Don’t Fake It, Faith It is a podcast for survivors of abuse, toxic relationships, divorce, and church hurt who are ready to stop pretending and start healing—with grit, grace, and God. It’s where we talk honestly about trauma, recovery, faith, and what it means to rebuild a life that’s both holy and whole. No more faking fine—this is about active faith, not passive survival.
Rooted in Scripture, seasoned with real talk, and soaked in hope, this space is for those who feel like outsiders in traditional Christian circles. We honor truth over tradition, healing over hiding, and the kind of faith that stands up, even with shaking knees. If you’ve ever been told to “just pray it away,” this is your permission to pray, process, and rise.
In this episode of Seeing the Barriers We Carry, Sarah gets real about the hidden walls we all carry—especially after trauma or toxic relationships. She shares how a cultural diversity class and the Harvard bias test shook up her perspective, leading her into a deeper journey of healing, identity reconstruction, and grace. With Celebrate Recovery’s 12 Steps and the OIDR method in hand, she unpacks what it means to go from Sarai to Sarah—and how to stop living like who hurt you and start living like who God called you to be.
We're gonna be talking a bit more about emotions and faith.
A Raw Testimony of God’s Grace, Grit, and Unfiltered Truth
There's something about cancer, illness, and certain things in life that make you stop, think, reflect, and pray.
Get ready for a heart-to-heart episode of Roots of Healing, Rewired and Redeemed—your weekly dose of real talk, girlfriend-style, with just the right sprinkle of holy humor. We’re pausing our Armor of God series (just one more breastplate of righteousness to go!) because our sister-in-arms, Steph, is gearing up for surgery. So, today, we’re pivoting to a message born from early-morning tears and fresh coffee: “Coffee, Cry, Rise: Notes from the Soul of an Overcomer.”
Join me as we walk through seven soul-soothing truths:
The Morning After the Storm – Why messy sunrises bring fresh hope.
The “Unseen” God Is Still Here – How He sees you when the world doesn’t.
The Power of a Morning Reset – Your daily do‑over in a coffee cup.
Only God Knows Our Hearts – The freedom of being fully known.
You Are Not Your Past – Letting go of old judgments and stepping into grace.
Learn, Don’t Live in Your Mistakes – Turning missteps into stepping stones.
A Step Back Doesn’t Have to Be a Backslide – How pauses can fuel your next glow‑up.
We wrap up with a prayer for Steph’s surgery, for our Wind Haven family, and for every listener who needs a reminder that joy really does come in the morning. Pull up a mug, grab a tissue (or two), and let’s rise together—glowing, growing, and ready for whatever comes next. ❤️☕✨
Join Pastor Steph each week for a refreshing and uplifting devotional that focuses on finding true peace in God. Through simple reflections, personal stories, and powerful scripture, she’ll guide you toward inner calm, helping you navigate life’s challenges with faith and serenity. Tune in for your weekly dose of peace!
Ever feel like keeping the "shoes of peace" on in your relationships is harder than walking on Legos? In this episode, we’re slipping into the CROCKS of Peace—because finding God’s peace shouldn’t feel like a blister-inducing hike. Join us as we unpack how to stand firm in faith, navigate conflict with grace, and avoid slipping into chaos. Get ready to step into healthier, drama-free relationships—no spiritual socks required!
Join Pastor Steph for our weekly devotional podcast, which delivers a powerful message about the love of God through Christ. Love is not the hardest thing to do. It should be easy and natural; when aligned with the father's love, it simply will be. We are called to love without hesitation and without calculating the cost. Love is not about an obligation, it is a movement of the heart caused by something greater than ourselves.
Truth—gritty, raw, and wrapped in grace. In this episode, we strap on the Belt of Truth (figuratively, don’t panic) and unpack what it really means to stand firm in gospel truth—beyond just Reality Therapy or a well-placed truth bomb. This one turned into a bit of a counseling session (okay, maybe a trauma dump), but hey, truth brings healing!
We put the Overcomer Reforge OIDR Method to the test (Observe, Identify, Dispute... and almost Replace—we’re saving that for next week’s Shoes of Peace). Steph shares about her battle with cancer, we wrestle with what it really means to be a survivor, and we dive into biblical awareness, truth with grace, and the messy process of healing. Also, I attempt (and fail) to explain the Healing Trinity—because some truths take time to unfold.
Pull up a chair (or tighten your belt) and join us for this deep dive into truth, survival, and the road to peace.
Ever felt like Jesus only saved you because He needed another worker in the Kingdom? Like, your struggles only matter if they’re getting in the way of your mission? If so, this episode is for you.
Too many of us have bought into the lie that our worth is tied to what we do for God—that He only loves us when we're useful. But here’s the truth: Your suffering matters to Him. Your exhaustion matters to Him. Not because it affects your ability to serve but because it affects you.
God’s love isn’t transactional. He’s not keeping score of how many souls you save or how tirelessly you labor. He cares for you, period. In this episode, we’ll break free from the performance-based faith trap and rediscover the rest, grace, and deep love God has for us—not as servants, but as His beloved children.
Tune in, and let’s set the record straight: You are loved, not for what you do but for who you are.
In this episode, we delve into the profound significance of the Sword of the Spirit, a vital piece of the Armor of God that represents the transformative power of Scripture. We discuss how God’s Word equips us to face spiritual battles, overcome fear, and replace doubt with unshakable faith. Through engaging discussions, we provide practical insights on how to apply biblical truths in your everyday life, offering a fresh perspective on living victoriously through the guidance of God’s Word.
As part of this inspiring journey, we’re thrilled to feature Raise 'em Up Lord by Paul Mills, a stirring track known from the powerful movie War Room. Used under fair use, a clip from this music underscores the closing prayer, amplifying its impact and driving home the message of spiritual strength and perseverance. The prayer serves as a heartfelt call to action, encouraging listeners to stand firm in faith and rely on the Sword of the Spirit as a source of guidance, healing, and victory.
Whether navigating a challenging season, seeking spiritual growth, or simply wanting to deepen your understanding of God’s Word, this episode will provide encouragement and actionable steps to help you stand strong. Join us as we uncover how wielding the Sword of the Spirit can empower you to face adversity confidently and live a life rooted in God’s truth. Don’t miss this opportunity to strengthen your faith and embrace the transformative power of Scripture!
In this sneak peek of our upcoming Sword of the Spirit episode, we dive into the power of praying together as a spiritual lifeline. Learn how shared prayer strengthens faith, fosters unity, and helps guard against distractions that pull us from God’s purpose. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation with practical insights and encouragement to deepen your prayer life.
✨ Tune into our next episode and be inspired! ✨
In this episode of Roots of Healing, we dive deep into the significance of the Helmet of Salvation as part of the Armor of God. Join us as we explore how salvation protects our minds from spiritual attacks and keeps us grounded in God's truth. We share powerful analogies, personal insights, and a vivid dream of spiritual warfare to illustrate this armor's critical role in defending against doubt, fear, and deception. Through the lens of faith and real-world application, we discuss how the assurance of salvation equips us to stand firm in life's battles. Whether new to the faith or seeking to deepen your understanding, this episode will inspire and encourage you to take hold of the Helmet of Salvation with confidence and clarity.
In this episode of Roots of Healing, we are joined by special guest Andrew Ryle to explore the transformative power of prayer in the life of a believer. Prayer is often thought of as part of our spiritual armor, but what does that truly mean? Together, we delve into what prayer is at its core—more than just words, it’s a heartfelt conversation with God, our Abba, Father. Andrew shares his insights on how to pray authentically, emphasizing that prayer is not about eloquence or ritual, but about relationship. We unpack the practical and spiritual aspects of prayer, discuss how it strengthens our connection to God, and highlight its role in equipping us to stand firm in the battles of life. Whether you're new to prayer or seeking to deepen your practice, this episode offers encouragement and guidance to help you experience prayer as a source of protection, guidance, and intimacy with the Father. Join us as we discover how prayer when woven into the fabric of our faith, guards our hearts and guides our steps.
Welcome to Roots of Healing, the revolutionary podcast rewiring hearts, minds, and relationships. Dive into powerful stories and holistic methods to break free from past pain, renew hope, and restore lasting connections. Join us on this journey of deep healing and transformation.