Summary In this episode of Retrieving Sanity, host Keegan Read engages in a deep conversation with therapist Julian Bermudez about the complexities of healing, self-discovery, and the integration of emotional experiences. They explore the importance of recognizing and addressing childhood wounds, the patterns of pain that often lead to addiction, and the necessity of being present with one’s emotions. Julian emphasizes the significance of nurturing the inner child, practicing self-compassion, and breaking generational patterns of trauma. The discussion highlights the power of choice in healing and the importance of seeking support while navigating the journey of recovery. Check out his website here: http://www.psychedelic-integration.net/ Get the Reflection Sheet here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1HaMzvgObVhkV3AGpK10CGBQF4Hz_Uov1/view?usp=sharing Takeaways Healing requires recognizing and addressing childhood wounds. Integration involves applying lessons learned to daily life. Patterns of pain can lead to addiction and suffering. Being present with emotions is crucial for healing. Self-compassion is essential in the recovery process. Nurturing the inner child helps in emotional healing. Breaking generational trauma patterns is possible. Asking for support is a sign of strength, not weakness. Practicing gentleness and humor aids in self-acceptance. Self-care is vital for personal growth and healing. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Healing and Awareness 05:20 Understanding Default Patterns 08:17 The Relationship with Work and Play 11:06 Navigating Pain and Addiction 14:13 The Nature of Recovery 17:11 Emotional Defense Mechanisms 19:41 Finding Humor in Pain 21:01 The Need for Connection 22:16 Understanding Emotional Pain 24:25 Patterns of Trauma and Connection 26:23 Recognizing Internalized Pain 29:00 Being There for Yourself 31:30 Attunement and Emotional Needs 34:41 Navigating Self-Care and Productivity 38:12 The Search for Role Models 39:00 Navigating Pain and Self-Connection 40:23 Prioritizing Self-Care 41:23 The Dilemma of Self-Sacrifice 42:40 Recognizing Adaptations and Patterns 43:18 The Practice of Self-Priority 43:48 Creating New Pathways 45:08 Finding Support and Resources 46:13 Understanding Inherited Patterns 48:08 Choosing New Responses 49:03 The Lifelong Journey of Change 50:50 Empowerment Through Work 52:26 The Importance of Self-Care 53:54 Changing the World Through Self-Work 54:40 Looking Ahead to Future Conversations #podcast #mentalhealthpodcast #retrievingsanity #recovery #addictionrecovery #emotionalhealing #childhoodwounds #innerchild #selfcompassion #generationaltrauma #emotionalexpression #crying #support #healingjourney #emotionalgrowth