In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen talk about why most New Year goals die fast and what to do instead. They unpack the difference between setting goals and building daily disciplines, then pull back the curtain on the origin story of Dustin’s book Becoming a Man After God. Dustin shares how a season of overload pushed him to the edge and how one question shifted everything from doing things for God to learning how to do life with God. Together, they challenge men to prioritize what matters, build rhythms that protect their walk with Christ and their families, and pursue holistic stewardship that includes spiritual, mental, and physical health. They close with a simple reflection tool that turns listening into action so growth becomes real and repeatable.

Chapters

00:00 Why goals die by January 5 and why daily agenda matters
02:01 Dustin’s goals and the action plans behind them
04:48 Spiritual goals at home and intentional discipleship with kids
05:26 Luke’s goals, Working Genius, and teaching core principles to children
07:12 Why Dustin wrote Becoming a Man After God
08:55 The overload season, the warning signs, and the breaking point
13:30 The five part framework that shaped the book
18:00 Who you are becoming and how decisions shape identity
20:37 Discipline, rhythms, Daniel 1, and the power of small choices
23:42 Why you never arrive and why that is the point
27:56 Holistic stewardship and why spiritual, mental, and physical are connected
29:59 Reflection questions that turn content into change

Resources mentioned in this episode
Becoming a Man After God by Dustin Alley - https://a.co/d/5KZkPq0
Working Genius assessment and certification - https://www.workinggenius.com/
John Beasley, Mind and Body Fitness - https://mindandbodystrength.com/
Greater Oaks Foundation and Spartan fundraiser - https://fundraise.spartan.com/page/Dustin-26972750
Dustin’s Airbnb in Kissimmee Florida - https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/1569707871787434572?source_impression_id=p3_1767051701_P35rKxpUcJYzGAiH

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen kick off Season 2 by looking back on what God did in Season 1 and casting vision for what is next. They talk honestly about real life constraints, why they are shifting toward shorter episodes, and how the goal stays the same: serve men, strengthen families, and equip leaders with practical, biblical help. A major focus is Dustin’s book Becoming a Man After God and how churches can use it as a mens ministry resource through the included group facilitation guides. They also highlight the value of reflection after listening, the need for rest as worship, and how God sometimes leads by stopping you, not just by accelerating you.

Chapters

00:00 Season 2 kickoff and life updates
04:39 Season 1 recap, wins, losses, and what God taught them
10:23 Vision for Season 2 and the shift to shorter weekly episodes
13:06 Overview of the book Becoming a Man After God and the five principles
22:02 How to use the book and facilitation guides in a mens ministry or Bible study
28:58 The 15 minute format and how to turn listening into action
34:36 Valleys, being stopped by God, and the book Deeper
38:10 Shout outs, non sponsor promotions, and ways to connect

Resources mentioned in this episode
Becoming a Man After God by Dustin Alley -https://a.co/d/iA5BV3q
Group facilitation guides for the book, available by request as free PDFs - dustin@menaftergod.net
Deeper by Dane C Ortlund - https://a.co/d/ft43HrK
Riverside FM for recording - riverside.fm
Men of Valor Ministries - https://www.movministries.org/
John Beasley, Mind and Body Fitness - https://mindandbodystrength.com/
Huberman Lab podcast - https://www.hubermanlab.com/podcast
The Diary of a CEO podcast - https://www.youtube.com/@TheDiaryOfACEO

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Adrian Ferrari discusses the universal struggle of resisting temptation and the importance of wisdom in overcoming it. Drawing from Proverbs 2, he emphasizes that God provides wisdom as a safeguard against the seductive nature of temptation. The conversation explores the significance of setting boundaries, seeking accountability, and understanding the consequences of giving in to temptation. Adrian encourages listeners to actively pursue wisdom through scripture and prayer, and to rely on God's strength to resist temptation, ultimately leading to a thriving relationship with Him.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Temptation and Wisdom

10:23 The Role of Boundaries and Accountability

15:47 The Consequences of Giving In to Temptation

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen discuss the critical importance of developing future leaders within ministry. They emphasize the need for intentional leadership development strategies, recognizing potential in individuals, and the significance of a biblical foundation in leadership practices. The conversation also highlights effective communication techniques to engage audiences and the role of leaders as guides rather than heroes in the development process. In this conversation, Luke Sorensen and Dustin Alley discuss the importance of modeling leadership through Jesus, recognizing potential in others, and the significance of spiritual maturity in developing future leaders. They emphasize the need for intentional relationships, effective recruitment strategies, and the importance of character development in leadership roles within the church. The discussion highlights practical steps for pastors and leaders to cultivate a thriving men's ministry and foster a supportive community. 

Chapters

00:30 Empowering Future Leaders in Ministry

3:10 The Importance of Leadership Development Pipelines

7:14 Recognizing and Nurturing Potential

10:23 Building a Biblical Foundation for Leadership

12:34 Engaging Communication Strategies

17:39 The Role of the Guide in Leadership Development

21:04 Modeling Leadership Through Jesus

22:19 Seeing Potential: The '10' Above Their Heads

25:15 Identifying Spiritual Maturity in Leaders

30:31 Recruiting and Developing Future Leaders

38:27 Building Intentional Relationships for Leadership Growth

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In this episode of Men After God, Dustin Alley delves into Proverbs chapter two, emphasizing the importance of diligently seeking wisdom as a vital aspect of spiritual growth. He discusses how wisdom is a treasure that requires effort to uncover, paralleling the pursuit of wisdom to the fervor one would have in searching for gold. Alley encourages listeners to apply biblical wisdom in their daily lives and to seek God's guidance earnestly, highlighting that true wisdom comes from understanding and living according to God's Word.

Chapters

0:30 Introduction to Men After God and Proverbs

1:29 The Pursuit of Wisdom

6:39 Diligence in Seeking Wisdom

12:40 Applying Wisdom in Daily Life

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, host Luke Sorenson sits down with Jason Tester for a powerful conversation on the true nature of forgiveness.

Jason reminds us that forgiveness isn’t something we muster up on our own — it is a gift from God, made possible through Jesus, not through our own strength, feelings, or willpower.

Together, Luke and Jason explore:
- Why forgiveness is spiritually impossible without Christ
- The internal battle between our flesh and the Spirit
- Why your feelings aren’t the foundation of forgiveness
- How God empowers us to forgive what we could never let go of alone

If you've ever struggled to forgive someone who hurt you, battled resentment, or felt like you just can’t move on, this episode will give you clarity, hope, and a path forward rooted in the gospel, not self-effort.

🧭 Key Takeaways
-Forgiveness comes from Jesus, not from our feelings.
-The ability to forgive is a divine gift.
-True forgiveness is a reflection of Jesus's love.

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, host Luke Sorensen sits down with Dr. Bryan Samms to unpack a powerful story of family, faith, and calling. Bryan shares the journey behind his new book, Rescued, the miracle of adoption in his family, the priority of marriage and kids in ministry, and the gospel picture of our adoption in Christ. You will hear how God provides in impossible seasons and how churches and men can live true religion by caring for the fatherless and strengthening the home.

Whether you are exploring adoption, navigating infertility, or simply seeking to grow in your faith as a man after God, this episode will encourage your faith and provide you with practical next steps.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• Adoption is a vivid gospel picture of our new name, new family, and new inheritance in Christ
• A man’s first ministry is his home and his marriage must remain first after God
• God provides when we walk in obedience even when the path is costly or unclear
• True religion includes caring for the orphan and the widow and the local church can lead the way
• Infertility and waiting can become seasons of prayer, fasting, and deep dependence on God
• Every man can participate in orphan care through prayer, giving, serving, and church initiatives
• Preaching and leadership gifts grow through coaching, learning, and humble practice

🕐 Time Stamps

00:01 Welcome and guest intro
 00:45 Bryan’s story and heart for building men
 03:50 Family first ministry and life priorities
 08:47 Why Rescued was written and the big idea
 12:37 The gospel picture of adoption from Scripture
 23:14 Infertility and the waiting years
 25:30 The first adoption and a miracle of provision
 27:25 God gives a son after ten years
 28:59 Emergency placement becomes forever family
 31:34 Another child added and trusting God’s provision
 36:39 How singles and couples can support adoption and foster care
 41:22 Small group curriculum overview and how it works
 43:49 Where to get the book and church resources

🎯 Resources Mentioned

• Book Rescued by Dr. Bryan Samms
• Small group video curriculum for churches
• Church Advance podcast
• Pulpit Advance coaching for preachers
• River City Baptist Church

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, host Luke Sorensen tackles a struggle that many men face but few recognize — drifting away from God. Luke explains how spiritual drift often happens not through rebellion, but through complacency and inaction, and he offers a practical framework for getting back on course.

Using the STEER acronym, he challenges listeners to:

• Stop coasting,
• Take charge of their spiritual direction,
• Engage intentionally with God,
• Evaluate their growth, and
• Return to their anchor — Jesus Christ.

Through biblical insight and real-life application, Luke encourages men to live with spiritual focus, accountability, and intentionality. Whether you feel stuck, distracted, or distant from God, this episode will help you recognize the drift, adjust your direction, and steer your faith back toward Christ.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• If you feel distant from God, it's not Him who moved.
• Drifting away from God often happens through inaction.
• Intentionality is key to maintaining a relationship with God.
• The STEER acronym helps guide spiritual growth.
• Evaluate your spiritual journey regularly to avoid drifting.
• Engage intentionally with God through prayer and Bible study.
• Accountability in relationships strengthens faith.
• The culture will not lead you closer to God.

🕐 Time Stamps

2:20 The Concept of Drifting Away from God
 4:39 The Importance of Intentionality
 6:30 Using the STEER Acronym for Spiritual Growth
 10:30 Recognizing the Signs of Drifting
 13:17 The Role of Scripture in Preventing Drift
 16:53 The Dangers of Spiritual Complacency
 20:42 Taking Charge of Your Spiritual Course
 22:01 Navigating the Cultural Drift
 25:14 Intentional Living and Spiritual Discipline
 28:31 The Importance of Scripture Memorization
 32:06 Building Relationships and Accountability
 36:30 Evaluating Spiritual Growth and Direction
 41:26 Returning to Your Anchor

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In this powerful episode of the Men After God podcast, host Luke Sorensen challenges the popular cultural mantra that “you are enough.” Luke reminds listeners that true strength and identity are not found in self-confidence, but in Christ-dependence.

Through honest conversation and Scripture-centered teaching, he explores why acknowledging our insufficiency is the first step toward spiritual maturity. Luke reveals how God uses weakness to shape character, deepen faith, and draw men closer to Himself. He also offers practical reflection questions to help listeners identify areas where they’ve been relying on self rather than on the Savior.

If you’ve ever felt the pressure to “measure up,” this episode offers biblical clarity, comfort, and challenge — reminding every man that you were never meant to be enough on your own… because Christ already is.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• Christ's sufficiency is the true source of strength.
• Surrendering to God is essential for true strength.
• Living in Christ's identity frees us from performance pressure.
• Confidence comes from knowing who lives inside of us.
• Expectations can be burdensome; Christ carries our load.
• Faith is about surrender, not self-sufficiency.
• Reflection on our weaknesses can lead to growth in faith.

🕐 Time Stamps

2:24 The Concept of 'You Are Enough'
 6:08 Christ's Sufficiency vs. Our Insufficiency
 12:46 The Burden of Expectations
 18:42 Finding Strength in Weakness
 25:20 God's Provision and Guidance
 31:14 Living in Christ's Sufficiency

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In this powerful launch to the Men After God forgiveness series, host Luke Sorensen tackles one of the hardest parts of Christian manhood — learning to forgive without reopening old wounds. Drawing from biblical truth and personal insight, Luke explores how forgiveness sets your soul free while boundaries protect your peace.

This episode unpacks the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, reminding men that while forgiveness is a command from God, trust must be rebuilt through repentance and changed behavior. Luke also provides practical steps for releasing bitterness, confronting hurt in a godly way, and finding strength to move forward without guilt or resentment.

If you’ve ever struggled to forgive someone who hurt you — or wondered how to set boundaries without feeling unloving — this episode will bring clarity, conviction, and comfort through God’s Word.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• Forgiveness is a command and can be freeing.
• Reconciliation is not always a part of forgiveness.
• Self-reflection is crucial in the forgiveness process.
• Forgiveness is a gift of grace, not deserved.
• You are part of the solution in forgiveness.
• Forgiveness is a daily practice, not a one-time event.
• Vengeance belongs to the Lord, not to us.
• Forgiveness does not ignore justice.
• Confrontation is necessary for true forgiveness.
• The story of Jacob and Esau illustrates forgiveness and reconciliation.

🕐 Time Stamps
 :56 Exploring Forgiveness and Boundaries
 1:53 Understanding the Nature of Forgiveness
 4:46 The Complexity of Relationships and Forgiveness
 8:32 The Importance of Self-Reflection in Forgiveness
 11:23 Biblical Perspectives on Forgiveness
 15:05 The Difference Between Forgiveness and Reconciliation
 17:03 The Power of Forgiveness in Healing
 19:44 The Role of Faith in Forgiveness
 23:58 The Challenge of Forgiveness
 25:59 Confrontation and the Process of Forgiveness
 29:50 The Need for Boundaries in Forgiveness
 30:47 Practical Steps to Forgiveness

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In this powerful episode of the Men After God podcast, host Luke Sorensen challenges men to grow stronger throughthe storms of life — not just survive them. Luke unpacks five biblical steps every man can take to turn pain into purpose and adversity into spiritual maturity.

From seeking God in hard seasons and guarding your heart and mind, to worshiping through the struggle and serving others even when it hurts, this episode offers practical, faith-driven principles to help men rise above trials and walk closer with Christ.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, discouraged, or weary in your journey, this conversation will remind you that God uses every season — even the hard ones — to shape you into the man He’s called you to be.

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, host Luke Sorensen takes a moment to express heartfelt gratitude for the listeners and reflects on the powerful legacy of Charlie Kirk’s life and faith. Luke explores the historical origins of the term “Christian”—how early believers were recognized not by labels but by their visible faith, radical love, and courageous witness for Christ.

Drawing parallels between the early church and today’s cultural climate, Luke challenges men to live boldly and unashamed of their identity in Jesus, engaging their communities with the same faith-filled courage that marked the first Christians. This episode is both a tribute and a call to action for men to stand firm in their faith, embody authentic Christian love, and lead with conviction in a world that desperately needs the Gospel.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• Revival and renewal are happening in the Christian community.
• The term 'Christian' originated as a label for followers of Christ.
• Visible faith and radical love are crucial for Christians today.
• Living by faith is challenging but rewarding.
• Courage is necessary for sharing one's faith.
• The early Christians were known for their unity and love.
• Public identity as Christians comes with responsibility.
• The Fellowship of the Unashamed encourages bold living for Christ.

🕐 Time Stamps
 2:24 The Impact of Charlie Kirk
 7:16 Revival and Renewal in Christianity
 10:20 Understanding the Term 'Christian'
 18:40 Visible Faith and Radical Love
 25:33 Living by Faith and Courage
 39:40 The Fellowship of the Unashamed

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, host Luke Sorensen tackles one of the toughest aspects of biblical manhood: making hard decisions as a spiritual leader in the family. Luke introduces the D.A.R.E. framework — Discern the voice of God, Align with the Word, Run it through Wise Counsel, and Execute with Courage — a powerful tool for men who want to lead with conviction and clarity.

Through practical insights and biblical wisdom, Luke emphasizes the importance of seeking God’s guidance, aligning every decision with Scripture, and surrounding yourself with godly counsel. He also addresses the tension between pleasing God versus pleasing people, urging listeners to root their leadership in a personal relationship with the Lord.

Whether you’re facing a difficult choice in your home, ministry, or personal life, this episode will equip you to lead with faith, wisdom, and courage.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• How to apply the D.A.R.E. framework for godly decision-making.
• Why discerning God’s voice is essential for spiritual leadership.
• The power of aligning decisions with biblical truth.
• The role of wise counsel in leadership growth.
• How to choose pleasing God over pleasing people with courage and confidence.

🕐 Time Stamps
 1:28 Navigating Life's Decisions
 8:33 The DARE Framework for Decision Making
 9:57 Discern the Voice of God
 16:45 Align with the Word
 22:15 Run it Through Wise Counsel
 29:50 Execute with Courage
 36:01 Pleasing God vs. Pleasing People

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Join us for a throwback all the way back from the first year of our podcast! Join Dustin, Pastor Cary, and Lance Schmidt as they talk about the joys, difficulties and blessing of working in business or ministry with your family.

Timestamps:

·  2:00 Steady Strength

·  4:40 Overdrive v Underdrive

·  11:40 Being intentional with your kids

·  24:20 Following God’s will

·  27:35 Ministering with your child

·  31:42 Working with your dad

·  37:00 Balancing work and family

·  45:50 Beginning the journey of working together with family

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Quotable Quotes:

• “Success is obedience to Jesus, like period. If I'm disobeying him, I'm failing. And if I'm obeying him, I'm succeeding, regardless of what the results look like.” -Cary Schmidt

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Resources

·  Pastor Cary’s New Book “Steady Strength” https://amzn.to/46nMwTX

·  “Stop Trying” by Cary Schmidt https://amzn.to/47hAdtL

·  “First Things First” by Stephen Covey https://amzn.to/3R85OZi

·  Emmanuel Worship https://ebcnewington.com/emmanuel-worship/

·  Connect with Pastor Cary Schmidt! https://caryschmidt.com

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, host Luke Sorensen dives into the profound call of living fully for God, examining both the joy and the cost of discipleship. Luke unpacks what it means to follow Christ with sacrifice, obedience, and intentionality, urging men to reflect on their daily walk and the legacy they leave behind.

Drawing from biblical truths and personal experiences, he challenges listeners to embrace their God-given roles as leaders, servants, and disciple-makers. The conversation highlights the importance of living with eternal perspective, investing in others, and finding joy in obedience to Christ.

If you’ve ever wondered what it really takes to live as a man after God’s heart, this episode will equip and encourage you to pursue Christ passionately and lead in a way that impacts generations to come.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• Every man ends up living for something.
• The cost of following Jesus is costly, but the reward is eternal.
• We are called to be full-time Christians, regardless of our job titles.
• Living for Christ means being a living sacrifice.
• Only what is done for Christ will last.
• Consider the legacy you will leave behind.
• Daily surrender is essential for a fulfilling Christian life.
• Selflessness can lead to profound impact on others.
• Joy is found in obedience and serving others.
• Count the cost of your choices and their eternal impact.

🕐 Time Stamps
 1:57 Living for God: The Cost of Discipleship
 7:00 Legacy and Impact: Considering the Cost
 12:57 The Call to Surrender and Serve
 18:40 Living Sacrificially: The Joy of Obedience
 24:57 Selflessness and Sacrifice: A Call to Action
 32:10 Daily Surrender: Living for Others
 36:49 Reflection and Conclusion: Counting the Cost

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In this Monday Bible Study episode of Men After God, host Adrian Ferrari unpacks the wisdom of Proverbs to show how true strength is found not in force or harsh words, but in gentle strength rooted in God’s truth. Adrian highlights the power of communication, the necessity of humility, and the pursuit of righteousness as essential qualities of biblical manhood.

Listeners will gain practical insights on how to tame the tongue, seek wise counsel, and embrace correction with a teachable spirit. The episode also encourages men to prioritize their relationship with God, lead their families with grace, and live authentically as examples of Christ-like strength.

If you want to grow as a man of valor, wisdom, and spiritual discipline, this conversation will challenge and equip you to lead with both courage and gentleness.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• Winning an argument can lead to losing connection.
• A gentle answer is more powerful than harsh words.
• Living for God's approval is more important than others'.
• Your tone can influence the atmosphere at home.
• Success is achieved through community and counsel.
• Choosing quality over quantity leads to a more fulfilling life.
• God hears the prayers of the righteous.
• Humility is essential for honor and growth.
• Pursuing righteousness is a continuous journey.
• Men are called to be examples of faith and strength.

🕐 Time Stamps

3:31 Winning Arguments Without Losing Connection
 4:24 Understanding Proverbs for Skillful Living
 5:46 Taming the Tongue: The Power of Words
 12:31 Living Before the Lord, Not the Crowd
 16:43 Carrying a Cheerful Heart
 21:01 Seeking Counsel and Embracing Correction
 25:24 Choosing Better Over More
 28:40 The Importance of Humility and Prayer
 29:32 Conclusion: Pursuing Righteousness Together

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In this special episode of the Men After God podcast, host Luke Sorensen reflects on the tragic passing of Charlie Kirk, honoring his legacy of faith, courage, and conviction. Luke explores the emotional weight of grief and the sobering reminder that life is fragile, yet deeply meaningful when lived for Christ.

This heartfelt tribute challenges Christian men to consider the kind of legacy they are leaving behind. Drawing from biblical truth, Luke emphasizes the importance of living with daily obedience, walking in the sovereignty of God, and leading families with unwavering faith.

In the face of tragedy, this episode serves as both a reflection and a call to action: to live purposefully, stand firm in truth, and point others to Jesus through the lives we lead.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• Charlie Kirk's legacy is a testament to living for Christ.
• Emotional responses to tragedy can be both justified and necessary.
• Legacy is built through daily obedience and faithfulness.
• Christian men are called to lead and respond to injustice.
• Living with eternity in mind shapes our daily choices.
• The sovereignty of God remains intact despite chaos.
• Daily obedience is essential in honoring those who have passed.
• We must choose to live boldly and with purpose.
• Our actions today impact the legacy we leave behind.
• Eternity is real, and our lives should reflect that truth.

🕐 Time Stamps
 1:28 Honoring Charlie Kirk's Legacy
 4:14 Emotional Responses to Tragedy
 8:29 Living with Purpose and Faith
 12:50 The Call to Action for Christian Men
 17:04 Legacy and Daily Choices
 21:02 The Sovereignty of God and Our Response
 25:25 Living with Eternity in Mind
 30:20 The Master’s Masterpiece and Conclusion

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In this deeply personal episode of the Men After God podcast, hosts Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen tackle the often-overlooked reality of burnout among Christian men. Drawing from personal experiences, Dustin and Luke share practical insights on how to recognize the warning signs of burnout, develop emotional intelligence, and make intentional choices that prioritize faith, family, and long-term health.

Dustin also opens up about his own journey and why he has chosen to step back from the Men After God podcast for a short season in order to focus on his family. Together, the hosts discuss the importance of community support, the wisdom of saying no, and the spiritual strength found in Scripture when life feels overwhelming.

This candid conversation offers encouragement, biblical perspective, and practical tools for men who feel the weight of burnout pressing in.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• Recognizing the signs of burnout is crucial for mental health.
• It's okay to take a step back from responsibilities.
• Emotional intelligence plays a key role in preventing burnout.
• Community support is vital during challenging times.
• Prioritizing family is essential for overall well-being.
• Scripture can provide comfort and guidance during burnout.
• It's important to reach out to friends and check on them.
• Self-care is not selfish; it's necessary for health.
• You can do something uncomfortable when it's the right thing to do.
• Burnout can affect those around you before it affects you. 

🕐 Time Stamps

0:28 Personal Experiences with Burnout
 4:06 Recognizing the Need to Step Back
 5:52 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence
 8:01 Identifying Signs of Burnout
 18:00 The Decision to Take a Break
 22:26 Team Dynamics and Support
 27:11 Understanding Burnout and Its Stigma
 28:14 The Hidden Impact of Burnout
 31:31 Recognizing and Addressing Burnout
 38:59 Scriptural Insights for Navigating Seasons
 47:54 The Importance of Community Support
 49:19 Taking Action: Surrender and Support

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