Who’s Custody Time Is This Anyway? Navigating Holiday Travel and Break SchedulesIn this episode, we talk about one of the hardest parts of co-parenting: holiday schedules, school breaks, and travel plans. We walk through the real-life challenges that come up when Thanksgiving, winter break, or spring break arrives, and the custody calendar suddenly takes over the entire plan.We break down the difference between a regular custody schedule and a holiday schedule, why the holiday rules override everything, and how we handle travel during our own custody time. We also share our honest feelings about being the parent who stays home while the kids travel, how we manage check-ins, and what healthy communication looks like during big holiday trips.We also talk through the stress of aging parents, school calendars, travel limits, and the pressure that comes with planning ahead. We share what has worked for us, what we learned the hard way, and the small steps that make these seasons easier for everyone involved.If you’re navigating holidays as co-parents, we hope this episode gives you clear, simple guidance and a little peace of mind.📱 Follow Us on InstagramParents & Professors Podcast: / parentsandprofessorspodDr. Michael Steven Williams: / drmikewillDr. Marjorie Dorimé-Williams: / drminimarj🕒 CHAPTERS0:00 Intro1:00 Regular custody schedule vs holiday schedule9:15 Calendar negotiation13:30 Caring for aging parents and holiday priorities19:10 Spring Break, summer, and major holiday planning22:30 Understanding the other parent’s perspective25:35 Planning ahead to reduce conflict27:20 Travel plans: what is flexible and what is not35:35 Communication expectations and check-ins42:10 Why flexibility makes everything easier#CoParenting #HolidayCustody #ParentingPodcastDisclaimer:The information shared in this video is for general discussion only. We are not responsible for any decisions you make based on this content. Please use your own judgment and do your own research before taking action on anything discussed here.Copyright Notice:This video may include dialogue, music, or images that are not owned by Co-Parenting Compass. Image credit: Unsplash.com. You may share or embed this video as long as you include a clear link back to our YouTube channel.
In this episode, Dr. Marjorie Dorimé-Williams and Dr. Michael Steven Williams talk about why dating after divorce can feel harder for people who are good co-parents. They explain how having a healthy relationship with an ex can make you look stable and attractive, but also make new partners nervous or jealous.The conversation covers dating boundaries, trust issues, emotional triggers, and why some people struggle to date someone who communicates well with their ex. They also talk about red flags like calling every ex a narcissist, people who fear co-parenting setups, and partners who struggle with shared parenting routines.You’ll also hear their thoughts on when to introduce new partners to your kids, what children learn from the relationships they watch, and how to build safe and respectful communication in new relationships.This episode is for anyone who is dating after divorce, co-parenting, or trying to understand how parenting and relationships intersect.📱 Follow Us on InstagramParents & Professors Podcast: / parentsandprofessorspodDr. Michael Steven Williams: / drmikewillDr. Marjorie Dorimé-Williams: / drminimarj🕒 CHAPTERS0:00 Intro1:00 Dating boundaries in co-parenting situations4:30 The jealousy problem13:00 Learning from past relationships20:30 Building trust and emotional safety24:00 When to introduce a new partner to your kids28:00 What your kids learn from watching you38:00 Co-parenting logistics when new partners join42:00 Mutual respect and healthy communication#CoParenting #DatingAfterDivorce #ParentsAndProfessorsPodcast Disclaimer:The information shared in this video is for general discussion only. We are not responsible for any decisions you make based on this content. Please use your own judgment and do your own research before taking action on anything discussed here.Copyright Notice:This video may include dialogue, music, or images that are not owned by Co-Parenting Compass. Image credit: Unsplash.com. You may share or embed this video as long as you include a clear link back to our YouTube channel.
Can you truly find love again after divorce? ❤️🩹In Episode 55, we uncover the raw, honest, and often overlooked realities of dating, partnership, and co-parenting after divorce. Dr. Michael Steven Williams and Dr. Marjorie Dorimé-Williams open up about navigating new relationships while raising children, rebuilding identity, and healing from the past — all while challenging societal expectations of what divorced families “should” look like.
In this deeply personal and thoughtful conversation, the hosts break down:
✔️ How to honor your children and your new partner
✔️ Why co-parents who actually get along can redefine the narrative
✔️ The role race plays in dating and societal perception✔️ How to step into a new, empowered version of yourself after marriage
✔️ What patience, communication, and emotional maturity really mean in modern co-parenting
From navigating new partners to addressing old wounds, this episode offers real, lived wisdom for anyone in the post-divorce chapter — whether you’re dating again, co-parenting, or simply rebuilding.💡 Subscribe for weekly episodes that help parents, educators & leaders navigate relationships with clarity, compassion, and confidence.
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💰 Episode 54 - Money Talks: Drama-Free Co-Parenting Financial Conversations | Parents & Professors PodcastIn this powerful new episode of the Parents & Professors Podcast, Dr. Marjorie Dorime-Williams and Dr. Michael Steven Williams open up about one of the most common yet complicated parts of family life — money. Whether you’re co-parenting, married, or managing separate households, financial conversations can quickly turn tense. But what if talking about money could actually bring you closer as parents — and help you raise confident, financially aware kids?This week’s episode, “Money Talks: Drama-Free Co-Parenting Financial Conversations,” explores just that. Drawing from their personal experiences as parents and educators, Dr. Marjorie and Dr. Michael share how they navigate the challenges of budgeting, setting priorities, and communicating about finances with empathy and understanding.💬 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:1️⃣ Introduction – Setting the StageDr. Marjorie and Dr. Michael start with an honest reflection on why money can often feel like a taboo topic in relationships — especially in co-parenting situations. They break down the emotional side of financial decision-making and why transparency is key to keeping relationships drama-free.2️⃣ Personal Financial ExperiencesBoth hosts share candid stories from their own journeys with money — the wins, the struggles, and the lessons learned along the way. From balancing family expenses to handling unexpected costs, their personal insights create a safe space for parents to reflect on their own money habits without guilt or blame.3️⃣ Financial Experts and FrameworksTo help guide listeners toward practical solutions, the hosts highlight frameworks from financial experts like Dave Ramsey and Tiffany Aliche (The Budgetnista). They explain concepts like zero-based budgeting, the envelope system, and spending with intention, showing how these strategies can be adapted to fit any family dynamic.4️⃣ Budgeting Strategies that WorkDr. Michael and Dr. Marjorie discuss how budgeting doesn’t have to be restrictive — it’s about building a shared vision. They emphasize the importance of aligning financial goals with your family’s values, setting clear expectations with your co-parent, and creating a sustainable plan that works for everyone.5️⃣ Parenting and Money LessonsOne of the most insightful parts of this episode focuses on teaching kids about money. The hosts share age-appropriate ways to involve children in financial discussions — from letting them help plan grocery lists to encouraging saving for something they really want. By teaching kids the difference between needs and wants, parents can nurture independence, confidence, and respect for money.6️⃣ Conclusion and ChallengeThe episode wraps up with a meaningful challenge for parents: have one open, judgment-free financial conversation this week with your co-parent or partner. Use this opportunity to express your priorities, listen to theirs, and find common ground. It’s not about numbers — it’s about building trust and teamwork.🧠 Key Takeaways:Communicate openly and frequently about financesCreate a shared vision for financial goalsBudget together based on mutual respect and valuesTeach children early about saving, spending, and givingReplace blame with understanding and teamwork🌱 Perfect For:Parents navigating co-parenting or blended familiesCouples looking to strengthen financial communication👩🏫 About the HostsDr. Marjorie Dorime-Williams and Dr. Michael Steven Williams are educators, parents, and podcast hosts passionate about bridging the gap between research and real-life parenting. Through honest conversations and personal storytelling, they help families navigate topics like communication, discipline, education, and emotional well-being — all with humor, empathy, and insight.
In the latest episode of Parents & Professors Podcast, Dr. Marjorie Dorime-Williams and Dr. Michael Steven Williams dive deep into one of the most sensitive yet essential topics in co-parenting: finances. 💰 Whether you’re married, divorced, or co-parenting after separation, money can often become a source of tension. This episode is your ultimate parenting guide on how to communicate about finances without letting it turn into conflict.Dr. Marjorie and Dr. Michael share both personal stories and expert insights, drawing from their experiences as educators, parents, and partners. They explore how to create a shared financial framework that works for both co-parents — one that reflects mutual respect, values, and priorities.💬 Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:How to talk about money with your co-parent without escalating into arguments.Why budgeting as a team helps reduce parenting problems before they start.The role of financial transparency in raising confident, secure kids.How to set healthy money habits and teach your children about financial responsibility.As part of this practical parenting guide for new parents and experienced co-parents alike, the hosts discuss common financial struggles families face — from deciding who buys the kids’ soccer cleats to managing unexpected expenses like medical bills or school trips. Their advice helps you navigate these challenges while keeping your co-parenting relationship healthy and constructive.💡 Dr. Michael highlights the importance of introducing money management to kids early. By including children in age-appropriate discussions about budgeting and saving, parents can help them learn to distinguish between needs and wants — a valuable life skill. This approach fits perfectly into a parenting guide to positive discipline, where open conversations foster respect and understanding instead of conflict or secrecy.Throughout the episode, the hosts reference popular financial experts like Tiffany Aliche (The Budgetnista) and Dave Ramsey, sharing how concepts like zero-based budgeting and the envelope system have helped families stay organized and stress-free with their finances. These methods can be adapted to any parenting style, from those managing newborn expenses to those guiding teens toward responsible independence.🎧 Why this episode matters:Money disagreements are one of the most common sources of tension between co-parents. But when handled with empathy and clarity, financial discussions can strengthen the parenting partnership instead of breaking it. This episode is a comprehensive parenting guide for co-parents, helping you communicate effectively, build trust, and model financial wisdom for your kids.👨👩👧 Key Takeaways:Communicate early and often about finances.Create shared goals instead of competing priorities.Involve children in simple budgeting lessons.Use real-world examples to teach financial responsibility.Practice patience, understanding, and transparency.If you’re searching for a parenting guide for newborns, or wondering how to manage money when your child turns two, this episode offers timeless strategies that adapt to every parenting stage. From baby expenses to college savings, Dr. Marjorie and Dr. Michael provide actionable insights for parents who want to raise financially savvy, emotionally grounded children.This episode doesn’t just address parenting problems — it offers long-term solutions. It’s more than a talk about money; it’s a roadmap for cooperation, growth, and positive communication.📺 Perfect for:Parents navigating co-parenting or blended familiesNew parents looking for a realistic parenting guide for new parentsFamilies working toward better communication and financial planningAnyone interested in positive parenting strategies and money management
Our attempt at minute markers:
Defining DEI Hires & Imposter Phenomenon | 1:00
Stereotype Management | 10:00
Organizational Survival Tactics | 15:08
“Skinfolk” and “Kinfolk” | 21:54
Practical Strategies to Focus on Your Purpose | 28:16
Is this an Individual or System-wide Problem? | 37:00
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What DEI Really Means: Beyond Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion
What are some best practices for documenting your achievements and challenges throughout the year?
What happens when two professor-parents apply their grading mindset to real life? From juggling academic careers with teenager drama to finding consistency in the chaos of co-parenting, this episode captures that universal parent feeling: we're doing okay, not perfect, but okay. From their C+ divorce to parenting wins, this episode is perfect for anyone who's ever wondered if they're winning at life or just getting by with a decent GPA.
Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
Grading Our Divorce | 1:00
Grading Our Lives | 6:00
If millennials loved alcohol less… | 16:00
Parenting Grades | 20:21
Second Half Goals | 35:45
Scholar Shoutout:
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Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
Big 50 | 1:00
Don’t Quit | 4:15
Picking Sides | 7:06
Who Tells Your Story | 13:00
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In this episode, your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams, get real about everyday moments that carry profound meaning. We open up about the emotional landscape of divorce, sharing hard-won lessons about patience, presence, and emotional sobriety. We also dive into Careless People by Sarah Wynne Williams, a revealing look inside Facebook’s culture and shocking but not surprising dysfunction. We highly recommend this book!
Be sure to check out the links in the show notes!
Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
Excuse me, I’m standing here! | 1:00
Living a Quarter Mile at a Time | Invincible | Hown You Spend Your Time | Time is Different | 4:48
Midlife Crises & Patience | 8:08
Careless People by Sarah Wynn-Williams | 20:00
Culturally Responsive Teaching: Theory, Research, & Practice by Geneva Gay | 25:09
Marj in the City - Humour & Joy | 26:58
Links:
Trump signs executive order directing federal funding cuts to PBS and NPR
Boeing whistleblower died by suicide, police investigation reveals | CNN Business
Your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams tackle (a) systemic racism, (b) school policies and inequality, and (c) the power of everyday activism.
Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
Schools, Society, and Sacrifice | 1:00
This is (Still) America/Everyone is (Not) Middle-class | 5:00
School Choice Scams |11:40
Spheres of Influence | 19:10
Made for Greatness Not Comfort | 23:09
Lock Them Up | 29:25
Links:
Opinion | The Biggest Threat to Public Education Is Coming From an Unexpected Place - POLITICO
Many New York employers discriminate against minorities, ex-offenders
PRRI Survey: Friendship Networks of White Americans Continue to Be 90% White
How to honor Jackie Robinson? Defend his legacy from those who wish to erase him. | Opinion
Interactive: How key groups of Americans voted in 2024 | PBS News
Japanese Internment Camps: WWII, Life & Conditions | HISTORY
Volunteers Use Bullhorns and Sirens to Warn Immigrants When ICE Is in Their Area
Your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams tackle (a) cuffing season, (b) dating expectations, and (c) discipline and parenting strategies.
Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
When is Cuffing Season? | 1:00
Hollering or Harassment | 9:55
Adulting is Attractive | 18:45
Sons, Daughters, and Dating | 19:55
Your parents were (mostly) right | 26:54
Cultivated Friendships | 32:25
Put some respect on my name | 38:20
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Your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams tackle (a) the importance of having knowledgeable and supportive teachers, (b) the challenges of balancing personal and professional identities, and (c) the influence of family background on personal success.
Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
The Value of Educational Expertise | 1:00
My Kids Will Be Fine | 8:00
Professional Veneers & Personal Fidelity | 12:55
Family Matters | 23:09
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Your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams tackle (a) reaffirming the importance of education, (b) reading outside of your comfort zone, and (c) the bar for leadership in America.
Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
Kids who can’t read good | 1:00
Shock & Awe | 7:18
Listen you DEIs! | 15:42
What are you reading? | 25:20
Professor Corner | 41:00
Figureheads & Felons | 44:44
Links:
Absolutely Relative: How Education Shapes Voter Turnout in the United States - PMC
Federal judge blocks Louisiana's Ten Commandments law in public schools
Constitution 101: An Uneducated Populace Is A Grave Threat To Liberty
America's billionaires are worth a record $6T. Where does that leave the rest of us?
Med schools face a new obstacle in the push to train more Black doctors
Republicans blame DEI for the LA fires. This fire captain disagrees. - POLITICO
Congressional Republicans worry about Trump's cuts at home, but barely speak up | Opinion
James & Annelle Whitt Entrepreneurial Development Foundation
Trump to Become First Convicted Felon to Serve as President - Common Cause
Your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams tackle (a) aging and balance, (b) cities versus small towns and relationships, and (c) Black families and culture.
Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
On being appreciated | 1:00
Touched by Life | 10:00
Black Families | 13:30
Time Off | 24:00
We’re not doing a Music Pod | 26:43
The Let Out | | 31:00
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Clayton Bigsby, the World’s Only Black White Supremacist - Chappelle’s Show
What Would It Take to Close America's Black-White Wealth Gap? | RAND
Megan Thee Stallion (@theestallion) • Instagram photos and videos
Drake and Kendrick Lamar's beef — from its beginnings to the Super Bowl — explained | AP News
World's richest billionaires at center of Trump's inauguration: Musk, Bezos, Zuckerberg
Elon Musk dropped nearly $300M supporting Donald Trump in 2024 | The Independent
Robert Reich on Instagram: Many people are wondering today if America is an oligarchy?
Your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams tackle (a) academic life and well-being, (b) ASHE 2024 annual conference highlights, and (c) personal growth and future planning.
Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
How are you doing? | 1:00
ASHE 2024 Annual Conference Highlights | 3:58
Manifestations of Scholarly Identity | 16:42
Political Reflections & Future Goals | 19:15
Professor Financial Literacy Hacks | 23:55
“Just Don’t Mess Up Happy!” | 30:48
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Your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams tackle (a) childhood memories, (b) service to our communities, and (c) the importance of voting.
Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
We (Were) Outside | 1:39
Parenting Win, Lesson Learned | 4:41
The Importance of Positive Relationships | 8:11
Good Schools & Common Sense | 12:04
Professor Hack: Using AI | 19:25
Celebrating Dr. Amanda M. Carr | 26:30
The Country We Became | 32:13
Your Vote Matters | 35:12
Links:
Vice President Kamala Harris' New Way Forward for the Middle Class Plan
Artificial Intelligence Explained: How to Make Money with AI & Use It to Improve Your Life ft X Eyeé
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Your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams tackle (a) engaging in policy work, (b) the financial cost of parenting, and (c) social media and political participation.
Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
Welcome! | 1:00
The Work Speaks for Itself | 4:00
Halleighluah, G. | 11:20
"Ew, yuck." Vs. "Oh, yes!" | 14:29
And that’s why parenting is important | 20:40
Co-Parenting Corner - Pay what you owe | 27:27
Shared Values and Financial Plans | 32:57
Social media controls the weather | 38:10
Do Better, America | 46:25
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31:00 | Does anyone remember the comedian this line came from?
The Total Money Makeover Updated and Expanded: A Proven Plan for Financial Peace: Ramsey, Dave
Is the free speech debate dead? Plus, the devil! : It's Been a Minute : NPR
What is the difference between weather and climate change? | U.S. Geological Survey
State Rep. Cheri Reisch criticized for 'unwarranted' claim that CPS students use litterboxes
Your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams tackle (a) the importance of self-care, (b) reading habits, and (c) the state of democracy.
Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
Season’s Greetings | 1:00
Bug-a-boos, Bees, & Bonnets | 5:30
Algorithm Inspired Romance | 9:25
Books Beyond the Syllabus | 12:20
Learning & Vibe Creation | 23:26
Academic Job Market | 25:30
The Democracy Fairy | 27:45
Links:
Black Romantasy Books To Get Lost In | The New York Public Library
@DrMikeWill | Instagram | Meeting and listening to the amazing @tomiadeyemi with the team
don’t forget carl!☝️no but fr these fantasy names are getting out of h... | booktok | TikTok
Race, gender, and partisan politics in the United States | PNAS
Ta-Nehisi Coates on the power of stories, new book, "The Message"
Your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams tackle (a) Olympic reflections, (b) getting back to school, and (c) the importance of voting.
Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
The Olympics | 1:00
No New Friends | 21:20
The Professor Olympics | 29:20
You’re Still a Person | 36:50
I’ve Got Questions | 39:20
GO VOTE! | 41:15
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What exactly happened with the VIRAL French pole vaulter Anthony Ammirati?
Men's speed climbing final decided by 0.02 SECONDS; USA's Sam Watson snags bronze | Paris Olympics
USA Perform to Michael Jackson | Artistic Swimming | #Paris2024 Highlights
Olympic Breakdancer Raygun Has PhD in Breakdancing? | Snopes.com
Book Banning Bill Leads Tennessee Public School to Close Library.
Your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams tackle (a) intelligence in relationships, (b) creating an appropriate emotional environment as co-parents, and (c) the role of grants in academic and professional life.
Our Attempt at Minute Markers:
High-Value Man | 1:00
Top Seven - Deal Makers | 8:50
Co-Parenting Advice Corner | 15:00
Get Money | 24:50
Grants as Freedom | 28:05
Dissertation for Hire? | 35:15
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