Life rarely goes according to plan, and parenting is no exception. Dr. Roger Smith discusses the vital shift from total parental control to fostering flexibility in your children. Using travel mishaps as a metaphor, he explores how parents can model emotional balance when things go wrong—whether it’s a spilled glass of juice or a missed opportunity. Learn how to train your children to navigate multiple pathways, handle disappointment without a meltdown, and understand that making a mistake isn't a moral failure. By staying pleasant when you have to "flex," you teach your children the essential life skill of enjoying the journey, even when the path changes. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

We’ve all heard the saying, "Don’t judge a book by its cover," but do we apply it to our kids? Dr. Roger Smith uses a library find to challenge how we react to our children's behavior. Instead of judging outward actions or styles at first glance—which can feel manipulative or lead to harsh labels—he encourages parents to ask deeper questions about motivation and heart. By seeking the "story inside" rather than reacting to the "cover," you preserve the relationship necessary to truly influence your child’s character rather than just controlling their conduct. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Is travel essential for a child’s development? Dr. Roger Smith explores Mark Twain’s idea that travel is "fatal to prejudice," explaining how exposing children to different cultures, languages, and perspectives prevents narrow-mindedness. Whether you’re crossing an ocean or just visiting the next town over, encountering people who live differently helps children move past assumptions and learn to value others. If you can't hit the road, Dr. Smith shares how to "travel the world in your living room" through books and stories, ultimately teaching your kids the invaluable skill of loving and appreciating a diverse world. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Life is far more interesting when we stop to ask "Why?" Using a hidden iron ring on a canal wall in Manchester as an example, Dr. Roger Smith explains how parents can train their children to be world-class observers. This episode explores how to turn everyday walks into "clue-finding" missions, helping kids piece together the history and purpose of the things they see. Learn how simple activities like scavenger hunts and "why" questions build essential life skills—from critical thinking to practical problem-solving—and how your own curiosity is the greatest model for theirs. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Parenting isn't a solo act; it’s a team sport. Using the analogy of a pair of scissors, Dr. Roger Smith illustrates how two different perspectives—though they may seem opposed—are both necessary to get the job done. This episode explores why mothers and fathers bring unique, essential strengths to the family and how to navigate those differences without seeing your spouse as an opponent. Learn why tending to your marriage is one of the most effective ways to be a better parent and how appreciating your partner’s strengths can help you tackle the "grand adventure" of raising children with unity and respect. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Forgiveness is more than just saying "I'm sorry"—it’s a vital life skill that requires empathy and intentionality. Dr. Roger Smith discusses how parents can move beyond "magic words" to help children truly understand the impact of their actions. This episode provides a roadmap for conflict resolution, teaching children how to observe another’s feelings, recognize their own role in a conflict, and pursue genuine restoration. Learn how to turn small squabbles over toys or elevator buttons into powerful training moments for giving, receiving, and asking for forgiveness. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

True leadership isn't about barking orders from the front; it's about influencing and empowering others to grow. Dr. Roger Smith challenges parents to "lead by walking behind" their children. By providing a safety net rather than a roadblock, you allow your children to exercise curiosity and build confidence. Whether it's letting a toddler take the lead on a hiking trail or tasking a teenager with an independent errand, learn how to manage your own parental anxiety to foster an adventurous spirit. Discover how staying engaged—without being controlling—builds a lifelong relationship where your child feels safe to explore while still valuing your guidance. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Are you fanning the flames of your child's imagination or accidentally dousing them? Drawing inspiration from the founder of FedEx—who was told his business plan was impossible—Dr. Roger Smith warns parents against "thinking in obstacles." This episode features the classic poem "Can and Can't" to illustrate the power of perseverance. Learn why your children sometimes need to risk failure to find their mission and how you can be the voice that encourages them to "go for it" rather than the one who says it can't be done. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Whether it's airplanes, robotics, or gardening, your child has unique passions that deserve a launchpad. Dr. Roger Smith explains why it’s vital to lean into your child’s curiosities, even if they differ from your own. This episode offers practical advice on how to expand their world by seeking out experts, visiting themed locations, and finding books that bring their interests to life. Learn how connecting your child with people who share their enthusiasm can spark a lifelong love of learning and help them dream bigger than ever before. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Are you missing the subtle signals your child is sending you? Dr. Roger Smith explains that whether a child is acting out or withdrawing, they are often making a "bid for attention." This episode explores how to recognize these overtures—from casual comments to physical distancing—and how to respond in a way that builds connection. Learn why using your child's own words back to them is a powerful tool for validation and how to turn everyday moments, like running errands or bedtime, into intentional opportunities for your child to feel truly seen and heard. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Which two US states are shaped like an article of clothing? (Hint: one's a mitten, the other's a boot!) Dr. Roger Smith shares his love for maps, not for navigation, but for connection and curiosity. This episode encourages parents to use maps as a tool to teach children their place in the world, visualize relationships (where relatives live), and learn key features like oceans and mountains. Next time you travel, skip the GPS for a moment—pull out a map to show your kids the physical context of their journey and turn geographic facts into fascinating, memorable lessons. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Do you have family mantras or sayings? Dr. Roger Smith uses the image of a strong pillar to discuss how common language can be used to inspire greatness in your children. This episode encourages parents to explain and utilize colloquialisms (like "pillar of the community") to illustrate concepts of strength and positive influence. Learn the profound impact of speaking to your children as the adults they will become ("When you are the Daddy...") to plant powerful visions of hope, purpose, and significance in their minds. What gets measured gets done—and what is vividly pictured is more likely to be pursued. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Are you aiming at nothing and hitting it every time? Dr. Roger Smith shares a powerful framework, inspired by a biblical verse (Luke 2:52), used by friends to ensure their children experience intentional growth each year. This system involves evaluating and setting goals for your child in four key areas: intellectual (wisdom), physical (stature), spiritual (favor with God), and social (favor with man). Learn how to turn this annual "school board retreat" into a collaborative process with your child, helping them develop a proactive, growth-oriented mindset in every area of their life. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

When your child is acting out or misbehaving, what is the right response? Dr. Roger Smith clarifies that while children need discipline, it's about much more than just punishment—it's mostly about training. This episode offers essential wisdom on how to respond to misbehavior: Prioritize the Goal: Your motive should always be to help your child grow, not stop them from embarrassing you. Time It Right: When a child's emotion is high, their listening is low. Learn when to remove a child from a situation to help them regain control before initiating training. Stay United: Always make sure your child knows that you are on their team, even when correcting their mistakes. Discover how to use judgment, emotional control, and the right timing to transform misbehavior into an opportunity for growth. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

How do you give individual attention to the hearts of multiple children? Dr. Roger Smith shares a powerful, structured approach to shepherding each child rooted in the Biblical concept of wisdom, stature, and favor with God and man. This tool, developed by friends, guides parents to annually evaluate their child's needs and set goals in four key areas: intellectual, physical, spiritual (character), and social development. Learn how to create family plans strategically motivated by one child's specific need, knowing that the entire "flock" will benefit and grow together. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Will your child be famous one day? While no one knows, Dr. Roger Smith argues that parents can foster the capacity for greatness. This episode encourages parents to expand their children's worldview by introducing them to heroes and significant figures through biographies. Learn how shared reading or audiobooks can inspire children to think larger than their current existence and understand the characteristics that lead to noteworthy lives. The goal isn't fame, but helping your child become significant by catching the "wind" from the lives of others. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Feeling overwhelmed by your current number of children? Dr. Roger Smith issues a direct challenge to consider having more, arguing that the true measure of family size shouldn't be based on the temporary difficulty of the early years. He breaks down the common stages—overwhelming with one, dividing and conquering with two, and feeling outnumbered with three—to reveal the moment of relief: when the oldest child becomes a helpful assistant. Dr. Smith encourages parents to look past the immediate workload and see children as lifelong blessings who enrich your life immeasurably as they mature. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Is happiness just a feeling, or can it be a choice? Dr. Roger Smith shares his family's mantra: "You do not find happiness, you take it with you." This episode explores how to treat happiness as a character trait—a quality independent of your circumstances. Learn how to prepare your children to approach potentially disappointing situations by deciding beforehand to make the best of it. By choosing to regulate their feelings and actions, you teach them that true joy comes from an internal commitment, not external expectations. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Are you robbing your children of the chance to make decisions? Dr. Roger Smith emphasizes that decisiveness is a critical character trait that must be developed through practice. Using the simple example of choosing between two paths, he explains why parents must intentionally provide opportunities for decision-making—even small ones, like choosing the color of a cup. Learn how to let your children face the low-impact consequences of their choices (like in board games) and how to talk them through potential outcomes without rescuing them from mild discomfort. This training builds the capacity to navigate life's complex options. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Do you wish your child considered others more often? Dr. Roger Smith defines thoughtfulness as putting other people's needs on the priority list—a desirable trait we can actively help children develop. This episode gives parents two simple, routine exercises: Looking Backward (Bedtime): Ask your child to reflect on their day and identify someone they wish they could have helped or made things better for. This encourages empathy and perspective. Looking Forward (Start of Day/Activity): Challenge your child as they enter a public space (like a store or church) to "look for people you can make smile or make a difference for." This promotes intentional, positive interaction. Learn how to weave these practices into your daily life to cultivate thoughtfulness and inspire an outward-focused mindset in your kids. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com