. You won’t want to miss this one!
Participate in the talk back!  

Common Actions that Cause ER Visits: Doctors see it every day—avoidable accidents that didn’t have to happen. “Today” asked ER doctors which injuries they wish people would stop causing themselves. Here’s what they said

• Not using ladders and step ladders properly
• Riding E-bikes or E-scooters without a helmet
• Petting unfamiliar animals
• Yard work without gloves, helmets or goggles
• Slicing onions and avocados with a knife
• Overdoing it with supplements

What's Trending: We’re talking everything from the wild weather to Jelly Roll’s new “Veggie Roll” era, a questionable Kraft Mac & Cheese flavor, and of course—celebrating National Donut Day the only way we know how.  

Second Date Update: Mark called about Elise saying she’s classy, funny, and full of laughs. They bonded over favorite movies, swapped quotes, and even dreamed about escaping the work grind with a weekend getaway. Sparks were definitely flying so why did she ghost?  

Good News: A 16-year-old from Pacifica is spreading kindness one sandwich at a time. Every Saturday in November, Maddy Guzzetta makes peanut butter and jelly sandwiches to share with neighbors in need—and her simple act is inspiring the whole community.  

How To Tell Your Wife She Has Too Much Botox: Should you say something or keep your mouth shut? Would your husband say something?
Talk Back: Marcus reads your talkbacks on "How to tell your wife she might have too much Botox". Some said their husbands should just show them the bill, others said it’s all about asking questions and being supportive and reminding them they’re loved no matter what!  

Things We Are All Guilty of Not Throwing Away: It’s wild how much stuff we hang onto, especially the “free” things we swear will be useful someday. Truth is, most of them just collect dust. Here are 11 things you probably have stashed somewhere, waiting for their big moment that still hasn’t come.

• Fast food napkins
• Condiment packets
• Hotel toiletries
• Pre-packaged screws from furniture
• Old chargers
• Silica gel packets from packages
• Plastic takeout utensils
• Gift bags and tissue paper
• Grocery store plastic bags
• Cardboard boxes and bubble wrap
• Twist ties

Talk Back: Listeners confessed they’re still hanging onto clothes that don’t fit “for when I finally get back to the gym” — and jars of random screws that clearly go to nothing. We all have that mystery hardware drawer we’re weirdly protective of.  

What's Trending: It’s Election Day, so make sure you’ve cast your vote on Prop 50! We’re also celebrating National Candy Day with a poll on our Instagram; which candy stash are you going for first? And yes, we’ve got the Dad Joke of the Week to keep things sweet and silly.  

Second Date Update: Nico met Jessica for sushi and says the spark was undeniable. They bonded over 80’s music, joked about pineapple on pizza, and shared a few sweet moments. Everything felt right, until she suddenly stopped responding. What really happened after that perfect date?  

Have You Ever Gotten Out of a Ticket After Being Pulled Over?:
Producer Taylor tells Marcus how she dodged a ticket this morning, and Marcus might have a story to top it. You won’t want to miss this one! Participate in the talk back!  

Good News: When her black wedding gown was stolen, San Antonio teacher Kathleen Sanchez feared the worst — until a stranger stepped in with a replacement in time for her Halloween wedding. She tells the story of generosity, gratitude, and celebrating with fiancé Andres Martinez.

How To Tell Your Wife She Has Too Much Botox: Should you say something or keep your mouth shut? Would your husband say something?
Talk Back: Marcus reads your talkbacks on "How to tell your wife she might have too much Botox". Some said their husbands should just show them the bill, others said it’s all about asking questions and being supportive and reminding them they’re loved no matter what!  

Awkward Halloween Moment: Marcus and Taylor dive into all the details of their Halloween night — from the awkward encounters to the unexpected laughs. They swap funny stories, share behind-the-scenes moments, and relive the highlights (and lowlights) of the evening. It’s a mix of cringe, comedy, and classic post-Halloween chaos you won’t want to miss.  

What's Trending: From Britney Spears deleting her Instagram…again, to the 49ers’ big win, Marcus covers all the hot topics heading into the weekend plus, a quick look at the forecast and a tasty nod to National Sandwich Day.  

Second Date Update: Tyler met Brooke on Hinge and thought their dinner date in the city was magic. They shared great laughs, real spark, and genuine connection. But after a quick hug goodbye, she disappeared. What happened?  

A Third of Gen Z Think Using Cash Is Cringe A new Harris Poll for Cash App found that nearly a third of Gen Z thinks using cash is straight-up cringe. It’s not just that they prefer digital payments — many say cash feels outdated altogether. The study surveyed over 2,000 U.S. adults to see how people really feel about carrying bills in 2025.  

Good News: A mom in the U.K. helped her deaf daughter experience her first Halloween — with the help of some amazing neighbors who learned sign language just for her. Marcus' share this sweet story of community and compassion.

Happy Halloween!  
Marriage proposals The Most Successful Marriage Proposals Happen at Home: What were the other somewhat successful places?

• Outdoors (18.4%)
• Beach (12.4%)
• Restaurant (5.6%)
• Mountains (3.9%)

Talk Back: How were you proposed to? This week, Marcus asks the big question: how did you get proposed to? From a romantic birthday dinner at El Jardin in Santana Row to an Amazing Race-style proposal that deserves its own reality show, listeners share their epic engagement stories. Warning: you might catch proposal fever!  

This Is The Advice Adults Over 30 Want Gen Z To Know Gen Z:

• Learn how to cook
• Nobody cares about you more than you do
• If you wouldn't ask for advice from someone, don't take criticism from them either
• Indulge in your hobbies
• Take care of your teeth
• Live offline
• Take care of your body

Talk Back:

• Fall forward, be fearless, put your whole heart into something
• If you never try you have already failed

What's Trending:

• What's your Halloween costume?
• Daylight Savings
• Billie Eilish accepting the Music Innovator Award and calling out the wealthy
• Furry Friday: Marin Humane Society

Second Date Update: It started with a concert under the stars and ended with burritos and a hug that felt like something more. Jen says her night with Cody was effortless — fun, easy, and full of chemistry. But a few weeks later, he’s gone silent. What gives?  

Ghost Stories: Taylor shares a real-life ghost story that still gives her chills and just in time for Halloween! Marcus tries to get to the bottom of what really happened… or was it something supernatural?  

Good News: Bay Area restaurants are coming together to support families affected by the SNAP benefit suspension, offering free or discounted meals to help ensure no one goes hungry, starting November 1st.  
SF:

• The Rusty Ladle
• Al Pastor Papi

Oakland:

• Monster Pho
• Understory
• Puerto Rican Street Cuisine

San Jose:

• Toni and Alba's Pizza
• Shrimp'n Ain't Easy(Food Truck)

Santa Clara:

• Gamers Heaven

Concord/Antioch:

• OG Tacos

  Last Minute Costume Idea's

• Ghost
• Cat
• Zombie

The Most Successful Marriage Proposals Happen at Home: What were the other somewhat successful places?

1. Outdoors (18.4%)
2. Beach (12.4%)
3. Restaurant (5.6%)
4. Mountains (3.9%)

Talk Back: How were you proposed to?
This week, Marcus asks the big question: how did you get proposed to? From a romantic birthday dinner at El Jardin in Santana Row to an Amazing Race-style proposal that deserves its own reality show, listeners share their epic engagement stories. Warning: you might catch proposal fever!  

Irrational Fears: Producer Taylor and Marcus are diving into their biggest Halloween-season fears! From Taylor’s fear of the dark to Marcus’s rodent phobia, they’re baring it all (and probably regretting it). Listeners chime in with their own creepy confessions, from crocodiles to alligators and everything in between. What are you afraid of?  

Second Date Update: Felix called his date with Dana “a rom-com come to life.” Sushi in Japantown, playful banter, karaoke till closing — pure magic. So why did she disappear?  

What's Trending: Bay Area restaurants are coming together to support families affected by the SNAP benefit suspension, offering free or discounted meals to help ensure no one goes hungry, starting November 1st.  
SF:

• The Rusty Ladle
• Al Pastor Papi

Oakland:

• Monster Pho
• Understory
• Puerto Rican Street Cuisine

San Jose:

• Toni and Alba's Pizza
• Shrimp'n Ain't Easy(Food Truck)

Santa Clara:

• Gamers Heaven

Concord/Antioch:

• OG Tacos

  TikTok Trends: Marcus and Taylor are diving into the wild world of TikTok trends — from the 50 Jump challenge to the Whitney Houston trend that they actually joined in on! Yep, you can catch their moves (and maybe a little embarrassment) on the Star101.fm Instagram and TikTok!  

Grandma Hobbies to Try This Winter:

1. Crocheting
2. Completing a coloring book
3. Knitting
4. Puzzling
5. Baking
6. Scrapbooking
7. Playing a board game
8. Jewelry making
9. Needlepointing
10. Embroidering

Most Americans Spend a Third of Their Paycheck within 12 hours: Feel like your paycheck is gone as soon as you get it? Researchers find that’s pretty much true for a lot of us. According to new research, the average American spends more than a third of their paycheck within the first 12 hours of receiving it.  

What's Trending: Bay Area restaurants are coming together to support families affected by the SNAP benefit suspension, offering free or discounted meals to help ensure no one goes hungry, starting November 1st.  
San Francisco:

• The Rusty Ladle
• Al Pastor Papi

Oakland:

• Monster Pho
• Understory
• Puerto Rican Street Cuisine

San Jose:

• Toni and Alba's Pizza
• Shrimp'n Ain't Easy(Food Truck)

Santa Clara:

• Gamers Heaven

Concord/Antioch:

• OG Tacos

Second Date Update: Josh thought his tapas date with Tamara was a hit—great food, flirty banter, and zero awkward silences. They agreed: team books, not screens. He left confident. She left… and never texted back  

The Most Successful Marriage Proposals Happen at Home: What were the other somewhat successful places?

1. Outdoors (18.4%)
2. Beach (12.4%)
3. Restaurant (5.6%)
4. Mountains (3.9%)

Good News: Meet Poppy, 10, from Holborough Lakes. Diagnosed with dyslexia, she calls it her ‘superpower’—and with an IQ of 136, she just joined Mensa! Poppy hopes her story will show that thinking differently is a gift, not a limitation.

Most Popular Slang
Are you constantly confused by what young people are saying? The slang used by Gen Z and Gen Alpha is influenced by social media and Internet subculture and it changes all the time, A new study reveals the most popular slang today. 

• “6-7” - With more than 141-thousand Google searches, it’s number one, but it has no literal meaning. The “brain rot” humor was popularized by a Skrilla song and “6-7” is often paired with exaggerated hand gestures.
• “Bop” - It means someone who has a lot of romantic partners, as in someone who “bops around from person to person.” 
  
• “Mogging” - It means outdoing someone by being more attractive or successful.
  
• “Looksmaxxing” - Similar to “mogging,” it refers to things people do to enhance their physical appearance, including everything from skincare to plastic surgery.
• “Huzz” - Another term for an attractive girl or someone you want to impress.
• “Chopped” - It’s kind of the opposite of “huzz,” meaning something ugly, undesirable or unattractive.
• “Big back” - This refers to someone who’s physically large or eats a lot of food.
• “Glazing” - It means heaping excessive and/or insincere praise on someone.
• “Zesty” - Someone who’s lively, exciting or energetic.

Update On Marcus' Car
Marcus' car was found six blocks from where it was stolen. Nothing was missing. Nothing was messed up. It's like these thieves realized there are cameras everywhere two seconds after they stole it. Btw, if the police do recover your stolen car you have twenty minutes to pick it up or it is going to impound. However, they will not charge you for the first two days it is there. He's lucky, my friend Kim's car was stolen and the thieves peed in it.

Taylor Swift
Love the new album, but we couldn't help noticing the racier lyrics and themes. My husband teased me saying she is not a little girl anymore. However, I am just not used to Tay Tay dropping F-bombs. D-bombs and talking about Travis Kelce's Redwood tree. Again, love the album but would like to hear from parents. How do you feel about the grown-up lyrics? 

Second Date Update
Ethan said he met Lacey online and they hit up a local brewery. They sampled flights, shared a giant pretzel, and even talked about taking a hike together soon. He thought it was an easy setup for a second date. She ghosted, and he wanted to know why.

Marcus' Car Got Stolen
First and foremost, this is not a reflection of the Bay Area. Marcus drives a Chevy Bolt. He was outside one of his tequila shops in Bernal Heights. His car was gone in three minutes. Obviously, this was professionals. Not necessarily for Marcus, but for his electric car. He called everyone he knows in law enforcement and is currently driving a loaner. We are hoping police find it...unless it is trashed, then we want a new one.

I Don't Want To Stay At My Parents
Brenna in Burlingame DM'd us with this question:
     Now that I’m working in another state, my parents are always on me to visit more. I love doing          that, but it’s become a problem because I insist on staying in a hotel. Nothing against my                  parents, but they’ve got a small one-bedroom place,  and I don’t want to sleep on the couch…          and I refuse to sleep in their bed while they sleep on the floor. I can’t seem to get my mom                from getting upset and taking this as a personal slight. Tips? Thanksgiving and                                  Christmas are coming, and I don’t need the drama.
(Talkbacks, please)
   
K-Pop Demon Hunters
Corey watched this movie over the weekend. She fell in love with the song, 'Golden,' which made her want to see it. Then Bad Bunny did a great sketch on   SNL which was hilarious. Now, Marcus feels left out. Is there a current   phenomenon that you are totally behind on and do you have FOMO or couldn't care less. Now, I must find the perfect cosplay for Halloween. #Huntr/xForever
 
Second Date Update
Rachel called us about Mateo. They connected on Bumble and grabbed drinks   in Berkeley.  Rachel said they talked about work, music, and even shared   nachos. She said she thought he  was charming. But Mateo ghosted.

The New Cutesy Term Is "Productivity Theater."
With remote work, a confusing economy, and the rise of productivity-tracking software, this age-old practice has taken on a new level of complexity. As tech has enabled employers to track work down to the level of a mouse click, employees have responded by prioritizing visible work over important tasks or even deploying their own tech to fool the system. It’s a zero-sum game that nobody wins. Here’s why productivity theater is growing and what to do about it.
Youngins' Let Us Know When We Are Old

• Sorry to break it to you, but you’re officially “old” when you hit 49, according to a new survey of children.
• As if that’s not bad enough, 20% of the youngsters think people stop having fun at age 30.
• The kids think the worst parts about getting old are the aches and pains (56%), wrinkles (52%) and grey hair (49%).⠀
  

A Listener Asks For Help Because Someone Is Stealing Her Lunch At Work
Carla in San Jose writes:  I’ve been noticing that the meals I bring from home keep disappearing from the office fridge. I spend hours cooking big batches of food so I can pack healthy lunches for the week, and more than once, my labeled container has just vanished. I’m pretty sure I know who’s doing it, but I don’t want to stir up office drama or make things weird with our small team. Still, this is happening over and over, and I’m sick of it. Do I confront the person directly, leave a note, or bring it up with my boss?
 
Second Date Update
Mark said he met Vanessa online and their coffee date felt relaxed and easy. They sipped lattes, talked about work, and even walked the pier. He thought it was the start of something. She ghosted, and he wanted to know why.