January 1st comes with a lot of noise.
Pressure to become. Pressure to perform. Pressure to start again, perfectly.
In this episode, I’m choosing honesty instead.
I talk about entering a new year without pretending to be brand new, redefining aspirations so they don’t cost you yourself, and what it means to live deliberately in a world that rewards urgency, especially here in Nigeria.
This is a quiet conversation about honest living, softened ambition, rest without guilt, and choosing a life that actually feels like yours.
No resolutions. No pretending.
Just musings, as we step into a new year together.
28/11/25
Humangle Article
https://humanglemedia.com/the-drug-and-sex-lives-of-boko-haram-terrorists/
Today we talk about the law and why it is important for you to engage a lawyer before the problem occurs not after!
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What is your excuse? Why do you choose to take risks without reading the fine print? Let’s talk about law and why you need to start to taking this seriously.
Whether it’s policing women’s bodies or narratives or threat of invasion, it’s the same playbook oppressors are using to manipulate the oppressed.
When women speak, someone tries to shut them up.
When Nigeria stands on its own, someone else suddenly wants to “save” us.
It’s all control disguised as concern.
Let’s talk about it.
This episode is for Ochanya and all the girls living in horrors caused by wicked people. This episode is about how our silence can be the very thing people such as the perpetrators of this horrors are banking on. Our collective silence continues to fail young girls across the world.
Silence is complicity.
Listen to the new episode of Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl: Justice for Ochanya.
On this episode I discuss most things ableism and I hope in listening to me, you can reflectively look inward and examine yourself.
Ask yourself the deep questions, have you been ableist? Even as a disabled or chronically ill person, you can be ableist.
Also ask yourself, “what am I doing my part in the fight for inclusion?”
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Let’s talk about it.
Why do you stay in situations that have stopped serving you? Until when will you keep using the excuse of time to keep receiving the treatment you don’t deserve?
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Let’s talk about it.
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This episode is sponsored he Scath Company a modern co-working and innovation hub in Kaduna offering workspaces, mentorship, and support for startups and creatives.
Sometimes I wonder if men can ever truly be feminists.
Not because they don’t care but because they’ll never know.
Feminism isn’t just theory; it’s lived. It’s the fear, the silence, the fight, and the constant demand to be seen as human.
I don’t need men to call themselves feminists.
I just need them to act like they believe women are fully human.
🎙️ New episode: Can Men Really Be Feminists?
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Let’s talk independence and everything in-between…
Are you a young girl enamored by an older guy?
Are you underage?
Is a man telling you, you are matured for your age?
Are you thinking of dropping out of school or deferring because of a man?
Do you need us to pull your ears?
This episode is for you !
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Send your stories and dilemmas to tirednigeriangirl@gmail.com
Please wear it…
In this episode, I share how I learned to speak up for myself in adulthood to make decisions, set boundaries, and believe that what I want matters.
And guess what? You can too! Thats the cool thing about the journey of becoming.
Hold on to your headphones and join me and Halimah @thehealinggen_z on the 28th of August as we talk about most things social media, the good, the bad & the unfiltered!
Let’s unpack how it is shaping our view of success and self-worth and how we navigate that.
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I'm tired but what else is new?
Join me on this episode as I discuss the madness from Zikoko, a salty performer and a man about to get what he deserves!
On this episode we talk of the idea of “home” and how home isn’t always safe or flourishing for everyone.
The idea that we all end up the same or follow each other’s footsteps can be so stifling because in doing that we end up limiting ourselves.
I am challenging the girl that has always felt different and unheard to find her version of home. It can be a physical home or a mindset. You may need to change your mindset, your friends or limit access of some people to yourself.
If you haven’t done so please leave a 5 ⭐️ rating on Apple podcast and Spotify podcast.
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Until next time ♥️ and peace.
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📩 Tirednigeriangirl@gmail.com
Why do we feel guilty when we ask for help?
What is it about saying “I’m not okay” that makes us feel inadequate and whose fault is it?
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Let’s unpack it.