If you’ve ever thought, “I know I can help them… so why aren’t they saying yes?” — this episode is for you. Today I’m breaking down one of the most overlooked messaging mistakes coaches make: skipping the bridge of trust and asking clients to jump straight into your world. I explain why your clients aren’t wrong about the problems they think they have — they’re just standing earlier on the path than you are. We talk about why coaches sound confusing, vague, or disconnected when they lead with credentials, insights, or “deeper problems,” and how that actually pushes clients further away. You’ll also hear how to structure your messaging and discovery calls so people feel seen, not sold to. Timestamps00:01 – The bridge story: different brains, different worlds04:30 – Why coaches think messaging works like a resume07:50 – How coaches start talking past their clients11:45 – Symptoms vs. root problems (the chasm forms)15:10 – Trust on discovery calls (and how it gets broken)18:20 – Giving clients a taste without pushing them off the bridge CTA:👉 Book a Connection + Direction Call to build trust without pressure: http://ravingcoaches.com/connection