In this episode of Ofacez, Mr. Mocha sits down with Ashley Del Toro, a longtime lifestyle single male whose journey has taken him from active participation, through personal challenges, and now into a brand-new chapter. Ashley shares how his approach to the lifestyle has shifted over the years—why genuine bonds with couples always mattered to him, how stepping back gave him a clearer sense of purpose, and what he’s excited to experience as he begins exploring the lifestyle from within a new relationship.
He opens up about the lessons that shaped him, the connections that guided him, and the growth that keeps him evolving. Whether you’re a single male in the lifestyle or someone navigating your own transition, Ashley’s perspective is honest, grounded, and filled with insight.
Welcome back to The Dirty Corner — where women get loud, get real, and give zero f*cks about anyone’s expectations.
In Episode 2, Mrs. Mocha and Sonya are still feeling each other out… but not holding anything back. The vibe is chaotic in the best way — funny, filthy, honest, and full of the kind of unfiltered energy that makes every woman listening feel a little braver and a lot more seen.
This episode is messy, sexy, and wildly authentic — because The Dirty Corner isn’t just about talking nasty…
It’s about giving women permission to be exactly who they are.
Mrs. Mocha and Sonya share lifestyle stories, poke fun at themselves (and each other), and open the door for women to explore their sexuality without shame, without fake personas, and without the pressure to fit anyone’s idea of what a “good girl” or “empowered woman” should be.
If you want comedy, chaos, and real talk that liberates your inner freak — you’re right where you belong.
Press play, laugh with us, learn with us, and let yourself be free.
On this episode , Mr. Mocha sits down with lifestyle single male Don James—a tall, attractive, highly sought-after, financially established, and unapologetically confident man navigating both the lifestyle and the vanilla world.
What starts as a conversation turns into a raw, hilarious, and brutally honest deep-dive into what it really means to be a high-value single male in the lifestyle. Mr. Mocha and Don James break down:
What truly makes a single male “high-value”
The differences between lifestyle vs. vanilla options for men
What attracts (and instantly turns off) a top-tier single male
Why certain couples succeed and others get overlooked
The truth about male behavior when no one’s watching
Real-time reactions as they review & critique an actual lifestyle profile
And the wild stories and confessions that slip out when two men forget they’re being recorded
This episode is funny, educational, brutally candid, and borderline offensive in the best possible way. If you ever wondered what men really say behind closed doors, this is your front-row seat—a true “fly on the wall” experience inside the male mind of the lifestyle.
⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains explicit language, adult themes, unfiltered male perspectives, and candid sexual discussion intended for mature audiences only. Listener discretion is strongly advised.
This special episode of Ofacez: On the Cutting Board was recorded LIVE on Twitter Spaces and brings together a powerhouse panel of lifestyle veterans to break down the truth about bull behavior, boundaries, and realistic expectations.
Featuring:
Brian Morgan — The Sigma Male
DimitriVC
That’s Fix
Mr. Mocha- Xavier Blacking
What started as a spontaneous conversation quickly turned into one of the most important educational discussions for bulls and couples in the lifestyle. The episode begins with a few live technical hiccups, but once the dialogue gets going, it becomes unfiltered, honest, funny, and incredibly insightful.
Together, the group dives into essential topics such as:
What the bull role truly means
Understanding boundaries vs. fantasy dynamics
Why some bulls develop a false sense of “ownership”
What couples mean when they request a “boyfriend experience”
Red flags and inappropriate behavior bulls must avoid
How experienced bulls build trust, respect, and longevity
How to participate ethically, confidently, and responsibly
This episode is raw, unedited, and full of authentic wisdom from men who have lived in the lifestyle for years. Their combined experience, humor, and real-world insight make this one of the most educational and entertaining conversations we’ve ever hosted.
Unscripted. Unfiltered. Real education for bulls, couples, and anyone navigating ethical non-monogamy.
The mics are on, the nerves are buzzing, and the lingerie might still be on under the jeans. Mrs. Mocha is back — and she’s bringing a brand-new partner-in-crime, Sonya, for her very first podcast! Both a little nervous and very excited, these two dive straight into the deep end of the lifestyle pool: how they got started, what turned them on to it, and why it’s made their marriages hotter than ever.
Expect giggles, goosebumps, and a few moments that’ll make you blush as they swap stories about connection, confidence, and what happens when curiosity turns into passion. Whether you’re in the lifestyle or just peeking over the fence, this spicy, unscripted episode will leave you turned on, tuned in, and wanting more.
Mr. and Mrs. Mocha turn the tables in this wild, unfiltered episode as they sit down with Norman and Tammy — an interracial couple and both therapists, with Tammy specializing in sex therapy. Norman, a former military man with a sharp edge, and Tammy, a seasoned therapist with an open mind, join the Mochas for a raw, hilarious, and surprisingly vulnerable deep dive into relationships, sex, and the lifestyle.
What starts as “therapy” quickly turns into a four-way exchange full of laughter, flirtation, and brutally honest truths. Norman and Tammy pull back the curtain on their own relationship dynamics — even revealing a few surprises to each other — while Mr. and Mrs. Mocha share real moments from their own journey, giving their guests a chance to dissect the spicy, complicated, and beautiful sides of love and lust.
It’s candid, sexy, funny, and deeply real — part therapy session, part confession, and all chemistry.
Trigger Warning: Expect unfiltered talk about sex, relationships, and lifestyle dynamics — this one gets real.
March 2025’s Splash Mocha was filthy, fabulous, and full of unforgettable nights—and now it’s time for the debrief you’ve been dying for.
In this long-overdue episode, Mr. and Mrs. Mocha finally sit down to relive all the steamy, sweaty, and downright scandalous moments from their time at the nation’s hottest interracial swinger event. From late-night playrooms to flirt-heavy pool parties, nothing’s off limits as Mrs. Mocha opens up about reconnecting with old friends, making sexy new ones, and fully stepping back into her seductive, untamed groove.
💦 Wild room parties.
💦 Spontaneous threesomes.
💦 Fans who turned into unforgettable flings.
💦 And that one moment that left even Mr. Mocha speechless...
This isn’t just a recap—it’s a full-body confession. Whether you were at Splash or just dreamed of being there, this episode brings the heat straight to your headphones.
Real stories from real swingers
Bold, confident wives owning their sexuality
A front-row seat to the wildest event in the lifestyle
Unfiltered talk that feels like your sexiest group chat
In this no-holds-barred episode of O-Facez, Mr. and Mrs. Mocha answer the steamiest, most vulnerable, and most asked questions from listeners deep in—or just getting curious about—the swinger lifestyle.
From managing emotions and setting boundaries to the wild stories.
What’s it really like to open your bedroom—and your relationship—to others?Expect real answers, intimate moments, and plenty of laughter as the Mochas mix honesty, heat, and humor in a conversation that speaks directly to couples—and inspiration for the bolder women who are ready to explore connection, chemistry, and sexual freedom together.
In this explosive episode of Ofacez, Mr. Mocha hosts a no-filter, no-apologies debate that dives straight into one of the most talked-about questions in the lifestyle world:
👉 Who truly holds the power in cuckolding and hotwifing—the couple or the bull?
Joining the table:
🎙 Michael C., one of the most recognizable and respected voices in the cuckold and hotwife lifestyle from the Keys and Anklets podcast, and
🎙 Socrates, a bold new voice and emerging personality from the Bulls Brotherhood podcast.
Moderated by The Sigma Male (also from Bulls Brotherhood), this debate goes way beyond surface-level lifestyle talk. Mr. Mocha (firmly Team Couple) and Michael C. (Team Bull) reignite their long-standing disagreement—but this time, Socrates steps in with his own fire, challenging both sides with a raw and unfiltered perspective.
This episode is funny, intense, honest, and long—but worth every second for anyone serious about the lifestyle.
🔞 Topics Include:
Cuckolding vs. Bull power dynamics
Who’s really in control during play: the bull or the couple?
Bull psychology, dominance, and expectations
Would you rather have to many or to few options
Real male experiences inside the lifestyle
Whether you're in the swinger lifestyle, exploring cuckold/hotwife dynamics, or just want unfiltered conversations with real men who live it—this is essential listening.
🎧 Press play on this long ass, uncut, and unforgettable lifestyle podcast episode .
Mr. Mocha and Manicorn Q are day drinking and saying whatever the hell they want in this unfiltered, boys-only edition of Ofacez: The Cutting Board. They rope in Stag Rizza, who kicks things off with a wild question: Why do so many Black men leave their socks on during sex? From there, it spirals—in the best way possible.
This episode dives into the swinger lifestyle from a male perspective, mixing real sex talk, cultural truths, and politically incorrect laughs. If you're into hotwife dynamics, stag/vixen play, open marriage, or just raw, unedited lifestyle conversations with no sugarcoating—this one’s for you.
🎙️ Topics include:
Swinger culture & male performance
Stag life & hotwife perspectives
Black men in the lifestyle
Funny sex habits and taboos
Drinking, honesty, and everything in between
Warning: This is a locker-room-level, drink-in-hand episode. No filters, no fluff—just straight-up real talk from real men living the lifestyle.
In a seductive twist, the mics are turned on Mr. and Mrs. Mocha as Brian Morgan, better known as The Sigma Male, takes over hosting duties on the Ofacez podcast. A long-time admirer of their dynamic, Brian is on a mission to pull back the curtain and uncover the roots of the relationship that so many in the lifestyle look up to.
What follows is a deeply personal and intimate conversation, where the Mocha’s share the raw, real, and sometimes messy journey that shaped their unbreakable bond. From lust to love, from trust to full-blown sexual liberation, Brian digs into how their relationship evolved—and how they managed to build a connection strong enough to not just survive the lifestyle, but thrive in it.
Listeners get a front-row seat to the kind of honesty and vulnerability rarely captured in the lifestyle space. For wives craving emotional depth and husbands who want to understand how to lead with both strength and softness, this episode is a masterclass in modern love, sexual freedom, and radical partnership.
Whether you're curious, committed, or craving more from your own relationship, this candid interview peels back the layers—and the clothes—of what makes Mr. and Mrs. Mocha such a powerful couple both in and out of the bedroom.
Day 2 of the Mr. and Mrs. Mocha live podcast at Splash Mocha was pure fire from start to finish. If Day 1 warmed things up, Day 2 turned up the heat and let it burn. With a packed studio audience and a panel that was ready to get raw, this episode dove even deeper into the realities, fantasies, and downright sexy chaos of the lifestyle.
From the moment the mics turned on, the energy in the room was electric. Real couples. Real bulls. Real conversations. No scripts, no filters—just genuine people sharing their wildest moments, unspoken desires, and the emotional highs (and curveballs) that come with living the lifestyle out loud.
Mrs. Mocha kept it spicy, asking the questions everyone’s too shy to say out loud. Mr. Mocha, as always, brought balance with humor, insight, and a few jaw-dropping reactions of his own. The audience didn’t hold back either—adding to the kind of vibe you just don’t get behind closed studio doors.
Was the sound perfect? Nah. But that only made it feel more real—like you were right there in the room, drink in hand, heart racing, and a few ideas you might just take home with you.
Whether you're deep in the lifestyle or just curious about what really goes down at these conventions, this episode is a wild ride you don’t want to miss. Sexy, smart, and straight-up unforgettable.
Step into the electrifying energy of a live studio audience as Mr. and Mrs. Mocha take the stage at Splash Mocha, the ultimate interracial hotwife convention! This episode delivers raw, unscripted, and unfiltered conversations with a dynamic panel and audience participation that takes the discussion to the next level.
While the sound quality may be a little rough, the passion, excitement, and authenticity shine through as guests and attendees dive into the realities of the swinger lifestyle. From jaw-dropping personal experiences to candid confessions and spicy debates, this is one conversation you won’t want to miss.
Experience the thrill of live podcasting where anything can happen—because when the Mocha’s and a room full of open-minded, sexy people get together, you know it’s going to be an unforgettable ride!
Buckle up, press play, and get ready for the heat!
Trigger Warning: Provocative Content Ahead!
This week on Ofacez, Mr. Mocha sits down with the outspoken Manicorn Q, who kicks off the conversation with a fiery statement: "Your wife is not as hot as you think she is." Dive into an unfiltered discussion that touches on dynamics within swinging, hotwifing, Cuckolding, and ethical non-monogamy. Manicorn Q's candid insights and bold opinions are sure to spark intense reactions. Mr. Mocha provides a space for raw and passionate exchanges, so buckle up for a steamy, reality-TV-like episode that might challenge your perspectives. Are you ready for the heat?
As the countdown to Splash Mocha begins, Mrs. Mocha is practically buzzing with anticipation. In this steamy pre-event episode, she shares her excitement about rekindling old connections and embracing the thrill of new, pulse-quickening experiences. With Mr. Mocha’s expert touch guiding her into the perfect, uninhibited mindset, she’s ready to unleash her wild side in ways that will leave listeners breathless.
But this episode isn’t just about passion—it’s about connection. Mrs. Mocha emphasizes the importance of couples deepening their bond before, during, and after the event, reminding listeners that intimacy isn’t always about sex. Sometimes, it’s about stolen glances, whispered confessions, and the unspoken promise of what’s to come.
For the wives yearning for something more—for excitement, for seduction, for a taste of the forbidden—Mrs. Mocha offers tips on staying energized, engaged, and ready to indulge in the kind of unforgettable nights that romance novels barely dare to describe. This episode is a must-listen for any woman craving adventure… and a partner who knows exactly how to ignite her deepest desires.
Tune in, turn on, and let's talk dirty.
Ever wondered what really happens at sex parties? Or how stepping outside the "norm" can reignite the passion in your relationship? Mr. and Mrs. Mocha are bringing the heat in this episode as they sit down with Tammy, who took a leap into the world of ethical non-monogamy after a chance encounter at a bar introduced her to the lifestyle.
From nervously attending her first sex party to finding confidence, connection, and erotic freedom, Tammy shares her unforgettable journey—complete with awkward moments, thrilling encounters, and the unexpected friendships that changed her perspective on relationships and intimacy.
She dives deep into what it’s really like to explore new desires, navigate pleasure with confidence, and embrace the power of female sexual empowerment. But here’s the twist—Tammy isn’t just another lifestyle explorer. Spoiler alert: She’s also a sex and relationship therapist and coach, bringing expert insight into why so many couples feel “stuck” and how they can break free to rediscover passion.
Join Mr and Mrs Mocha in this juicy and unfiltered episode as they dish out advice on breaking free from lifestyle peer pressure and embracing your authentic, sexy self . Whether you are new to the scene or a seasoned Explorer they encourage you to break out of cliques , explore different lifestyle communities, and unlock the full potential of your wildest fantasies.
And because Mocha always bring the heat , she shares a hilarious explicit tale about her freshly (waxed kitty ) and how it held up during some steamy , friction - filled fun. Spoiler alert it's as spicy as it sounds!
If you are a curious couple, a swinging soul, or a bored housewife craving more passion in the bedroom , this episode will inspire you to let your freak flag fly , laugh a little (or a lot ) , and dive into new adventures without shame . Sexy, sassy, and O-so-relatable -- this is one episode you don't want to miss .
Tune in , turn on ,and let's talk dirty .
Dive into the steamy world of the swinger lifestyle in this sizzling episode of the Mr. and Mrs. Mocha podcast! Joining us all the way from the UK are none other than Secret Vixen and her husband, Secret Stag, for a no-holds-barred conversation that’s as hot as it is revealing.
Discover how this power couple first dipped their toes into the lifestyle and how it reignited Secret Vixen’s confidence, bringing her “Sexy Back” in ways she never imagined. They share intimate details about their very first experience in the lifestyle—a moment that set Secret Vixen’s passion ablaze and inspired her to create a blog where she openly answers burning questions and shares her adventures.
Things heat up as Secret Vixen opens up about her recent trip to the US for Splash Mocha, the ultimate interracial hotwife convention. Hear her gush about how empowered and sexy she felt at the event, and her excitement for more U.S.-based experiences.
But it doesn’t stop there. Mrs. Mocha doesn’t shy away from turning up the heat, encouraging Secret Vixen to explore even wilder fantasies, including taking on multiple men at once. By the end of the episode, sparks are flying as Mrs. Mocha and Secret Vixen make plans for a sexy team-up to take on a group of irresistibly hot men.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the swinger lifestyle, looking to spice up their relationship, or just seeking a fun, adult-themed escape. Whether you’re into sexy reality TV, couples’ sexual therapy, or just love a good, naughty story, this podcast delivers it all—raw, real, and unfiltered.
In our latest live episode, "The Men of Ofacez," recorded at the Splash Mocha Interracial Hot Wife convention in Orlando during the New Year’s Eve event, a powerhouse panel featuring Mr. Mocha, Demetri VC, Chris Minx, Misdaeastcoast, Andre, and Pussy Licka shared their insights.
They spoke about the importance of the Lifestyle community—a space that empowers, educates, and teaches accountability. The panel explored themes of normalizing sexual freedom and embracing the reality that men can be vulnerable while still embodying true masculinity.
This isn’t your typical relationship podcast—it’s a no-holds-barred exploration of connection, freedom, and the pursuit of pleasure. Tune in and discover what it means to live unfiltered.
"In this episode, recorded live at Splash Mocha in Orlando, Florida, an interracial hotwife event, Mr. Mocha and Mrs. Mocha explored the dynamics of sexual freedom for women within the lifestyle community. They engaged with the audience, including a discussion initiated by an experienced bull about the authenticity of Queen of Spades, and explored the topic of being a married bull in the lifestyle. Mrs. Mocha also shared her journey and how she's become more open sexually, challenging societal norms. The lively audience participation added a fun, sexy, and exciting element, making it a fantastic way to end 2024."