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Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
Sophia Spallino
157 episodes
16 hours ago
Lesbian dating advice and love stories brought to you by the Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino. 💎 Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter. https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service ✨ Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat – A blissful Canyon Ranch weekend with extraordinary queer women. https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat ❤️ The Queer Country Club® – Our dating platform for monogamous WLW missing just one thing… their Future Wife®. https://queercountryclub.com
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Lesbian dating advice and love stories brought to you by the Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino. 💎 Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter. https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service ✨ Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat – A blissful Canyon Ranch weekend with extraordinary queer women. https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat ❤️ The Queer Country Club® – Our dating platform for monogamous WLW missing just one thing… their Future Wife®. https://queercountryclub.com
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Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
How to Make a Lesbian Go Crazy for You (Without Playing Games)

Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:


💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking; For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.
Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service  


✨Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch; A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.
Join The Luxury Lesbian™ Getaway: https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat 


❤️The Queer Country Club®; Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®.  

Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com  


🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session; If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.
Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://sophiaspallino.com/private-coaching 


💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

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In this episode of Queer Women Rising, Sophia Spallino breaks down exactly what makes lesbian attraction powerful, magnetic, and lasting. If you’ve ever wondered how to make a lesbian go crazy for you or how to deepen emotional intimacy with queer women, this episode offers practical and heartfelt insights.

From confidence to authenticity, and from building trust to celebrating individuality, you’ll learn the qualities and behaviors that make women lean in instead of pull away. This conversation goes beyond surface-level dating tips and dives into what truly matters in lesbian relationships; emotional presence, reliability, and shared values.

Discover the keys to:

  • How to talk to a lesbian girl you like without overthinking.

  • How to make a lesbian fall in love through patience, trust, and consistency.

  • Why confidence, emotional intimacy, and curiosity make women feel seen and desired.

  • How to make a girl fall for you like crazy while staying authentic to who you are.

This episode is for queer women who are ready to attract lasting love, understand what drives true connection, and embody the energy that makes them irresistible.

Keywords: lesbian dating tips, queer women dating, how to make a lesbian go crazy for you, how to talk to a lesbian girl you like, how to make a lesbian fall in love, lesbian attraction, queer relationships, dating advice for lesbians, women-loving-women connection, authentic lesbian dating



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6 days ago
33 minutes 26 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
Lesbian Exes Who Stay Best Friends: Red Flag or Relationship Goal?

Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:

💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.

Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service  

✨Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.

Join The Luxury Lesbian™ Getaway: https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat 

❤️The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®.  


Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com  

🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session – If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.

Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://sophiaspallino.com/private-coaching 


💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

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In this episode of Queer Women Rising, we unpack one of the most common and most complicated dynamics in queer relationships: lesbian exes who stay best friends.

For some women, it’s a beautiful sign of maturity and emotional growth. For others, it raises red flags, jealousy, or confusion. Either way, this situation is more common in queer communities than many realize, and it comes with its own unique set of benefits and challenges.

We explore:

  • Why lesbians stay friends with their exes. From shared history and pets to overlapping friend groups and chosen family, cutting ties isn’t always simple.

  • The emotional benefits of staying close after a breakup, including continued intimacy, reduced isolation, and mutual respect.

  • The pitfalls and red flags to watch for, like lingering romantic feelings, blurred sexual boundaries, or guilt-driven friendships.

  • How being friends with an ex affects new relationships and what boundaries are needed to protect trust with a current partner.

  • Healthy ways to rebuild friendship with an ex once the romance has ended, from taking space first to communicating openly with future partners.

Whether you’re questioning is it a red flag if my lesbian girlfriend is still friends with her ex or wondering how to be friends with your ex as a queer woman, this conversation gives you clarity.

At the heart of it all, friendship with an ex can be healing and affirming, or it can hold you back from moving forward. Knowing the difference and setting boundaries accordingly is what creates safety and space for real love to flourish.

Keywords: lesbian exes who stay best friends, lesbian girlfriend is still friends with her ex, why do lesbians stay friends with their exes, how to be friends with your ex lesbian, lesbian being friends with ex, queer exes friendship, lesbian dating boundaries, being friends with an ex queer

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2 weeks ago
21 minutes 37 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
The BARE MINIMUM in Lesbian Love | Setting Standards

Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:

💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking - For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.

Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service  

✨Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.

Join The Luxury Lesbian™ Getaway: https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat 

❤️The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®.  


Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com  

🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session – If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.

Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://sophiaspallino.com/private-coaching 


💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

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In this episode of Queer Women Rising, Sophia Spallino breaks down what the bare minimum really looks like in a woman-loving-woman relationship. From airport pickups with flowers to stocking the fridge with her favorite snacks, Sophia explains why these aren’t grand gestures…they’re the baseline of thoughtful lesbian love. She contrasts this with the low bar women are conditioned to accept from men and reminds queer women to expect more, settle less, and embrace the peaceful, intentional love they deserve.

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1 month ago
15 minutes 57 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
Lesbian Dating, Divorce, and Hot Femme Healing with Zara Barrie

Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:

💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.

Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service  

✨Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch - A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.

Join The Luxury Lesbian™ trip: https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat 

❤️The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®.  


Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com  

🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session - If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.

Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://queercountryclub.com/private-coaching


💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

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Ever crawled out of a messy breakup and somehow built your dream lesbian life?

Zara Barrie is the critically acclaimed author of Girl, Stop Passing Out in Your Makeup, creator of Girls on Jane, and host of the new dating column Mascara Lesbian.

After surviving deep heartbreak, a toxic relationship, and profound grief—she’s now living a hot, healing, wildly creative lesbian life in West Hollywood.

 

Listen to GIRLS ON JANE:

Lesbian Fiction | Girls on Jane

a sexy, serialized fiction audio drama (written & narrated by me) about the heartbreak and hedonism of a group of lesbian women living in Manhattan, pre-marriage equality (early-aughts!). I'm also linking out my Substack and GO Mag byline (all lesbian sex and dating) for reference.

 

Listen/read Mascara Lesbian:

ZARA BARRIE WORDS | Substack

 

Read her Lesbian Dating and Sex Column:

https://gomag.com/author/zara-barrie/

 

📲 Connect with my guest, Zara Barrie.
Follow Zara on Instagram: Zara Barrie (@zarabarrie)
Check out her work at: https://www.zarabarrie.com


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1 month ago
1 hour 8 minutes 29 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
Lesbians in Your Healing Era | Your Future Wife ICK LIST & WISH LIST #WLW Dating

Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:

💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.

Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service  

✨Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.


Join The Luxury Lesbian™ trip: https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat 


❤️The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®.  


Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com  


🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session - If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.

Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://queercountryclub.com/private-coaching


💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp



Going through it now? If you ever desire 1:1 coaching with me to work through a breakup, just book a private session with me here: Sophia Spallino | Private Coaching

 

🏳️‍🌈❤️‍🩹I asked the queer women in my community to share breakup advice given to them by the older, wiser women in their lives. So I am gonna read it to you.

 

Then I share my best advice.

 

Lesbian dating and breakups are tough. But you are SOFT enough to feel it, heal it, and move along with your life!

Promise.

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2 months ago
9 minutes 45 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
6 Signs You Are Ready for Your LAST Relationship - WLW Dating Advice

Ways I could help you meet your Future Partner:

💎 Platinum Private Lesbian Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her FUTURE WIFE® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.

Explore Platinum Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service 

✨ Exclusive Lesbian Luxury Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.

Apply to join The Luxury Retreat: https://queercountryclub.com/luxe-retreat 

❤️ The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives but missing just one thing… their FUTURE WIFE®.

Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com 

🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session – If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.

Book A Private Coaching Session: https://queercountryclub.com/private-coaching


Got Qs? DM me on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp 


6 Signs You're Ready to Build a Monogamous Lesbian Relationship

 

So, how do you know if you're ready for a monogamous lesbian relationship - and not just lonely or burnt out from dating? Here are six clear signs:

 


1. You're Clear on What You Want, and Communicate It

You’ve stopped saying “I’m open to whatever happens” and started owning what you want: a committed, exclusive relationship. If you're ready to say this on your dating profile and in person, even if it scares some people off, you’re showing true emotional clarity.

 

 2. You’ve Healed from Past Relationships

You don’t view love through the lens of past heartbreak anymore. Sure, you’ve been hurt, but you’ve processed it, reflected on it, and you’re no longer operating out of fear. As a monogamous lesbian, you don’t need to look for someone to “fix” the past - you’re looking to build something new.

 

3. You’re Comfortable with Emotional Intimacy

Monogamy isn't just about exclusivity; it’s about vulnerability. If you’re comfortable letting someone in emotionally, being seen at your worst, and offering that same safety to a partner, you’re ready for a monogamous bond.

 

4. You’re Not Distracted by “What Ifs”

You don’t find yourself constantly wondering if the grass is greener. You’re not attached to the idea of endless options or swiping forever. You're looking for depth, not novelty.

 

5. You’re Ready to Grow with One Person

You understand that even great relationships require effort, compromise, and personal growth. You’re excited to evolve alongside someone rather than bounce from one connection to another.


6. You’re Willing to Prioritize LoveYou’re a clear monogamous lesbian if you are willing to make room in your life for someone else - emotionally, mentally, and logistically. You’re not “too busy” to date; you’re intentionally creating space for partnership.

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2 months ago
23 minutes 49 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
Don't Spank Me - Sexology & Erotic Wholeness with Darshana Avila

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com


☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


✨Work with me as your COACH

https://SophiaSpallino.com


💬Slide into my DMs

https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino 


Let’s talk sexology, p*ssy stroking, sexual trauma, pleasure, and making peace with Darshana Avila.

Yes, you might recognize today’s guest is someone you might recognize from Netflix’s Sex, Love & Goop, but that’s just the beginning of her story.

Back in 2015, Darshana Avila was in a marriage and a career that no longer fit. She walked away from both, and now she’s an internationally celebrated speaker and Erotic Wholeness guide helping queer women and AFABs come back home to their bodies and their truth.

Her work is trauma-informed, pleasure-centric, and radically real.

 

📲 Connect with my guest, Darshana Avila:
Follow Darshana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darshana_avila
Check out her website: https://darshanaavila.com
Join her free community: Galgasm!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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3 months ago
1 hour 16 minutes 2 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
A Raw Lesbian Love Story with Raina and Laurie - No Swiping, Just Soulmates - WLW Dating

 

❤️Meet Your Future Wife where Raina and Laurie met… inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB

https://queercountryclub.com

 

💎Learn more and apply to join us on our next Luxury Single Lesbian Retreat

https://queercountryclub.com/luxe-retreat

 

📲 Follow their love story that Raina shares!
www.Instagram.com/Raina_notfit

 

🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

Online Sexual and Reproductive Health | Wisp

 

✨Work with me as your COACH
https://SophiaSpallino.com

 

💬Slide into my DMs

Instagram (@sophiaspallino)

 

What if your person is already inside the same dating platform as you… Just waiting for a message?

This week on Queer Women Rising, I’m joined by Raina and Laurie, a couple who found each other through the Queer Country Club®, a platform built for lesbians and queer women looking for intentional, monogamous love.

From first messages to cross-state travel, they share how their relationship unfolded with patience, warmth, and clarity.

 

Want to meet your Future Wife™ like they did?
Join the Queer Country Club® today!
QueerCountryClub.com

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3 months ago
57 minutes 51 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
2 Lesbians 1 Carrot | Grape Trigger Warning | Lesbian Sex

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB

https://queercountryclub.com


☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in!

https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


✨Work with me as your COACH

https://SophiaSpallino.com


💬Slide into my DMs

https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino 



Don’t try this at home.

Two Lesbians. One carrot.

It was fun until it wasn’t.

Trigger warning: this episode includes my experience with sexual assault.

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3 months ago
25 minutes 34 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
Dating New and Different Women with Jaime Messina - Lesbian Love and Mindset

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB

Skip the initiation fee and join QCC through Jaime: ⁠https://queercountryclub.com/wlw-club?am_id=jaime9948⁠


☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


✨Work with me as your COACH

https://SophiaSpallino.com


💬Slide into my DMs
https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino


She created one of the most iconic sapphic spaces on the internet… but that’s not where the story ends.


📲 Connect with my guest, Jaime Messina.


Follow Jaime on Instagram:

Jaime Messina | Mindset & Empowerment Coach


Check out her site & coaching offers:

Jaime Messina | Mindset & Empowerment Coach


We talked about:
– What it’s like to coach others while still healing yourself
– The love story that took her by surprise
– Building sapphic spaces that actually feel safe

– Recognizing internal homophobia
– What she’s creating next

If you’re a lesbian or queer woman building a life of love, peace, and purpose… this one’s for you.

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4 months ago
1 hour 3 minutes 9 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
Honest Lesbian Age Gap Relationship Pros & Cons

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com


☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


✨Work with me as your COACH

https://SophiaSpallino.com


💬Slide into my DMs

https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino 


Today, I dive into the truth of lesbian age gap relationships, the real, raw, and often misunderstood dynamics between women of different generations. Whether you're crushing on someone older, dating someone younger, or just curious how these relationships actually work… this episode is for you.

You’ll learn:

  • Why age gap love between women feels so different from straight dynamics

  • The benefits of dating someone in a different life stage

  • The very real challenges, and how to overcome them

  • How to make your relationship work, long-term, regardless of age

  • What makes these connections so powerful, so sexy, and so worth it

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4 months ago
30 minutes 26 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
From Dating Married People & Medicated to Monogamous & Meditated with Lauren Courtney

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com


☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


✨Work with me as your COACH

https://SophiaSpallino.com


💬Slide into my DMs

https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino 


📲 Work with Lauren Courtney and Buy her Book “Glow Up Your Chakras”


Follow Lauren on Instagram:

Instagram (@iamlaurencourtney)


Check out Lauren’s website:

Lauren Courtney Heals | Holistic Healing & Chakra Therapy

 

🏳️‍🌈 When the love of your life dies… do you ever really come back the same?


This episode is for the lesbians and queer women who’ve been cracked open by heartbreak, walked the messy path of dating married people, and are looking for real magic—within and in partnership.

Back in 2016, Lauren Courtney’s first love passed away, leaving her heartbroken and believing she would never love again. Through her spiritual awakening and the messy dating adventures that followed, she discovered that true love begins within. As she healed, she realized that self-love and inner alignment are the foundation for deep, meaningful connections. Now, as a healer, author, and spiritual guide, she helps others clear emotional blocks, awaken their intuition, and cultivate the love they seek, starting from within.


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5 months ago
1 hour 8 minutes 57 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
Get Your Dream Girl to Respond to Your DM: 5 Lesbian Pick-Up Lines That Work

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com


☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


✨Work with me as your COACH

https://SophiaSpallino.com


💬Slide into my DMs

https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino

 

Today’s episode is your cheat sheet for getting a girl to actually respond to you in the DMs.


Save these. Copy/paste them. Send them. You’re welcome.


1️⃣ “You seem like someone who actually knows what she wants. Am I right or should I keep scrolling?”
Why it works: It flatters her decisiveness without being generic. And that playful little challenge? It makes her want to prove you right, or cheekily prove you wrong.

 

2️⃣ “Okay I have to ask… are you the big spoon, little spoon, or ‘depends on the night’?”
Why it works: This skips all the small talk. It’s cheeky, flirty, and dives into playful intimacy without being over the top. It’s irresistible to respond to.

 

3️⃣ “Something tells me you’re not the type to settle. What’s a green flag you always look for?”
Why it works: It makes her feel like a woman with high standards…which we love. It also gives her a moment to show emotional depth without needing to get super vulnerable too fast.

 

4️⃣ “I’d bet good money you’re a softie under that confident energy. Am I wrong?”
Why it works: This gently teases her while giving her the perfect opening to reveal more about herself. It’s confident, direct, and it invites a real connection.

 

5️⃣ “Your vibe feels intentional… what’s something you wish more women noticed about you right away?”
Why it works: This tells her you’re not just here for surface-level attraction. You want to see her. And that? That’s magnetic.

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5 months ago
13 minutes 47 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
Dating as a Queer Digital Nomad with Yvonne Wilson

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com


☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


✨Work with me as your COACH

https://SophiaSpallino.com


💬Slide into my DMs
https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino


Can your heart keep up with the digital nomad life?

Our queer guest, Yvonne Wilson, has experienced a transformation that is nothing short of inspiring.

In 2018, she hit rock bottom—binge drinking, drowning in debt, and renting rooms in strangers’ homes—but by 2019 she reinvented her life with the help of a money coach.

After paying off 15k in collections and embracing the digital nomad lifestyle, Yvonne now travels the world and empowers others as a Certified Financial Educator. Her journey of financial and emotional rebirth is wild!

 

📲 Connect With Yvonne Wilson.

Follow Yvonne Wilson On Instagram: http://Instagram.com/themoneymaestro_
Website: stan.store/yvonnewilson

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6 months ago
1 hour 19 minutes 5 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
Toxic Moments, Lesbian Love, and Prenups - A Lesbian Love Story With Stacey & Alice

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com


☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


✨Work with me as your COACH

https://SophiaSpallino.com


💬Slide into my DMs

https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino 


What makes love last through the years? Nearly 9 years in, Stacey and Alice have some wisdom to share!

What are the odds? You match with someone on a dating app… only to find out they’ve been walking the same campus halls as you!

Stacey and Alice’s love story is proof that sometimes, fate and logging into a dating platform go hand in hand. 💕

 

📲 Connect with my guest, Stacey & Alice:
Follow them on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/les__adventures

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6 months ago
1 hour 10 minutes 14 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
3 Things I Learned on My First Date After Lesbian Heartbreak

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com


☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


✨Work with me as your COACH

https://SophiaSpallino.com


💬Slide into my DMs

https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino 


DM me (https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino) or email my team (Support@SophiaSpallino.com) the word “WAITLIST” to be the first to get access to my next luxury lesbian retreat!

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7 months ago
22 minutes 2 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
The Planning Behind a Double Lesbian Proposal with Haily "Alrighty Alphrodite"

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com


☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


✨Work with me as your COACH

https://SophiaSpallino.com


💬Slide into my DMs

https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino



Some love stories start with sparks, but what if yours started with a revolution?


📲 Connect with my guest, Haily.


Follow Haily on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_alrighty__aphrodite


Check out her TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alrighty__aphrodite


Grab her Queer Poetry Book:

My Human History: Queer Poetry


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7 months ago
1 hour 10 minutes 32 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
Love Isn't Enough - 10 Questions To Ask in the Early Lesbian Dating Talking Phase

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com


☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


✨Work with me as your COACH

https://SophiaSpallino.com


💬Slide into my DMs
https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino

Single Lesbians, Les Be Honest

 

Over 30, we are set in our ways.

 

If we are honest…Love isn’t enough.

 

Lifestyle compatibility and an aligned value system is what I am looking for above all.

 

So I am buckled up and waiting patiently because I trust the Universe is going to bring your Future Wife™ to me (the universe and the AI Matchmaker in my lesbian dating club)…

 

Because I am OVER trying to change people who aren’t “The One.”

 

You too?

 

😍Time to join the movement of extraordinary single lesbians inside The Queer Country Club™

https://queercountryclub.com

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7 months ago
9 minutes 55 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
From Lesbian Heartbreak to Wholeness - Having It All with Jasmine Bee

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com


☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomxnrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


✨Work with me as your COACH

https://SophiaSpallino.com


💬Slide into my DMs

https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino 


🏳️‍🌈You can be a lesbian who has it all.

Total peace, abundance, and love.

@‌JasmineBee is proof.


🎙️ Our convo covers:
👉 Finding deep partnership after toxic WLW relationships

👉 The intersection of faith and queerness
👉 Healing through celibacy and self-discovery

👉 Balancing personal growth, business, and love


Jasmine is an Energy + Business Mentor for visionary leaders, creatives, and wild souls. She’s here to share how faith and queerness coexist, the shift that allowed her to find true love, and the beliefs that brought her success.


📲 Follow Jasmine on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tobeealive/

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7 months ago
1 hour 6 minutes 39 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
"I Saw Her Eyes and Knew..." A Lesbian Love at First Sight Story with Zsuzsi & Ziron

https://queercountryclub.com/wlw-club?am_id=zsuzsiandziron

 

Zsuzsi & Ziron met under mystical circumstances at a retreat in upstate New York, where a simple eye-gazing exercise turned into a soul-shaking realization that they were destined for each other. That one moment set them on a path not only as life partners but as mentors in love and self-discovery.


Through their work at Sacred 8 Roadshow, they help queer womxn clear emotional blocks, rewire limiting beliefs, and build the kind of love that feels like home. But can anyone manifest a sacred connection like theirs? And what’s the secret to attracting deep, lasting love?


Let’s find out. Welcome to the show, Zsuzsi & Ziron!

📲 Connect with my guests, Zsuzsi & Ziron:
@‌Sacred8Roadshow on IG and Tiktok
https://www.sacred8roadshow.com/


Join their Human Design retreat in New York! https://www.eomega.org/workshops/intro-human-design


Start your Human Design Journey and make your chart for FREE!

https://www.hdbyz.com/individual


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8 months ago
1 hour 8 minutes 34 seconds

Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
Lesbian dating advice and love stories brought to you by the Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino. 💎 Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter. https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service ✨ Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat – A blissful Canyon Ranch weekend with extraordinary queer women. https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat ❤️ The Queer Country Club® – Our dating platform for monogamous WLW missing just one thing… their Future Wife®. https://queercountryclub.com