Jaußan & h8s ex Michelle Brinson discuss various topics and respect to dating and also follow up with listener messages and emails.
In this episode of The romantics of the Romantic Truth Podcast, außan addresses a new trend that is taking place where women are repurposing social media as an outlet to meet eligible and single men. Some use this in lieu of dating apps while others use social media as a primary vehicle to meet someone based on connectivity and referrals. Also, some women are using this platform for attention with more provocative affirmations and assertions. We take a look at this new trend and see how it impacts dating in general.
This episode delves into the reasoning and rationale and compulsion for people that may like certain odors associated with their partner. For some people it is a fetish and for others it is an expression of love and adoration.
Jaußan examines some of the unethical practices when it comes to dating and some of the things that singles should look out for and avoid in that process. The etiquette for asking one out for a date for instance the person requesting the date is responsible for paying for it. Group gatherings and dates are looked at in respect to what parties are responsible for splitting of the bill. Also, the amount that should be spent on a first date versus that for only a first meeting. Baby-sitting and maintenance cost as prerequisites for dates also addressed along with many other issues that may come up when it comes to a first date.
Jaußan examines the characteristics and causation of the self-pity lover. This Parker type of individual dwells in some pity and victimhood and believe that the world is against them along with the odds within it. People this mindset think they deserve more than they actually have put into any effort in life and believe that they deserve the absolute best because they don't have it. A sense of entitlement prevails whether it's race or any other attribute they may associate value with while marginalizing the true words of others that made sacrifices for their rewards in life. They may assert and believe that someone does not deserve a certain partner based on their feelings that they should be with that person instead of the person chosen by the one they desire. We take a look at some of the characteristics involved with these individuals to make better life choices when it comes to a partner.
Jaußan discusses the Aesthetics of dating and how it impacts many things and respect to a potential relationship. The superficial nature of dating using this methodology and some of the things such as being responsible and seeking attention outweighs to benefit of knowing the person.
This episode takes a look at the measure some people will go to in order to retain their relationship through third-party intervention, but not in the conventional sense.
Examining the urge or the temptation to accept conditions based on a desire that outweighs the consequences.
In this episode we address the reality of being lonely during Thanksgiving and the benefits and drawbacks of being alone during this period.
🎧 Relationship Sabbatical: A Break to Make it Better
Are you and your partner feeling the weight of routine? Does your relationship need a breath of fresh air, or perhaps... a complete reset?
In this week's deeply honest episode of Romantic Truth, we're diving into the controversial, yet increasingly popular, concept of the Relationship Sabbatical.
We sit down with listeners who have taken this bold step—a structured, temporary separation designed not to end a relationship, but to revitalize it. We explore the tough questions:
* What is a Relationship Sabbatical, and how is it different from a "break" or simply moving out? We discuss establishing clear rules, boundaries, and a finite timeline for re-evaluation.
* The 'Why' and 'When': When is this tool most effective? We examine situations where a sabbatical can help couples recover their individual identities, address codependency, or gain clarity before making a lifelong commitment.
* Dating Others: Is it ever okay? We tackle this highly sensitive topic and discuss the importance of pre-agreed-upon rules for sexual and romantic exclusivity during the time apart.
* The Re-Entry: How do you actually come back together and integrate the lessons learned during your time alone?
Tune in for an eye-opening discussion on how a temporary pause might be the key to a stronger, more sustainable 'happily ever after.'
✨ Featured Topics in This Episode:
* Setting clear expectations and rules for a structured separation.
* Identifying the root cause of burnout in a long-term partnership.
* Navigating the emotional challenges of solo time and individual growth.
* The difference between a sabbatical and a slow breakup.
Click to listen now and decide: Could a relationship sabbatical save your love story?
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🎧 The Holiday Blues: Navigating Loneliness, Infidelity, and Causation
The festive season can be a pressure cooker for emotions. In this heartfelt episode of The Romantic Truth, we tackle the less-than-merry side of the holidays, diving deep into the complexities of loneliness and how it can be acutely amplified by seasonal expectations. We also address the difficult reality of infidelity—exploring why this time of year often sees a spike in emotional and physical betrayals, and the unique stressors that contribute to it. Finally, we analyze the causation behind these "holiday blues," examining the interplay of financial strain, family dynamics, and the pursuit of a "perfect" holiday as catalysts for relationship turmoil. Tune in for an honest, vulnerable conversation on surviving—and strengthening—your relationship during the most wonderful, and sometimes most challenging, time of the year.
If this episode resonated with you, please share the link with a friend who might need to hear it this holiday season!
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Dive deep into the messy, often ridiculous, world of modern dating on this revealing episode of The Romantic Truth!
Your host pulls back the curtain on the complex dynamics between friends, lovers, and side-pieces, sharing candid confessions and unconventional wisdom. We kick things off by dissecting some of the subtle (and not-so-subtle) tactics women use within their friend groups. Ever heard of "friend-sourcing?" He admits to the reality of sleeping with platonic female friends and lays bare the ridiculous nature of the modern dating game.
What to Expect:
Roundabout Approaches: Decoding the cryptic ways women signal interest and the different types of approaches they use when they want to be with a guy.
Teasers and Time-Wasters: A warning about the guys who love your attention and time but avoid making a move.
The Side-Piece Reality: Straight talk about navigating the tricky territory of side-pieces.
The "First Touch" Rule: A breakdown of how a woman's initial touch can signal green light—or not.
Jealous Girlfriends: Addressing the mindset of a girlfriend who believes she's inherently better than the woman her partner is pursuing.
Avoiding the Off-Limits: Why staying away from married women is crucial.
The Friends-as-Scouts Strategy: When an early parental introduction might just be a sign you're strictly friends, giving her "extra eyes" on you.
This is the episode for anyone who's tried to decipher a confusing text, been friend-zoned, or just wants an honest look at the unspoken rules of romance. Press play and face the truth!
Jaußan & Guest co-host Gretchen Matthews explore the concept of the First Meet which consists of an informal 90 minute face to face introduction and meeting with someone you met online at a coffee shop, ice cream parlor, pizza parlor, or fast food venue within a $40 price range. The goal is to verify three things, confirming that is the person so you're not catfished, establishing clarification of any questions or discrepancies discusseed prior and finally to look for consistency in respect to that person adhering to the things they told you to avoid cognitive dissonance.
Also, in this episode, we hear from a person who voted against the best interest and respect to potential complications involving pregnancy and how a misunderstanding of the legislation they put her and other women at risk during pregnancy.
Gretchen also expresses some of her experiences and shares a glimpse of her past, including some escapades with the host.