Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter is a podcast for women standing in the in-between. The season where life looks full on the outside, but something inside is quietly asking for more truth, more ease, more alignment.In this trailer, I share what this space is really about: honest conversations, gentle reflections, and intentional living in midlife. Not fixing yourself. Not reinventing overnight. But coming home to who you are now, and designing a life that can actually hold you.If you’re navigating change, questioning old identities, or craving a softer, truer way forward, this podcast is for you.Midlife isn’t the end of your story. It’s the chapter where you finally get to write it on your own terms.For more rituals, gentle reminders, and reflections on becoming, visit Kiransinghuk.com or join me on Substack at Kiransinghuk.substack.com.

If the start of a new year leaves you feeling more tired than inspired, this episode is for you.In this reflective conversation, I’m inviting you to pause before the lists, the goals, and the pressure to reinvent yourself. We explore why traditional New Year’s resolutions so often leave us feeling like we’ve failed and how midlife gently asks us to choose a different way forward.I share the moment I stopped chasing rules and goals and instead chose one guiding word, ease, and how that simple shift began to quietly reshape my life. Not through doing less, but through doing what mattered more. Through moving with myself, not against myself.This episode includes a heartfelt Letters from Midlife reflection from a woman who feels exhausted before the year has even begun and wonders how to set intentions when inspiration feels out of reach. Together, we explore why exhaustion isn’t a flaw, it’s information, and how intentions rooted in support, not self-correction, can become a powerful compass in midlife.We talk about:Why resolutions often fail in midlifeThe difference between fixing yourself and living as your true selfHow to choose intentions that support your nervous systemWhy rest, stability, and less pressure are valid intentionsHow small, gentle rituals create lasting changeThis isn’t about discipline or becoming someone new. It’s about devotion to yourself. About choosing alignment over effort. About beginning the year from honesty, not expectation.If you’re standing at the edge of January and feeling the weight of “shoulds,” this episode offers a softer place to land.Here’s to a New Year that feels like coming home. Here’s to intentions that hold you, not haunt you. Here’s to the New Year, True You.For more slow rituals, gentle reminders, and reflections on becoming, visit Kiransinghuk.com or join me on Substack at kiransinghuk.substack.com.

This is the final episode of Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter for 2025, and it’s a quiet, honest pause before we step into whatever comes next.In this deeply personal episode, I reflect on a year that didn’t unfold the way I imagined it would. There were no neat timelines or glow-up moments, just a messy, demanding season that asked more of me than I expected. A year where strength felt heavy, certainty felt distant, and simply getting through the day sometimes felt like the work.I share what it was like to stand in the messy middle, questioning myself, feeling behind, and wondering whether all the inner work was actually leading anywhere. And I also share the part that surprised me most: this was the year I came home to myself. Not loudly or dramatically, but steadily, honestly, and for good.We talk about learning to stop postponing yourself, celebrating growth that doesn’t photograph well, recognising the glimmers that bring the nervous system back to safety, and entering what I now lovingly call the no-f**ks era, not reckless or loud, but grounded, clear, and deeply self-trusting.This episode also holds space for real milestones alongside the quieter work, and explores why I’m not rushing into “my best year yet,” why I want 2026 to feel different, and why presence matters more than pressure in midlife.This final episode of the year is sponsored by Harriet Hills Nutrition, whose work aligns beautifully with this season of recalibration and care. Harriet is hosting the Re-Set | Re-Nourish: Luxury Wellness and Detox Day at the stunning Sopers House, a space created for women who are ready to pause, soften, and tend to themselves with intention. Not as a fix. Not as a punishment. But as an act of devotion.If you’re ending this year feeling tired, reflective, quietly proud, or simply still standing, this episode is for you. You didn’t fall behind. You survived the year that shaped you.Here’s to the next chapter. One honest conversation at a time.For more slow rituals, gentle reminders, and reflections on becoming, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore my Digital Library, or join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

This episode is a gentle hand on your back for the moments when anxiety arrives quietly and takes up more space than you expected.In this Letters from Midlife conversation, I respond to a letter from a woman navigating that familiar midlife anxiety that seems to come from nowhere. The racing thoughts. The tight chest. The sense of being on edge, even when life looks fine on the outside.I talk about why anxiety can intensify in midlife, how hormonal shifts, accumulated stress, and nervous system overload often sit beneath it, and why this doesn’t mean you’re failing or going backwards. I share my own experiences of anxiety, the subtle signs I’ve learned to listen for, and the practices that help me come back into my body when my mind starts running ahead of me.This isn’t about quick fixes or positive thinking. It’s about understanding what anxiety is trying to tell you, learning how to soften your response to it, and rebuilding a sense of safety within yourself.If you’ve been feeling unsettled, restless, or not quite yourself lately, this episode will help you feel less alone and remind you that calm is something you can return to, gently and in your own time.Settle in. Breathe slowly. You’re safe here.For more slow rituals, gentle reminders, and reflections on becoming, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore my Digital Library, or join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

This episode is for the woman who’s done Christmas beautifully… but hasn’t quite felt it.In this Letters from Midlife conversation, I’m sharing something quietly honest: despite the lights, the styling, the rituals, and the intention, Christmas didn’t land for me this year. And instead of pushing myself to feel festive, I chose to let that truth breathe.I talk about what it’s like when the season feels muted rather than magical, when you opt out of the noise, the events, and the expectations, and when Christmas becomes less of a celebration and more of a holding space. We explore the permission to enjoy cosiness without performance, presence without pressure, and stillness without explanation.This episode isn’t about fixing your feelings or forcing joy. It’s about honouring where you actually are, especially in midlife, when your inner landscape is shifting, and old traditions don’t always fit the way they once did.If Christmas has felt quieter, heavier, or simply different for you this year, let this be your reminder: nothing is wrong with you. Sometimes the most sacred thing we can do is stop pretending and tell the truth.Settle in, breathe out, and listen gently.For more slow rituals, gentle reminders, and reflections on becoming, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore my Digital Library, or join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

In this episode of Letters from Midlife, I’m responding to a letter from a woman who’s struggling with a shift so many of us experience in midlife, yet rarely speak about with real honesty: no longer recognising the woman looking back at us in the mirror.She writes about the weight, the softness, the bloating, the aches. About feeling like her body has changed overnight and wondering if this is normal, and how she’s meant to feel at home in her body again.If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and felt a wave of grief, frustration, or quiet disbelief, this episode is for you.I talk openly about why these changes happen in midlife, what’s actually going on beneath the surface, and why this isn’t your body betraying you, but recalibrating for a new season. I share my own moments of feeling disconnected from my body, and the shift that changed everything for me: moving from fighting my body to listening to her.Inside this episode, I explore how to soften your relationship with your changing body, why focusing on support rather than shrinking matters more than ever, and how strength, rest, and compassion can help you feel grounded again in your own skin. We talk about grief too, because losing the body you once knew is real, and pretending otherwise only makes it heavier.This isn’t about loving how you look overnight. It’s about learning to treat your body as a partner instead of a problem, and beginning a kinder, steadier conversation with yourself.If your body feels unfamiliar right now, let this be your reminder: you are not behind, broken, or failing. You are becoming.And before I go, I want to share something that genuinely stopped me in my tracks. Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter has been listed as number 14 out of 70 on Feedspot’s Top Lifestyle Design Podcasts.Number fourteen. Out of seventy. I had to read it twice.What makes this even sweeter is that this recognition originally came under my old podcast name, and once they reviewed the rebrand, they updated everything to reflect who I am now, this season, this voice, this work.It feels like a quiet confirmation from the universe: keep going. Your voice is landing exactly where it needs to.And honestly, I’m just grateful. Grateful that something I create from my lived experience is helping women in midlife feel seen, steady, and a little less alone.Here’s to the next chapter, one honest conversation at a time.For more slow rituals, gentle reminders, and reflections on becoming, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore my Digital Library, or join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

In this week’s episode of Letters from Midlife, Kiran reads a deeply familiar letter from a listener who’s found herself awake at 2 or 3 am most nights, exhausted, overwhelmed, and wondering why her once-reliable sleep has suddenly fallen apart.If you’re in perimenopause and your nights feel broken, scattered, or unpredictable, this conversation will feel like sitting down with someone who truly understands. Kiran breaks down why midlife sleep changes are so common, what’s happening inside your hormones and nervous system, and why none of this means you’re failing or losing control.Here’s the thing… this isn’t about sleep hygiene or willpower. It’s about working with a body that’s in transition. I share gentle, practical shifts that can help you reclaim your nights; from regulating your nervous system before bed, to creating space to rest during the day, to planning for those inevitable 3 am wake-ups without spiralling. She also speaks honestly about her own experience of lying awake in the dark, and how compassion, pacing, and support (including HRT) changed everything.You’ll walk away with grounded tools, a calming perspective, and a journaling prompt to help you tune back into what your body’s been trying to say.If your sleep has felt unpredictable lately, this episode will meet you right where you are and remind you that you’re not broken, you’re recalibrating.Listen in, breathe a little deeper, and take what you need.If you’d like the full written reflection, journaling prompts, and deeper guidance, you can read the full article inside Substack.Kiransinghuk.com

In this episode of Letters from Midlife, I answer a tender question from a listener who writes, “Some days I feel calm, and other days I feel like I’m coming undone. Am I losing myself? Will I ever feel steady again?”Together, we explore the emotional turbulence of perimenopause, the mood shifts, tears that appear out of nowhere, the foggy moments, the overwhelm, and the deep confusion about who you are becoming. This conversation unpacks what’s really happening inside the menopause brain, why emotions feel louder, and why you’re not breaking down, you’re recalibrating.I share gentle, grounded ways to find steadiness again: slowing your inner pace, nourishing your foundations, creating emotional buffers, and remembering that waves don’t define you, they simply move through you.If your feelings have felt too big lately, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone, and you’re not losing yourself. You’re unfolding into a wiser, more grounded chapter of who you’re becoming.If you’d like the full written reflection, journaling prompts, and deeper guidance, you can read the full article inside The Midlife Circle on Substack.

In this episode of Midlife by Design, I open the door on a season of letting go, of chasing, performing, and trying to keep up, and stepping gently into ease. After years of doing more, striving harder, I’m learning that my next chapter doesn’t call for more hustle, but more softness.I talk about perimenopause, midlife shifts, and how sometimes the greatest act of courage is to slow down, trust your rhythm, and allow your work and life to grow in harmony with who you are becoming. It’s not about grand leaps or dramatic reinventions. It’s about refining, listening, and aligning with ease.If you’ve felt the pull away from old expectations and the longing for gentler living, this episode is for you. It’s your reminder that endings don’t always scar; sometimes, they open the way for your gentlest, most honest becoming yet.For reflections, rituals, and resources to support your becoming, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore the Digital Library, or join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

 In this episode of Letters from Midlife, I respond to a tender letter from a listener who writes, “I feel like I’ve outgrown my life, but I’m scared to change it.” It’s a feeling so many women in midlife quietly carry, that sense of being pulled toward something new while still standing in the familiar.We explore what it means to sit in the in-between, when your old life still works on paper but no longer feels alive, and how to begin again without burning everything down. I share gentle, grounded ways to move through fear, reclaim clarity, and take small steps toward a life that feels more aligned, spacious and true.If you’ve been feeling the whisper of change but don’t know where to start, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are, with softness, honesty, and practical guidance.For reflections, rituals, and resources to support your becoming, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore the Digital Library, or join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

In this episode of Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter, I speak to the quiet grief and gentle grace of realising that the woman we imagined we’d be, disciplined, early rising, ever-consistent, isn’t always the woman midlife asks us to be.Perimenopause changes the rhythm. Energy shifts. Sleep becomes unpredictable. The morning routines we once clung to don’t always fit anymore. And instead of forcing ourselves to perform, to perfect, to keep up, this season invites us to soften.This is a conversation about letting go of the idealised version of ourselves we’ve been measuring against, and learning instead to listen to our bodies, our needs, our natural pace. It’s about trading perfection for presence, routine for rhythm, and doing for being.If you’ve been feeling like you’re “failing” at consistency, this episode is your reminder that nothing is wrong with you. You are not behind. You are not losing yourself. You are learning to live from the inside out.For reflections, rituals, and resources to support your becoming, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore the Digital Library, or join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

In this episode of Letters from Midlife, I respond to a letter from a listener who writes, “Lately, I feel lonely, even though I’m not alone. I have people around me, but I feel unseen.”It’s one of the quiet heartbreaks of midlife, realising that even a life you’ve lovingly built can start to feel a little empty when you’ve outgrown the connections within it. Together, we explore the difference between being surrounded and being seen, and what it means to rebuild authentic connection in this new chapter.I share gentle reflections and grounded ways to begin again, from creating connection rituals and reaching out bravely, to nurturing the most important relationship of all: the one with yourself. Because loneliness isn’t a failure; it’s feedback from your soul, asking for deeper resonance.For reflections, resources, and rituals to support your own becoming, visit Kiransinghuk.com or join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

In this episode of Tea with Self, I talk about the quiet link between our inner world and our outer space. Sometimes it’s not the room that feels messy, it’s us. I share a simple moment in my living room that became a deeper realisation: the piles of “I’ll sort this later,” the browser tabs, the unread messages… they weren’t just clutter, they were signs that I’d been carrying too much. And how, when I slow down, clear a surface, light a candle, make the bed with intention, something in me settles too. This is an invitation to tend to yourself like you tend to your home. To open a window, soften a corner, set a boundary, choose gentleness over judgement, not as a performance of “self-care,” but as a way of saying: I belong here. You don’t have to escape your life to start over. You can come home to yourself, right where you are, one small act of care at a time. For more slow rituals, gentle reminders, and reflections on becoming, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore my Digital Library, or join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

In this episode of Letters from Midlife, I respond to a heartfelt letter from a woman who writes, “I’m exhausted, not just tired, but bone-deep weary. I know I need to slow down, but I don’t know how.”Together, we explore what it really means to rest, not as a luxury or reward, but as a practice of remembering your own rhythm. I share reflections on releasing guilt, redefining what rest looks like, and learning to listen when your body and spirit whisper, “enough.”Don't forget to download your copy of 'The Gentle Rest Workbook' and let this be your gentle reminder that rest isn’t earned, it’s remembered.If you’ve spent years holding everything together, this episode is your reminder that slowing down isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s an act of wisdom. You don’t need to earn your rest; you only need to allow it.For reflections, resources, and rituals for your own rhythm of rest, visit Kiransinghuk.com, or join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

In this episode, I share an honest reflection on my perimenopausal journey, the physical shifts, the quiet lessons, and the deep gratitude that comes from finally listening to my body. What began as a dull ache in my hips has become a powerful teacher, reminding me that health is our truest wealth. From attending my first group physiotherapy session to rejoining the gym, this season of my life isn’t about pushing through; it’s about slowing down, honouring my limits, and moving from a place of care rather than correction. This episode is a gentle invitation to tune in to your own body’s wisdom, to listen to its whispers before they become cries for attention, to nourish it, rest it, and thank it for carrying you this far. Because healing doesn’t begin with grand change; it begins with one small promise kept to yourself. For reflections and free resources, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore my Digital Library. For more personal musings, join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

In this episode, I reflect on the gentle unfolding of October, a month that taught me about balance, release, and renewal. It wasn’t a season of grand change, but of quiet transformation: a month of movement and stillness, expansion and rest, all coexisting in their own rhythm. From the Water Lantern Festival to turning 48, this month reminded me that midlife isn’t a crisis, it’s a conversation, one that asks for honesty, tenderness, and presence. I talk about what it means to take an honest inventory, to listen deeply to yourself, and to honour the small, sacred moments that shape us. If you’ve been feeling stretched or in transition, this episode is your invitation to pause, to reflect on what you’ve released, what you’ve made room for, and how you want to feel in the next season of your life. For reflections and free resources, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore my Digital Library. For more personal musings, join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

In this episode of Tea with Self, I share how a quiet week of decluttering became an unexpected act of homecoming. What started as clearing a few cupboards turned into a gentle ritual of release, of making space not just in my home, but within myself. Through letting go of what no longer serves, donating what can bless someone else, and even cleansing my home with sage and Palo Santo, I discovered that decluttering isn’t really about tidiness, it’s about energy, clarity, and coming back to centre. If you’ve been feeling disconnected or overwhelmed, this episode is your invitation to begin again, one drawer, one shelf, one soft breath at a time. Because sometimes, the path back to yourself begins with a single cleared space. For reflections and free resources, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore my Digital Library. For more personal musings, join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

In this episode, I share how one simple act, opening my banking app, became an unexpected moment of peace, clarity, and courage. It wasn’t really about money; it was about facing myself. For years, I’d avoided looking too closely, afraid of what I might find. But when I finally did, I didn’t feel shame or guilt; I felt relief. I realised that avoidance isn’t about what we’re avoiding, but about the stories we tell ourselves about it. This episode is a gentle reminder that real courage often lives in small, quiet moments, the ones where we finally turn toward what we fear and say, “I’m ready to see the truth now.” Because the truth, when met with softness, is never something to fear. It’s what sets us free. For reflections and free resources, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore my Digital Library. For more personal musings, join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

In this episode of Tea with Self, I share what it feels like to be in the in-between, that tender space between who we were and who we’re becoming. It’s not always comfortable. It’s quiet, reflective, and at times, achingly lonely. But it’s also where the most honest growth begins. I talk about rediscovering the parts of myself I’ve dimmed in the name of strength and responsibility, the longing for connection and softness, and the reminder that this season isn’t about reinventing myself, it’s about returning. This is a reflection for anyone who feels in transition, who’s tired of striving but not ready to give up. It’s about learning to live without rushing to the next version, about resting in what’s here, and trusting that clarity always follows space. For reflections and free resources, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore my Digital Library. For more personal musings, join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

In this episode of Letters from Midlife, I respond to a heartfelt letter from a woman who has just turned fifty and is wondering if she’s missed her chance, if time has quietly slipped through her fingers. It’s a feeling many of us in midlife know well: that quiet panic that whispers, Am I too late to begin again?Together, we explore what it means to rewrite that story. To see midlife not as an ending, but as an awakening, a doorway to deeper purpose, creativity, and joy. I share gentle reflections on reclaiming time, beginning small, and rediscovering the dreams that once had to wait.If you’ve ever felt behind, this episode is your reminder: you’re not late. You’re right on time.For reflections and resources, visit Kiransinghuk.com. For more personal musings, join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.