In this heartfelt follow-up to Episode 11, Bryn and Courtney continue exploring Strategy—this time focusing on Projectors and Reflectors. These two non-sacral types move through life differently than most, and understanding how their energy works can transform the way you parent, partner, and lead. Whether you’re a Projector learning to trust the timing of invitations, or a Reflector navigating changing environments and lunar cycles, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and practical tools for everyday life.  🎧 In this episode, we cover: What it really means to “wait for the invitation” as a Projector How to recognize energetic vs. formal invitations—and why recognition matters Helping your Projector child navigate their world with patience and understanding Reflectors 101: understanding lunar cycles, shifting energy, and environmental sensitivity Parenting a Reflector: supporting emotional wellbeing through rhythm, rest, and observation Practical ways to track moon cycles and notice patterns in energy and mood Why non-sacral beings (Projectors, Reflectors, and Manifestors) need more rest—and how to create supportive sleep routines How to help your child self-regulate by honoring their unique energetic design Using Human Design to replace self-judgment with self-trust—for you and your kids ✨ Whether you’re brand new to Human Design or deep into your experiment, this conversation will help you understand energy dynamics in your family, nurture your sensitivity, and create more alignment in everyday life. 💫 What is Human Design?A synthesis of ancient systems (astrology, the I Ching, the chakra system) and modern science (genetics and quantum physics). Your bodygraph reveals how your energy operates—gold for understanding your child’s behavior, motivation, and needs. 👉 Grab your free Human Design chart: brynbrown.com/freechart 🙌 If this episode resonates, share it with another conscious parent—or leave a quick review to help more families find this space of grace, growth, and presence. 📩 Connect with us:Follow Courtney on IG @the_eo_seahorseConnect with Bryn at brynbrown.com

In this episode of Parents Using Human Design, Bryn and Courtney return to the foundations—Strategy and Authority—the two most important (and most easily forgotten!) parts of your Human Design experiment. We dive deeper into what it really means to live by your strategy and authority, how to recognize when you’re overriding your natural design, and how to help your kids stay connected to theirs. Whether you’re a Generator, Manifesting Generator, or Manifestor—or parenting one—this episode brings Human Design back to earth with relatable, real-life examples from family life. 🎧 In this episode, we cover: Why Strategy & Authority are the core of Human Design—and why we forget them The secret to “flow” as a parent: following your natural cues instead of forcing outcomes Generators & Manifesting Generators: what “waiting to respond” really looks like in everyday life How to spot sacral responses (“uh-huh / uh-uh”) in your kids—and what to do when they freeze under pressure The power of informing as a Manifesting Generator or Manifestor—and how it transforms relationships Burnout, boredom & plateaus: understanding your child’s energy cycles Parenting Manifestors: nurturing their creative urges, honoring their independence, and avoiding power struggles Why kids embody Strategy & Authority naturally—and what they can teach us about presence and trust ✨ Whether you’re brand new to Human Design or deep in your experiment, this conversation will help you reconnect to your energetic rhythm, respond with clarity, and co-create family life with more ease, flow, and authenticity. 💫 What is Human Design?A synthesis of ancient systems (astrology, the I Ching, the chakra system) and modern science (genetics and quantum physics), Human Design reveals how your energy operates—gold for understanding your child’s behavior, motivation, and needs. 👉 Grab your free Human Design chart: brynbrown.com/freechart 🙌 If this episode resonates, share it with another conscious parent or leave a quick review. It helps more families find this work and parent with presence, permission, and grace. 📩 Connect with us:Follow Courtney on IG @the_eo_seahorseConnect with Bryn at brynbrown.com

Back with another episode of Parents Using Human Design, Bryn and Courtney turn the lens inward to explore deconditioning as parents—how old patterns, family dynamics, and everyday stress shape the way we show up with our kids. Using Human Design as a compassionate framework, we unpack what’s yours, what you may be amplifying, and how to create more ease at home without trying to be the “perfect” parent. We talk about why both undefined and defined centers can hold conditioning, how to compare your chart with your child’s (and even your parents’) for context and compassion, and why “trauma” is less about the event and more about what happens after—through the lens of nervous system regulation and the “window of tolerance.” 🎧 In this episode, we cover: What deconditioning really means for parents (and why HD makes it practical, not perfect) Defined vs. undefined centers you’ll feel at home: Emotional, Sacral, Root, Throat Emotional Center dynamics: how defined vs. undefined plays out in families + scripts to communicate about big feelings The difference between empathy and emotional amplification (why some kids name your feelings before you do) Root pressure at home: on-time culture, urgency energy, and giving grace Sacral truths: “lazy days,” capacity, and yes/no energy—without rewards, bribes, or battles Real-life examples: hot vs. cold digestion at the dinner table, touch cognition and mess, comparing charts across generations A gentler approach to healing: baby steps, one center at a time, and weaving regulation into the day ✨ Whether you’re brand new to Human Design or deep into your experiment, this conversation grounds the theory in real family life—so you can parent from presence, permission, and your actual energy. 💫 What is Human Design?A synthesis of ancient systems (astrology, the I Ching, the chakra system) and modern science (genetics, quantum physics). Your bodygraph reveals how your energy operates—gold for understanding your child’s behavior, motivation, and needs. Grab your free Human Design chart: brynbrown.com/freechart 🙌 If this episode resonates, share it with a fellow parent who’s curious about Human Design—or who could use more ease and understanding at home. Thanks for listening—and remember: it’s not about being perfect. It’s about parenting from your truth, in your way, with your energy. 📩 Connect with us:Follow Courtney on IG @the_eo_seahorseConnect with Bryn at brynbrown.com

In this heart-centered episode of Parents Using Human Design, Bryn and Courtney dive into one of the most talked-about centers in Human Design—the Sacral Center—your inner “uh-huh” or “uh-uh.” Whether you’re a Generator, Manifesting Generator, or a non-sacral type (Projector, Manifestor, Reflector), understanding this energy center can completely transform how you parent, communicate, and honor your own capacity. We explore what it really means to trust the gut, why not everyone has consistent access to that gut knowing, and how to support your kids (and yourself) in making aligned decisions—without burnout, battles, or constant “reward vs. consequence” cycles. 🎧 In this episode, we cover: What the Sacral Center is and how it functions as life-force energy Defined vs. undefined sacral energy—and why “trust your gut” only applies to some How to ask better questions: open-ended vs. yes/no for kids with different designs What “uh-huh” and “uh-uh” sounds really mean (and why you shouldn’t correct them!) How to spot conditioning in both sacral and non-sacral beings Supporting your Generator or MG child: helping them recognize their “yes” and “no” Getting things done without rewards, bribes, or burnout Creative ways to engage energy: the family “chore draft,” gamifying tasks, and offering choice What to do when your kid “has no energy” for something (hint: it’s not laziness) The sacral–root connection: pressure, procrastination, and grace in getting things done Real-life examples of using Human Design to co-regulate, communicate, and connect ✨ Whether you’re brand new to Human Design or deep into your experiment, this conversation brings the system down to earth—showing you how to work with your child’s natural energy instead of against it. 💫 What is Human Design?It’s a synthesis of ancient systems (astrology, the I Ching, and the chakra system) and modern science (genetics and quantum physics). Your “bodygraph” reveals how your energy naturally operates—gold for understanding your child’s behavior, motivation, and needs. Grab your free Human Design chart: brynbrown.com/freechart 🙌 If this episode resonates, share it with a fellow parent who’s curious about Human Design—or who could use more ease and understanding at home. Thanks for listening—and remember: it’s not about being perfect. It’s about parenting from your truth, in your way, with your energy. 📩 Connect with us:Follow Courtney on IG @the_eo_seahorseConnect with Bryn at brynbrown.com

In this heart-centered episode of Parents Using Human Design, Bryn and Courtney unpack the Throat Center—what shifts when it’s defined vs. undefined, and how that plays out in everyday family life (think: dinner-table cross-talk, “talking over,” and the urge to finally be heard). We get practical about communication dynamics at home—why undefined throats can get loud (amplification + “hear me”), how trauma/conditioning can shut down even a defined voice, and simple house agreements that invite more pauses, respect, and connection. 🎧 In this episode, we cover: The Throat as your center of expression + manifestation (bringing ideas into reality) Defined vs. undefined throat basics: consistency, adaptability, and voice “tone” Why undefined throats may speak more (amplifying the room + seeking attunement) High vs. low expressions for both defined and undefined throats Trauma/conditioning notes: when a defined throat feels muted—and how to notice it Family dynamics: avoiding power struggles, especially defined/undefined pairings Practical “house rules”: turn-taking cues, reflective listening, pattern interrupts, and gentle pauses Supportive scripts for kids: “What would help you feel heard right now?” Real-life stories to keep things relatable ✨ Whether you’re brand new to Human Design or deep into your experiment, we’re here to make it usable in the messy, magical moments of family life. No jargon, no pressure—just grounded practices that bring more ease, connection, and truth to your home. 💫 What is Human Design?It’s a synthesis of ancient systems (astrology, the I Ching, the chakra system) and modern science (genetics, quantum physics). Your “bodygraph” is based on your birth info and reveals how your energy naturally works—gold for understanding your child’s needs, behavior, and decision-making. Grab your free Human Design chart: brynbrown.com/freechart 🙌 If this episode resonates, share it with a fellow parent who’s curious about Human Design—or who could use a little more ease and grace this week. Thanks for listening—and remember: it’s not about being perfect. It’s about parenting from your truth, in your way, with your energy. 📩 Connect with us:Follow Courtney on IG @the_eo_seahorseConnect with Bryn at brynbrown.com

In this heart-centered episode of Parents Using Human Design, Bryn and Courtney get practical about extending love and compassion at home—especially when old patterns or reactivity pop up in everyday family life. We share simple, tangible tools you can use right away—like wildly specific gratitude, appreciation that truly lands, modeling over mandating, and HD-informed praise—to shift the energy in real time, build receptivity, and create more ease, connection, and authenticity with your kids and partner. 🎧 In this episode, we cover: Practical, do-today ways to extend love and compassion—to your kids, partner, and yourself Gratitude that actually shifts energy (be wildly specific + recognize your own contributions) How to express appreciation that lands: “I appreciate you because it makes me feel…” Receiving appreciation when it feels uncomfortable—and building that receptivity muscle Habit tips: cues, reminders, bedtime rituals, gratitude jars, and “stacking” practices Modeling over mandating: why kids mirror what we embody (please/thank-you without drilling) HD-informed praise: use your child’s Conscious Sun (gift) and Unconscious Mars (core challenge) to name “the beauty/power I see in you” “Lead with love before correction”: using curiosity as the bridge from reactivity to connection ✨ Whether you’re brand new to Human Design or deep into your experiment, we’re here to make it usable in the messy, magical moments of family life. No jargon, no pressure—just grounded practices that raise the vibe at home. 💫 What is Human Design?It’s a synthesis of ancient systems (like astrology, the I Ching, and the chakra system) and modern science (like genetics and quantum physics). Your “bodygraph” is based on your birth info and reveals how your energy naturally works—gold for understanding your child’s needs, behavior, and decision-making.Grab your free Human Design chart: brynbrown.com/freechart 🙌 If this episode resonates, share it with a fellow parent who’s curious about Human Design—or who could use a little more ease and grace this week. Thanks for listening—and remember: it’s not about being perfect. It’s about parenting from your truth, in your way, with your energy. 📩 Connect with us:  Follow Courtney on IG @the_eo_seahorse Connect with Bryn at brynbrown.com   human design parenting,parenting with human design,parents using human design,bryn brown human design,courtney osselaer,conscious parenting,emotional intelligence parenting,human design for families,parenting podcast,spiritual parenting,parent self-care,intuitive parenting,parenting with self-trust,embodiment parenting,conscious mom life,emotional mastery,self trust,lead with love,gratitude practice for families,appreciation in relationships,modeling behavior for kids,conscious sun human design,unconscious mars human design,gene keys for parents,family communication tips,gratitude jar for kids

In this short and sweet mini-episode of Parents Using Human Design, Bryn and Courtney dive into the importance of paying attention to the moon cycle—especially during eclipses and full moons—and how it impacts our energy, emotions, and family life. We share personal stories of heightened emotions at home, how menstrual cycles often sync with lunar cycles, and why being mindful of these patterns can help you bring more compassion and grace to your parenting journey. ✨ You’ll learn: Why emotions may feel unpredictable around full moons How moon cycles can influence kids (and adults!) Ways to track lunar phases and sync them with your personal cycle The importance of releasing with intention and calling in what you desire Think of this as a gentle reminder that sometimes it’s not “something wrong”—it’s just the moon. 🌙 🔔 Subscribe to the channel for more episodes on Human Design, conscious parenting, and the messy, magical moments of raising kids with awareness. 📩 Connect with us:  Follow Courtney on IG @the_eo_seahorse Connect with Bryn at brynbrown.com

In this episode of Parents Using Human Design, Bryn and Courtney dive into one of the biggest challenges every parent faces: letting go of control. From toddler tantrums to messy kitchens, we explore how Human Design can help us recognize when we’re trying to control outcomes, release old conditioning, and parent with more grace and authenticity.   You’ll hear real stories about: ✨ Recognizing control as a conditioned response ✨ Why our kids trigger old patterns—and how Human Design can help us respond instead of react ✨ Practical ways to bring more self-awareness, compassion, and connection into everyday parenting moments   Whether you’re new to Human Design or deep in your experiment, this episode will remind you that you don’t need to control it all. What your kids really need is your presence, not your perfection. 🎧 Listen in and join the conversation about raising children with more ease, flow, and self-trust. 💫 If you loved this episode, don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE so you never miss a conversation. Share it with a friend who’d love this too! 👉 Want more support? Reach out to Bryn for chart readings or Courtney for holistic wellness coaching for moms. 💌 And if this podcast resonates with you, leaving a review helps us grow and bring more conscious parents into the conversation.     Topics: parenting with human design, letting go of control parenting, conscious parenting, human design parents, parenting podcast, emotional intelligence parenting, parenting with ease, intuitive parenting, parent self-trust, parenting triggers, conscious mom life, human design for families, gentle parenting, human design parenting podcast, parenting without control, raising kids with human design

What if we stopped asking kids to “just make a decision”—and instead supported them in learning how to make decisions that actually feel right in their body?   In this episode of Parents Using Human Design, we go deep into Authority—the part of the chart that tells us how we’re designed to make aligned decisions.   We’re your hosts, Courtney Osselaer, a holistic life and wellness coach for moms, and Bryn Brown, a Human Design guide and business strategist for spiritual entrepreneurs. Together, we’re exploring how to use Human Design to parent with more ease, intuition, and trust—for ourselves and our kids.   🎧 In Episode 3, we explore:  -- What Authority is in Human Design (and why it’s often more important than Type)  -- The most common Authorities for kids: Emotional, Sacral, and Splenic  -- How to support your child in making aligned decisions—even when they’re still learning  -- Why asking your Sacral kid “yes/no” questions works better than “what do you want?”  -- How Emotional Authority needs time and space, not pressure  -- Parenting our own decision-making processes while modeling clarity and self-trust   💬 Real talk: It’s not always easy to let go of the urgency, conditioning, and control—but when we do, something magical happens. Our kids start to build deep inner trust. And so do we. ✨ Want to find out your child’s Human Design Authority? Create their free chart here: https://brynbrown.com/freechart 🌀 Subscribe for new episodes every other week. We’re sharing grounded, real-life conversations to help you bring Human Design into your parenting—without perfectionism, pressure, or trying to “fix” anyone.   🎧 Listen in to hear stories from our homes, tools you can use today, and validation for those moments when you're not sure what your kid (or your own intuition) is trying to say.   👂 Remember: Aligned decision-making isn’t something you teach once—it’s something you model, support, and grow into together. Human Design gives you the map.

Welcome to the very first episode of Parents Using Human Design, a podcast for conscious, heart-centered parents who are curious about how Human Design can help them parent with more ease, self-trust, and intuitive flow. We’re your hosts, Courtney Osselaer, a holistic life and wellness coach for moms, and Bryn Brown, a Human Design guide and business strategist for spiritual entrepreneurs. Together, we’re just two real-life parents using Human Design to understand ourselves and our kids better—and to actually enjoy this wild ride of parenting. 🎧 In this introductory episode, we cover: Who we are and how Human Design entered our lives Why Human Design feels like the “guidebook” we wish we had when our kids were born How this podcast is not about being perfect parents—but about using Human Design to show up more authentically, with more compassion (for ourselves and our kids) Our vision for this podcast: real conversations, practical Human Design insights, and stories from our daily lives as moms Why Human Design is not about avoiding conditioning, but about helping our kids trust themselves as they grow What it’s like to raise kids of different energy types (Bryn’s a 5/1 Projector mom with Generator kids; Courtney’s a Manifesting Generator with older MG kids) A few laughs, some toddler grunts, and a lot of curiosity 💛 ✨ Whether you’re brand new to Human Design or you’ve been down the rabbit hole for years, we’re here to make this work for your real life as a parent. No jargon, no pressure, no perfect parenting—just tools and conversations to help you and your family thrive. 💫 What is Human Design?It’s a synthesis of ancient systems (like astrology, the I Ching, and chakra system) and modern science (like genetics and quantum physics). It offers a “body graph” based on your birth info that reveals how your energy naturally works. For parents, it’s a game-changer in understanding your child’s needs, behavior, and unique way of making decisions. Want to grab your free Human Design chart? Go to: brynbrown.com/freechart 👂 Let’s Connect:We’d love to hear your questions, aha moments, and requests for future episodes. Comment below, DM us on Instagram, or email us—links in the show notes. 🙌 If this episode resonates, share it with a fellow parent who’s curious about Human Design—or who could use a little more ease and grace in their parenting journey. Thanks for listening—and remember: this isn’t about getting it perfect. It’s about parenting from your truth, in your way, with your energy.

Welcome to Episode 2 of Parents Using Human Design, a podcast for conscious, heart-centered parents who are curious about how Human Design can help them parent with more ease, self-trust, and intuitive flow.We’re your hosts, Courtney Osselaer, a holistic life and wellness coach for moms, and Bryn Brown, a Human Design guide and business strategist for spiritual entrepreneurs. Together, we’re just two real-life parents using Human Design to understand ourselves and our kids better—and to actually enjoy this wild ride of parenting. 🎧 In this episode, we explore: An easy-to-follow overview of the five Human Design energy types—Manifestors, Generators, Manifesting Generators, Projectors, and Reflectors How each type’s aura works, and what that means for your parenting style The “signature” emotions of each type that signal when you (or your kids) are in or out of alignment Sacral vs. non-sacral energy—why it matters for rest, resilience, and avoiding burnout Practical examples of honoring your kids’ energy type to reduce friction (and bedtime battles!) How your design can help you drop the “shoulds,” release guilt, and create more ease in your daily life Why knowing your partner’s and children’s charts can shift family dynamics in a powerful way ✨ Whether you’re brand new to Human Design or you’ve been experimenting for years, this episode offers a blend of practical tips, real-life stories, and “aha” moments you can use right away in your home. No jargon, no pressure, no perfect parenting—just insights to help you and your family thrive. 💫 What is Human Design?It’s a synthesis of ancient systems (like astrology, the I Ching, and chakra system) and modern science (like genetics and quantum physics). It offers a “body graph” based on your birth info that reveals how your energy naturally works. For parents, it’s a game-changer in understanding your child’s needs, behavior, and unique way of making decisions. 📌 Grab your free Human Design chart: brynbrown.com/freechart 👂 Let’s Connect:We’d love to hear your questions, aha moments, and requests for future episodes. Comment below, DM us on Instagram, or email us—links in the show notes. 🙌 If this episode resonates, share it with a fellow parent who’s curious about Human Design—or who could use a little more ease and grace in their parenting journey.Thanks for listening—and remember: this isn’t about getting it perfect. It’s about parenting from your truth, in your way, with your energy.

If your kids are melting down… and you’re also hanging on by a thread—you’re not alone . And you’re not doing it wrong. In this episode of Parents Using Human Design, we’re talking about one of the most important (and often overlooked) aspects of parenting: nervous system regulation—yours and your child’s. We’re your hosts, Courtney Osselaer (a holistic wellness coach for moms) and Bryn Brown (Human Design guide and business strategist for spiritual entrepreneurs). Together, we’re exploring how Human Design can help you parent with more ease, self-trust, and energetic sustainability—even in the messy, overstimulating, day-to-day moments of real life. 🎧 In Episode 4, we talk about:  -- What nervous system regulation actually looks like for parents and kids  -- How Human Design helps us understand and support our kids’ emotional responses  -- Why “meltdowns” aren’t problems—they’re communication  – Energy types & sensory sensitivity (especially for Projectors and defined Emotional Centers)  -- How overgiving and overstimulation lead to burnout (and what to do instead)  -- Simple, non-performative ways to co-regulate in real time  -- How to notice your own capacity—and give yourself permission to pause 💡This episode is your permission slip to stop trying to do it all, fix everything immediately, or keep everyone happy all the time. Parenting in alignment starts with supporting your own energy, too. ✨ Want to understand your family’s Human Design charts? Start here (it’s free!): https://brynbrown.com/freechart   🌿 Subscribe for more episodes on parenting, energy, and intuition—every other week. We’re here to share grounded conversations and practical tools that help you parent with less stress and more connection. 🎧 Real stories. No pressure. Just the magic that happens when we listen to our bodies and trust our energy. 👂 Reminder: You don’t have to be perfectly regulated to raise regulated kids. You just need to be honest about your limits—and willing to lead from presence, not perfection.