Are you hungry for guidance about mindset, relationships, health, finances, career decisions, and dealing with your past? I’m Trey Tucker, Licensed Therapist and Speaker, and I work with many young men and women to navigate life’s challenges and find solutions to help them live lives of service and meaning. Welcome to Rugged. We have a space for you.
As a host, I bring training and experience that helps me understand the challenges young adults face and the solutions you need to lead truly good lives. I bring a blend of straight talk and empathy, and I’m open to addressing any topic and treating it -- and the people connected to it -- with respect and curiosity.
In this podcast, you will learn mindset strategies to harness your thoughts & emotions in ways that help you achieve your goals.
My hope is that this podcast would leave you feeling encouraged and empowered to take charge of your life and close the gap between who you are and who you want to be.
For more info, visit ruggedcounseling.com.
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Are you hungry for guidance about mindset, relationships, health, finances, career decisions, and dealing with your past? I’m Trey Tucker, Licensed Therapist and Speaker, and I work with many young men and women to navigate life’s challenges and find solutions to help them live lives of service and meaning. Welcome to Rugged. We have a space for you.
As a host, I bring training and experience that helps me understand the challenges young adults face and the solutions you need to lead truly good lives. I bring a blend of straight talk and empathy, and I’m open to addressing any topic and treating it -- and the people connected to it -- with respect and curiosity.
In this podcast, you will learn mindset strategies to harness your thoughts & emotions in ways that help you achieve your goals.
My hope is that this podcast would leave you feeling encouraged and empowered to take charge of your life and close the gap between who you are and who you want to be.
For more info, visit ruggedcounseling.com.
Boys Need Consequences, Not Lectures - Therapist Explains
Rugged with Trey Tucker
19 minutes
1 week ago
Boys Need Consequences, Not Lectures - Therapist Explains
Boys don't learn unless there's physical discipline and consequences - not long lectures or verbal reasoning.
As a therapist, I break down why many boys process lessons more effectively through movement, structure, and embodied consequences.
In this video, I explain how calm, action-based discipline supports emotional regulation, builds respect, and strengthens connection when paired with warmth and relationship.
If you want to understand what actually works for developing confident and responsible young men, this will help clarify the science and the strategy.
Original video of the dad and son
Research
Gurian, Michael. Boys and Girls Learn Differently! San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2001.
Lamborn, S. D., Mounts, N. S., Steinberg, L., and Dornbusch, S. M. “Patterns of Competence and Adjustment Among Adolescents From Authoritative, Authoritarian, Indulgent, and Neglectful Families.” Child Development 62, no. 5 (1991): 1049–1065.
Porges, Stephen W. The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. New York: W. W. Norton, 2011.
Pleck, Joseph H. “Paternal Involvement: Levels, Sources, and Consequences.” In: Lamb, Michael E. (Ed.), The Role of the Father in Child Development, 5th ed., pp. 58–93. Hoboken: Wiley, 2010.
Erikson, Erik H. Childhood and Society. New York: W. W. Norton, 1950.
Baumrind, Diana. “Effects of Authoritative Parental Control on Child Behavior.” Child Development 37, no. 4 (1966): 887–907.
Maccoby, Eleanor E., and Martin, John. “Socialization in the Context of the Family: Parent-Child Interaction.” In Handbook of Child Psychology, Vol. 4, Socialization, Personality, and Social Development. New York: Wiley, 1983.
Scripture:
Proverbs 22:6
“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
Ephesians 6:4
“Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”
Hebrews 12:6
“For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.”
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Rugged with Trey Tucker
Are you hungry for guidance about mindset, relationships, health, finances, career decisions, and dealing with your past? I’m Trey Tucker, Licensed Therapist and Speaker, and I work with many young men and women to navigate life’s challenges and find solutions to help them live lives of service and meaning. Welcome to Rugged. We have a space for you.
As a host, I bring training and experience that helps me understand the challenges young adults face and the solutions you need to lead truly good lives. I bring a blend of straight talk and empathy, and I’m open to addressing any topic and treating it -- and the people connected to it -- with respect and curiosity.
In this podcast, you will learn mindset strategies to harness your thoughts & emotions in ways that help you achieve your goals.
My hope is that this podcast would leave you feeling encouraged and empowered to take charge of your life and close the gap between who you are and who you want to be.
For more info, visit ruggedcounseling.com.
