Over the years your perspective on how long sex should last has probably changed. In addition to the knowledge that you have about your body and sex. One of the perspective that make the first big difference is age. When we are young “All genders think this is how it’s supposed to be. Guys think they should have a huge penis that will last for an outrageously long time in bed. And everyone thinks that when the penis enters the vagina, it's shared pleasure and fireworks for all parties,” says Finnish psychologist and sexual therapist Patrick Jern
Obviously, the poor education in sex provided by porn, sex education, and parents has not helped us have a good communication when it come to sex.
So how long should sex last before reaching the amazing climax?
Well this answer can range from country to county, female to guys but a common factor is the desired time vs the normal time. Jern in one of his studies saw that the average length for intercourse in Europe was about eight minutes., which varies dramatically
In a study that was done in 2008 by The Journal of Sexual Medicine, American and Canadian couples therapist came to the conclusion that the ideal time for sex is anywhere between seven and 15 minutes. The problem becomes if you want to last as much and you cant. First is to acknowledge that you do not have any medical or biological problem, even if you want to have sex for a longer period of time.
A large amount of the impressions we get from porn is that we should be having a huge, perpetual, giant erection. The solution to reach this climax we want is to stimulate the clitoris in the middle of intercourse and change your pace and pressure.
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