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Parallel Lives
Parallel Lives
49 episodes
1 week ago
A podcast where we speak to a cross section of the Maladaptive Daydreaming community and discuss their lived experiences with the condition. Each week our hosts will explore a topic related to MD with three guests. Episodes are published on the 1st and 16th of every month. If you have a topic you'd like to hear covered, would like to send in questions for us to ask future guests or would like to be a guest one day; contact us at ContactParallelLives@gmail.com, drop a comment or join the Discord: https://discord.gg/rKtG5ZS
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A podcast where we speak to a cross section of the Maladaptive Daydreaming community and discuss their lived experiences with the condition. Each week our hosts will explore a topic related to MD with three guests. Episodes are published on the 1st and 16th of every month. If you have a topic you'd like to hear covered, would like to send in questions for us to ask future guests or would like to be a guest one day; contact us at ContactParallelLives@gmail.com, drop a comment or join the Discord: https://discord.gg/rKtG5ZS
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Parallel Lives
What Does "cure" mean? A conversation with Karishma

We're back from our long hiatus! Dimmer and Halo talk with Karishma about what 'cure' might mean for Maladaptive Daydreamers. Hit all the notification buttons, we haven't pinned down a stable schedule yet.Link to Discord: https://discord.gg/x6QZNwe89YInternational Society for Maladaptive Daydreaming: https://maladaptivedaydreamingsociety.com/Reddit community: https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/International Consortium for Maladaptive Daydreaming Research: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research/publicationsArt by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/Music by: Iliasse (ask for details)

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8 months ago
59 minutes 59 seconds

Parallel Lives
Talking Jung with Psychoanalyst Susan Meindl

Today Dimmer talks to Canadian psychologist and psychoanalyst, Susan Meindl about Jungian themes and Active Imagination. Q couldn't make this episode, but don't worry, he'll be back for the next. See below for details of Susan's presentation to the C G Jung Society of Montreal!


Such Stuff as Dreams Are Made On:

The Role of Fantasy in Jungian Life

A lecture by Susan Meindl 

Friday, April 12th  7:00 p.m.-9:00 p.m. (EDT)


A short video clip about her presentation

 https://youtu.be/w7bOW_Temg

 

Susan Meindl is a psychologist and psychoanalyst in private practice in Montreal, Canada

 

Active imagination is considered one of the “four pillars” of Jungian psychology. There are, however, many naturally and intuitively entered-into mental activities which draw on the same human capacities as active imagination, but without an intentional therapeutic effect. For individuals with a strong capacity for imagination, fantasy life can be alluring, treacherous and for some, addictive. What happens when active imagination escapes the analyst’s office and wanders around “wild” in the psychological world? 

Jung was aware of some of the dangers, but he also felt that active imagination was a powerful adjunct to dreams as a way of connecting to deeper parts of ourselves, individuating and creating a living relationship with our unconscious. Please join me for this lecture and seminar in which we will explore some of the fascinating, and often revealing, aspects of fantasy and imagination.

 

Parallel Lives:

Disorders and Delights of Fantasy and imagination

A Seminar with Susan Meindl

Saturday, April 13th.   1:00 p.m.-3:00 p.m. (EDT)


Information and registration links

sites.google.com/site/cgjungmontreal

Susan Meindl, M.A., O.P.Q., c.o.Psychologist/Psychologue
Contact me: susan.meindl@gmail.com
514 261-0591
Read my articles on-line: http://ezinearticles.com/?expert_bio=Susan_Meindl


Here's the 'grass roots' paper Dimmer couldn't remember the name of.

And Eretia's blog that we mentioned.

Discord

ISMD

ICMDR

Reddit Art by: SPFitzgerald Music by: Iliasse (ask for details) Thumbnail by: SPFitzgerald

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1 year ago
1 hour 4 minutes 53 seconds

Parallel Lives
Fears of Quitting Maladaptive Daydreaming

Today we talk to Maladaptive Daydreaming blogger, Ky, about fear MDers may have around "quitting" daydreaming.


Ky's Blog The Daydream Place: for immersive/maladaptive daydreamers

Link to Discord:   / discord   Trapped in Daydreams blog: https://www.trappedindaydreams.com/ Reddit community:   / maladaptivedreaming   International Consortium for Maladaptive Daydreaming Research: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/... Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/ Music by: Iliasse (ask for details) Thumbnails by: Jessica

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2 years ago
1 hour 3 minutes 38 seconds

Parallel Lives
Maladaptive Daydreaming in The Secret Life of Walter Mitty

Q and Dimmer dive into the 2013 film The Secret Life of Walter Mitty

Links to stuff mentioned in the episode: MD writing server: https://discord.gg/NvZmmukYsw Daydreamer Newsletter contact page: https://maladaptivedaydreamers.com/contact/ 

General Resources and Links: Link to Discord: https://discord.gg/x6QZNwe89Y Maladaptive Daydreaming Center: https://maladaptivedaydreamingcenter.org/Reddit community: https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/ International Consortium for Maladaptive Daydreaming Research: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research/publications 

Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/ Music by: Iliasse (ask for details) Thumbnails by: Jessica

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2 years ago
1 hour 27 minutes 18 seconds

Parallel Lives
Maladaptive Daydreamers and Expectations

Today we talk to fellow YouTuber LittleOlBee about the expectations that others hold for Maladaptive Daydreamers.  I'm not even sure that's a good way to explain it but it's the best I can do.   

Bee's channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgauOFQFcdrISHf7biOQA4g 

Link to Discord: https://discord.gg/x6QZNwe89Y

Reddit community: https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/

International Consortium for Maladaptive Daydreaming Research: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research/publications 

Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/

Music by: Iliasse (ask for details) 

Thumbnails by: Jessica

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2 years ago
1 hour 1 minute 16 seconds

Parallel Lives
Hobbies and Maladaptive Daydreaming

This week Dimmer and substitute co-host, Karishma, chat with Hillary about how MD and hobbies intersect.   

Link to Discord: https://discord.gg/x6QZNwe89Y
Trapped in Daydreams blog: https://www.trappedindaydreams.com/
Reddit community: https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/
International Consortium for Maladaptive Daydreaming Research: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research/publications  

Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/
Music by: Iliasse (ask for details)
Thumbnails by: Jessica

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2 years ago
52 minutes 53 seconds

Parallel Lives
Perception of Reality in Maladaptive Daydreaming

Today we welcome Halo back to talk about how MDers relate to reality. We touch on "dramatic irony", "true love" and "time".  

Links to stuff mentioned in the episode:
MD writing server: https://discord.gg/NvZmmukYsw
Daydreamer Newsletter contact page: https://maladaptivedaydreamers.com/contact/ 

General Resources and Links:
Link to Discord: https://discord.gg/x6QZNwe89Y
Maladaptive Daydreaming Center: https://maladaptivedaydreamingcenter.org/Reddit community: https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/
International Consortium for Maladaptive Daydreaming Research: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research/publications 

Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/
Music by: Iliasse (ask for details)
Thumbnails by: Jessica

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2 years ago
1 hour 16 minutes 28 seconds

Parallel Lives
Was it All Just a Lie?; Guide to MD pt.5

Part 5 of a series covering The Guide to Maladaptive Daydreaming; Overcoming Fantasy Addiction, a blog by the MDer known as Eretaia.  Today we'll be covering part 5, "Was it All Just a Lie?" with Lisa.     

 The Guide to MD blog series: https://maladaptivedaydreamingguide.wordpress.com/guide/  
Our email: ContactParallelLives@gmail.com Send us fan art!    
The Newsletter: https://maladaptivedaydreamers.com/resources/
The Subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/
The Discord https://discord.gg/A5aCVvC4yu
TheICMDR (research site) https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research
The MDC (community site) https://maladaptivedaydreamingcenter.org/

Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/ Music by: Iliasse (ask for details) Thumbnails by: Jessica

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3 years ago
1 hour 29 minutes 26 seconds

Parallel Lives
The Void; Guide to MD pt.4

Part 4 of a series covering The Guide to Maladaptive Daydreaming; Overcoming Fantasy Addiction, a blog by the MDer known as Eretaia.  Today we'll be covering part four, "The Void" with Michael (Happy).

The Guide to MD blog series: https://maladaptivedaydreamingguide.wordpress.com/guide/  
Our email: ContactParallelLives@gmail.com Send us fan art and topic ideas!  

The dissertation mentioned in this episode: https://researchoutput.csu.edu.au/ws/portalfiles/portal/240545800/PhD_Haynes_RS_11470570.pdf

The Newsletter: https://maladaptivedaydreamers.com/resources/
The Subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/
The Discord https://discord.gg/A5aCVvC4yu
The ICMDR (research site) https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research
The MDC (community site) https://maladaptivedaydreamingcenter.org/

Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/ Music by: Iliasse (ask for details) Thumbnails by: Jessica

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3 years ago
1 hour 13 minutes 5 seconds

Parallel Lives
Are You There?; Guide to MD pt.3

Part 2 of a series covering The Guide to Maladaptive Daydreaming; Overcoming Fantasy Addiction, a blog by the MDer known as Eretaia.  Today we'll be covering part 3, "Are You There" with Liz.   

A message from Thomas:
Hi everyone. My name is Thomas Renckens and I'm a Dutch documentary filmmaker based in Amsterdam.  In 2020 I made a short documentaly film about MD - my graduation film from the National Film and Television School called "The Daydreamers".

Since then I've been working hard to secure funding to make a long documentary about MD, and I was recently given development money from the Dutch public broadcaster for the project.

As part of my research I would like to speak to individuals about their experience with MD through Zoom/Skype. Initially it would be for my own research but I might be interested in filmmaking with you for the documentary in the future.  I'm particularly keen to speak to individuals based in Europe, but those in other parts of the world are welcome to get in touch as well.  No requirements to speak English fluently. 

If you're open to speaking with me please send an email to: thedaydreamersfilm@gmail.com

If you email me can you please make sure to include the following information:

- name
- age
- location
- brief description of your daydreaming experience, e.g. what do you daydream about, what triggers your daydreams, how much has MD impacted your life, etc. (feel free to share however much you feel comfortable with).

I look forward to hearing from you.
Best, Thomas.
www.thomaswillemrenckens.com

The Guide to MD blog series: https://maladaptivedaydreamingguide.wordpress.com/guide/

Our email: ContactParallelLives@gmail.com Send us fan art!  

The Newsletter: https://maladaptivedaydreamers.com/resources/
The Subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/
The Discord https://discord.gg/A5aCVvC4yu
TheICMDR (research site) https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research
The MDC (community site) https://maladaptivedaydreamingcenter.org/     

Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/
Music by: Iliasse (ask for details)
Thumbnails by: Jessica

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3 years ago
56 minutes 5 seconds

Parallel Lives
What You Are and What You Are Not; Guide to MD pt.2

Part 2 of a series covering The Guide to Maladaptive Daydreaming; Overcoming Fantasy Addiction, a blog by the MDer known as Eretaia.  Today we'll be covering par two, "What You Are and What You Are Not" with Mon.  

The Guide to MD blog series: https://maladaptivedaydreamingguide.wordpress.com/guide/

Our email: ContactParallelLives@gmail.com
Send us fan art!

The Log Book
Amazon https://www.amazon.com/MD-Daily-Tracker-Maladaptive-Daydreaming/dp/B09BCCB6FP/ref=sr_1_6?crid=36UZUPFB3ZT5Y&keywords=maladaptive+daydreaming&qid=1659556492&s=books&sprefix=maladaptive%2Cstripbooks%2C80&sr=1-6
PDF https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1_eF0q7eLSCQ0HkZ9ciyV0pe3m3vO1gkQ?usp=sharing

The App
Android https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.a.daydream
iOS https://apps.apple.com/us/app/daydreaming/id1608709937

So... it looks like Dimmer was mistaken, the entire treatment study is not yet available but here is a preliminary write-up on it (english abstract) and there is another paper currently under review. Herscu, O. (2021). Treatment for Maladaptive Daydreaming: A pioneering study on the development and evaluation of an online intervention based on mindfulness meditation and self-monitoring. Doctoral dissertation presented to the School of Social Work, University of Haifa, Israel (in Hebrew, English abstract).

The Newsletter: https://maladaptivedaydreamers.com/resources/
The Subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/
The Discord https://discord.gg/A5aCVvC4yuTheICMDR (research site) https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research
The MDC (community site) https://maladaptivedaydreamingcenter.org/   

Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/
Music by: Iliasse (ask for details)
Thumbnails by: Jessica

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3 years ago
1 hour 12 minutes 58 seconds

Parallel Lives
Fall of the Self; Guide to MD pt.1

Part 1 of a series covering The Guide to Maladaptive Daydreaming; Overcoming Fantasy Addiction, a blog by the MDer known as Eretaia.  Today we'll be covering "Fall of the Self" with Nymph.

The Guide to MD blog series: https://maladaptivedaydreamingguide.wordpress.com/guide/
Somer, E., Somer, L. & Halpern, N. (2019). Representations of maladaptive daydreaming and the self: A qualitative analysis of drawings, The Arts in Psychotherapy.  63, 102-110. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.aip.2018.12.004 https://www.somer.co.il/images/MD/2019_art-MD.pdf


The Newsletter: https://maladaptivedaydreamers.com/resources/
The Subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/
The Discord https://discord.gg/A5aCVvC4yuThe
ICMDR (research site) https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research
The MDC (community site) https://maladaptivedaydreamingcenter.org/ 


Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/
Music by: Iliasse (ask for details)
Thumbnails by: Jessica

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3 years ago
1 hour 13 minutes 40 seconds

Parallel Lives
Realizing it was MD

Here we talk with Liz about how we knew it was MD following a user request via email.  

NPR video Liz mentions: https://youtu.be/ckYSydGYKRU
Smoking video Dimmer mentions: https://youtu.be/GGiNOzk0aNg

Link to Discord: https://discord.gg/x6QZNwe89Y
Reddit community: https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/
International Consortium for Maladaptive Daydreaming Research: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research/publications
Maladaptive Daydreaming Center: https://maladaptivedaydreamingcenter.org/

Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/
Music by: Iliasse (ask for details)
Thumbnails by: Jessica

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3 years ago
1 hour 11 minutes

Parallel Lives
Maladaptive Daydreaming and Asexuality

In this episode we talk to Emerie and Pumpkin Queen about how Maladaptive Daydreaming and asexuality intersect in their lived experience. 

The paper Dimmer mentions in the beginning; https://somer.co.il/images/docs/2016_Bigelsen_et_al_MD_under-researched_Dx.pdf

Link to Discord: https://discord.gg/x6QZNwe89Y
Trapped in Daydreams blog: https://www.trappedindaydreams.com/
Reddit community: https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/
International Consortium for Maladaptive Daydreaming Research: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research/publications 

Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/
Music by: Iliasse (ask for details)
Thumbnails by: Jessica

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3 years ago
53 minutes 26 seconds

Parallel Lives
Daydream Crashes

Here we talk to guest, Kayla about Maladaptive Daydreaming Crashes.  

Link to Discord: https://discord.gg/x6QZNwe89Y

Trapped in Daydreams blog: https://www.trappedindaydreams.com/

Reddit community: https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/

International Consortium for Maladaptive Daydreaming Research: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research/publications 


Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/Music by: Iliasse (ask for details) Thumbnails by: Jessica

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3 years ago
1 hour 10 minutes 29 seconds

Parallel Lives
The Maladaptive Daydreaming Scale (part 2)

In this episode Q, Dimmer and guest, Hilary, take the Maladaptive Daydreaming Scale (MDS-16).  This is part 2, part 1 as released May 1s 2022.  

The MDS-16: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research/measures

Somer, E., Lehrfeld J., Jopp, D.S., & Bigelsen, J. (2016). Development and Validation of the Maladaptive Daydreaming Scale (MDS). Consciousness and Cognition, 39, 77-91. DOI: http://dx.doi.org/10.1016/j.concog.2015.12.001 https://somer.co.il/images/docs/2016_MDS.pdf Soffer-Dudek, N. & Theodor‐Katz, N. (2022). 


 Discord: https://discord.gg/x6QZNwe89Y

Trapped in Daydreams blog: https://www.trappedindaydreams.com/

Reddit community: https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/

International Consortium for Maladaptive Daydreaming Research: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research/publications 

Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/Music by: Iliasse (ask for details) Thumbnails by: Jessica

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3 years ago
43 minutes 47 seconds

Parallel Lives
The Maladaptive Daydreaming Scale (part 1)

In this episode Q, Dimmer and guest, Hilary, take the Maladaptive Daydreaming Scale (MDS-16).  This is part 1, part 2 will be released May 16th 2022.  

The MDS-16: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research/measures

Somer, E., Lehrfeld J., Jopp, D.S., & Bigelsen, J. (2016). Development and Validation of the Maladaptive Daydreaming Scale (MDS). Consciousness and Cognition, 39, 77-91. DOI: http://dx.doi.org/10.1016/j.concog.2015.12.001 https://somer.co.il/images/docs/2016_MDS.pdf  

Soffer-Dudek, N. & Theodor‐Katz, N. (2022). Maladaptive Daydreaming: epidemiological data on a newly identified syndrome. Frontiers in Psychiatry.  https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyt.2022.871041 https://www.dropbox.com/s/03ng1r74ahhwkhw/2022-epidemilogy.pdf?dl=0  


Link to Discord: https://discord.gg/x6QZNwe89Y
Trapped in Daydreams blog: https://www.trappedindaydreams.com/
Reddit community: https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/
International Consortium for Maladaptive Daydreaming Research: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research/publications

Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/
Music by: Iliasse (ask for details)
Thumbnails by: Jessica

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3 years ago
45 minutes 47 seconds

Parallel Lives
Studying with MD

Today we're talking with Sinaeh about how to study with Maladaptive Daydreaming 


The Newsletter: https://maladaptivedaydreamers.com/resources/
The Subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/
The Discord https://discord.gg/A5aCVvC4yuThe
ICMDR (research site) https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research
The MDC (community site) https://maladaptivedaydreamingcenter.org/ 


Thumbnails by Jessica
Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/
Music by: Iliasse (ask for details)

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3 years ago
1 hour 11 minutes 39 seconds

Parallel Lives
An MDer and Her Mother

Today we're talking to Maladaptive Daydreamer, Pepper, and her mother Heather about discovering Maladaptive Daydreaming.

Note*  We had a little trouble with the end of the recording, kindly ignore any audio weirdness, apologies if it's distracting. 

The Newsletter: https://maladaptivedaydreamers.com/resources/

The Subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/

The Discord https://discord.gg/A5aCVvC4yuThe ICMDR (research site) https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research

The MDC (community site) https://maladaptivedaydreamingcenter.org/

Thumbnails by Jessica
Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/
Music by: Iliasse (ask for details) 

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3 years ago
50 minutes 28 seconds

Parallel Lives
Reacting to Anthony Padilla

Today we talk about the recent "I Spent a Day With" episode about Maladaptive Daydreaming on Anthony Padilla's YouTube channel.

The video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wqqOeE20Grc

The Newsletter: https://maladaptivedaydreamers.com/resources/
Jaynes YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmv2xTbLt4gsEkOfNnQU2GQ/videos

The Subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/
The Discord https://discord.gg/A5aCVvC4yu
The ICMDR (research site) https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/md-research
The MDC (community site) https://maladaptivedaydreamingcenter.org/

Thumbnails by Jessica
Art by SPFitzgerald
Music by Illiasse 

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3 years ago
1 hour 7 minutes 38 seconds

Parallel Lives
A podcast where we speak to a cross section of the Maladaptive Daydreaming community and discuss their lived experiences with the condition. Each week our hosts will explore a topic related to MD with three guests. Episodes are published on the 1st and 16th of every month. If you have a topic you'd like to hear covered, would like to send in questions for us to ask future guests or would like to be a guest one day; contact us at ContactParallelLives@gmail.com, drop a comment or join the Discord: https://discord.gg/rKtG5ZS