(featuring Steven Bradley, “The Tech Cowboy”)
Hannah sits down with former FBI investigator and certified “Tech Cowboy” Steven Bradley — a digital safety expert who has seen every trick, trap, and tech-enabled manipulation used in divorces and abusive relationships.
If you’re anywhere near divorce — contemplating it, in the thick of separation, or rebuilding after — this episode is a wake-up call you cannot skip.
Steven exposes the invisible ways technology gets weaponized:
tracking, cloning phones, spying through Alexa, manipulating text messages, hijacking your Wi-Fi, pulling your location from your AirPods, and even rewriting the narrative inside co-parenting communication.
If you’ve ever had the gut feeling he knows too much… or things just feel off… you’re not crazy.
And you’re not helpless.
This episode teaches you the digital safety steps every woman should take — with or without conflict — so you can reclaim your privacy, your safety, and your peace.
00:00 – Why Technology Is the New Battlefield in Divorce
02:00 – Steven’s Background in FBI Cyber & Domestic Crimes
03:00 – How Your Passwords, Security Questions & Shared Accounts Put You at Risk
05:40 – What’s at Stake If You Ignore Digital Safety
08:50 – Lock It Down: The First Safety Steps Every Woman Should Take
12:10 – The One Thing Almost Everyone Forgets to Change
14:35 – How to Time Your Security Changes Without Starting a War
17:52 – When You’re in a High-Conflict Situation: Advanced Protection
20:25 – Spyware, Stalkerware & Phone Cloning
23:00 – The First 3–4 Months After Separation: The Most Dangerous Window
29:19 – Car Trackers, AirPods, and “Find My” Manipulation
31:59 – Validation: You’re Not Crazy
34:37 – What Lawyers Don’t Understand (Yet) About Tech Abuse
38:09 – Preventative Tech Boundaries for Healthy Marriages & New Starts
42:54 – The Co-Parenting Tool That Changes Everything: OurFamilyWizard
49:48 – Real Talk: You Don’t Have to Be Techy to Stay Safe
54:32 – Not Saving It for Later: What Steven Learned the Hard Way
56:00 – The Thought That’s Been Circling Steven’s Mind
57:02 – What’s Shaking Him Lately
58:07 – His One Message for Women in Divorceland
Connect With Steven:
LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/steven-bradley-10136022/
OurFamilyWizard → ourfamilywizard.com/HHB
(The co-parenting tool used by courts nationwide — and the one Hannah personally swears by.)
Mentioned In This Episode
The Circle — Weekly live coaching + The My Confident Divorce course
→ myconfidentdivorce.com/circle
Hembree Bell Law Firm (Texas)
→ hembreebell.com
Follow Hannah on Instagram & TikTok → @hannahhembreebell
This podcast is for education and inspiration only — not legal, medical, or mental health advice.
If you’re in Texas and need legal support, consult a licensed attorney.
If you’re in danger, call 911 or the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233).