In this conversation, Chris sits down with Morgan Rich to explore what masculinity looks like when men stop armoring up and start showing up. They talk about emotional vulnerability, self-awareness, and how men can balance strength without disconnecting from sensitivity. Morgan shares his personal journey of meditation, daily self-connection, and learning to embrace who he is right now rather than chasing an ideal future version of himself. Together, they unpack how vulnerability deepens relationships, strengthens leadership, and helps men live with more presence, clarity, and purpose.
Guest Bio:
Morgan Rich is a writer, speaker, and men’s work facilitator focused on redefining masculinity through presence, emotional resilience, and self-leadership. His work challenges outdated masculine conditioning around control and dominance, replacing it with accountability, humility, and authentic strength. Morgan is the author of The Invitation Beyond and supports men in reconnecting with their gifts, their bodies, and their capacity to love deeply.
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What You’ll Learn:
Why vulnerability is a form of masculine strength
How men can balance protect, provide, and preside in modern relationships
The role of daily self-connection and reflection
How emotional independence strengthens intimacy
Why suppressing emotions leads to resentment and burnout
How calm presence builds trust with partners
The impact of self-talk on confidence and resilience
Why embracing your authentic self matters more than chasing perfection
This episode is an invitation for men to drop the armor, reconnect with themselves, and lead their lives and relationships with grounded strength and clarity.
In this raw and powerful conversation, Josh shares the story that changed everything. He survived a near-fatal brain aneurysm, endured 17 brain surgeries, and rebuilt himself inch by inch. Chris and Josh dive into the emotional, physical, and spiritual battles that reshaped his identity, his relationships, and his purpose. They explore resilience, masculine energy, emotional expression, and the courage it takes for a man to ask for help. Josh’s journey shows what it means to rebuild your life with intention and step into the man you were meant to be.Guest BioJosh Waters is a survivor, mentor, endurance athlete, and the author of the upcoming book Every Inch, Every Step. His story of recovering from a catastrophic brain aneurysm and rebuilding his life has become a source of strength for others. Josh now helps men find clarity, resilience, and purpose by sharing the lessons he learned through pain, reflection, and support from the right people.Connect with Josh Waters🔗 Instagram: @beardnflipflops🔗 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/joshua-waters-331409149/Connect with Motivated Masculine Men🌐 www.motivatedmasculinemen.com📧 brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com📱 Social: @motivatedmasculinemen⭐ Leave a rating and review🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episodeWhat You’ll LearnWhat surviving a near-death crisis teaches a man about life and purposeWhy resilience is built through small steps, one inch at a timeHow masculine energy shifts after traumaHow to process emotions without suppressing themWhy support systems determine your directionHow identity can fall apart and rebuild strongerWhy asking for help is a strength, not a weaknessHow Josh found meaning through mentoring and serving othersThis episode invites men to face their pain, rise with purpose, and remember the truth Josh shares with everyone he helps: You’re enough.
In this returning conversation, Chris and Ryan go deep into what it really takes for a man to grow. They break down how to balance the key areas of life, manage energy, and align personal values with professional goals. Ryan explains how vibration and frequency shape who you attract, what you experience, and how you show up. They explore flow states, emotional processing, anxiety, fear, identity, and why men must learn to release rather than suppress. This is a practical and honest conversation about becoming the man who can hold the life he wants.Ryan Rodriguez is a returning guest and a respected voice on personal alignment, emotional awareness, and the daily practices that help men perform at their highest level. His work centers on helping people understand their emotions, build clarity in their identity, and create alignment across the major areas of life.Connect with Ryan Rodriguez📱 Instagram: @ignitedffConnect with Motivated Masculine Men🌐 www.motivatedmasculinemen.com📧 brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more men🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episodeWhat You’ll LearnHow to balance life through simple frameworks and daily practicesWhy energy, vibration, and frequency shape growth and connectionHow to process emotions in the moment rather than suppress themThe link between flow states, fulfillment, and personal alignmentThe danger of tying identity to a job or uniformHow fear, anxiety, and depression show up when men live out of alignmentWhy success comes from practice and training, not talentHow to become the man who can attract the relationship or life he wantsThis episode invites men to step into alignment, face their emotions, and build a life rooted in purpose, presence, and real strength.
In this episode, Chris sits down with Franziska Reichardt-Willetts to explore how women view masculinity, communication, and emotional strength in today’s world. Franziska opens up about her personal evolution—from a marriage based on image and security to one rooted in emotional safety, mutual respect, and shared growth. Together, they unpack what true strength looks like in modern men and how calmness, presence, and empathy can be more powerful than aggression or ego.
They discuss how confidence and empathy work hand in hand, why chivalry still matters, and how women feel safe to express their femininity when men lead with integrity. This honest conversation dives deep into what women genuinely desire from men in relationships, how to build trust through action and communication, and the role of understanding gender dynamics in creating lasting connection.
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Franziska Reichardt-Willetts is an advocate for emotional intelligence, equality, and authentic relationships. With a background in community work and suicide prevention, she brings a grounded and compassionate perspective to how men and women can better understand each other and build partnerships that thrive on respect and growth.
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What You’ll Learn
What women actually find attractive in strong, grounded men
Why emotional safety and calm confidence matter more than image or money
How chivalry and kindness still play a role in modern relationships
The balance between confidence, empathy, and communication
Why understanding gender dynamics builds better connections
How men can lead with purpose while creating space for feminine energy
This episode is a powerful reminder that masculinity isn’t about dominance—it’s about presence, patience, and purpose. It’s a conversation every man needs to hear to better understand what women truly want and how to lead with strength and heart.
In this episode, Chris sits down with Eric McCants to explore how a life of service shapes character, relationships, and masculinity. Together they unpack lessons from years in law enforcement, goal setting, and personal growth while discussing how men can lead with integrity in every area of life.
They dive into how responsibility, self-awareness, and communication play a vital role in being a protector, partner, and leader. From navigating the pressures of policing to maintaining mental health and building strong relationships, this conversation gives men the tools to balance caution, confidence, and clarity in both work and family life.
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Eric McCants is a law enforcement professional who brings wisdom from years on the job and a deep understanding of personal accountability. His perspective on leadership, relationships, and growth comes from real experience—facing challenges, learning through mistakes, and leading with humility.
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What You’ll Learn
How real experiences in law enforcement shape personal growth
Why accountability is the foundation of strong masculinity
The importance of balance between vigilance and peace
How clear communication strengthens leadership and relationships
Why men must seek support and openness around mental health
The value of honesty, boundaries, and vulnerability in modern relationships
This episode challenges men to own their actions, lead with clarity, and communicate with purpose. It’s about learning from pressure, standing firm in integrity, and growing through every season of life.
In this episode, Chris sits down with Scott Fasano, founder of Defy Tomorrow, for a grounded and thought-provoking conversation about modern masculinity and the pursuit of true fulfillment. Together, they unpack what it means to live with purpose, presence, and alignment in a world that constantly pushes men toward external success and distraction.
Scott shares his journey from chasing achievement to rediscovering meaning through family, self-awareness, and intentional living. The two explore how men can reconnect with who they really are, rather than who they’re told to be.
They dive deep into the three pillars of masculinity—protect, provide, and preside—and how men can build stronger families, relationships, and communities by leading with alignment and clarity.
Scott Fasano is the founder of Defy Tomorrow, a platform helping men challenge their limits, lead with authenticity, and build lives of meaning and strength. Through his coaching, writing, and Substack publication Already There Journal, Scott inspires men to find balance between discipline, purpose, and presence.
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What You’ll Learn
Why redefining success is vital for today’s man
How to live and lead from alignment, not ego
The connection between purpose, presence, and fulfillment
How the three pillars of masculinity guide strong leadership
Practical steps to build confidence and clarity in everyday life
This episode is for men ready to lead with purpose, live with authenticity, and redefine what true success means.
In this conversation, Chris sits down with Ryan Rodriquez, founder of IGNITEd, a platform dedicated to helping men build strength, resilience, and purpose through his FIRE framework: Fitness, Intellect, Relationships, and Energy. Ryan shares his journey from firefighter and paramedic to leadership coach, podcast host, and mentor, highlighting lessons on masculinity, relationships, and personal growth. They dive deep into the three pillars of masculinity; protect, provide, and preside, and explore how men can build stronger families, relationships, and communities by leading with alignment and clarity. This conversation provides actionable insights for men who want to lead with purpose while cultivating meaningful connections.
Ryan Rodriquez is a firefighter, paramedic, and founder of IGNITEd, where he coaches individuals in resilience, leadership, and holistic personal development. He hosts the "Forged by Fire" podcast and holds a master’s degree in organizational leadership, helping men cultivate strength, clarity, and meaningful connections.
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What You’ll Learn
How Ryan’s FIRE framework helps men build resilience and balance in life
The three pillars of masculinity—protect, provide, and preside—and how leading with alignment and clarity strengthens families, relationships, and communities
Techniques for aligning energy, vision, and values with your partner for a thriving relationship
How to set boundaries, communicate effectively, and use frustration as a signal for growth
Strategies for overcoming worst-case scenario thinking and building mental resilience
The role of the hero’s journey and daily archetypes in personal development
Reconciling past trauma and practicing authenticity in personal and professional relationships
If you’re ready to build deeper connections, embrace authentic masculinity, and lead with purpose, this conversation with Ryan Rodriquez will challenge you to step into your full potential and cultivate strength, clarity, and meaningful impact in your life.
In this conversation, Darren Silver and Chris dive into what it means for men to reconnect with themselves through nature, vision quests, and rites of passage. Darren shares how his journey into wilderness survival and vision work shaped his path, while Chris reflects on his own transformation from police officer to guide for men. Together they explore belonging, surrender, and the modern male identity crisis, showing how nature offers a mirror for clarity, intimacy, and purpose.
Guest Bio
Darren Silver is a rite of passage guide, ceremonialist, and mentor with over a decade of experience leading vision quests and wilderness-based personal development work. His teachings focus on helping men find their true purpose and reconnect with their deepest passions through nature, story, and healing practices.
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What You’ll Learn
The difference between “small v vision” and “big V Vision”
Why nature connection is critical for men’s sense of belonging
How rites of passage help men reclaim confidence and purpose
Practical ways to surrender in everyday life
The modern crisis of male identity and how to address it
How nature supports intimacy, healing, and stronger relationships
Simple practices to connect with nature even in urban settings
This episode will challenge you to ask bigger questions about your life, your purpose, and your place in the world. Listen in and discover how reconnecting with nature can help you reclaim your vision and deepen your bonds as a man.
In this conversation, Chris sits down with retired law enforcement officer and author Randal Snyder to talk about masculinity, faith, and personal responsibility. Randy opens up about his transition out of frontline policing after 25 years, the toll it took on his mental health, and how faith, family, and emotional growth reshaped his definition of strength. Together they dive into topics men often avoid, burnout, marriage, fatherhood, and society’s shifting view of masculinity while grounding the conversation in honesty, faith, and brotherhood.
Guest Bio
Randal Snyder is a retired law enforcement officer, investigator, author, and speaker. With over two decades in the field, much of it spent handling some of the toughest cases imaginable, Randy has turned his focus to writing, mentoring, and educating others on resilience, relationships, and internet safety. He is the author of Cyber Creeps and co-author with his daughter of the zombie-themed series Lovin’ Brains.
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📚 Books: Cyber Creeps and Lovin’ Brains (available on Amazon)
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What You’ll Learn
How 25 years in law enforcement shaped and tested Randy’s view of masculinity
Why emotional expression and faith are essential for men’s resilience
The dangers of repression, alcohol, and avoidance in dealing with trauma
How to balance strength and vulnerability as a husband and father
The role of shared values in building lasting relationships
Why society’s view of masculinity is shifting and what men can do about it
Practical advice for young men on building respect and authentic connections
How writing and creativity became part of Randy’s healing and brotherhood journey
This interview is a raw look at what it means to grow as a man while carrying the weight of service, family, and faith. If you’re looking for perspective on resilience, relationships, and the future of masculinity, you won’t want to miss it.
In this episode, Chris sits down with Eugene Lee to unpack burnout, masculinity, and the journey of personal growth. Eugene shares how hitting burnout pushed him to start a podcast for men, opening conversations many avoid. Together they explore the pressures men face, how traditional masculine traits can both fuel and sabotage success, and the importance of redefining strength through balance, vulnerability, and accountability.
Guest BioEugene Lee is the host of a top-rated burnout podcast and a voice for men navigating stress, leadership, and personal growth. After facing his own burnout, he now creates safe spaces for men to talk openly about masculinity, relationships, and mental health; online, in person, and through his growing platform.
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What You’ll Learn
Why burnout can be both destructive and transformative for men
How traditional masculine traits like focus and control can lead to burnout if unchecked
The truth about “nice guy syndrome” and how it sabotages relationships
Practical ways to redefine providing and protecting in today’s world
Why vulnerability is critical for stronger friendships and intimacy
How to align values, purpose, and leadership with personal growth
If you’ve ever struggled with burnout, relationships, or carrying the weight of being a man, this episode will challenge you to rethink strength and redefine masculinity on your own terms.
In this episode, Chris sits down with David Berez to explore resilience, masculinity, and the hard conversations men often avoid. David shares his journey from a difficult childhood through law enforcement service, surviving trauma, and finding purpose in helping others. Together they talk about PTSD, police mental health, fatherhood, divorce, authentic masculinity, and the importance of leading by example.
Guest Bio
David Berez is a retired police officer, author of A Resilient Life: Cops Journey in Pursuit of Purpose, and the only officer to complete the University of Pennsylvania’s Master’s in Applied Positive Psychology program. He now teaches resilience tools to men and law enforcement, helping them face trauma and find strength in purpose.
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📖 Book: A Resilient Life: Cops Journey in Pursuit of Purpose
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What You’ll Learn
How surviving trauma shaped David’s path from law enforcement to teaching resilience
The mental health challenges police face during and after service
The impact of divorce on boys’ development and masculinity
Why courageous optimism is a foundation for positive masculinity
This conversation will challenge how you see resilience, masculinity, and your role as a man. Listen in and ask yourself, where can you step up with courageous optimism in your own life?
In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris Chandler-Yates sits down with retired LAPD Lieutenant Jeff Wenninger to unpack a career and life shaped by resilience and integrity.
Jeff’s journey began with being adopted into a multiracial family in Ohio and a wrongful arrest in college that unexpectedly led him to policing. Over 33 years, he served in high-pressure roles like SWAT, K9, Metro Division, and the Rampart CRASH unit during federal oversight—all while holding onto empathy, diversity, and community connection.
He shares how he avoided burnout by refusing to let the badge define him. Outside passions like hockey and youth coaching kept him grounded. Jeff also talks about the reforms policing needs now: smarter hiring, better training, mental health support, and building public trust through honest engagement.
This conversation challenges men to rethink strength as a balance of discipline, vulnerability, and service.
Learn More About Jeff Wenninger
🌐 jeffwenninger.com
📚 On Thin Ice – Insights into policing culture, leadership, and reform
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What You’ll Learn in This Episode
How early life shaped Jeff’s views on justice and leadership
Mindset shifts that prevented burnout in a demanding career
Why mentoring and role models matter for young men
Practical ideas for reforming law enforcement culture from within
How to maintain mission and purpose after leaving a long career
In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris Chandler-Yates sits down with Matthew Thomas to explore what healthy masculinity looks like today.
They discuss Matthew’s experience in law enforcement and how high-stress situations shape a man’s identity. The conversation dives into the balance between strength and vulnerability, the protector instinct, and how fitness supports both physical and emotional resilience. They also talk about raising boys to understand modern masculinity and adapting core values as the world changes.
Matthew shares insights from his book Interceptors and reflects on what it means for men to own their purpose while navigating today’s complex expectations.
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What You’ll Learn in This Episode
How law enforcement shapes masculine identity under pressure
Why vulnerability is essential for real strength
The protector instinct and what it means today
The role fitness plays in building resilience and relationships
How to raise boys with a healthy sense of masculinity
Navigating family dynamics while embracing purpose
Insights from Matthew’s book Interceptors on masculinity and service
In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris Chandler-Yates talks with Robson da Silva about his journey from Brazil to the United States and how that shaped his understanding of masculinity, self-respect, and connection.
Robson shares the lessons he’s learned about loving yourself first, building strong relationships, and finding your identity as a man in a new culture. The conversation dives into the role of community in men’s lives, why vulnerability matters, and how music and personal rituals can keep a man grounded and emotionally sharp.
This is a story about resilience, growth, and creating the kind of man you’re proud to be.
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What You’ll Learn in This Episode
Why self-respect is the foundation of healthy masculinity
How to love yourself without arrogance
The role of community in helping men thrive
How to build emotional connections that last
Why lowering expectations can improve relationships
How music shapes mood and mindset
Navigating relationships with open communication
The power of personal rituals for emotional well-being
Why men need to embrace and express their emotions
In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris Chandler-Yates sits down with retired Special Agent Steven Marks to talk about the unspoken realities of masculinity—especially for men in law enforcement.
Steven opens up about the burnout and pressure that come with the badge, the tightrope between healthy and toxic masculinity, and why vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s strength. They dive deep into the brotherhood that sustains men through hard times, the identity crisis many face after retirement, and how to find purpose beyond the job.
Whether you’ve worn a uniform or not, this conversation is a powerful reminder that every man needs connection, honesty, and a reason to keep showing up.
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What You’ll Learn in This Episode
The difference between healthy and toxic masculinity in high-pressure jobs.
How burnout impacts men in law enforcement—and how to recover.
Why vulnerability builds strength and deeper connection.
The importance of brotherhood and strong male friendships.
How to navigate the identity crisis after leaving a career of service.
The role of physical and mental health in staying grounded.
Why purpose matters for men at every stage of life.
Practical daily rituals to stay focused and resilient.
In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris Chandler-Yates sits down with JP Fluellen to unpack what it really means to leave a legacy worth remembering. Together, they dive into the balance of strength and sensitivity, exploring how men can live with purpose, protect their health, and show up fully in their relationships.
From navigating the pressure to define masculinity in today’s world, to the role of fitness, fatherhood, and intentional friendships, Chris and JP cut through the noise with personal stories and hard-earned lessons. They explore how children learn from the example men set, why supportive brotherhoods are critical, and how to set boundaries that protect your family while deepening connection.
This isn’t just about looking strong—it’s about being strong in the moments that matter, living with presence, and building a life you’d be proud to hand down.
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What You’ll Learn in This Episode
Why purpose—not just success—defines a man’s legacy.
How fitness impacts confidence, energy, and masculinity.
The difference between healthy and toxic masculinity.
How children absorb values from their father’s example.
The power of intentional male friendships for support and growth.
Why boundaries protect both relationships and family unity.
How to stay present and fully engaged in your life.
Practical steps to strengthen love and connection in partnerships.
In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris Chandler-Yates sits down with Ashley Smith to dig deep into the real work it takes to build strong, respectful, and lasting relationships in today’s world.
From the shifting ground of modern gender roles to the importance of vulnerability, communication, and boundaries, Chris and Ashley tackle what makes—or breaks—partnerships. They explore how cultural backgrounds shape our ideas of masculinity and femininity, the evolution of DEI initiatives, and the role of physical appearance in both personal and professional opportunities.
Ashley brings a clear, no-nonsense perspective: relationships should be a team effort, not a hierarchy. Chris reinforces that men who embrace emotional intelligence, self-respect, and authentic connection not only strengthen their relationships but also redefine what it means to lead as a man.
If you’ve ever wondered how to navigate modern dating, maintain balance in long-term partnerships, and be the kind of man who inspires trust and respect, this conversation delivers the blueprint.
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What You’ll Learn in This Episode
Why healthy masculinity blends strength, respect, and emotional intelligence.
How cultural perspectives influence how we see gender roles.
Why communication is the backbone of any successful relationship.
How to set boundaries without building walls.
The evolving challenges of modern dating for men.
The difference between compromise and sacrifice in partnerships.
Why teamwork—not hierarchy—creates lasting relationships.
The role of self-respect in attracting and keeping the right partner.
In this episode, Chris sits down with John Smith to unpack what it means to be a man today. They explore how masculinity is evolving ,cutting through the noise around “toxic masculinity” to focus on what healthy masculinity really looks like: responsibility, vulnerability, and purpose.
John shares personal stories about managing work stress, maintaining relationships, and the importance of physical and mental health. Together, they highlight how men can communicate better, build strong support networks, and know when to hold on or walk away from relationships.
This conversation is a reminder that masculinity isn’t about hiding emotions or fitting a mold, it’s about knowing yourself, growing continuously, and leading with integrity.
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What You’ll Learn
Why vulnerability is key to growth and stronger relationships
How to spot and reject toxic behavior without confusing it with masculinity
The importance of honest communication at work and home
How physical health ties into emotional well-being
Building a support system beyond your partner
Recognizing when to fight for or exit a relationship
Practical steps toward personal growth and self-care
In this episode of Fight the Burnout, Chris sits down with retired LAPD Lieutenant Jeff Wenninger to unpack a career and life shaped by resilience, integrity, and purpose.From being adopted into a multiracial family in Ohio, to a wrongful arrest in college that unexpectedly set him on the path into policing, Jeff’s story is one of transformation through adversity. Over his 33-year career, he served in some of the most high-pressure roles in law enforcement: SWAT, K9, Metro Division, and the Rampart CRASH unit during its federal oversight period, while never losing sight of the importance of empathy, diversity, and community connection.Jeff shares how he avoided severe burnout by refusing to let the badge define him, maintaining outside passions like hockey and coaching youth, and mentoring others in the importance of masculine leadership rooted in integrity. He also opens up about the reforms he believes policing urgently needs today: smarter hiring, more comprehensive training, better mental health support, and building public trust through consistent, authentic engagement.If you’re a man navigating leadership, purpose, or high-pressure environments, this conversation will inspire you to rethink strength, not as unfeeling toughness, but as the balance of discipline, vulnerability, and service.Learn More About Jeff Wenninger🌐 Website: https://jeffwenninger.com/📚 Book: On Thin Ice – Insights into policing culture, leadership, and reform.What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeHow early life experiences shaped Jeff’s perspective on justice and leadership.The mindset shifts that helped him navigate and prevent burnout in a demanding career.Why mentoring and positive role models are critical for shaping young men’s futures.Practical ideas for reforming law enforcement culture from the inside out.How to maintain mission and purpose after leaving a long-term career.Connect with Motivated Masculine Men📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more listeners.🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.
In this compelling episode of Fight the Burnout, Chris engages in a profound conversation with Hi Nguyen, a seasoned Royal Canadian Mounted Police Officer with 13 years of diverse experience. Hi shares his journey from general duties officer to counter-terrorist and personal security officer, emphasizing the high-level trauma and paranoia that came with the job.
Listen as Hi narrates his burnout experience, triggered by intense work following a parliamentary active shooter situation. This turning point led Hi to recognize the critical role of effective leadership in combating burnout and promoting well-being.
Discover how Hi transitioned from personal protection officer to a leadership coach, working with fellow officers to instill leadership skills that enhance productivity and reduce burnout. Explore the vital lessons he imparts to the law enforcement community.
Connect with Hi Nguyen through www.team-up.ca or on LinkedIn at www.linkedin.com/in/hi-nguyen-28412a124. Reach out via email at go@team-up.ca.
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