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Roses Are Dead
Terry Roseland & Jones
341 episodes
3 days ago
We trace a messy dating triangle to a clean rule: compare partners to your needs, not to each other, then drill into how to vet for upbringing, conflict style, integrity and boundaries. Along the way we reflect on safety, systems that stick and why “no” reveals the truth. • knowing yourself before you date: boundaries, negotiables, beliefs • upbringing patterns and how family roles shape expectations • conflict green flags and red flags that actually matter • consistency and integrity when n...
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We trace a messy dating triangle to a clean rule: compare partners to your needs, not to each other, then drill into how to vet for upbringing, conflict style, integrity and boundaries. Along the way we reflect on safety, systems that stick and why “no” reveals the truth. • knowing yourself before you date: boundaries, negotiables, beliefs • upbringing patterns and how family roles shape expectations • conflict green flags and red flags that actually matter • consistency and integrity when n...
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Relationships
Education,
Society & Culture,
Self-Improvement,
Health & Fitness,
Mental Health
Episodes (20/341)
Roses Are Dead
How To Vet A Partner
We trace a messy dating triangle to a clean rule: compare partners to your needs, not to each other, then drill into how to vet for upbringing, conflict style, integrity and boundaries. Along the way we reflect on safety, systems that stick and why “no” reveals the truth. • knowing yourself before you date: boundaries, negotiables, beliefs • upbringing patterns and how family roles shape expectations • conflict green flags and red flags that actually matter • consistency and integrity when n...
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3 days ago
53 minutes

Roses Are Dead
25 Under 25
We press the case for saying “fuck the streets,” separate people from a destructive code, and lay out real alternatives that change outcomes. We close the year with a blueprint for men under 25: identity, solitude, money systems, and leadership that starts with tough conversations. • “Fuck the streets” means rejecting a harmful mentality, not abandoning people • Survivorship bias in rap and street culture challenged • Who gets to decide what helps the community questioned • Information gap v...
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1 week ago
1 hour 21 minutes

Roses Are Dead
The Opp in the Mirror
We pull apart self-sabotage with honesty: why we protect ourselves from pain by shrinking our lives, and how discipline, vulnerability, and positive self-talk rebuild momentum. We cover coasting, perfectionism, money myths, cultural tone, and the moving goalpost that demands smarter habits. • early lessons that prime self-sabotage • procrastination, coasting and perfectionism as hidden traps • nervous system patterns that mistake chaos for love • vulnerability in career pivots and late start...
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2 weeks ago
51 minutes

Roses Are Dead
Intrusive Thoughts Pt 3
We trade nostalgia for hard questions, moving from house-party anthems to a candid look at ambition, moral compasses, and why respect for the work outlasts hype. Then we unpack the Diddy doc, boxing ethics between friends, IP lessons from a stolen idea, and why teens should learn to hustle, not clock in. • soft life vs adulting and shared responsibility • why intention beats talent and C’s stall growth • pride in work as a portable reputation • diddy documentary bias, complicity, and account...
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3 weeks ago
1 hour 28 minutes

Roses Are Dead
21 Questions w/ Tip
We bring back 21 Questions and open up about purpose as a daily practice, community without the performer’s mask, and the skills that turn love from a feeling into a craft. Along the way we get candid about fatherhood, boundaries, and what it takes to feel valued, not used. • Thanksgiving trip reflections and why people matter more than place • Community over celebrity and rejecting meet-and-greets • Purpose as practice and rebuilding self-belief • Discipline versus self-punishment and susta...
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1 month ago
48 minutes

Roses Are Dead
Ignorance on Fire
We wrestle with cognitive dissonance, the quiet lies that let us call ourselves good while doing harm. We push into faith, accountability, fatherhood, influence, forgiveness, and how to raise boys who can carry a heavy world • slavery analogy used to explain cheating and self-deception • clear definition of cognitive dissonance and why it sticks • gratitude practice and faith after the blessing arrives • Chicago pride and media narratives balanced with responsibility • influence of circles a...
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1 month ago
1 hour 23 minutes

Roses Are Dead
Parents These Days
We unpack how to protect kids without excusing bad behavior, tracing a path from strict 90s upbringing to modern overcorrection and the cost of both. Along the way, we talk gratitude, purpose, teacher bias, fair consequences, and the realities of co‑parenting. • drawing the line between advocacy and enabling • gratitude as fuel for better parenting • the village relaunch and mentorship for 12–19s • teacher bias, targeting and fair classroom rules • daily resets versus...
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1 month ago
1 hour 19 minutes

Roses Are Dead
Brick by Brick
We break down how delaying gratification builds real wealth, not just a better-looking life. Nate Randall joins us to talk real estate, networking across, and investing in people, while we share practical tactics for money, relationships, and raising boys with standards. • saving on a teaching salary and buying the first building • why delaying gratification never ends • wealth versus things and status • networking across to create future lifts • leading with value to earn mentorship • FHA s...
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1 month ago
1 hour 3 minutes

Roses Are Dead
Marriage From The Front Row
We examine how a two-parent upbringing shapes our idea of normal love, confront the “highlight reel” trap, and make the case for coexistence, self-leadership, and seasons. A new job win, style and posture tips, and an AMP segment on why men often win later round it out. • growing up with married parents shaping expectations • social media highlights distorting healthy relationship norms • conflict resolution without chaos • leadership as self-discipline and example • rejecting happy wife hap...
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2 months ago
1 hour 6 minutes

Roses Are Dead
What Are We? (Patreon Monologue)
We unpack how “exclusive vibes without an agreement” let one person enjoy access while dodging the work of commitment, and we share a clear script and decision tree to end mixed signals. We draw firm lines on boundaries, couple privileges, and the difference between romance performance and real accountability. • ambiguity as a tactic to avoid labels and responsibility • exclusive routines without a clear agreement • obligation versus fun and why labels feel risky • practical boundaries on sl...
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2 months ago
37 minutes

Roses Are Dead
A Coward Dies 1,000 Deaths
Two hosts trace a line from childhood confrontations to adult courage, unpacking how fear multiplies when we avoid hard choices and how truth ends the loop. We answer a listener facing grief, money strain, and trust wounds, then map courage across love, work, and parenting. • stories of being pressed and how fear lingers • the quote that frames courage vs avoidance • cheating, faux bro code, and real brotherhood • listener question on space, grief, money, and past infidelity • negotiation, s...
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2 months ago
1 hour 8 minutes

Roses Are Dead
Regardless of Circumstance (Patreon Monologue)
The phrase that won’t leave my head is simple: regardless of circumstance. Not the kind of confidence that shows up when the room is friendly and the clock is kind—but the kind that stays steady when the stakes jump, the rules change, and the finish line disappears. I walk through what that looks like when a kid drains a paper ball until push-ups are on the line, when love pulls in two directions no text can fix, when a savings plan meets a totaled car, and when creative work asks you to keep...
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2 months ago
17 minutes

Roses Are Dead
Financial Insecurity ft. The Freedom Coach
We dig into how financial insecurity shows up in dating, why freedom is really about time, and how disciplined leadership turns money stress into a plan. The Freedom Coach maps the road from independence to wealth and shows why budgets, boundaries, and boring habits win. • defining financial insecurity in relationships • freedom as time, not dollars • independence vs rich vs wealthy • $250 date math and lifestyle creep • budgets, emergency funds, and petty cash rules • three paths to wealth:...
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2 months ago
1 hour 14 minutes

Roses Are Dead
Just Put The Tire Back On (Patreon Monologue)
The moment everything feels too fast is the moment we forget we can hit pause. We unpack a simple rule that saved us in rough seasons—don’t let anything overwhelm you—and turn it into a step-by-step way to handle chaos without burning out. From summer fun that pushed bills into collections to car notes that bought status but sold peace, we get honest about avoidance, pressure, and the stories we tell ourselves that make small problems feel like doom. We walk through the mental switch that ch...
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2 months ago
24 minutes

Roses Are Dead
3 Insecurities Men Must Overcome Before Entering A Relationship
What if the “boogeyman” threatening your relationship isn’t another man—it’s your insecurity? We open with jealousy in its messiest form and trace how comparison, gossip, and social-media fantasy twist harmless moments into stories that ruin good things. From there, we go straight at the money myths: why men overspend to “keep” someone, how to set a season for stacking cash without starving the relationship, and the one mindset shift that turns panic into a plan. No shaming—just empathy, acco...
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2 months ago
1 hour 15 minutes

Roses Are Dead
Lazy Love
Ever felt like you’re sharing a home but not a life? We unpack how a vibrant love can quietly slide into “roommates with kisses,” from the moment attention slips to the day intimacy feels like a chore. The turning point wasn’t a single blowup—it was comfort turning into entitlement, a phone turning into a third person, and habits that once made love easy slowly fading into autopilot. We begin with the early romance—flowers, affirmations, planned dates—and follow the slow drift: Twitter tunne...
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3 months ago
1 hour 20 minutes

Roses Are Dead
Forgive Your Parents Pt. 2
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3 months ago
35 minutes

Roses Are Dead
When The Silence is Loud (ft Dometi Pongo)
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3 months ago
1 hour

Roses Are Dead
The Short End of the Stick
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3 months ago
1 hour 5 minutes

Roses Are Dead
Social Currency
Ever been used as somebody’s “I used to talk to them” flex? That’s not information—that’s currency. In this episode we crack open the clout economy: how people trade names, rumors, and proximity for status—and how that hustle wrecks dating, friendships, church circles, and the wider Chicago scene. We decode a viral-style post (“I had shorty on stage before—no biggie”) and show what’s really being bought: attention. Then we map where social currency circulates (DMs, group chats, pews, orgs),...
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4 months ago
1 hour 23 minutes

Roses Are Dead
We trace a messy dating triangle to a clean rule: compare partners to your needs, not to each other, then drill into how to vet for upbringing, conflict style, integrity and boundaries. Along the way we reflect on safety, systems that stick and why “no” reveals the truth. • knowing yourself before you date: boundaries, negotiables, beliefs • upbringing patterns and how family roles shape expectations • conflict green flags and red flags that actually matter • consistency and integrity when n...