You are a mompreneur, a solopreneur, an online expert, a work-from-home entrepreneur, a local-business owner, and some would not call you a CEO. But you're just Not That Kind of CEO. Here, you'll find practical tips and inspiring insights to solve the chaos in your business & life, all to prevent burnout. Because getting that work-life balance isn't easy for female entrepreneurs with little kids, but it's doable. Real-life strategies from Ayla, who lives in and renovates a 500-year-old castle in France, raises two little girls, has a coaching business, and still has a life she enjoys too.
You are a mompreneur, a solopreneur, an online expert, a work-from-home entrepreneur, a local-business owner, and some would not call you a CEO. But you're just Not That Kind of CEO. Here, you'll find practical tips and inspiring insights to solve the chaos in your business & life, all to prevent burnout. Because getting that work-life balance isn't easy for female entrepreneurs with little kids, but it's doable. Real-life strategies from Ayla, who lives in and renovates a 500-year-old castle in France, raises two little girls, has a coaching business, and still has a life she enjoys too.
Planning your next year sounds like a good idea… until you try to do it in December.
In this episode, I talk about why planning while exhausted, overstimulated, and in survival mode often leads to plans that don’t stick, especially for mompreneurs.
We explore what’s really happening when clarity feels out of reach, why so many next-year plans quietly fall apart, and how timing plays a bigger role than discipline ever will.
If you’re feeling pressure to plan your next year but something in you is resisting, this conversation will help you understand that resistance differently, and approach your next year in a way that actually works for you.
When you listen, you’ll walk away with:
If this episode hit home and you want real clarity instead of another forced plan, join my free Where the F**k Should I Even Start? challenge in January.
It’s designed to help you get unstuck and move forward without burning yourself out.
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This episode is for every mompreneur who hits December and suddenly feels like she is three steps behind, exhausted, and somehow supposed to turn into a productivity wizard while the kids are decorating cookies in the background.
Everywhere online people are screaming about “finishing strong,” planning for 2026, or “what you should already have in place.” It's no wonder your system feels fried. The world is telling you to speed up while your body is begging you to slow the hell down.
In this episode, I break down what’s actually happening underneath the overwhelm. Why you feel behind. Why your brain is grasping for control. Why clarity feels impossible when your system is overloaded. And how to shift out of the frantic energy so you can end the year grounded, regulated, and proud of the woman you’re becoming.
You’ll hear:
If you’re tired of December pushing you around, this episode will make you want to grab it by the jingle balls again.
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If you’re a mompreneur, chances are big you’re constantly feeling ten steps behind. You try the new planner, the new course, the new tool, hoping this will finally make you consistent in what you do. And when it doesn’t, you immediately blame yourself.
You start thinking you’re just not good at this. You feel guilty. You feel like a bad mom, a bad entrepreneur, a woman who “should” have this figured out by now.
But the real problem isn’t you. It’s that you keep looking for answers in external solutions. New systems. New templates. New strategies.
All while ignoring the one thing that actually matters, which is how you’re built on the inside.
In this episode, I’m breaking down why planning never sticks for mompreneurs and why it has nothing to do with discipline.
It’s the same reason you waste hours setting up planners and funnels you never end up using. You’re trying to force yourself into structures that don’t match your wiring, your season, or your actual life.
It’s the productivity version of a crash diet. You think about it all day, you dread every step, and when it doesn’t “work,” you blame yourself instead of the system.
We’re flipping that story today.
I’m walking you through the shift from external solutions to internal alignment, and why everything becomes easier when your plans actually match who you are. I’m also sharing four things that have been working insanely well for me lately.
When your plans align with who you are, you don’t need discipline to stay consistent. It finally sticks. Not because you force it, but because it is aligned with who you are.
If you want support building that foundation inside yourself, make sure you’re on the priority list for my upcoming membership, The Foundation. It’s where this work becomes your new normal.
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If you’ve ever sat down to finally do “that one task” and somehow ended up doing everything except that task, this episode is going to feel like someone just turned the lights on.
Because procrastination isn’t laziness. It isn’t a character flaw. And it definitely isn’t proof that you’re a bad entrepreneur or a bad mom.
We dig into three real reasons women like us procrastinate. Inside this episode, I walk you through practical examples, the emotional undercurrent behind your avoidance, and how to finally stop forcing yourself through tasks that feel like running up a mountain.
You’ll learn how to read your procrastination for what it truly is, adjust accordingly, and move forward with clarity and ease.
In this episode you’ll hear:
• why your procrastination is smarter than you think
• the 3 hidden causes behind task avoidance
• how fear of failure and visibility sneaks into your business
• why misalignment makes everything feel harder
• how to know when to outsource, time-limit, or rethink the task
• how to shift from self-blame into self-understanding
If this work speaks to you, [join The Foundation](https://female-entrepreneurs.com/foundation), my upcoming membership for mompreneurs who want to build their business on a solid inner base instead of external pressure.
[Put your name on the priority list now!](https://female-entrepreneurs.com/foundation)
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If you’ve been feeling stuck, overthinking, or drowning in the pressure to “know better by now,” this episode is the kick in the ass you didn’t know you needed.
I’m breaking down why your expert identity is sometimes the very thing holding you back, and how adopting a beginner’s mindset can unlock clarity, ease, and momentum again.
From messy castle renovations to reinventing your offers, we’re going everywhere you’re secretly stuck… and showing you how to restart without burning your business to the ground.
If you’re craving growth, breathing room, and a business that feels like yours again, this one’s for you.
Get on the priority list for FENNE Membership!
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You ever catch yourself trying to control everything? Your kids’ moods, your business growth, the damn algorithm? Same.
In this episode, I dive into Stephen Covey’s concept of the Circle of Influence and the Circle of Concern, and how it’s completely reshaped the way I show up as a mom, entrepreneur, and human.
I talk about the six areas where we think we have control but really don’t, how to stop wasting energy on things that drain you, and how focusing on what’s actually in your circle of influence can help you feel calmer, clearer, and more confident.
I share real stories from my own castle life, motherhood chaos, and business messiness, all to show you that control isn’t the goal. Clarity is.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, reactive, or guilty for not doing enough, this conversation will help you refocus your energy on what truly matters so you can lead your business and your life with more peace and purpose.
Tune in, breathe out, and let’s get clear on what’s really yours to influence.
🎧 Listen now and learn:
💡 Want to go deeper? Join my free 5-day Where the F**k Should I Even Start? challenge, it’s short, potent, and will get you moving again with a clear 30-day action plan.
Click here to register for the next WTF-Challenge
The prompt I’m referring to in this episode and that you can use in your own AI tool:
Can you explain to me in a short, and clear manner what Covey’s Circles of Concern and Influence are. After that, can you tell me 4 or 5 points where in my life I act as if that area is in my Circle of Influence, while in reality it’s actually in my Circle of Concern? For each area you find, can you also tell me how I can grow and improve this?
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I’ve been thinking a lot about how nature moves through the seasons… and how we, as entrepreneurs, rarely give ourselves permission to do the same.
In this episode, I’m unpacking the idea of winter energy. That natural pull to rest, reflect, and restore before stepping into a new year. We’ll talk about what it looks like to stop chasing the next big goal, how to bring more calm into Q4, and how to build a business that honors your own rhythm instead of fighting against it.
If you’ve been caught in the frenzy of launches, holidays, and motherhood, this is your reminder that slowing down should be a part of your strategy.
Inside, I share the four practices I’m using this season:
It’s real talk for mompreneurs who are tired of running on empty and ready to create a business that feels calm, clear, and aligned.
Listen now to learn how to tap into winter energy, and step into the next season of your business fully recharged.
Join now: the priority list for my FENNE Membership is open to women who want to become a founding member.
We’ll soon start up this community of wonderful women who know what it’s like to have both a business and a busy family life. It will be a safe space to share and be seen by women who get exactly what you’re going through.Resource-wise, I want to make this the place where you can come to run your business in the smoothest and easiest way. All so you can take control back over your time and spend it where it matters most to you.
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You know that feeling when you’re doing all the things in your business, but still not really moving forward?
That’s what happens when you haven’t made a clear decision about where you’re going.
This episode will help you change that. You’ll learn why vague direction always leads to vague results, and how one simple mindset shift can unlock clarity, productivity, and momentum.
We’ll unpack what Stephen Covey says on decision-making and how that applies to every part of your business and life. You’ll also hear a story that might surprise you: what horseback riding taught about leadership, focus, and the power of commitment. And how saying yes to a big dream (before knowing how it would happen) created an instant shift in energy and results.
If you’ve been waiting for the “how” before taking action… this episode will show you why your next level starts with deciding what you want, not how to get there.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Tune in if you’re ready to move from maybe to momentum, and finally start leading your business like the Vision Driven CEO you’re meant to be.
Would love to do all this but don’t know where to start? Download my free guide “Where the f*ck should I even start?!” to instantly get a grip on where you’re leaking time and balance, and how you can improve it. GRAB IT HERE!
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You know that voice that whispers, “I’ll start when I’m ready”? Yeah, she’s a liar.
In this episode, I’m calling out the myth that confidence has to come before action. Because it doesn’t. Confidence is built through action, not before it. I’m breaking down why so many women wait to “feel qualified enough,” how that quiet perfectionism keeps you stuck, and why messy, imperfect movement is actually your fastest path to clarity.
I also share the real research behind the so-called “confidence gap” between men and women, plus what’s really happening when we keep buying more courses instead of just starting. Spoiler: it’s not lack of skill, it’s lack of clarity.
If you’ve ever delayed launching your offer, posting online, or raising your prices because you didn’t feel ready, this episode is your wake-up call.
Let’s talk about how to stop overthinking, start moving, and build the kind of confidence that actually lasts.
Ready to stop circling the same to-do list and finally move?Join me inside the WTF Challenge and I’ll walk you through five days of short, powerful exercises to turn your chaos into clarity and momentum. You’ll walk away with a 30-day action plan that actually feels doable.
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What if the reason you feel behind… is because you’re doing it right?
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what real, lasting change actually looks like. Especially when you’re building a business while juggling motherhood, messy systems, and the reality of, you know, only having 3 kid-free hours a day.
We’re talking about why so many mompreneurs feel like failures when they’re actually in the early (and most important) stages of transformation. And why going slow isn’t weakness, it’s wisdom.
Whether you’re trying to switch platforms, lose weight, or completely overhaul your business model (been there), this one’s your reminder: real change isn’t fast. It’s anchored.
Here’s what you’ll hear:
💌 PS: If your brain is screaming “Where the f**k do I even start?!” — join my free challenge. 5 days, delivered via email, to help you cut through the chaos and walk away with a focused 30-day plan. Next round starts October 20th.
SIGN UP HERE for the FREE WTF Challenge.
✨ Final Note:
Your change doesn’t have to be fast to be real. And just because someone else is speeding ahead doesn’t mean you’re behind. It might just mean you’re doing it right.
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You’re juggling kids, clients, a house that never seems clean, and a business that wants your attention 24/7. No wonder “balance” feels like a mythical creature. But unfortunately for you balance isn’t a luxury, it’s survival.
In this episode of Not That Kind of CEO, I’m breaking down the five work-life balance tips that actually work when you’re an entrepreneur and a mom. These aren’t fluffy “light a candle and journal” tips. We’re talking about the real shifts that let you breathe again, enjoy your kids, and still grow a business you love.
Here’s what I cover inside:
If you’re tired of feeling like you’re failing at both motherhood and business, this episode is your permission slip to stop chasing perfection and start creating real balance.
And if you’re nodding along thinking, “Okay, but where the f*ck do I even start?” I’ve got you. Download my free toolkit “Where the F**k Should I Even Start?” and in 20 minutes you’ll know exactly where the imbalance is hiding and how to take your first step out of chaos.
I see you. I’m rooting for your vision.Keep going, mama, you’re building something beautiful.
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What if the secret to nervous system regulation for entrepreneurs isn’t another meditation app, breathwork practice, or productivity hack, but actually doing something completely useless… and fun?
In this episode, I share how one spontaneous horseback riding lesson after twenty years cracked me wide open to the truth: I’d forgotten how to have fun for fun’s sake.
And as mompreneurs, we’re guilty of the same thing: we schedule rest like it’s another task, optimize play with our kids, and convince ourselves the to-do list has to be done before we can relax. Which, let’s be honest, never happens.
We dive into why your nervous system never truly turns off when you’re stuck in “go mode,” how that constant on-state is wrecking your creativity and joy, and why silly, purposeless play — whether it’s lying in the grass, coloring with your kids, or building Legos late at night — might be the most effective form of nervous system regulation for entrepreneurs.
If you’ve been waiting for permission to drop the productivity badge and let yourself play, this is it.
Links + Resources:
Grab my free clarity starter toolkit: Where the F**k Do I Even Start?
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You ever have one of those days where you’re in the same shirt as yesterday, the house looks like a bead factory exploded, and you’re still supposed to show up like a CEO? Yep. That was me recording this episode. Cap on, messy office, zero perfection… but still showing up.
Because here’s the thing: perfectionism is killing your momentum. You keep stalling your posts, your launches, and your dreams. Not because you don’t know what to do, but because you’re waiting for it to look perfect first. And while you wait, you lose time, confidence, and progress that could have been yours.
If you’re listening while juggling a toddler or sitting in your own messy office, I want you to know: you’re not behind, you’re not failing. You’re human. And you’re building something that matters.
🧭 Here’s what I cover:
🧰 Links & Resources:
👉 Grab my free Power Hour Planner — the fastest way to build momentum without overthinking.
🧡 From my heart to yours:
You don’t need a spotless house, the perfect reel, or another certificate to move forward. You need clarity, courage, and a little consistency. I see you showing up, even on the messy days. You’re not alone in this. Keep going, mama, you’re building something beautiful.
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💫 What if success in your business wasn’t just about strategy, but about energy?
In this episode of Not That Kind of CEO, I sit down with Julia Stapleton, a manifestation mentor and frequencies expert, to explore how aligning your energy can transform your business, your mindset, and your life.
Julia’s background is a fascinating mix of tech and spirituality, after years in telecommunications working with frequencies, she had a powerful awakening that led her to apply these same principles to manifestation and business growth. Now, she helps entrepreneurs tune into their own energy to create success on a whole new level.
✨ In this episode, we dive into:
✔️ How frequency alignment plays a role in business success and personal growth
✔️ The connection between science, manifestation, and the power of the mind
✔️ The biggest misconceptions about intuition and how to strengthen yours
✔️ How to navigate burnout and stay in high frequency. Especially as a busy mompreneur
✔️ Whether AI and tech are blocking or enhancing our ability to tap into intuition
✔️ Julia’s personal journey from a logical, analytical thinker to a deeply intuitive mentor
🔥 If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck at an income plateau, drained by daily stress, or just curious about how to tap into your own intuitive power, this episode is for you!
🎁 Resources & Freebies from Julia:
✨ Grab Julia’s free Masterclass on Frequency Alignment
✨ Connect with Julia on Instagram: @alchemyofcreation_
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Ever tried to run your business on three hours of sleep? Same. This week, my husband was away, the full moon hit, and my toddler decided night terrors were her new thing — so I hit record in the middle of it all to talk about what it really looks like to be a mom and an entrepreneur when you’re running on fumes.
In this episode, I’m sharing the biggest mistake I see mompreneurs make when they’re sleep-deprived (and yes, I’ve done it too), plus a more compassionate, strategic way to navigate those exhausting days. I walk you through the exact plan I lean on when I’m not at my best — so you can still move forward without burning out or spiraling.
This one’s for the moms who are building something beautiful… even when they’re barely holding it together.
🧭 Here’s what I cover:
🧰 Links & Resources:
👉 Grab your Power Hour Planner — and stop wasting time on the wrong things, even when you’re low on energy.
🧡 From my heart to yours:
If you’re exhausted and trying to make sh*t happen anyway, I see you. You’re not failing — you’re human. Let’s take care of you, so you can take care of what matters most.
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You’ve probably heard the term Zone of Genius tossed around… but are you actually working in it? Or are you stuck doing everything else — the things that leave you drained, second-guessing, and wondering if you’re even cut out for this?
In this episode of the FENNE Podcast, I’m unpacking the Zone of Genius framework and explaining why it’s more than just a feel-good concept — it’s a game-changing strategy for mompreneurs who want to stop spinning their wheels and start building real momentum.
You’ll hear:
Whether you’re juggling babies and business, or just feel like you’ve lost your spark, this episode will help you reclaim your energy and fall in love with your business again.
🔗 Resources & Links
📘 Book: The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks
✨ Join the priority list for my upcoming group program
📲 Come say hi on Instagram @ayladenhartog
Are you working harder than ever, but still not seeing the results you crave? Feeling like something’s holding you back—but you can’t quite put your finger on it?
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Reana Mulcahy, a master-certified neuro coach who helps entrepreneurs—especially mompreneurs—rewire their subconscious programming so they can thrive without burning out.
We dive deep into:
• What limiting beliefs really are (and how to spot yours)
• Why mindset beats strategy every time
• The hidden story behind imposter syndrome
• How subconscious beliefs form—and why they’re so damn hard to shake
• Tools to start reprogramming your brain today
Plus, I got real and personal as Dr. Reana walked me through uncovering my own limiting belief live on the show. (Yep, it got deep.)
If you’re a female entrepreneur ready to stop sabotaging your own success, this one’s a must-listen.
🔗 Mentioned in this episode:
Dr. Reana’s program “Rewired to Thrive” (starts in April)
Free Mindset Audit: Link in her Instagram bio
📲 Share your thoughts & tag us on Instagram: @dr.reanamulcahy @ayladenhartog
💬 DM me if you want more episodes like this!
Are you constantly in survival mode, running on fumes, and putting yourself last—again?
In this raw and honest episode, I share how I broke the cycle of resentment, burnout, and overwhelm every time my husband was away. You’ll hear how I shifted from yelling and chaos to presence and peace—without changing the kids or the schedule, but by changing how I showed up for myself.
We’ll explore:
• Why so many moms stay stuck in “last place” mode
• What it really means to take care of yourself (without the guilt)
• How putting yourself first can actually make you a better mom
• Tangible ways to get your joy and energy back—even when solo parenting
✨ Plus, I share what happened the night I finally let my daughter sleep next to me, and how it opened my heart in a way I didn’t expect.
🔗 Resources mentioned:
💥 Where the F**k Do I Even Start? Free Exercise Pack – designed for overwhelmed moms who want clarity, balance, and space to breathe.
If this episode hit home, take 30 seconds to do one thing that’s just for YOU today.
And remember: you’re not selfish, you’re setting the standard.
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Feeling overwhelmed by tech in your business? You’re not alone! In this episode, I sit down with Betsy Sabatini, a tech educator & coach with over 35 years of experience, to make technology simple, stress-free, and profitable for mompreneurs.
Betsy shares how she went from running a brick-and-mortar business to fully scaling online and how YOU can use the right tech tools to create a more flexible, automated, and efficient business—without drowning in digital overwhelm.
In This Episode, We Cover:
✅ The must-have tech tools every online entrepreneur should know
✅ How to simplify & automate tasks (so you can work smarter, not harder!)
✅ Why Zoom is more than a video tool—and how to use it for business growth
✅ The biggest mistakes mompreneurs make when learning new tech
✅ How to make virtual events interactive & engaging (instead of boring webinars)
✅ The best AI-powered tools to save you time and boost productivity
Betsy also shares her favorite automation hacks, learning strategies, and top tech shortcuts to help you get more done—without feeling lost or frustrated.
🎧 Press play and learn how to make tech work FOR you, not against you!
Resources & Links Mentioned:
🔗 Join Betsy’s Free Tech Playground Facebook Group
📌 Download her Free Tech Checklist
🎙️ Join Me at the Simple Tech Automation Summit!
If you’re ready to ditch the tech overwhelm and wow your clients with ease, don’t miss this free 3-day online summit from March 25–27, 2025.
🌟 I’ll be sharing how to create seamless client experiences that don’t require you to be involved in every step — so you can impress, automate, and scale with ease.
💎 Want lifetime access + exclusive bonuses? Snag the VIP Backstage Pass and get my Monthly Planner Notion Template as a bonus!
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📲 Tag me on Instagram with your biggest takeaway! 💖 @ayladenhartog
As a mompreneur, it’s easy to let health slide to the bottom of the priority list. Between running a business, taking care of the kids, and managing everything in between, workouts get skipped, stress piles up, and before you know it, you’re running on fumes. In this episode, I’m sharing my personal health journey—from struggling with insulin resistance, stress, and weight gain to finally finding an approach that works for me.
I’ll take you behind the scenes on how I’ve been balancing business, motherhood, and well-being, what I’ve changed in my routine, and why prioritizing my health has made everything else easier. Whether you’re feeling stuck in survival mode or just looking for inspiration to take better care of yourself, this episode is for you.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ The biggest mistake mompreneurs make when it comes to their health
✅ Why I ditched restrictive dieting & how I eat changed everything
✅ The one shift that eliminated my cravings & balanced my blood sugar
✅ How I’m using movement & stress management to get my energy back
✅ The tech & tracking tools I’m using to stay accountable
✅ How I’m finally making health a priority—without sacrificing my business
Resources & Links:
💡 Let’s connect! Find me on Instagram @ayladenhartog
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