Everyone uses the word "sin," but what does it actually mean? Pastor Heath Lambert kicks off 2026 by answering this fundamental question using Romans 3:23-24, revealing why sin is more than just breaking rules - it's falling short of God's glory, and why that matters for the gospel.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction: First episode of 2026
0:49 - The question: What is sin?
1:15 - We use words we don't really understand
1:52 - Disagreement about what sins are
2:45 - Romans 3:23: Falling short of God's glory
3:51 - The standard: God's perfect holiness
4:46 - Sin as falling short of the standard
5:11 - Practical reality 1: God defines sin, not us
5:50 - Don't add to God's list of sins
6:06 - Example: Is eating pizza a sin?
6:30 - Don't cross off sins from God's list
6:53 - God's glory as the standard in His Word
7:07 - The result: Guilt and punishment
7:25 - Romans 3:24: Justified by grace through redemption
7:56 - Redemption as economic transaction
8:46 - Final answer: Sin, guilt, and gospel hope
Key Topics Covered
The Universal Word - How everyone uses "sin" but with different meanings
Common Misconceptions - The property example and sexual behavior debates
Romans 3:23 Definition - Falling short of the glory of God
The Divine Standard - God's infinite righteousness, glory, and holiness
Two Dangerous Errors - Adding sins God didn't name and removing sins He did
The Pizza Illustration - Why we can't make up our own list of sins
Cultural Pushback - When society rejects biblical definitions of sin
God's Word as Authority - Why Scripture alone defines what sin is
Sin as Debt - The financial metaphor for our spiritual condition
The Gospel Solution - Romans 3:24 and redemption through Christ
Justified by Grace - How Christ's righteousness covers our sin debt
Scripture References
Romans 3:23 - All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God
Romans 3:24 - Justified by grace through redemption in Christ Jesus
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" is now available. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
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What were the best books of 2025? Pastor Heath Lambert shares not just two, but six of his favorite books from this year - including Tolkien's classic adventure, a contemporary novel with masterful prose, Churchill's wartime leadership, and Jonathan Edwards on heaven. If you're looking for your next great read, this episode delivers.
Timestamps
0:00 - Welcome to the final episode of 2025
0:33 - Annual book recommendations tradition
1:02 - Breaking the old two-book constraint
2:13 - Six favorite books from 2025
2:52 - Book 1: The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien
4:47 - Book 2: Theo of Golden by Alan Levi
8:46 - Book 3: The Life of Martin Lloyd-Jones by Iain Murray
12:35 - Book 4: The Splendid and the Vile by Erik Larson
17:32 - Book 5: On Theology by John M. Frame
20:38 - Book 6: Heaven is a World of Love by Jonathan Edwards
22:18 - Looking forward to 2026 reading
Key Topics Covered
Reading as a Hobby - Heath's love for books and why he reads extensively
The Hobbit - Tolkien's masterful children's story that adults will love
Theo of Golden - A contemporary novel with beautiful writing and gospel implications
Martin Lloyd-Jones Biography - The influential 20th-century preacher who prioritized God's Word
Churchill and the Blitz - Larson's gripping history of Britain's darkest hour
Contemporary Theology - Frame's accessible reflections on major theological debates
Jonathan Edwards on Heaven - A short classic about love and the world to come
Masterful Writing - Examples of excellent prose from multiple genres
Historical Heroes - Why Churchill and Lloyd-Jones matter for today
Gospel Living - How good literature helps us be salt and light
Book List Summary
The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien - Classic fantasy adventure
Theo of Golden by Alan Levi - Contemporary novel with beautiful prose
The Life of Martin Lloyd-Jones by Iain Murray - Biography of influential preacher
The Splendid and the Vile by Erik Larson - Churchill and the Battle of Britain
On Theology by John M. Frame - Accessible theological reflections
Heaven is a World of Love by Jonathan Edwards - Short classic on love and eternity
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" is now available. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Order now and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
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How did a parasitic plant become one of Christmas's most romantic traditions? Pastor Heath Lambert explores the fascinating origins of mistletoe - from its festive aesthetics to ancient pagan symbolism to surprising biblical connections. Merry Christmas from Marked by Grace!
Timestamps
0:00 - Annual Christmas traditions series
1:48 - This year's topic: Kissing under the mistletoe
1:54 - Why a parasite became a Christmas tradition
2:34 - Personal Lambert family mistletoe story
3:10 - Three explanations: Aesthetics, pagan symbolism, biblical connection
3:33 - Explanation 1: The aesthetics - green, red, white in winter
4:26 - Explanation 2: Ancient druid beliefs about mistletoe
4:36 - Magical powers and fertility symbolism
5:20 - From fertility symbol to pledge of marriage
5:33 - Incorporation into 1700s Christmas celebrations
5:46 - The berry-picking tradition and kiss limits
6:34 - Explanation 3: Biblical connection to the holy kiss
7:04 - 1 Corinthians 16:20: Greet one another with a holy kiss
7:31 - Cultural vs. normative aspects of the command
8:11 - Mistletoe as opportunity for Christian affection
Key Topics Covered
Annual Christmas Tradition - Marked by Grace's yearly exploration of Christmas customs
Mistletoe as Parasite - Understanding what mistletoe actually is botanically
Aesthetic Appeal - Red berries, green leaves, white flowers in dark winter months
Why Red and Green - The natural colors that define Christmas decorations
Ancient Druid Beliefs - How pagans saw mistletoe as magical and fertile
Fertility Symbolism - Growth in dead winter leading to magical associations
Evolution to Romance - From fertility symbol to marriage pledge to Christmas kiss
The Berry Tradition - Historical limits on kissing that were quickly abandoned
Biblical Holy Kiss - New Testament commands to greet with affection
Cultural Adaptation - How the principle of affectionate greeting transcends the specific form
Scripture References
1 Corinthians 16:20 - Greet one another with a holy kiss
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" is now available. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Order now and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
Is it wise to go to a dangerous country for missions, or is it reckless to risk your life? Pastor Heath Lambert examines two contrasting examples from Paul's ministry that reveal the surprising answer: It depends on your calling, not your safety.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and the question
1:01 - Connection to Christmas on Mission sermon series
1:27 - Jesus as the greatest missionary
2:06 - The question about dangerous mission fields
2:56 - The answer: It depends
3:19 - Biblical example 1: Paul flees danger (Acts 9:23-25)
4:44 - Apostolic example of preserving life and fleeing
5:30 - Biblical example 2: Paul runs into danger (Acts 20:22-23)
6:45 - Paul knows danger awaits but goes anyway
7:28 - Two contradictory examples from the same missionary
8:05 - How do you know which to do?
8:28 - Acts 20:24: The key to Paul's decision-making
9:08 - The question is not about your safety
9:41 - The question is about finishing your course
10:02 - Paul flees to continue preaching, runs to danger to preach
10:41 - What you must figure out: Your calling
11:13 - Personal example: Heath's calling to Jacksonville
12:15 - Give up safety, pursue Jesus, trust God
Key Topics Covered
Christmas and Missions - How the incarnation argues for going on mission
Jesus the Missionary - The second person of the Trinity leaving heaven for earth
The Safety Dilemma - Wisdom versus recklessness in dangerous missions
Paul Fleeing Damascus - Acts 9 example of preserving life by escaping danger
Paul Running to Jerusalem - Acts 20 example of embracing danger despite warnings
Two Opposite Responses - How the same missionary handled danger differently
Acts 20:24 Framework - Not accounting life as precious, finishing the course
The Real Question - Not safety but calling and gospel ministry
Discerning Your Calling - Prayer, family, trusted believers, and pastoral counsel
Personal Application - Heath's own calling to stay in Jacksonville despite threats
The Mission Priority - Life has value only in service to God's call
Scripture References
Acts 9:23-25 - Paul escapes Damascus in a basket
Acts 20:22-24 - Paul goes to Jerusalem knowing danger awaits
Acts 20:24 - Not accounting life as precious, finishing the ministry
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" is now available. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Order now and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
Is it contradictory to be pro-life and support the death penalty? Pastor Heath Lambert addresses this controversial question by examining what the Bible teaches about protecting innocent life, God's justice, and the role of government in punishing murder.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and the question
1:10 - Who Tyler Robinson is
1:55 - The question: Is supporting death penalty pro-life?
2:04 - The answer: Yes, if found guilty
2:23 - Addressing the apparent contradiction
3:02 - Exodus 20:13: You shall not murder
3:25 - Death penalty based on the sixth commandment
3:43 - Genesis 9:6: Shedding blood for shedding blood
4:17 - Both positions hate murder
4:31 - Erica Kirk's remarkable forgiveness
5:54 - Personal vs. governmental forgiveness
6:16 - Sin against the individual and the state
6:41 - Romans 13:3-4: The state as God's servant
7:19 - The government's role in divine justice
8:04 - Final answer: Yes, it is pro-life
Key Topics Covered
The Pro-Life Foundation - Understanding the biblical command against murdering innocent life
Murder vs. Capital Punishment - Why the sixth commandment informs both positions
Genesis 9:6 Principle - Life is so precious that taking it forfeits your own
The Image of God - Why human life has such sacred value
Innocent vs. Guilty Life - The crucial distinction in pro-life ethics
Erica Kirk's Forgiveness - A remarkable demonstration of grace and mercy
Personal vs. State Forgiveness - Why individual forgiveness doesn't eliminate state responsibility
Romans 13 Teaching - The God-ordained role of government in justice
The Sword of Justice - Understanding the state as God's avenger against wrongdoing
Protecting Society - Why enforcing consequences for murder defends all life
Scripture References
Exodus 20:13 - The sixth commandment against murder
Genesis 9:6 - Whoever sheds man's blood, by man shall his blood be shed
Romans 13:3-4 - The state as God's servant bearing the sword
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" is now available. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Order now and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
If you say you're content being single but then enter a relationship, were you really content? Pastor Heath Lambert addresses this honest question with biblical wisdom about contentment, changing circumstances, and his own surprising college love story.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and the question
0:46 - The question: Were they really content?
1:40 - The answer: Yes, of course you can be
2:03 - Why: Both contentment and relationships are flexible
2:22 - Philippians 4:11: Paul's secret of contentment
3:24 - Being content in singleness
3:47 - Contentment in changing circumstances
4:27 - The sin of grumbling vs. the grace of contentment
4:46 - Personal story: College and "ring by spring"
5:17 - Entering senior year single with no prospects
6:08 - Meeting Lauren in October, dating by February
6:26 - Being content single, then content in relationship
6:43 - The challenge: Don't wish for something different
7:05 - The secret through Jesus's grace
Key Topics Covered
The Contentment Question - Understanding if pursuing relationship contradicts previous contentment
Flexible Not Absolute - Why both contentment and relationship status change
Philippians 4:11 Framework - Paul's teaching on learning contentment in every circumstance
The Pattern of Contentment - Being content in plenty and in need, in abundance and in lack
Contentment in Singleness - Trusting God has given you the best thing for this moment
Changing Circumstances - How to stay content as your situation changes
The Sin of Grumbling - Whether single or in relationship, discontentment is the problem
Personal Testimony - Heath's own journey from contentment in singleness to meeting his wife
The True Secret - Contentment comes through Christ's strengthening grace
Scripture References
Philippians 4:11-13 - Learning to be content in every circumstance through Christ
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" is now available. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Order now and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
When family relationships break down and members "end up not getting along," is that sinful? Pastor Heath Lambert provides biblical guidance on the two main reasons families don't get along and how to handle both sin and differences in family relationships.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and the question
0:55 - The significance of "end up not getting along"
1:13 - The answer: Yes, it's a sin
1:16 - Two main reasons families don't get along
1:31 - Reason 1: Sin separates families
2:16 - Sin can be dealt with through confession and forgiveness
3:23 - Reason 2: Human differences between family members
3:51 - Examples of normal human differences
4:02 - Ephesians 4:1-2: Bearing with one another in love
5:14 - How to handle sin vs. how to handle differences
5:28 - When ending up not getting along becomes sin
6:10 - Family doesn't have to be your favorite people
6:40 - Family as training ground for life
6:50 - The best families in a fallen world
Key Topics Covered
The End Result Problem - Why "ending up not getting along" indicates unresolved issues
Sin as Separator - How sin brings destruction, pain, and conflict into family relationships
The Path to Reconciliation - Confession to God and family, asking for forgiveness
Granting Forgiveness - The biblical command to forgive when asked
Human Differences - Understanding that different preferences aren't sins
Bearing With One Another - Ephesians 4:2 and the call to tolerate differences in love
Two Different Solutions - Confession and forgiveness for sin, bearing in love for differences
When Conflict Becomes Sin - Failing to confess, forgive, or bear with differences
Family as Training Ground - How family relationships prepare us for all relationships
Realistic Expectations - Why the best families aren't perfect, just repentant and patient
Scripture References
Ephesians 4:1-2 - Walking worthy and bearing with one another in love
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" is now available. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Order now and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
Can the devil hear our prayers when we pray out loud? Does sharing our struggles make us vulnerable to spiritual attack? Pastor Heath Lambert addresses this fascinating question with biblical wisdom about prayer, spiritual warfare, and the power of praying together.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and the question
1:01 - The answer: Sure, it's possible
1:17 - 1 Peter 5:8: The devil prowls around
2:27 - The devil is not omnipresent
3:05 - More than just an answer is needed
3:38 - Don't let fear stop you from praying
3:55 - 1 Peter 5:7: Cast your anxieties on Jesus
4:26 - Understanding watchfulness vs. anxiety
5:11 - The biblical command to pray out loud
5:41 - James 5:16: Confess and pray together
6:11 - Personal story: Accountability partner's concern
7:28 - The Bible never warns against praying out loud
7:44 - The power of prayer outweighs the risk
8:02 - Trust God, not fear of the devil
Key Topics
The Prowling Devil - Understanding Satan's limited but real presence on earth
Satan's Limitations - Why the devil is not omnipresent like God
The Real Risk - Yes, demons could potentially overhear prayers
The Greater Command - Why fear of Satan must not override biblical commands to pray
Casting Anxiety on Jesus - 1 Peter 5:7 as the context for spiritual warfare
The James 5:16 Command - Why we must confess sins and pray together out loud
Watchfulness vs. Fear - The difference between being sober-minded and being anxious
The Power of Prayer - Why prayer strengthens us far more than it exposes us
Personal Story - A real-life encounter with this very concern
Scripture References
1 Peter 5:7 - Casting all anxieties on Jesus
1 Peter 5:8 - The devil prowls around like a roaring lion
James 5:16 - Confess sins and pray for one another
Job 1-2 - Satan moving to and fro on the earth
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" is now available. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Order now and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
When Jesus said "some standing here will not taste death until they see the kingdom of God," what did He mean? Pastor Heath Lambert unpacks this challenging passage and reveals why the kingdom isn't just a future event - it's a present spiritual reality you can enter today.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and the question
0:47 - Reading Luke 9:27
1:37 - Why this passage is so confusing
2:25 - Common interpretations: Future events
2:56 - Pentecost, resurrection, crucifixion, transfiguration theories
4:13 - A different approach: Kingdom as present reality
4:38 - Luke 10:9-11: The kingdom has come near
5:10 - Luke 11:20: The kingdom in Jesus's miracles
5:43 - Luke 16:16: Entering the preached kingdom
6:09 - Luke 17:21: The kingdom in your midst
6:33 - Luke 18:16: Children and the kingdom
6:47 - What the kingdom of God actually is
7:45 - How to enter the kingdom right now
8:15 - The disciples experienced it when they believed
Key Topics
The Confusing Statement - Why Jesus's words about not tasting death puzzle readers
The Future Event Problem - Why viewing the kingdom as only future creates difficulties
Multiple Kingdom Theories - Pentecost, resurrection, crucifixion, and transfiguration interpretations
Kingdom as Present Reality - How Luke's Gospel presents the kingdom as here and now
Five Key Kingdom Passages - Luke 10, 11, 16, 17, and 18 revealing the kingdom's nature
The Kingdom Definition - A spiritual realm where God is in charge and seen to be in charge
Inhabiting the Kingdom - How people enter through repentance and faith in Christ
Already and Not Yet - The kingdom is present now but comes in fullness in the new heavens and earth
Childlike Faith - How to enter the kingdom today through trusting Jesus
Scripture References
Luke 9:27 - Jesus's statement about seeing the kingdom
Luke 10:9-11 - The kingdom has come near
Luke 11:20 - The kingdom comes through Jesus's miracles
Luke 16:16 - The kingdom is preached and entered
Luke 17:21 - The kingdom in your midst
Luke 18:16 - Children and the kingdom of God
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" is now available. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Order now and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
Should Christians be ambitious at work? Pastor Heath Lambert provides a nuanced biblical answer: Usually no, ambition is good - but it depends on your motivation and life balance. Discover when ambition honors God and when it becomes sinful.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and the question
0:40 - The usual answer: No, ambition is not bad
1:01 - Why hard work and excellence matter
1:29 - Working for Jesus, not just human bosses (Colossians 3:23)
2:14 - Most people need more ambition, not less
3:02 - But sometimes the answer is yes
3:27 - When ambition is bad: Wrong motivation
3:55 - The pride problem - building your own kingdom
4:25 - When ambition is bad: Life out of balance
4:46 - The lack of love problem
5:15 - Multiple responsibilities beyond work
6:22 - Final answer: Usually good, but can be sinful
Key Topics Covered
Biblical Work Ethic - Why Christians should pursue excellence and hard work
Working for Jesus - Understanding Christ as your ultimate boss in any job
The Modern Problem - Why most people need more ambition, not less
Two Warning Signs of Bad Ambition - Pride in motivation and imbalance in life
The Pride Test - Are you building your kingdom or serving Christ?
The Love Test - Are you neglecting family, church, and other relationships?
Multiple Callings - Balancing work with family, church, and community responsibilities
Wisdom in Work - How to be ambitious while remaining faithful in all areas
Scripture References
Colossians 3:23 - Working heartily for the Lord, not for men
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" is now available. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Order now and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
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Pastor Heath Lambert tackles a painful but important question about sexual purity and marriage. His answer may surprise you: Yes, virginity is required, but there's something even more important - repentance and God's mercy.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and the question
0:43 - Understanding the pain behind this question
2:07 - The clear biblical answer: Yes, virginity is required
2:34 - Genesis 2:24-25 and the creation design for marriage
3:40 - Sexual exclusivity in marriage
4:18 - But there's more to say
4:48 - A more important requirement: Repentance (Proverbs 28:13)
5:24 - Two options for responding to sin
6:02 - The path of concealment leads to death
6:16 - The path of confession and forsaking leads to mercy
6:46 - Multiple requirements for marriage
7:23 - Final answer: Virginity required, but mercy available
Key Topics Covered
The Biblical Standard - What Genesis teaches about sexual purity and marriage design
Sexual Exclusivity - Understanding the "one flesh" union and its boundaries
The Painful Reality - Addressing sexual sin in the past with sensitivity
The Greater Requirement - Why repentance matters even more than virginity
Two Paths for Sinners - Concealment leads to death, confession leads to mercy
The Gospel Hope - How Jesus makes forgiveness and restoration possible
Viewing Others with Mercy - How to evaluate a potential spouse with a sexual past
Universal Sinfulness - Why all of us fall short and need God's grace
Scripture References
Genesis 2:24-25 - God's design for marriage and sexual union
Proverbs 28:13 - Concealing vs. confessing transgressions
Romans 3:23 - All have sinned and fall short of God's glory
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" is now available. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Order now and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
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Is scrolling through social media on company time a violation of the eighth commandment? Pastor Heath Lambert addresses this practical workplace ethics question with biblical wisdom, revealing why the answer is more nuanced than a simple yes or no.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and the question
0:21 - Book announcement: The Ten Commandments
1:03 - Three foundational realities of the question
1:26 - The eighth commandment: You shall not steal
2:23 - Why this question is complicated
2:54 - The impossibility of 100% productivity
4:10 - Four considerations for workplace ethics
4:23 - Consideration 1: Work heartily for the Lord (Colossians 3:23)
5:23 - Consideration 2: Never cross your conscience (Romans 14:23)
6:28 - Consideration 3: Understand your job performance evaluation
8:13 - Consideration 4: Live openly, don't conceal
8:37 - Final answer: A framework for ethical work
Key Topics Covered
- The Eighth Commandment Foundation - Understanding what "You shall not steal" means for employee-employer relationships
- The Three Realities - Time, money, and the exchange that creates the ethical question
- Time Theft vs. Reality - Why perfect productivity is impossible yet stealing is still real
- Working for Jesus First - How viewing Christ as your ultimate boss changes everything
- The Conscience Principle - Why subjective conviction matters even in gray areas
- Job Performance Standards - Understanding how different roles require different evaluations
- Openness vs. Concealment - Why hiding behavior reveals dishonesty
Scripture References
Exodus 20:15 - The Eighth Commandment against stealing
Colossians 3:23 - Working heartily for the Lord, not for men
Romans 14:23 - Whatever does not proceed from faith is sin
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" is now available. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family. Order now and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
We've all told them - those small lies that seem to help rather than hurt. However, Pastor Heath Lambert explains why even "little white lies" violate the ninth commandment and why God takes all dishonesty seriously, regardless of its size.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and book release (week two)
1:25 - The question: Is a white lie wrong?
2:04 - What makes a lie seem "white" or harmless
2:26 - Common examples of white lies
3:06 - Defining what a lie actually is
3:53 - The ninth commandment (Exodus 20:16)
4:40 - The story of Ananias and Sapphira (Acts 5)
5:55 - The real issue: lying to God, not just people
6:29 - Why the size of the lie doesn't matter
7:02 - The relational pressure behind white lies
7:29 - What's really dark in our hearts
8:08 - Truth-telling alternatives to white lies
9:08 - Final answer: All lies are wrong
Key Topics Covered
- The Nature of White Lies - Why "victimless" lies seem helpful but are still sinful
- Biblical Definition of Lying - The difference between mistakes and intentional false reports
- The Ninth Commandment - What "You shall not bear false witness" means for everyday life
- Ananias and Sapphira's Fatal Mistake - Why God judged them so severely for their "small" lie
- Lying to God, Not Just People - Understanding who we really sin against when we lie
- Relational Pressure and Dishonesty - Why we tell white lies and what it reveals about our hearts
- Truth-Telling Alternatives - Practical ways to handle difficult situations without lying
Scripture References
Exodus 20:16 - The Ninth Commandment against false witness
Acts 5:1-11 - The story of Ananias and Sapphira
Acts 5:4 - "You have not lied to men but to God"
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" is now available. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family. Order now and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
Heath Lambert addresses one of the most critical moral questions of our time: Does abortion violate the sixth commandment against murder? Using biblical and scientific evidence, he provides a clear three-part framework for understanding why the answer is yes.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and book release celebration
1:47 - The question: Does abortion count as murder?
2:14 - The sixth commandment (Exodus 20:13)
2:42 - Why this explanation matters in today's culture
3:11 - Three ingredients to the answer
3:17 - Ingredient 1: The nature of murder defined
4:53 - Ingredient 2: The nature of babies (biblical and scientific)
6:03 - Ingredient 3: The nature of abortion
7:08 - Final answer: Yes, abortion is murder
Key Topics Covered
- The Sixth Commandment Foundation - Understanding what "You shall not murder" means biblically
- Defining Murder Precisely - Why intentional, innocent, and human are all crucial terms
- Biblical Evidence for Human Life - What Scripture teaches about life at conception
- Scientific Reality - How biology confirms human life begins at fertilization
- Self-Defense and Capital Punishment - Why not all killing constitutes murder
- Cultural Deception - Addressing claims that abortion can be a Christian position
- The Moral Clarity Christians Need - Why believers must understand and articulate this truth
Scripture References
Exodus 20:13 - The Sixth Commandment against murder
Psalm 51:5 - David's acknowledgment of life at conception
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" has been released. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family. Order now and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
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Is it okay for kids to tease their parents? Pastor Heath Lambert tackles this intriguing question by examining what the fifth commandment teaches about honoring parents while still enjoying family humor. His answer might surprise you: "It depends."
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and book release announcement (September 30th)
1:36 - The question: Can I make fun of my parents?
2:14 - The fifth commandment challenge (Exodus 20:12)
2:54 - The careful answer: "It depends"
3:18 - Scenario 1: Mutual enjoyment and family fun
4:58 - Pastor Lambert's family example
5:33 - Scenario 2: Good intentions but hurt feelings
6:45 - The "if you're the only one laughing, you're wrong" rule
7:43 - Scenario 3: Making fun with malicious intent
8:25 - What dishonoring parents actually means
9:03 - Final answer: Honor with healthy humor
Key Topics Covered
- The Fifth Commandment Foundation - Understanding what it means to honor father and mother
- Three Scenarios for Family Humor - When teasing is healthy vs. when it crosses the line
- Intent vs. Impact - Why good intentions don't always excuse hurtful humor
- Family Communication - How to navigate humor when feelings get hurt
- The Dishonor Line - Distinguishing between loving laughter and belittling behavior
- Healthy Family Relationships - Building joy and closeness while maintaining respect
Scripture References
Exodus 20:12 - The Fifth Commandment about honoring parents
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" releases September 30th. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Pre-order and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
Many Christians casually refer to Sunday as "the Sabbath day," but is this biblically accurate? Pastor Heath Lambert examines what Scripture actually teaches about the Sabbath and reveals why this common assumption needs correction.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and physical book reveal
1:36 - The question: Is Sunday the Sabbath day?
2:50 - Why we need Scripture to answer this question
3:04 - The fourth commandment and Sabbath timing (Exodus 20)
3:24 - The Sabbath is on the seventh day (Saturday)
4:02 - Roman influence on day names
4:40 - God's rest on the seventh day
4:55 - New Testament worship patterns
5:20 - What the New Testament calls Sunday
5:36 - The "Lord's Day" in Revelation 1:10
6:04 - Final answer: Sunday is not the Sabbath
Key Topics Covered
- The Fourth Commandment Foundation - Understanding what Exodus 20 teaches about Sabbath timing
- Biblical Day Counting - How the seven-day week originates from Scripture
- Historical Context - Roman influence on modern day names and Saturday's etymology
- Old Testament vs. New Testament - The shift from Sabbath worship to first-day worship
- Terminology Matters - Why the New Testament uses "Lord's Day" instead of "Sabbath" for Sunday
- Common Christian Mistake - Why pastors and authors incorrectly use "Sabbath" for Sunday
Scripture References
Exodus 20:8-11 - The Fourth Commandment and Sabbath day
Revelation 1:10 - The Lord's Day reference
Acts and 1 Corinthians - New Testament worship patterns
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book, "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People," releases September 30th. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Pre-order and download a free chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
Many Christians assume the third commandment, "You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain," is primarily about using bad language. But Pastor Heath Lambert reveals the deeper biblical meaning behind this sacred command and explains why it's about much more than cursing.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and new book announcement
1:55 - The question: Is the third commandment about cursing?
2:09 - What the third commandment actually says (Exodus 20:7)
2:40 - Common misconceptions about breaking this commandment
3:07 - The real meaning: misusing God's name vs cursing
3:39 - Why the third commandment is primarily about something deeper
4:13 - Biblical view on cursing and foul language (Ephesians 5:4)
4:54 - Multiple ways to violate the third commandment
Key Topics Covered
- The Text of the Third Commandment - Understanding what Exodus 20:7 actually teaches about God's name
- Common Misunderstanding - Why many people think this commandment is only about profanity
- The Real Issue: Vain Use of God's Name - How we empty God's name of its intrinsic weight and importance
- Cursing and the Bible - What Scripture teaches about foul language and crude talk
- Multiple Violations - The many ways people can misuse God's sacred name beyond profanity
- Proper Reverence - How to honor God's name in our daily speech and worship
Scripture References
Exodus 20:7 - The Third Commandment
Ephesians 5:4 - Instructions about speech and crude talk
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" releases September 30th. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Pre-order the book or get your free download of the first chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
With pictures of Jesus everywhere - from children's Bibles to church walls to Christmas pageants - many Christians wonder if these images violate the second commandment. Pastor Heath Lambert explains what the Bible really teaches about divine images and when they become problematic.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and new book announcement
1:29 - The question: Are pictures of Jesus wrong?
1:56 - The second commandment explained (Exodus 20:4-6)
2:50 - The incarnation factor: Jesus as the image of God
3:43 - Why we can't see Jesus physically now
4:13 - What the second commandment actually prohibits
4:53 - The difference between making images and worshiping them
5:35 - The key issue: worship vs. artwork
6:13 - Practical application: Pictures, movies, and TV shows
6:48 - Prioritizing Scripture over images
Key Topics Covered
- The Second Commandment's True Meaning - Understanding what Exodus 20:4-6 actually forbids about divine images
- The Incarnation Challenge - How Jesus as "the image of the invisible God" affects our understanding
- Act vs. Intent - Why the commandment focuses on worship, not artistic creation
- Artwork vs. Idolatry - The crucial distinction between making images and bowing down to them
- Practical Guidelines - How to approach pictures of Jesus in children's books, movies, and church art
- Scripture Supremacy - Why God's written word must take precedence over any visual representation
Scripture References
Exodus 20:4-6 - The Second Commandment
Colossians 1:15 - Jesus as the image of the invisible God
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" releases September 30th. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts to friends, neighbors, and family.
Pre-order the book or get your free download of the first chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
Ever wondered what the Bible says about the worst sin you could commit? Pastor Heath Lambert tackles this challenging question by examining Jesus's response about the greatest commandment in Matthew 22. The answer might surprise you - it's not what most people think.
Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction and new book announcement
1:49 - The question: What is the biggest sin?
2:39 - Jesus and the greatest commandment (Matthew 22)
4:31 - Connecting commandments to sin
5:36 - Pride as the biggest sin
6:07 - James 3:16 and the fruit of pride
7:00 - Jesus as our freedom from pride
Key Topics Covered
- The Greatest Commandment Foundation - Jesus identifies love as the supreme biblical command when challenged by religious lawyers
- Biblical Method for Understanding Sin - How to approach difficult theological questions by examining what Scripture emphasizes most
- Pride as the Root Sin - Why self-exaltation stands as the fundamental violation of God's law and love
- The Connection Between Love and Sin - Understanding how the greatest commandment reveals the greatest transgression
- Practical Application - How recognizing pride helps us grow in our relationship with Jesus Christ
Scripture References
Matthew 22:36-39 - The Greatest Commandment
James 3:16 - Pride and its consequences
About The Ten Commandments Book
Heath Lambert's new book "The Ten Commandments: A Short Book for Normal People" releases September 30th. This accessible guide explains how God's commands apply to modern life without requiring theological education. Perfect for personal study, evangelism, or gifts.
Pre-order the book or get your free download of the first chapter at fbcjax.com/tencommandments
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com
Will disciplining children for tantrums and outbursts damage their willingness to share feelings and communicate openly? Discover four biblical principles that show how proper discipline actually strengthens rather than harms parent-child relationships.
TIMESTAMPS
0:00 - Introduction: The Heart of a Torn Parent
1:09 - The Core Question About Discipline and Relationship
1:33 - Principle 1: Spankings Are Not the Only Thing We Do
2:57 - Principle 2: Spankings Are for Sin, Not Feelings
3:31 - Clarifying What We Punish vs. What We Discuss
4:21 - Teaching Children to Identify Their Sin
5:15 - Principle 3: Discipline Is Parental Obedience to God
5:39 - Proverbs 13:24 - Love Disciplines Diligently
6:31 - Building Character Through Parental Integrity
6:57 - Principle 4: Spanking Is Not the Last Step
7:45 - The Lambert House Rule: Don't Leave Angry
8:22 - Ending Discipline with Prayer, Grace, and Restoration
8:44 - When Discipline Goes Wrong vs. Right
MAIN POINTS
- Spankings Are Not the Only Thing We Do
Physical correction should be a very small percentage of overall parenting time. Parents who discipline have earned that right through much larger investments of positive relationship building. - Discipline is placed within a broader context of love and care throughout daily life.
- Spankings Are for Sin, Not Feelings or Preferences
Children should never be punished for having feelings, needing to talk, or making mistakes. - Discipline is specifically for sin - violations of God's law. Parents must clearly communicate the difference between emotions that need discussion and sinful behaviors that require correction.
- Discipline Is Parental Obedience That Models Integrity
Following Proverbs 13:24, parents demonstrate love through diligent discipline. This shows children that parents have integrity and follow God's commands, building rather than undermining confidence in the parent-child relationship over a lifetime.
- Discipline Should End with Restoration, Not Anger
The Lambert house rule was to never leave discipline sessions angry. After confession, forgiveness, and correction, the process should end with prayer, grace, and often laughter and affection. The goal is restoring the relationship broken by sin through faithfulness to God's Word.
SCRIPTURE REFERENCES
Primary Passages:
Proverbs 13:24 - Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him
Supporting Context:
Proverbs 22:15 - Folly is bound up in the heart of a child
Proverbs 23:13-14 - Do not withhold discipline from a child
Hebrews 12:5-11 - God disciplines those he loves
Ephesians 6:1-4 - Children obey parents; fathers don't provoke to anger
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 - Teaching children diligently
Colossians 3:21 - Fathers, do not embitter your children
Have a question you'd like answered? Send it to markedbygrace@fbcjax.com