What if the symptoms you’ve spent years blaming yourself for—hypervigilance, overthinking, guilt, emotional exhaustion—are not personality flaws at all, but signs of a trauma you were never given permission to name?
If you’ve ever felt “too sensitive,” “too reactive,” or “not enough,” this episode helps you understand why your nervous system responds the way it does. By finally naming the chronic, relational, often-invisible trauma that shaped you, you can begin untangling patterns that once kept you safe but now keep you stuck.
• A clear understanding of what Complex PTSD actually is—and how it differs from both Big T and little t trauma.
• Validation that your survival patterns (like people-pleasing, perfectionism, emotional numbing, or hyper-independence) are adaptive responses, not personal shortcomings.
• Language, clarity, and compassion that help your nervous system soften so healing can finally begin.
Press play to learn the language, validation, and nervous-system insights that will help you finally understand yourself with clarity instead of self-blame.
About the show:
This podcast explores the real, human side of growth — from navigating anxiety, imposter syndrome, and codependency to rediscovering presence, confidence, and authenticity. Through honest conversations about vulnerability, leadership, and letting go, we dive into the balance between purpose and rest, mindfulness and action, boundaries and connection. Together, we unpack the layers of trauma, stress, and exhaustion that keep us from fulfillment, and explore how healing begins when we choose awareness, compassion, and alignment over overwhelm.
New Episodes Every Week Tune in every Monday for a full-length episode (solo or guest), and every Wednesday for your short Midweek Reframe—a quick skill, concept, or grounding tool to support your healing.
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