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Not As We Planned

Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris

117 episodes

2 weeks ago

When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges faced as a single parent, coparenting, dating again in your 30s and everything in between. We love hearing from you about your stories, dilemmas, dating disasters, happy endings (both kinds) so email us on notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com

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When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges faced as a single parent, coparenting, dating again in your 30s and everything in between. We love hearing from you about your stories, dilemmas, dating disasters, happy endings (both kinds) so email us on notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com

NEW EPISODE EVERY THURSDAY PATREON EPISODE EVERY MONDAY

Follow us

Not As We Planned Podcast:

@notasweplanned_podcast

Tash:

@tash_blake_ivy

Carly:

@iamcarlyharris

Link to our shop:

https://notasweplanned.shop/

Producer:

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Episodes (20/117)

Not As We Planned

Don’t Be a Ho Ho Ho!! | Not As We Planned Podcast

We speak about the struggles we can face over xmas, being newly single or not having your children, when staying for the kids is not an option, an email that sets us off emotionally with a lovely thank you, and we hear from a male listener whose repeatedly being cheated on….

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2 weeks ago

48 minutes 36 seconds

Not As We Planned

The Neighbourhood Bicycle Where Everyone Had a Ride | Not As We Planned Podcast

Trigger warning: Domestic Abuse

When your ex partner is using drugs and tries it on with your sister, a very abusive relationship that’s hard to get out of when you’re in it, and when your perfect life falls apart when he decides he wants to leave out of nowhere!

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3 weeks ago

49 minutes 7 seconds

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Jessica Miller: The Truth Behind The Breakdown Of Her Marriage And All The In-Between | Not As We Planned Podcast

Jess shares the reasons behind the breakdown of her marriage, behind the camera of OnlyFans and where she sees her life moving forward

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1 month ago

1 hour 12 minutes 43 seconds

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The Truth Is They Never Change... | Not As We Planned Podcast

We unpack the lies we’ve told ourselves to stay in an unhappy relationship, when your husband blames your appearance for the reason he left and when all the lies get uncovered from the dreaded phone!!!

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1 month ago

47 minutes 44 seconds

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The Not So Magic Mike Show... | Not As We Planned Podcast

When your ex gives you an unintentional strip tease, the Christmas party affair that eventually comes out, when you’re chasing closure from the wrong person and questioning if you gave up too soon on your marriage due to motherhood.

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1 month ago

41 minutes 31 seconds

Not As We Planned

The Messy Wife Swap | Not As We Planned Podcast

We hear about the constant betrayal throughout a marriage with some brutal advice given, a shocking story which left someone homeless, the reality of ignoring every red flag and the when love turns into survival

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1 month ago

51 minutes 21 seconds

Not As We Planned

When Your Situationship Even Lied About His Name!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast

We give our brutal opinion on what we believe is bare minimum rather than princess treatment, when the guy you’re dating even lied about his name and figuring out whether a second chance could work.

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1 month ago

50 minutes 44 seconds

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The Intentional Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast

We hear from a broken listener who we give some much needed advice to, when the trust is broken and if you can really move forward from the deceit, and we hear from an ‘imposter’ who shares a different story!

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2 months ago

43 minutes 44 seconds

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Jessica May: the untold events of her partner's affair and the signs that she ignored | Not As We Planned Podcast

For the first time ever, Jessica reveals the detailed truths about her partner's affair, the way she found out, and what she did afterwards!!! Not one to miss!

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2 months ago

1 hour 10 minutes 33 seconds

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It's Giving Desperate Housewives | Not As We Planned Podcast

We actually beg a listener to take our advice, or she will regret it, the lying boyfriend who made out he ended it to do her a favour, the shocking 9-year affair and watching history repeat itself!

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2 months ago

39 minutes 1 second

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Legally Nik: Answering Your Questions About Coparenting, Dealing With Narcissist's & A 50/50 Split | Not As We Planned Podcast

A very eye-opening episode which will give you an insightful understanding into the coparenting world, how to manage the legal battle with your children’s parent and growing through the trauma.

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2 months ago

55 minutes 58 seconds

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Sending A Nude Into The School Group Chat!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast

We share the most embarrassing moments when you text the wrong person, Tash shares a mortifying experience, finding out you're the home wrecker only after the relationship ends and when your husband leaves you for a man

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3 months ago

44 minutes 41 seconds

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I Got Eaten Alive!! The Dating Episode You Don't Want To Miss! | Not As We Planned Podcast

We get an update on Carly's dating drama after being ghosted, the most graphic sexual encounter by a male listener, the 5ft7 liar, and dating a criminal!

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3 months ago

40 minutes 56 seconds

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Should You Date Multiple Men At The Same Time?? | Not As We Planned Podcast

We discuss whether it’s a good idea to date multiple men at once, swapping stories with the other woman, planning another baby with your ex and how to meet the love of your life and a lovely email to give is all hope!

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3 months ago

42 minutes 34 seconds

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The hack to find deleted messages on your phone!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast

Carly gives us a big life update, we have a little scroll on ‘are we dating the same guy’, realising you’ve outgrown your partner and don’t know if you should end it, and should you give your cheating partner one more chance?

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3 months ago

42 minutes 47 seconds

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We’re Back in Our BRAND NEW Studio! Breakups, Divorce & Dating Real Talk | Not As We Planned Podcast

Welcome to a brand-new era of Not As We Planned - and our very first episode in the NEW studio! 💖 It’s a total pinch-me moment, and we’re so excited to share it with you. Same raw honesty and bestie vibes, but with a fresh new space and energy.

In this opener, we dive deep into the realities of love, heartbreak, and fresh starts. You’ll hear the jaw-dropping story of a woman who stayed in a toxic relationship for 30 years before finally breaking free, an empowering reminder that it’s never too late to put yourself first. We also answer listener questions about cheating, red flags, and “should I have stayed?” moments. Plus, catch up with us as we share the highs and lows of single life, dating apps, co-parenting, and everything in between.

If you’re ready for real talk, belly laughs, and conversations that feel like therapy with your best friends, you’re in the right place.

👉 Don’t forget to subscribe for weekly episodes from our new studio!

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4 months ago

42 minutes 49 seconds

Not As We Planned

100. Unfortunately Men Like This Exist…

We discuss the difficulties of splitting your time with the kids over the holidays, someone who needs some serious tough love from us, a clear comparison with how your life could look when leaving or staying and the man who was sleeping with 9 women!!!

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Producer: @TristanHehir

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5 months ago

49 minutes 57 seconds

Not As We Planned

99. He Did Cheat.. But it Was My Fault

We have an honest conversation about the financial pressures of being a single mum, when you catfish your partner by pretending to be the other woman, and a hard story of emotional abuse whilst managing to break the trauma bond

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Producer: @TristanHehir

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5 months ago

49 minutes 29 seconds

Not As We Planned

98. I Was The Other Woman But Didn’t Know!!!

Mr British airways by who took so many women for a ride, when the man you’ve been dating lied about EVERYTHING… even his name! And when you compare notes with the other woman to find that he shat on both your beds!!

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Producer: @TristanHehir

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5 months ago

37 minutes 55 seconds

Not As We Planned

97. He Told Me He Was a Vampire

You guys share your most embarrassing date scenarios, when your partner informs you that he wants to watch you sleep with other men, when his memory of you is taken away and a thanks for the podcast making you not feel alone through your divorce.

Link to our shop - www.notasweplanned.shop

Producer: @TristanHehir

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5 months ago

42 minutes 12 seconds