At the Not Vanilla Podcast, hosted by the dynamic mother-daughter duo, Roxana and Dominique, our mission is simple yet powerful: Cultivating meaningful connections and promoting wellness, both mental and emotional every episode.
We're here to dive deep into the intricacies of relationships, exploring topics that resonate with both the wisdom of age and the freshness of youth. From navigating life's milestones to dissecting the latest trends, we cover it with humor, a touch of sass and lots of love .
But we're not just about talk; we're about connection. Through our engaging discussions and diverse guest lineup, we will bridge generational divides and spark moments of shared understanding and healing.
Together, let's make every conversation a little less vanilla and a whole lot more vibrant!
Listen to the Not Vanilla Podcast wherever you get your favorite podcasts! 🎧✨
At the Not Vanilla Podcast, hosted by the dynamic mother-daughter duo, Roxana and Dominique, our mission is simple yet powerful: Cultivating meaningful connections and promoting wellness, both mental and emotional every episode.
We're here to dive deep into the intricacies of relationships, exploring topics that resonate with both the wisdom of age and the freshness of youth. From navigating life's milestones to dissecting the latest trends, we cover it with humor, a touch of sass and lots of love .
But we're not just about talk; we're about connection. Through our engaging discussions and diverse guest lineup, we will bridge generational divides and spark moments of shared understanding and healing.
Together, let's make every conversation a little less vanilla and a whole lot more vibrant!
Listen to the Not Vanilla Podcast wherever you get your favorite podcasts! 🎧✨
Holiday Joy vs. Holiday Blues: How to Show Up Either Way
Navigating Friendsgiving, Family Gatherings & Feelings
Episode Summary:In this vibrant, honest, and hilariously real episode of Not Vanilla, your favorite mother–daughter duo, Roxana and Dominique, explore the emotional mix that comes with Friendsgiving and the full “Thank-mas” holiday season.
Whether you’re thriving and full of joy, or moving through grief, burnout, and holiday blues, this episode breaks down how to show up authentically without dimming your light or overwhelming your spirit. From shifting family traditions to inner-child healing, boundaries, burnout, and hosting etiquette, this conversation gets real, gets spicy, and stays full of heart.
Real conversations. Real emotions. A little spice. A whole lot of love. 💛
Key Takeaways
• Holiday pressure is real: emotions, expectations, and shifting family dynamics collide this time of year
• Ground your joy without dimming yourself
• Avoid energy vamping; bring calm, warm presence
• Acknowledge people’s feelings without trying to fix them
• Invite don’t pressure: let people participate at their own pace
• Showing up when you don’t feel like it is valid
• Three show-up styles:
Full Show-Up, Soft Show-Up, Love You From a Distance
• Create a personal plan: know your limits and exit strategy
• Protect your inner child and honor meaningful traditions
• Hosting matters: set the vibe and create safe spaces
• Presence is more important than performance
Resources Mentioned
• Hulu series “Unprisoned”
• Holiday traditions and family rituals
• Friendsgiving and hosting ideas
• Emotional boundaries and self-awareness
If this episode resonates with you, share it with someone who needs comfort, joy, or a real conversation this season. Like, follow, and subscribe to hear more real, vibrant, and spicy episodes from Not Vanilla.
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