Jaußan examines the characteristics and causation of the self-pity lover. This Parker type of individual dwells in some pity and victimhood and believe that the world is against them along with the odds within it. People this mindset think they deserve more than they actually have put into any effort in life and believe that they deserve the absolute best because they don't have it. A sense of entitlement prevails whether it's race or any other attribute they may associate value with while marginalizing the true words of others that made sacrifices for their rewards in life. They may assert and believe that someone does not deserve a certain partner based on their feelings that they should be with that person instead of the person chosen by the one they desire. We take a look at some of the characteristics involved with these individuals to make better life choices when it comes to a partner.