If you’re in a marriage or a relationship with a guy who’s like a 20–30% — as a rule, anything under 50% as a rule — maybe pops up every now and then into an 80% and then he pops back down, and you just feel always like a pull towards him, like he’s pulling on you.
That’s your clue.
The way you deal with that marriage and make it better: you step back.
You disconnect the part of you that is doing the work.
You disconnect the “I’m doing the work.”
You disconnect the weight on the 20%, the 30%, the 80%.
You disconnect the anger because you know he’s below 50% as a rule.
You do not trust him.
You do not feel good about him.
You are unhappy on many levels.
And so you are angry.
You’ve got to get in touch with that.
You’ve got to deal with that.
You’ve got to feel that.
You’ve got to step back and stop saving the marriage.
Stop it!
He’s never felt you step back and get bored with him.
And if you’re not on Siren Island, all of this may sound incredibly new to you — when you’re feeling in your Feminine Energy…
everything feels better (even when things aren’t going the way you want…).
The Siren Island Course & Community is here to help you find your Feminine Energy, feel it fully, and live from it!
Everything changes once you experience your emotions instead of shoving them away… your power starts to bubble up and give you faith in yourself.
Siren Island is here:
https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/
Love, Rori