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Restoration Soul Care: Quit Porn Podcast
Michael Kamber & Nick Buda
27 episodes
1 day ago

Want to quit porn and REALLY heal? You're in the right place. This isn't just more behavior management or churchy quick fixes. We get into the weeds, so you can get out.

Hosted by recovery coaches Michael Kamber and Nick Buda, this podcast is for men ready to get honest, dig into their story, and break free from the patterns keeping them stuck.

We talk addiction, emotional health, faith, sex, recovery, and what it actually takes to change. Drawn from our own stories of addiction and real world experiences of helping men in our private coaching practice, if you’re done pretending and ready to do the real work, you’re in the right place.

New episodes drop weekly.

*The explicit label is due to the nature of the topics discussed

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Want to quit porn and REALLY heal? You're in the right place. This isn't just more behavior management or churchy quick fixes. We get into the weeds, so you can get out.

Hosted by recovery coaches Michael Kamber and Nick Buda, this podcast is for men ready to get honest, dig into their story, and break free from the patterns keeping them stuck.

We talk addiction, emotional health, faith, sex, recovery, and what it actually takes to change. Drawn from our own stories of addiction and real world experiences of helping men in our private coaching practice, if you’re done pretending and ready to do the real work, you’re in the right place.

New episodes drop weekly.

*The explicit label is due to the nature of the topics discussed

Show more...
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Porn, Betrayal Trauma, and Healing with Lindsey Blair
Restoration Soul Care: Quit Porn Podcast
41 minutes 20 seconds
2 weeks ago
Porn, Betrayal Trauma, and Healing with Lindsey Blair

When porn blows up a marriage, the spouse’s world doesn’t just wobble—it shatters. In this conversation, Michael sits down with Lindsey Blair, a betrayal-trauma coach, to spell out what spouses actually experience after discovery or disclosure, what “safety” looks like in real life, and how couples can rebuild trust without gaslighting, rushing, or bypassing pain. If you’re a wife feeling “crazy” or a husband who doesn’t get why this hurts so much, this one’s for you.

About our guest — Lindsey Blair

Betrayal-trauma coach who works with wives navigating the aftermath of a partner’s sexual acting out and pornography use. Empathetic, practical, and anchored in Christian soul care.

We talk about

  • What betrayal trauma is (and isn’t): the violation of trust inside an attachment relationship
  • Discovery vs. disclosure and why both are disorienting
  • Why wives often feel shock, fear, anger, grief, and like they’re “going crazy”—and why that response makes sense
  • How processing pain over and over is normal (not nagging)
  • What “safety” actually means in early recovery and how to rebuild it
  • Why husbands must drop defensiveness and show up with humility + curiosity
  • The difference between supporting healing vs. trying to fix your spouse
  • “Betrayal blindness” (Michelle Mays) and giving yourself permission to name harm
  • A Christian frame: James 1 and building endurance/resilience without minimizing pain

Resources mentioned

  • The Relational Soul (Plass & Cofield)
  • Concept of “betrayal blindness” (Michelle Mays)
  • CrossPoint Ministry Soul Care Network

Connect with Lindsey

Email: lindseymblair79@gmail.com

Scheduler: Book time with Lindsey

Work with Michael / Restoration Soul Care

  • Download the Reclaim Quick-Start Guide to quit porn and rebuild trust: rscky.com
  • Coaching, groups, and resources: rscky.com
  • DM Michael or Nick on Instagram @mikekamber @nickwbuda

If this episode helped, share it with someone who needs it and leave a review. Don’t do it alone. Get help, get honest, and take the next step today.

Restoration Soul Care: Quit Porn Podcast

Want to quit porn and REALLY heal? You're in the right place. This isn't just more behavior management or churchy quick fixes. We get into the weeds, so you can get out.

Hosted by recovery coaches Michael Kamber and Nick Buda, this podcast is for men ready to get honest, dig into their story, and break free from the patterns keeping them stuck.

We talk addiction, emotional health, faith, sex, recovery, and what it actually takes to change. Drawn from our own stories of addiction and real world experiences of helping men in our private coaching practice, if you’re done pretending and ready to do the real work, you’re in the right place.

New episodes drop weekly.

*The explicit label is due to the nature of the topics discussed