In this episode, we explore how your emotions—especially the difficult ones—are powerful messengers trying to guide you back into alignment. Through the lens of Human Design, Molly breaks down the Not-Self Themes and Signature Themes of each energy type and how they relate to recurring patterns in your life, from burnout to relationship struggles. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, bitter, angry, or disappointed, this episode will help you understand what those feelings are really pointing to—and how to return to flow.
You’ll also hear how Molly integrates Human Design with energy awareness and coaching, and why identifying your emotional cues is a powerful first step toward self-trust and transformation.
Chapters:
00:00 – Welcome + How Patterns Keep Us StuckMolly opens with a reflection on how we often repeat emotional and behavioral patterns—and how Human Design can help us see them more clearly.
04:45 – What Is a Not-Self Theme? (And Why It Matters) An introduction to the concept of Not-Self Themes and how they reveal when you’re out of alignment energetically.
08:20 – The Not-Self Themes by Energy Type Frustrated? Bitter? Angry? Disappointed? Molly walks through the Not-Self Themes for each Human Design energy type—Generator, Manifesting Generator, Manifestor, Projector, and Reflector—explaining how these emotions feel in the body and what they reveal about misalignment.
26:00 – The Signature Themes: What Alignment Feels Like Each energy type also has a Signature Theme—a feeling of satisfaction, peace, success, or surprise that lets you know you're back in flow. Here’s what they are and how to recognize them.
31:20 – How to Use Your Emotional Cues for Realignment Learn how to track your emotional state, shift from the Not-Self Theme into the Signature Theme, and use your body as a guide to get unstuck.
35:00 – Coaching with Human Design + What’s Next Molly shares how she weaves Human Design and energetic coaching into client sessions—and how to book your own reading or coaching experience.
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