Guiding Question How can we find lasting meaning, purpose, and fulfillment in life amidst its fleeting nature and inevitable struggles? Summary This message explores the fundamental human struggle with meaning, purpose, and direction in life. Drawing from the wisdom of Moses in the Psalms, it reveals the emptiness and futility of life lived apart from God, marked by fleeting achievements, adversity, and ultimate regret. It calls listeners to recognize the limitations of worldly pursuits and encourages them to seek a life anchored in God — a life characterized by a lasting perspective, a lasting relationship, and lasting labor. The message emphasizes that only through God can we find a truly fulfilling life that endures beyond this temporal existence. Outline: The Reality of Life’s Decline and Futility Life’s days “decline” like a sigh, full of sorrow and labor (Psalm 90:9-10). Without God, life ends with regret, lost glory, and forgotten achievements. The irony that people fail to connect life’s emptiness with being apart from God. Moses’ Prayer for a Lasting Perspective (Psalm 90:12) Asking God to teach us to number our days wisely. The importance of seeing life through God’s truth rather than worldly illusions. Perspective governs our priorities and how we live. Moses’ Prayer for a Lasting Relationship (Psalm 90:13-15) All human relationships are temporary; only God offers a limitless relationship. God’s promise to return to those who return to Him (Malachi 3:7). The daily satisfaction that comes from experiencing God’s lovingkindness like manna. Moses’ Prayer for a Lasting Labor (Psalm 90:16-17) The desire for work that has eternal significance, not just temporal success. The problem of busy lives focused on fleeting, self-centered tasks. The call to invest in God’s kingdom and people, producing fruit that lasts beyond our lifetime. Conclusion and Invitation Encouragement to reflect on one’s life epitaph—will it say “this was not it” or “everlasting life”? Call to stop “playing church” and to live a real, committed Christian life. Invitation for those feeling lost to seek God’s lasting fulfillment. Closing prayer for transformation through God’s presence. Key Takeaways Life apart from God is ultimately futile and marked by regret. We need God to teach us a lasting perspective to live wisely and purposefully. A true, lasting relationship with God is the only permanent human relationship. Our work and labor should aim for eternal significance, building God’s kingdom. Daily satisfaction and fulfillment come from recognizing and embracing God’s lovingkindness. It is never too late to turn to God and find a life that truly lasts. Reflecting on the legacy we leave behind should motivate us to pursue what matters eternally. Scriptural References Psalm 90:1-17 — The entire passage of Moses’ prayer, focusing on life’s brevity, human frailty, and God’s eternal nature. Malachi 3:7 — God’s promise to return when His people return to Him. John 8:32 — “You shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free.” Ecclesiastes 12:1 — “Remember your Creator in the days of your youth.” Ephesians 2:10 — “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand.” Jeremiah 9:23-24 — “Let him who boasts, boast in this: that he understands and knows Me.” Recorded 12/28/80

Guiding Question How can Christians face doubt, maintain assurance in their faith, and grow spiritually through intentional community and perseverance? Summary This message addresses the natural experience of doubt among Christians and emphasizes that doubt itself is not wrong. What matters is how one deals with doubt—whether one faces it, seeks answers, and allows it to strengthen faith or lets it weaken assurance. Drawing on the example of Francis Schaeffer, the speaker shows that even radical doubters can emerge with a radical faith when they confront their questions head-on. The message exhorts believers to “draw near to God” and “hold fast” to the hope and promises of the Christian faith, especially amid the pressures and challenges of everyday life. It warns against a lukewarm, half-assured faith that holds back full commitment. The speaker highlights the vital role of Christian community in this process. True spiritual growth happens not just in isolated worship but in regular gatherings where believers encourage, stimulate, challenge, and hold one another accountable. The Christian assembly is characterized by consideration, stimulation (even irritation), and encouragement, all aimed at producing love and good deeds. Without this intimate fellowship, spiritual life becomes impaired, and the subtlety of sin can harden the heart. Finally, the message calls listeners to examine their lives, seek assurance through Christ, and commit to both a personal and communal expression of their faith. Outline Acknowledging Doubt in the Christian Life Doubts are normal and common Importance of addressing doubts rather than ignoring them Example of Francis Schaeffer’s journey through doubt to assurance Assurance of Faith and Holding Fast The necessity of full assurance to live confidently in faith The promises of God and the pressures of the world The call to “draw near” and “hold fast” to God and His promises Christian Community: Meeting to Minister The purpose of Christian assemblies: consideration, stimulation, encouragement The dangers of isolated faith and superficial meetings The role of accountability, intimacy, and mutual challenge The balance between loving encouragement and necessary correction Application and Challenge Are you meeting regularly in meaningful fellowship? Are you allowing others to stimulate and encourage you? Reflect on your assurance and relationship with God Invitation to accept Christ and enter confidently into God’s presence Key Takeaways Doubt is natural, but must be confronted to avoid spiritual stagnation or erosion of faith. Full assurance in God’s promises is crucial to living a confident and committed Christian life. Christianity is either true and effective or it is not; believers must test their faith honestly. Holding fast means tenaciously clinging to God’s promises despite worldly pressures. Regular, intimate Christian fellowship is essential for spiritual health, accountability, and growth. Christian meetings are not just routine gatherings, but opportunities to stimulate and encourage each other toward love and good deeds. Spiritual growth requires both encouragement and challenge within community, not just passive attendance. If you haven’t accepted Christ or feel unsure, the way to assurance is through faith in Jesus’ work on the cross. Scriptural References Hebrews 10:22-25 (drawing near to God, holding fast the confession of hope, meeting together to encourage) Psalm (implied reference to worship in nature) Various references to the promises of God (forgiveness, power, new purpose) Hebrews 3:13 (encouragement to encourage one another daily, lest any be hardened by sin) Recorded 12/07/80

Guiding Question How can we cultivate true humility in our lives to experience God’s peace, grace, and blessing, especially when faced with the pressures of having things “our way”? Summary This sermon explores the struggle of pride and self-will, highlighting how trying to have life “our way” leads to weariness, conflict, and emptiness. It presents the biblical principle of humility as a solution, focusing on Peter’s teaching in 1 Peter 5:5-7. The message unfolds the three-fold process for developing humility: bowing under God’s mighty hand, resting by casting our anxieties on Him, and expecting God’s blessing at the proper time. Through this process, believers learn to surrender control, trust God’s timing, and live in harmony with others and the Holy Spirit, leading to spiritual growth and unity. Outline: The Problem of Pride and Self-Will The weariness of insisting on “my way” How pride causes tension in personal and church relationships The danger of a competitive, self-focused mindset Peter’s Call to Humility (1 Peter 5:5-7) Clothe yourself with humility of mind Humility as cooperating with God’s will, not pushing our own The Three-Fold Process of Humility Bow: Submit your will to God’s plan and purpose Rest: Cast all anxieties and worries on God because He cares Expect: Trust in God’s perfect timing for blessing and exaltation Living the Process The struggle with “what if” fears after deciding to humble ourselves God’s care and desire for us to respond rightly The importance of patience and faith in God’s “proper time” Illustration of the man who found someone to worry for him (God) Encouragement and Invitation God’s promise to exalt those who humble themselves A call to surrender and experience true rest Prayer for unity and love within the church Key Takeaways Pride and insisting on having things “our way” leads to conflict, weariness, and spiritual emptiness. True humility involves a deliberate process: bowing our will to God, resting in His care by casting anxieties on Him, and expecting blessing at His appointed time. God cares deeply about our struggles and wants us to respond rightly, even when life is difficult. Trusting God’s timing requires faith and patience; blessings and changes may take time to appear. Humility fosters harmony in personal relationships and within the church, reflecting Christ’s character. Casting our worries on God frees us from burdens and empowers us to live peaceably and faithfully. Scriptural References 1 Peter 5:5-7 — The core passage teaching humility: bowing under God’s mighty hand, casting anxieties on Him, and trusting His care. James 4:6 — “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” (Implied in the sermon’s theme) Philippians 2:3-4 — Valuing others above ourselves, putting others’ needs before our own (supporting the humility and unity message) Matthew 11:28-30 — Jesus invites the weary to find rest in Him, echoing the rest theme. Proverbs 3:5-6 — Trust in the Lord and submit to His way, supporting the bowing process. Recorded 11/23/80

Guiding Question What does biblical leadership look like, and how should elders in the church lead with the right spirit, motivation, and manner? Summary This message explores the nature of spiritual leadership as taught in the New Testament, particularly focusing on the role of elders in the church. It warns against common corruptions of leadership—seeking power, privilege, and recognition—and contrasts these with the humble, servant-hearted leadership exemplified by Jesus Christ. The sermon unfolds in several parts: The Perils of False Leadership Motivations Leaders tempted by personal power, privilege, and recognition Jesus’ strong condemnation of such attitudes in Matthew 23 The Proper Motivation for Eldership A genuine eagerness to serve others, not to exalt self Caring, guiding, admonishing with a servant’s heart The Right Manner of Leadership Leading by example, not intimidation or coercion Authority is earned through godly living worthy of imitation The Role of the Senior Pastor Jesus Christ as the ultimate Senior Pastor Elders as His associates fulfilling His commands The Responsibility of Those Led To know, appreciate, and imitate their leaders To follow with trust and confidence in their godly example Encouragement for Leaders and Congregation Leaders humbly seeking God’s strength Congregation embracing their role in supporting leadership Key Takeaways Leadership is not about personal gain: The desire for power, privilege, or recognition perverts the office of elder. Servant leadership is essential: Elders must lead with a heart to serve others eagerly and selflessly. Authority comes from example: Elders lead by living lives worthy of respect and imitation, not by demanding obedience. Jesus is the true Senior Pastor: All church leaders are His representatives, serving under His authority. Followers must respond rightly: Christians are called to know their leaders, respect them, and follow them with faith and trust. Leadership requires humility and dependence on God: Leaders should recognize their own insufficiency and rely on God’s strength. Scriptural References Matthew 23:1-12 — Jesus’ rebuke of leaders who seek power, privilege, and recognition, and His call to humility. 1 Peter 5:1-4 — Instructions to elders to shepherd the flock willingly, not lording over, and leading by example. 1 Thessalonians 5:12-13 — Call to know and appreciate those who labor in leadership. Hebrews 13:7, 17 — Remember and imitate leaders’ faith; obey them with confidence and joy. Recorded 11/9/80

Guiding Question:What will you choose in the defining moments of your life—mediocrity or a life of courageous adventure? 🧭 Key Takeaways: 1. Every man faces defining moments.These are sacred, solitary times where a man decides: Who he will be, What he will give his life to, And how hard he’s willing to fight before he quits. These moments don’t come often, but they shape your entire life—toward mediocrity or greatness. 2. You can be given everything… but only you can choose the adventure.Robert Lewis reminds us that no one—not a pastor, mentor, or friend—can make you live the adventure. It's a personal choice, and no amount of teaching will substitute for your own courageous step forward. 3. You must prepare before the moment.Like athletes in a locker room before the big game, men need to: Reflect deeply on their design, wiring, and destiny. Prioritize their battles—marriage, wounds, addictions, dreams. Assemble a plan—not too much at once, but the most urgent priorities. Talk with safe people—trusted friends or mentors who help you sharpen your plan. Move forward with courage and clarity, choosing the high and noble path. 4. Use tools like “life wiring” and “life compass.” Wiring shows where you're strong and where you're blocked (past, present, future). Compass asks: Before I die, I want to be, do, have, help, and leave…These tools help define and direct your journey. 5. Great adventures are built with clarity and courage.Start small. Tackle the top three priorities in your life. These will often be: Your job and whether it aligns with your design. Your marriage and its vitality. Your spiritual life and connection with God. Your wounds and whether they still define you. Your sense of fun, purpose, or noble cause. If you're stuck, start with the one thing you know is holding you back. 6. The “locker room” moment is now.You’re not on the field yet—you’re in the moments before. The real adventure begins when you step out the door and take the field, willing to fight for a life that matters. 7. Caleb's Prayer: A Model for Bold LivingEnd with this courageous declaration: “Give me the land and give me the high ground.”Like Caleb, may your faith grow bolder as you grow older. 📖 Key Scriptures: Joshua 24:15 – “Choose for yourselves today whom you will serve… but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” Deuteronomy 30:19 – “I have set before you life and death… choose life so that you and your descendants may live.” 1 Corinthians 9:26–27 – “I run in such a way, as not without aim… I discipline my body so that I may not be disqualified.” Psalm 92:12–14 – “They will still bear fruit in old age…” Caleb’s example (Joshua 14) – A man with a different spirit who followed the Lord fully and asked for the hill country at 85.

Guiding Question:How do you live a full and faithful life—both early and late—that reflects God's great adventure for men? 🧭 Key Takeaways: 1. Life is a two-half game.Robert Lewis frames life like a sports game: Warmups (0–20): Getting started. First Half (20–40): Warrior phase—building, striving, competing. Halftime (40–50): Reevaluating and healing. Second Half (50+): King and friend phase—ruling wisely and giving back. Each phase has its own battles, blessings, and purpose. Playing both halves well is rare but possible. 2. Courage is essential in both halves.Like Caleb, real adventurers exhibit courage: In the first half: Raw faith to enter God’s “promised land” for your life, even when giants (challenges) loom large. In the second half: Fresh faith to take the high ground—to use your wisdom, influence, and resources for God’s purposes, not just comfort. 3. Most men do well in only one half.Many men peak early and coast later. Others struggle early but finish strong. Few, like Caleb, remain faithful and courageous from start to finish. 4. Caleb is a model for a life well-lived. Caleb was the only one (along with Joshua) to believe God could deliver the promised land—at 40. At 85, he still believed—and asked for the hardest challenge, the hill country. His life proves that background doesn’t determine destiny—faith does. His courage empowered the next generation, especially his son-in-law Othniel, who later delivered Israel. 5. Practical advice for the two halves of life: For the First Half (Younger Men): Invest in your marriage—make your wife your best friend. Know who you are (and aren’t). Live within your means and practice generosity. Seek experiences, not just stuff. Know God personally. Fight for purity and integrity. Learn to ask forgiveness. Build strong male friendships. Start forming a life vision. For the Second Half (Older Men): Don’t retire—refocus. Build on your strengths. Clean up unfinished business and reconcile broken relationships. Discover your noble cause and invest in it. Mentor younger men. Get to know God if you’ve neglected Him. Plan meaningful experiences with your wife. Keep refining your long-range vision. Take the high ground—the best of life is still ahead. 📖 Key Scriptures: Numbers 13–14 – Caleb’s courage and faith in spying out the promised land. Joshua 14–15 – Caleb, at 85, asking to take the hill country. Judges 3:9–11 – Othniel, Caleb’s son-in-law, leads Israel to peace for 40 years. Numbers 14:24 – “But My servant Caleb… has followed Me fully…” Psalm 92:12–14 – “They will still bear fruit in old age…”

Guiding Question:What hidden enemies can sabotage a man's pursuit of God's adventure—and how do we fight back? 🛠 Key Takeaways: 1. “Adventure Busters” are common to all men.Just like bombs that penetrate deep into enemy territory, these five "adventure busters" can sabotage the journey God intends for every man: The Double Life – When what a man says no longer matches what he does. Sexual Shortcuts – Choosing short-term pleasure over long-term purpose. Life-Draining Marriage Problems – Conflicts with a spouse that go unresolved and lead to bitterness. Life-Defining Wounds – Past traumas (especially from parents) that still shape the present. Life-Paralyzing Addictions – Behaviors once thought manageable that now dominate. 💔 Life-Draining Marriage Problems: Marriage was meant to be a source of joy and partnership, but can become a battleground. Wrong Responses: Withdrawal: Trying to fix the problem alone. Intimidation: Using power or anger to control. Right Responses: Keep learning about marriage and your spouse. Strive to understand even if you disagree. Be willing to say “I’m sorry” sincerely. Seek outside help early. Keep short accounts—don’t let bitterness grow. 🩹 Life-Defining Wounds: Definition: An unresolved issue from the past that harms the present. Types of Wounds: Father Wound: Absence, abuse, or disapproval from dad. Overcontrolling Mother Wound: A mother’s overreach stunts a boy’s manhood. Trauma Wounds: Abuse, divorce, death, or spiritual trauma. Healing Steps: Name the wound. Seek help and make a plan. Face the wound with courage. Healing leads to freedom, forward movement, and deeper connection with others. ⛓ Life-Paralyzing Addictions: Addictions begin with pleasure or escape and evolve into slavery. Common Addictions in Men: Sexual (especially internet pornography) Drug Alcohol Anger Gambling Break Free By: Getting honest—listen to what others are saying. Getting real—freedom requires a team: God, counseling, support groups. 🧭 Final Encouragement: Beating a buster makes you a hero—not just in this life, but in God's kingdom. God turns negatives into positives. He redeems wounds and uses them to bless others. The great adventure isn’t lived without a fight, but it is worth it. 📖 Key Scriptures: Proverbs 16:25 – “There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death.” 1 Peter 3:7 – “Husbands… be considerate… treat them with respect as the weaker partner.” Colossians 3:19 – “Husbands, love your wives and do not become embittered against them.” 1 Peter 3:7 – “Live with your wives in an understanding way.” Luke 21:34 – “Be careful, or your hearts will be weighed down with dissipation, drunkenness and the anxieties of life.”

Guiding Question: What are the hidden dangers that sabotage a man's adventure—and are you letting any of them define you? Key Takeaways: Beware the “Adventure Busters”:Robert Lewis introduces the concept of “Adventure Busters”—internal and external forces that derail a man’s pursuit of a meaningful life. These include secret sins, unresolved wounds, or culturally normalized behaviors that quietly erode a man’s soul and impact. The Double Life:One of the most common and destructive adventure busters. Many men compartmentalize their lives, presenting a polished exterior while hiding secret struggles. This leads to fragmentation, isolation, and eventual collapse. Living two lives is exhausting. It robs men of authenticity, joy, and real intimacy. The only solution is courageous honesty—first with God, then with safe others. Sexual Shortcuts:Robert Lewis directly confronts the destructive influence of pornography and casual sexual behavior. These “shortcuts” promise intimacy and excitement, but deliver shame and disconnection. Pornography is not just a private issue—it affects how men see women, relationships, and themselves. Sexual purity is not about repression but restoration—recovering God’s good design for sex. God’s Design for Sex: It is good, powerful, and purposeful. Meant to be expressed in covenantal love—marriage. Misuse leads to wounds, while rightly ordered sex brings deep joy and unity. Shame Is a Lie:Lewis makes clear: the goal is not to heap guilt, but to extend grace and freedom. Every man has struggles. What matters is whether you stay stuck in silence or step forward into healing. Five Practical Tools for Restoration: Personal honesty – Acknowledge the problem without rationalizing it. Accountability – Regular check-ins with trustworthy men. Boundaries – Proactively avoid triggers and access points. Spiritual renewal – Prayer, Scripture, and surrender. Vision – See purity not as avoidance but as a greater “yes” to joy and impact. Setting Up for Part 2:This is part one of a two-part teaching. Lewis hints that next week will cover more adventure busters—wounds, lies, and unresolved issues from a man’s past that continue to shape his present. Key Scripture References: Ephesians 5:11–14 – Exposing deeds of darkness and walking in light. Matthew 5:8 – “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.” Proverbs 4:23 – Guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. 1 Thessalonians 4:3–5 – God’s will: sanctification and sexual purity. James 5:16 – Confess your sins to one another and be healed. Romans 12:1–2 – Present your bodies as a living sacrifice; be transformed by renewing your mind.

Guiding Question: What’s your North Star—and do you have a clear vision of what you want to be, do, and leave behind before you die? Key Takeaways: Living with the End in Mind, Practically:Robert Lewis introduces a practical life tool called the “North Star”—a simple but profound exercise to help men clarify their life purpose. It’s a personal vision statement built around this prompt:“Before I die, I want to…”Completing that phrase across several categories helps a man live with intentionality. Key Categories for the North Star Tool: Be – Who do you want to become? Do – What do you want to accomplish? Have – What experiences or possessions do you desire? Help – Who do you want to serve or impact? Enjoy – What brings you joy that you want to prioritize? Leave – What legacy do you want to leave behind? The Danger of Drift:Many men go through life burdened and bent by responsibilities, pressures, and comparison—Robert calls this the “reactive life.” It leads to burnout and purposelessness. Instead, he urges men to live a “proactive life,” guided by purpose, conviction, and vision. Two Ways to Live: Comparing and Competing – Living based on what others do or have, leading to exhaustion and envy. Envisioning and Enjoying – Living by looking forward, anchored in a personal vision, leading to clarity and joy. Personal Vulnerability and Modeling:Robert shares his own “before I die” goals—ranging from coaching football again to writing a screenplay and helping plant 100 transformational churches. He models how this exercise applies at any age, affirming that it's never too late to start dreaming—or start over. Encouragement by Age: For Older Men: It’s not too late. Reclaim your second half. For Younger Men: Start now. Your dreams can be purer, bigger, and more long-lasting if formed early. For Everyone: This tool is your compass, your GPS, and your life’s alignment check. Final Charge:Robert emphasizes that crafting this North Star vision may be the most important thing a man ever does as an adventurer. It shapes not just what he does, but who he becomes and how deeply he lives. Key Scripture References: Ecclesiastes 4:4 – Rivalry and comparison as vanity. Ephesians 5:15–16 – Walk wisely and make the most of your time. Proverbs 16:9 – A man plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps. Genesis 1:28 – God’s design for man and his purposes. Proverbs 20:5 – Drawing out the deep purposes of a person’s heart.

Guiding Question: What do you really believe about eternity—and is that your final answer? Key Takeaways: Faith Decisions Shape Everything:Robert Lewis opens with the bold claim that faith decisions are the most important decisions a man will ever make. Everyone lives by some assumption about eternity—even choosing not to believe is, itself, a belief system. These beliefs influence our daily actions more than we realize. The Sacred Ground of the Mind:Continuing a theme from earlier sessions, Lewis calls this internal space of reflection “sacred ground.” It’s where men weigh their end, envision eternity, and measure today’s choices in light of that vision. Everyone Lives by One of Four Views: Nobody sees and nobody cares. Somebody sees, but it doesn’t matter. Somebody sees and is keeping score. Somebody sees and wants to help.These views are not just abstract—they shape how men live, lead, and make decisions today. Comparison of Major World Religions:Lewis walks through what major world religions teach about the afterlife—Judaism, Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism, Mormonism—and notes they all share one common element: earning heaven through good works. Christianity stands apart by offering a relationship with a Savior who offers help, not a checklist. Robert Lewis’s Personal Journey:He vulnerably shares his own story—growing up in a chaotic home, experiencing inner turmoil in college, and ultimately reaching for Christ at age 18. That decision reshaped both his present and eternal life. The Two Circles Illustration:Lewis explains his theology using two circles: Top Circle – What Jesus Christ has done for me: Forgiveness of sins Eternal life Adoption as a child of God Bottom Circle – What Jesus Christ desires to do in me: Abundant life Good works Loving others wellThe top circle guarantees salvation (unchangeable), while the bottom circle reflects daily discipleship (changeable and rewardable). Eternal Impact of Daily Choices:While salvation is secured through faith in Christ, rewards in heaven are determined by how faithfully we walk with Him. Lewis emphasizes this doesn’t determine if you get in, but it shapes how you live there. A: It’s over. B: It’s not over, and everyone will be fine. C: It’s not over, and I’m good enough. D: It’s not over, and I’ll need help. Final Challenge: “Is That Your Final Answer?”Echoing Who Wants to Be a Millionaire, Lewis asks each listener to confront their deepest belief about eternity. Options: Key Scripture References: Colossians 2:13–14 – Forgiveness of sins. 1 John 5:11–13 – Assurance of eternal life. John 1:12 – Becoming a child of God. John 10:10 – “I came that they may have life...” Ephesians 2:10 – Created for good works. John 15:12 – Loving others as Christ has loved. Philippians 3:20–21 – Citizenship in heaven and transformed bodies. 1 Corinthians 3:10–15 – Eternal rewards and loss.

Guiding Question: What will heaven really be like, and how should the promise of eternity shape the way I live today? Key Takeaways: The Power of Envisioning the End:Robert Lewis continues the theme of “sacred ground”—reflecting on death and eternity—as essential to a well-lived life. He illustrates this with the story of Alfred Nobel, whose accidental obituary inspired him to reshape his legacy. Similarly, men are called to think ahead to their end and live accordingly. Two Worldviews, Four Outcomes:Building on the previous week, Lewis recaps the two metaphysical worldviews (traditional religious vs. secular scientism) and the four outcomes people commonly choose regarding the afterlife. Most Americans believe in an afterlife, but their assumptions vary widely. Heaven Described as Dynamic, Relational, and Rewarding:Lewis dismantles the dull, caricatured views of heaven (clouds, harps, robes) and instead offers six compelling biblical insights: A place of resolution – where life’s injustices and mysteries are clarified. A place of altered states – where we receive transformed, physical-yet-glorified bodies, capable of operating in new dimensions. A place of personal rewards – where how we lived matters eternally; faithfulness is honored with real commendation and reward. A place of new status and position – where people’s earthly faithfulness determines their roles and responsibilities. A place of adventure and creation – not a static eternity, but one full of exploration, challenges, and creativity. A place of endless surprises – experiences beyond our imagination, prepared by a generous and relational God. Not Everyone Will Go There:The Bible is clear that there will be judgment. Heaven is not universal, and not everyone will enter. The big question isn’t just how good you are—but whether you recognize your need for help. Sobering and Motivating:Lewis calls men to be honest about where they stand in relation to eternity, challenging the idea of being “good enough” and urging listeners to grapple with grace and truth. Key Scripture References: 1 Corinthians 9:26 – Living with aim and intention. 1 Corinthians 13:12 – “Now I know in part; then I shall know fully...” Ecclesiastes 12:14 – “God will bring every deed into judgment...” 1 Corinthians 15:19 – “If only for this life we have hope in Christ...” John 14:2 – “I go to prepare a place for you.” 1 Corinthians 3:12–15 – Works tested by fire, rewards given. Matthew 19:27–30 – Rewards and positions in the kingdom. 1 Corinthians 2:9 – “What no eye has seen, what no ear has heard...” Matthew 25:31–46 – Separation of the sheep and the goats.

Guiding Question: Are you living with the end in mind, and how does your view of eternity shape the way you live today? Key Takeaways: Sacred Ground as a Mental and Physical Space:Robert Lewis introduces the concept of “sacred ground”—a moment or place, whether physical or internal, where we reflect deeply on what matters most. These encounters can reorient our lives, helping us clarify what is truly worth living and dying for. Orientation Determines Destination:Using the metaphor of an "adventurer's wiring," Lewis maps a man’s life from birth to death and eternity. Right orientation—knowing where you are going and aligning your present with that end—is essential for a meaningful life. The Power of Contemplating the End:Lewis urges men to regularly reflect on death and eternity—not as a morbid exercise, but as a life-shaping habit. This contemplation leads to better decisions, deeper satisfaction, and a clearer sense of purpose. Two Competing Worldviews:He contrasts the traditional religious worldview (which affirms divine origin, design, eternity, and ultimate meaning) with secular scientism (which views life as a random accident with no ultimate purpose). Every person lives according to one of these views, consciously or not. Peripheral Vision and Metaphysics:Just as athletes rely on peripheral vision, men need “metaphysical vision”—the ability to see the bigger picture beyond the immediate. This vision shapes our everyday choices and values. Four Views of the End: Dead End – Life ends with death, nothing follows. Blind Optimism – “Everything will be okay” without reason or clarity. Good Enough – Based on self-evaluation and comparison to others. I Need Help – Recognizes the need for grace and divine help—this is where Christianity uniquely speaks. Why the Christian Vision of the End Matters:Contrary to caricatures of heaven as boring or irrelevant, Lewis teases that the Bible offers a compelling vision of eternity—one worth exploring deeply in coming weeks. Christianity uniquely answers the human longing for meaning, justice, and hope beyond the grave. Key Scripture References: 2 Corinthians 4:18 – “...the things which are seen are temporal, but the things which are not seen are eternal.” Ecclesiastes 3:11 – “He has also set eternity in the human heart...” 1 Corinthians 15:32 – “Let us eat and drink, for tomorrow we die.” (Referenced indirectly through Paul's quote)

❓ Guiding Question: How does a man make wise, lasting decisions in the chaos of life—and what role does his unique wiring play in creating a meaningful legacy? 🗝️ Key Takeaways: Life Feels Like Air Traffic Control.With so many pressures, obligations, and decisions swirling around, it’s easy for a man to lose his way. Wise living depends on good "wiring." Wiring = How You're Made + What You've Lived + Where You're Headed.Robert Lewis presents a model where your design, past experiences, present convictions and problems, and future vision all feed into how you navigate life. Your Design Matters.Every man is uniquely made with talents, abilities, motivations, and God-given strengths (Psalm 139:14). Knowing your design helps you find energy and fulfillment in your pursuits. The Past Always Carries Over. Positives (e.g., strong family, success, faith) can empower your present. Negatives (e.g., wounds, broken relationships, shame) act like hidden cancers if unaddressed.Until past wounds are faced and healed, they will sabotage your current pursuits. Convictions Anchor You.Many men lack real convictions. True convictions aren’t just beliefs—they’re values you live by and can prove with your actions. Without convictions, men drift. Problems Are Destabilizers.The big four: marriage, children, job, and money. If unaddressed, these problems quietly wreck your wiring and pull you off course. Facing them honestly is part of godly manhood. Future Vision Pulls You Forward.Knowing where you’re going—your dreams and God’s purposes—keeps you moving with clarity. Most men lack defined dreams or plans and get lost in the fog of routine. Legacy and Destiny Matter.Life isn’t just about success—it’s about legacy and eternity. What happens when you die? Your answer to that shapes how you live today. Self-Evaluation is Key.Robert offers a "circuit tester" exercise: Evaluate each aspect of your wiring (design, past, convictions, etc.) and label it with a "+" (healthy) or "–" (unhealthy). Where you see a negative, that’s where your next life adventure must begin. The Goal is Full-Life Manhood.One path leads to a dead-end half-life manhood: pressured, lost, isolated. The other leads to life-giving adventure: healed, purposed, future-facing. 📖 Key Scripture References: Psalm 139:14 – “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made…”(Affirms God’s intentional design in every person.) Proverbs 15:22 – “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.”(Wise men seek help.) Ecclesiastes 12:1, 7 – "Remember your Creator… the spirit returns to God."(Life is short. Eternity is real.) Ecclesiastes 2:24; 3:11; 5:18; 9:9 – Various calls to enjoy life as a gift, yet live with eternity in view. John 10:10 – “I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.”(True life comes through Christ.)  

❓ Guiding Question: What does it take to make a life, not just a living—and how do I re-engage when life starts to feel flat, numb, or overly burdened? 🗝️ Key Takeaways: Anyone can make a living—but it takes adventure to make a life. Many men settle into half-life manhood: successful but unsatisfied, responsible but restless. Four core life adventures define whole-life manhood: Family Adventure – Reproducing life in your children through intentional, hands-on fatherhood that shapes their character and future. Noble Cause Adventure – Fighting for something bigger than yourself that contributes to others’ lives, moving from mere success to significance. Man-Size Adventure – Making space for fun and rejuvenating experiences; planning for joy and making memories that sustain you. Spiritual Adventure – Experiencing a relationship with God that brings eternal perspective, peace, and purpose. Time for a "timeout": This session was intentionally a pause to reflect, process, and realign with the journey so far. Life is like mountain climbing—you need rest stops. Tension is a gift. The restlessness many feel isn’t something to run from—it’s a signpost, revealing areas of needed growth or change. Fun must be reinvented. Especially as men age, meaningful recreation becomes something you must plan and pursue with intentionality. Finding your unique design matters. Robert introduces a future exercise (led by Bill Wellons) to help men discover what makes them come alive and how they’re wired to thrive. Work is a means, not the end. Work should serve your life’s adventures—not be the thing that swallows them whole. It's okay to need change. For some, that may mean adjusting work roles; for others, it might require the bold step of changing jobs entirely. For younger men: Be realistic, pursue wise mentors, and take God seriously. Avoid chasing a dream version of manhood that leads to burnout or boredom. Not religion—relationship. Robert clarifies he’s not pushing religious tradition, but offering the Bible’s wisdom and the reality of a spiritual life with God. 📖 Key Scripture References: Genesis 1:28 – The foundational call to be fruitful, multiply, and subdue the earth, revealing God’s original design for man’s adventures. Ecclesiastes 3:11 – God has set eternity in the human heart. Ecclesiastes 2:24, 5:18, 9:9 – Emphasize enjoying one’s work and life as gifts from God. Third John 1:4 – “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.” John 10:10 – Jesus promises life, and life abundantly. Augustine (quoted): “There is a God-shaped vacuum in every human heart that can only be filled by God.”  

Guiding Question:What if your life as a man could be more than responsibilities and routines—what if it could be a great adventure, full of purpose, meaning, and joy? 🧭 Key Takeaways: Responsibility Alone Will Drain YouRobert Lewis warns that when a man's life becomes nothing more than duties—family, work, obligations—he becomes exhausted emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. Anger, sadness, or fear often creep in when adventure and passion are absent. Men Need More Than Survival—They Need PurposeReal manhood isn’t just about showing up; it's about showing up with vision. Men were never meant to just survive life but to live it with mission, balance, and joy. The Great Adventure = Purpose + Fit + DestinyEvery man should strive to find a life that: Aligns with a sense of calling (purpose), Matches his personal design (fit), Builds toward a meaningful impact (destiny). Three Core Adventures for Every ManDrawing from Genesis 1:28–30, Lewis outlines God's original commission to men as the basis for a threefold adventure: The Family Adventure – Engaging hands-on to shape a virtuous next generation. The Noble Cause Adventure – Fighting for something bigger than yourself that benefits others. The Man-Sized Adventure – Having fun, taking risks, and doing things that make you come alive. Self-Discovery is Critical in a World of OptionsIn today's culture of endless career paths and distractions, men must become pioneers of their inner world. This means asking: Who am I? Why am I here? Where am I going? Culture Offers Confusion; God Offers ClarityWhile modern culture defines men by performance, pleasure, or possessions, Scripture roots manhood in being: Created by God – I am not random; I am a man made on purpose. Commissioned by God – I am called to live fruitfully and with impact. Accountable to God – I will one day answer to Him for how I lived. Your Job Should Serve Your Life, Not Define ItWork is meant to be a means to the adventure—not the entirety of it. If your career is crushing your sense of family, passion, and mission, something’s off. To Find Life, You Must Risk SomethingReal adventure will always require courage—facing fears, asking hard questions, making bold choices, and sometimes breaking from the norm. 📖 Scripture References: Genesis 1:28–30 – “Be fruitful and multiply…subdue the earth…enjoy all I have given.”(The foundational mandate for manhood—reproduction, contribution, enjoyment.) Ecclesiastes 12:7 – “The body returns to the earth… the spirit returns to God who gave it.”(We are spiritual beings accountable to our Creator.) 2 Corinthians 5:10 – “We must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ…”(Each life is headed toward a divine evaluation.) 3 John 1:4 – “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.”(A father’s greatest joy is seeing his legacy live on.) Deuteronomy 30:19 – “Choose life so that you may live…”(Life is a series of choices with eternal consequence.)              

Men’s Fraternity is a Journey of RediscoveryRobert Lewis frames this session as the start of a meaningful journey for men to uncover their true identity, understand their design, and live with purpose. This is not just a Bible study—it’s a bold initiative to challenge passivity and embrace courageous manhood. Three-Year Structure of Men's Fraternity: Year 1: The Quest for Authentic Manhood – Focused on core identity and rejecting passivity. Year 2: A Man at Work and at Home – Emphasizes responsibility in vocation and relationships. Year 3: The Great Adventure – Invites men to step into their destiny and lead courageously. Men are Often DisconnectedMany men are drifting—successful on the outside but unclear on the inside. They lack spaces to be real and honest about their struggles, dreams, and fears. Men’s Fraternity offers a safe, supportive environment to change that. Rediscovering the Spirit of AdventureSomewhere along life’s path, many men lose their sense of adventure. Responsibilities pile up, passions fade, and life becomes maintenance rather than mission. This year’s focus aims to reignite that inner fire and clarify life’s direction. Masculinity Must Be Defined and Lived IntentionallyWithout a clear, compelling definition of manhood, men default to culture’s confusion or retreat into passivity. Lewis emphasizes the need to establish personal mission, reflect on one’s design, and step forward with conviction. Life is a Choice—Choose AdventureMen can either live managed by circumstances or step into life with intention. This means rethinking careers, risks, passions, and even how we approach aging. The goal: to finish life satisfied, with a sense of "mission accomplished." 📖 Scripture References: Genesis 1:28 – “Be fruitful and multiply…subdue the earth.”(God’s original mandate to Adam was adventurous and expansive.) John 10:10 – “I have come that they may have life, and have it more abundantly.”(Jesus invites men into a full, flourishing life.) Psalm 90:12-14 – “Teach us to number our days…that we may present to You a heart of wisdom…that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days.”(A call to live with purpose, joy, and reflection.) Ephesians 5:15-16 – “Be careful how you walk…making the most of your time.”(An urging to live wisely and not waste life’s opportunity.) Deuteronomy 30:19 – “Choose life so that you may live…”(Life and death are choices—men must decide how they’ll live.) Genesis 25:8 – “Abraham died…satisfied with life.”(A beautiful picture of finishing life well, having lived a full adventure.)

Guiding Question:What is a husband really called to be—and how does a man step into that role with confidence and clarity? Summary Description:Robert Lewis delivers a deeply practical and inspiring message on biblical manhood and marriage, focusing on Ephesians 5:22–33. Speaking directly to married men—but also with applications for single men and parents—Lewis explains what it means to be the “head” in a marriage. Far from a model of dominance or superiority, biblical headship is a call to Christ-like leadership through love, guidance, and provision. He highlights three essential roles every husband must embrace: being a lover, a standard bearer, and a provider. Each role is unpacked with vivid illustrations, cultural observations, and personal reflections. Lewis also explains the modern confusion around headship and submission and offers a redemptive vision for how those principles create health and strength in marriage. Lewis appeals especially to men to gain direction—not domination—and calls fathers to pass this vision on to their sons. He ends with practical steps for husbands to engage their wives more deeply, starting with discovering their love language. Outline: The Challenge of Modern Headship – Cultural confusion, resistance to submission, and the loss of clear direction. Setting the Context – Marriage as a sacred calling for men; not superiority, but responsibility. Perspective Check: Men need clear direction to thrive. Headship in Scripture is modeled after Christ, not power. Submission is space for responsibility, not oppression. Neglectful husbands push wives into damaging fallback roles. Three Best Practices for Husbands: Lover – Show your heart, connect emotionally, learn your wife’s love language. Standard Bearer – Hold up God’s Word, protect the home morally and spiritually. Provider – Enable your wife to become all God intended, including financial provision where possible. Why Respect Comes Last – True respect from a wife is earned through a husband’s consistent, sacrificial love. Sociological Backing – Contemporary studies support biblical principles for husband roles in happiness and stability. Applications: Fathers teaching sons. Single men embracing these roles as preparation. Married men identifying their weakest area and taking steps to grow. Key Takeaways Biblical headship is about responsibility, not rights—modeled after Christ, not culture. A husband must actively love, lead, and provide for his wife to foster a healthy and joyful marriage. Emotional connection is vital; husbands must learn and act on their wife’s love language. Leading spiritually means holding up the Word as a guide and guard for the home. Providing includes enabling a wife’s calling—financially and otherwise. Respect from a wife is the fruit of a man’s sacrificial, consistent love. These roles must be taught to young men early; most flounder without vision. Scriptural References Ephesians 5:22–33 – Roles of husbands and wives in marriage. Genesis 2:24 – “Leave and cleave” foundation for marriage. Genesis 3:1–6 – Adam’s failure to lead as standard bearer. Proverbs 29:18 – “Without vision, the people perish.” 1 Peter 3:7 – Husbands live with their wives in an understanding way. Recorded 3/4/07

Guiding Question:What does it mean to truly follow Jesus—not just by coming to church, but by going out into the world as His representatives? Summary Description:In this bold and energizing message, Robert Lewis challenges believers to rethink their understanding of the Christian life. Drawing from Genesis 12 and Matthew 28, Lewis identifies a single word—“Go”—as the defining call of both Israel and the Church. The Christian life isn’t about endlessly attending services; it’s about being sent out, equipped to make disciples and bless others. Lewis unpacks three key ingredients for “go living”: conviction (believing this is the best way to live), finding a personal fit (discovering how you are uniquely wired to serve), and being equipped (having the confidence to effectively help others). Through stories of real people—like a man leading Men's Fraternity in Iraq and a car dealer starting spiritual conversations at work—he illustrates how “going” leads to the most vibrant, Spirit-filled Christian life. He also casts vision for how the church might release everyday believers to be local missionaries, start “mini-churches,” or lead high-impact equipping sessions using trusted resources. The message is both a wake-up call and a blueprint for turning passive attenders into active ambassadors for Christ. Outline: The Problem of Passive Christianity – Too many believers repeat basic training without engaging the mission. The “Go” Command – Genesis 12 and Matthew 28 as pivotal moments in redemptive history. Three Essentials for Going: Be convinced it’s the best way to live. Find your personal fit. Get equipped to make a real impact. Modern Examples of “Go People” – Personal stories of mission in Iraq, local businesses, and church members. Jesus' Catch-and-Release Model – Discipleship was never meant to be stagnant. Vision for a “Go Church” – Dreaming of house churches, equipping ministries, and spiritual entrepreneurship. Practical Models for Going: High-touch mini churches. High-interest equipping. High-impact family training. Conclusion & Prayer – Asking God to make Fellowship a church of movement, not maintenance. Key Takeaways The call to “go” is foundational to both Old and New Testament faithfulness. Many believers feel spiritually bored or disconnected because they’ve stopped moving outward. Going isn’t just about missions; it’s about finding your fit and serving in meaningful, everyday ways. Real spiritual growth and experiences of God’s power happen most often on the “front lines.” The church must shift from being event-driven to being mission-driven. You don’t have to be a preacher—just a willing participant with a passion to reach others. Scriptural References Genesis 12:1–3 – God’s call to Abraham: “Go…and you will be a blessing.” Matthew 28:18–20 – The Great Commission: “Go and make disciples…” Titus 2:14 – God redeems us to be “zealous for good deeds.” John 10:10 – Life to the full comes through following Jesus actively. 2 Corinthians 5:20 – We are Christ’s ambassadors. Recorded 3/19/06

Guiding Question:What does it really mean to experience the Shepherd’s care in our lives—and how do we follow Him to the high ground of faith? Summary Description:Robert Lewis unpacks Psalm 23:5 in this deeply reflective and encouraging message, helping believers understand how God’s care is both profoundly personal and powerfully transformative. This message explores the imagery of the Shepherd preparing a table, anointing with oil, and filling the cup to overflowing—each symbolizing how God provides, heals, and blesses His people. Lewis begins by reminding the congregation that biblical belief is inseparable from action—true belief means following. With humor and honesty, he describes how failing to follow leads to isolation and trouble. He then dives into the three word pictures in Psalm 23:5: the table, representing the Shepherd’s advance preparation; the oil, symbolizing healing through the Holy Spirit; and the cup, representing a life overflowing with God’s presence and provision. The message is rich with applications, including stories of healing from conflict and emotional wounds. One particularly powerful example involves a pastor reconciling with his aging father—a real-life picture of how the Shepherd’s care restores brokenness. Outline: Intro & Psalm Recitation – Congregational reading of Psalm 23 to frame the message. The Psalm’s Two Big Themes – Following and experiencing “better.” Defining Biblical Belief – Belief equals following; passive faith is unbiblical. Three Word Pictures in Psalm 23:5: The Table – God's provision prepared in advance, like lush tablelands for sheep. The Oil – Healing for irritations and infections; symbolic of the Holy Spirit. The Cup – A life that overflows with God’s presence, peace, and hope. Personal and Pastoral Stories – Including the Civil War letter from Robert’s family, illustrating God’s care even in death. Practical Application – Believe in God's preparation and keep applying the Spirit's "oil" through surrender and listening. Key Takeaways Biblical belief always leads to action—it means following Jesus as Shepherd. God's care is active, intentional, and preemptive; He prepares “tablelands” for our good. The Holy Spirit is our healing oil, bringing peace amid irritations and freedom from infections like unresolved conflict or unrepentant sin. When we follow, our lives overflow with spiritual abundance, even in hardship. Yielding to God through quiet, honest reflection is the pathway to ongoing spiritual vitality. The Shepherd’s care reaches all the way to eternity—our future home is already being prepared. Scriptural References Psalm 23:5 – “You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies…” John 10:10 – Jesus came to give life “more abundantly.” John 14:2–3 – Jesus prepares a place for His followers. Ephesians 2:10 – God has prepared good works in advance for us. Revelation 19:9 – The marriage supper of the Lamb. 2 Corinthians 1:21–22 – Anointing and sealing by the Holy Spirit. Romans 8:14 – Led by the Spirit of God. Recorded 6/5/05

Guiding Question:How can the church prepare for what’s next while faithfully handing off leadership to the next generation? Summary Description:In this heartfelt and visionary message, Robert Lewis shares his final sermon as a staff member of Fellowship Bible Church. Using a marathon analogy and drawing from 2 Timothy 4, he frames the transfer of leadership as a necessary and strategic “handoff” to the next generation. Like Paul entrusting Timothy to lead the church at Ephesus, Lewis charges the younger leaders at Fellowship—particularly Tim Lundy—with the responsibility of preaching the Word and fulfilling their ministry with conviction and endurance. This message is both personal and prophetic. Lewis reflects on 25 years of ministry, celebrates the strength of the church, and lays out five key cultural and ministry trends that the next generation must address to ensure the church remains vibrant and faithful. Outline: Marathon Analogy – A race requires preparation, guidance, and the right pacing. Paul and Timothy (2 Timothy 4) – The sacred handoff of leadership and mission. The Reality of Decline – Every thriving church has a shelf life without renewal. Five Cultural and Ministry Trends: Massive church closures due to generational shifts. A move toward small, high-quality churches. A demand for doctrinal clarity and authentic leadership. The rise of homegrown, non-seminary ministers. A renewed focus on evangelizing children and teens. Personal Reflections and Departure – Robert Lewis formally announces his transition to Global Reach and commissions Fellowship’s next generation. The Final Charge – Preach the Word. Fulfill your ministry. Die with no regrets. Key Takeaways Effective leadership transitions are intentional, spiritual, and urgent for the future health of the church. The church must adapt to cultural and generational changes without compromising doctrinal clarity or mission. Small churches can be powerful when combined with excellence and community. The future of the church depends on equipping everyday believers for ministry. The most strategic evangelism today is aimed at youth, given their openness and under-reached status. Finishing well means living with “no regrets” and passing the baton with confidence and hope. Scriptural References 2 Timothy 4:1–8 – Paul’s solemn charge to Timothy and reflection on finishing well. Acts 20:18–32 (paraphrased) – Paul’s farewell to the Ephesian elders, adapted by Lewis to say goodbye to Fellowship. Ecclesiastes 3:1 (implied) – Recognizing seasons and times for transitions. Recorded 3/6/05