Most people in their 20s are playing the wrong money game. They are cutting expenses, chasing side hustles, or trying to “get rich fast,” while missing the one thing that actually determines whether income grows long term. In this episode, I talk with Nick Maggiulli, author of The Wealth Ladder, about how money really works at different stages of life and how to climb to the top of the ladder. If you’re in your 20s and feel pressure to be further ahead, this conversation explains why that feeling exists, why social media distorts reality, and what actually matters early if your goal is income growth and financial stability. We get into: Why most people in their 20s are not behind financially Why income growth matters more than budgeting early on How the Wealth Ladder explains different money stages Why one size fits all investing advice breaks down How to think about skills, careers, and leverage in an AI driven economy It’s a framework for people in their 20s who want to build income the right way. Get Nick's bestselling book, The Wealth Ladder Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As this year comes to a close, my friend Kris Bowman and I sit down and ask each other a set of questions we’ve been asking for years. They’re simple questions, but they’ve led to big growth, especially for guys in their 20s who feel pressure to have everything figured out. Instead of focusing on five year plans or New Year’s resolutions, this conversation is about: - who you’re becoming - how you changed this year - how you want to step into the next one We decided to record a short version of this conversation and put it out there so you can do the same and get the benefits. If you want to end this year well and start the next one with more clarity, presence, and intention, this episode is for you. Kris Bowman's Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Most people hear Morgan Wallen’s Just in Case and think it’s a sad breakup song. I hear something else. This video breaks down the psychology behind Just in Case and why so many people relate to it without realizing what it’s modeling about dating, attachment, and emotional unavailability. We talk about trauma bonds, avoidant attachment, ghost attachment, and why holding back your heart “just in case” keeps people stuck on an ex and unable to move forward. This isn’t a hit piece on Morgan Wallen. It’s an honest look at why this song hits so hard and why so many people are quietly living the same pattern. If you’ve ever stayed half available, struggled to move on, or kept hope alive longer than you should have, this one’s for you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this interview, Rene Rodriguez breaks down the real science behind persuasion, influence, and body language and how your presence is shaping outcomes before you ever speak. Rene is a leading authority on leadership and influence, a best selling author, and an expert in applied behavioral neuroscience. This conversation moves past surface level tips and into how confidence, identity, and nonverbal signals actually drive persuasion. You’ll learn: • How people read you instantly • The body language cues that build or kill trust • Why influence is about presence, not manipulation • How to make people listen without being fake If you want to become someone people trust and say yes to, this conversation will change how you show up. Topics:Persuasion Influence Body language Presence and confidence Leadership communication Subscribe for more conversations on psychology, leadership, and personal growth to make your 20's and 30's legendary. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Modern dating culture tells men to give up after one rejection—but are we losing something valuable? In this episode, I share the powerful story of a man who put a rock in a girl's mailbox every day for three months to show his dedication. 50 years later, they're still married. What You'll Learn: - Why pursuit isn't "creepy"—it's how good men show their character - The three questions every woman needs answered from childhood - How mystery and uncertainty create stronger relationships - Why instant chemistry might be misleading you - How to build unbreakable trust over time - The difference between high-character men and performative charm Key Topics Covered: ✅ The warrior nature of masculine pursuit ✅ Why "boring" might actually mean stable and consistent ✅ How anxious attachment kills mystery in relationships ✅ Building trust gradually vs. instant infatuation ✅ Seeing someone's true character over time ✅ Breaking free from transactional dating cultureStop letting social media turn dating into a checklist. Real relationships require time, mystery, and the space to let someone prove their character. This isn't about ignoring boundaries—it's about giving good men a chance to show who they really are. ______________________ 🎙️ ABOUT RUGGEDWelcome to Rugged—where young adults learn to navigate life with confidence. I'm Trey Tucker, and I share mindset strategies to help you harness your thoughts, emotions, and achieve your goals. 📌 Related Topics: dating advice, relationship tips, modern dating, masculine pursuit, feminine energy, attachment styles, building trust, healthy relationships, dating psychology, relationship boundaries, intentional dating, authentic connection 💬 Let's Talk: Do you think pursuit is valuable or problematic? Share your thoughts in the comments below. 👍 Like this video if it gave you a new perspective 🔔 Subscribe for more real talk on relationships and young adult life 📱 Share with someone who needs to hear this Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Dinner Scene Everyone Is Talking About in Landman S2E1. Landman season 2 episode 1 features some of the show’s most intense emotional and psychological moments, including Cami’s bold luncheon speech, Tommy’s growing identity pressure, Angela’s explosive reaction at the dinner table, and Cooper’s risky ambition. This breakdown analyzes the deeper relationship dynamics, communication failures, shame triggers, and power shifts driving the episode. Get insight into the psychology behind the hormone argument, the plate-throwing meltdown, the human instinct to respect boldness, and the emotional patterns shaping each character in Landman S2E1. This video is ideal for fans of Landman, relationship psychology, emotional intelligence, character analysis, conflict breakdowns, and viewers who want a deeper understanding of the hidden themes in Landman season 2. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Boys don't learn unless there's physical discipline and consequences - not long lectures or verbal reasoning. As a therapist, I break down why many boys process lessons more effectively through movement, structure, and embodied consequences. In this video, I explain how calm, action-based discipline supports emotional regulation, builds respect, and strengthens connection when paired with warmth and relationship. If you want to understand what actually works for developing confident and responsible young men, this will help clarify the science and the strategy. Original video of the dad and son Research Gurian, Michael. Boys and Girls Learn Differently! San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2001. Lamborn, S. D., Mounts, N. S., Steinberg, L., and Dornbusch, S. M. “Patterns of Competence and Adjustment Among Adolescents From Authoritative, Authoritarian, Indulgent, and Neglectful Families.” Child Development 62, no. 5 (1991): 1049–1065. Porges, Stephen W. The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. New York: W. W. Norton, 2011. Pleck, Joseph H. “Paternal Involvement: Levels, Sources, and Consequences.” In: Lamb, Michael E. (Ed.), The Role of the Father in Child Development, 5th ed., pp. 58–93. Hoboken: Wiley, 2010. Erikson, Erik H. Childhood and Society. New York: W. W. Norton, 1950. Baumrind, Diana. “Effects of Authoritative Parental Control on Child Behavior.” Child Development 37, no. 4 (1966): 887–907. Maccoby, Eleanor E., and Martin, John. “Socialization in the Context of the Family: Parent-Child Interaction.” In Handbook of Child Psychology, Vol. 4, Socialization, Personality, and Social Development. New York: Wiley, 1983. Scripture: Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” Hebrews 12:6 “For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How should you deal with the stress that comes from layoffs & potential layoffs? AI just caused Amazon to lay off 14,000 white collar employees, and more are coming at other companies. I'm hearing from a rising number of clients concerned about losing their job. These tips can help you calm and control the anxiety caused by these crazy times. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What actually happens to your brain when you watch a horror movie? Most people think it’s just adrenaline—but your mind, body, and even your soul are training for something much deeper. We'll talk about the psychology and neuroscience of fear—why your amygdala fires, why dopamine makes you feel alive, and how horror movies secretly help you build courage, confidence, and emotional resilience. Then we’ll go deeper: what if horror movies also awaken something spiritual in us? From The Exorcist to Hereditary, Trey explores the thin line between fear as entertainment and fear as a spiritual rehearsal for confronting real evil. Watch to learn: What your brain and nervous system do during a scary scene Why fear can actually make you stronger How movies like Insidious, A Quiet Place, and The Blair Witch Project hack your survival instincts The spiritual and moral meaning behind horror’s most terrifying moments When watching horror might cross from training into danger If you’ve ever wondered why horror feels addictive—or why it lingers long after the credits roll—this is your deep dive. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this breakdown, therapist Trey Tucker unpacks how Cate Dunlap's attachment style and trauma responses explain everything about her fall from protector to villain in Amazon Prime's Gen V - and how those same patterns show up in your life. You’ll learn: - How fearful-avoidant attachment makes love feel dangerous - The difference between protecting and possessing the people we love - How guilt and moral injury feed people-pleasing and manipulation By diagnosing Cate, we uncover how trauma shapes our own attachment style—and how to start healing the need to control what we fear losing. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Millions of people can’t stop watching those viral sorority TikToks — but why? It’s not just attraction. There’s a powerful psychological trigger underneath that makes these videos irresistible, and if you understand it, you can use it to level up your confidence, discipline, and presence in real life. And you'll learn how to develop an attractive presence that changes any room you walk into. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Netflix’s Wayward, something is dark at Tall Pines. Therapy looks a lot like control, and "healing" looks evil and sinister. This breakdown explores: • Evelyn’s psychological tactics • Leila’s trauma • Abbie’s narcissistic parents • Alex’s hypervigilance • Laura’s quiet denial And • The psychology of manipulation and false healing • How shame and control disguise themselves as care • The spiritual cost of “fixing” what was never broken Get Trey's Substack Newsletter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Arch Manning is at a make-or-break point. Follow Trey on Instagram Get Trey's Substack Newsletter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

One brutally honest friend can save your life. In this powerful conversation, author Tony Miltenberger shares how unaddressed wounds almost cost him his marriage, family, and calling - and the moment a single friend’s ultimatum changed his life. We dig into: - Why men numb with distractions instead of healing wounds - How cracks in your life become canyons if ignored - The daily disciplines that protect you from secret coping habits - How real brotherhood can change your life Get Tony's book Tony's podcast Connect with Trey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Netflix’s Unknown Number: The High School Catfish showed you the messages. What they didn’t show was the psychological toll on the men - Owen and Shawn. It's a shocking true story, but the reality is even darker than what you saw on screen. A teenage girl and her boyfriend were tormented by nearly 350,000 harassing texts over two years. Police, school officials, and even the FBI got involved, but when the truth finally came out, the stalker’s identity stunned everyone. That’s where this breakdown goes deeper. In this Unknown Number documentary analysis, I reveal the psychological impact on Owen and Shawn, and men in general - something rarely discussed in true crime. 🔍 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN - Owen’s potential attachment issues - Why Owen blames Lauryn - The secret struggle male victims never talk about - Shawn’s body language and what it reveals about his mental state - Whether Shawn knew Kendra was behind the texts before police revealed it - The hidden details Netflix left out about the investigation This Netflix documentary analysis focuses on male psychological trauma—something often overlooked in true crime cases. Connect with Trey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Charlie Kirk assassination shook the world. But what it exposed in men might be even bigger. In this first episode of "From Boys to Mentors", therapist Trey Tucker unpacks the ripple effect of Charlie’s life, and what it’s revealing about the state of modern manhood. This episode dives into: - The quiet crisis most men don’t talk about - How Charlie’s legacy unlocked something deeper - What every man needs but rarely seeks out Plus, a practical challenge that might change your life Connect with Trey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You saw the Phillies “Karen” steal the ball. You saw the internet rage. But there’s something you didn’t see. It happened in the background. It was easy to miss. But it's the moment that pissed me off the most. 🧠 Connect with me #viralvideo #fatherhood #masculinity #therapistreacts #phillieskaren #karen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

She was stabbed on a subway - and no one helped her. In this episode, I break down why that happened. As a therapist, I explain why people record violence instead of stopping it. Why the good guys get prosecuted, and evil walks free. But it doesn’t have to stay that way. I also talk about the mindset and training you need to be the kind of man who protects others. If you want to become the kind of man who runs toward the problem - not away from it - this is for you. 🧠 Connect with me Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Netflix’s new documentary Unknown Number: The High School Catfish tells a shocking true story, but the reality is even darker than what you saw on screen. A teenage girl and her boyfriend were tormented by nearly 350,000 harassing texts over two years. Police, school officials, and even the FBI got involved, but when the truth finally came out, the stalker’s identity stunned everyone. In this episode, I break down: - why Lauryn still longed for her mom after the betrayal - her strange body language - how enmeshment with her mother shaped her and the hidden details Netflix left out about the police and investigation. Connect with Trey #Netflix, #TrueCrime, #Catfish, #UnknownNumber Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Netflix’s new documentary Unknown Number: The High School Catfish tells a shocking true story, but the reality is even darker than what you saw on screen. A teenage girl and her boyfriend were tormented by nearly 350,000 harassing texts over two years. Police, school officials, and even the FBI got involved, but when the truth finally came out, the stalker’s identity stunned everyone. In this episode, I break down: - Kendra's body language and what it might reveal about her - the disturbing psychological tactics she used - why she did it - how psychopaths and narcissists operate - reveal the hidden details Netflix left out Plus, I talk about what you can do to spot and avoid this type of person. Connect with Trey ************ Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this video are personal and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of any other agency, organization, employer, or company. Assumptions made in the analysis are not reflective of the position of any entity other than the creator(s). These views are subject to change, revision, and rethinking at any time and are not to be held in perpetuity. We make no representations as to the accuracy, completeness, correctness, suitability, or validity of any information on this video and will not be liable for any errors, omissions, or delays in this information or any losses injuries, or damages arising from its display or use. All information is provided on an as-is basis. It is the reader’s responsibility to verify their own facts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices