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Self Obsessed
Tam Kaur
107 episodes
6 days ago
Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth. ‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions. So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.
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Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth. ‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions. So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.
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Self Obsessed
25 life lessons I learnt at 25 | self-care, success & the mindset glow-up that changed everything

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25 life lessons I learned at 25 🎂— this video is a reflection on everything the past year has taught me about growth, mindset, and becoming the woman I’ve always wanted to be. from overcoming past failures and trusting my intuition to protecting my energy, finding balance, and learning the power of therapy — these are the lessons that truly changed how I see myself and the world. turning 25 has been all about evolving, embracing discomfort, and letting go of what no longer serves me. whether you’re navigating your own season of change or simply looking for motivation to keep growing, I hope these lessons remind you that self-care, consistency, and courage will always take you further than fear ever could. 🤍

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction
01:37 Lesson 1: Forget the Past
03:11 Lesson 2: You Are What You Consume
04:22 Lesson 3: Protect Your Energy
05:20 Lesson 4: Trust Your Intuition
06:23 Lesson 5: Starting Therapy
08:25 Lesson 6: People Aren't Villains, They're Limited
09:53 Lesson 7: Lock Into Your Goals
11:30 Lesson 8: Get Comfortable Making Others Uncomfortable
12:51 Lesson 9: Find Joy in the Way You Do Things
14:46 Lesson 10: Life is Too Short Not to Get Closure
16:11 Lesson 11: Find Your Outdated Subconscious Scripts
17:27 Lesson 12: New Eras Come with Loneliness
19:18 Lesson 13: Regulate Before You Grind
20:48 Lesson 14: Stop Using Struggle as an Identity
22:09 Lesson 15: You Attract What You Believe You Are Worthy Of
23:32 Lesson 16: Healing Isn't About Not Being Triggered
24:23 Lesson 17: The Things You Want to Do Require Confidence
25:50 Lesson 18: Your Soulmate is Like Nothing You Ever Imagined
27:31 Lesson 19: Stop Feeling Bad
28:55 Lesson 20: Future Self Mentoring
30:02 Lesson 21: Falling Out of Frequency
31:06 Lesson 22: Rest and Balance for True Manifestation
32:38 Lesson 23: Discomfort is the Cost of an Interesting Life
33:33 Lesson 24: Ask More Questions
35:00 Lesson 25: Get Obsessed with Your Potential
36:22 Conclusion


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3 weeks ago
37 minutes 58 seconds

Self Obsessed
how to find REAL HAPPINESS | stop burnout, people pleasing & quick dopamine

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the happiness trap 💭 — in this podcast, i’m sharing the mindset shifts that helped me break free from the constant chase for success and finally understand what real fulfillment feels like. after hitting 100,000 subscribers in 2022 and still feeling empty, i realized i had fallen into the arrival fallacy — the belief that happiness exists in the next achievement. this episode is all about resetting your relationship with success, detoxing from quick dopamine highs, and building daily habits that support long-term peace. from reframing your goals to practicing resilience, gratitude, and guided journaling, this is your reminder that happiness isn’t a destination — it’s a daily choice. let’s reconnect with the present, redefine what it means to feel “enough,” and build a life rooted in meaning, not milestones. ✨

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS PODCAST:
00:00 Introduction: The Illusion of Happiness
02:05 Chapter 1: Happiness Myths That Are Keeping You Stuck
09:15 Chapter 2: Mindset Shifts for Happiness
14:34 Chapter 3: Actions to Be Happier
21:19 Conclusion

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1 month ago
22 minutes 9 seconds

Self Obsessed
10 STEPS TO LOCK IN BEFORE 2026 | goal-setting, realigning, building habits & glow up secrets

10 steps to lock in before 2026 ❄️ — this is your chance to reset, realign, and transform before the new year begins. in this podcast, i’m sharing how to design a winter arc routine that’s tailored to your lifestyle and goals. from goal-setting and identity shifts to dopamine detox strategies and glow up secrets, these are the steps that will help you stay consistent, disciplined, and aligned. let’s lock in together this season and build habits, routines, and mindsets that feel sustainable, empowering, and transformative before stepping into 2026 ✨


♡ WHAT'S IN THIS PODCAST:
00:00 Introduction: The Great Lock-In of 2025
02:53 Step 1: Environment Creates Flow
05:49 Step 2: Set Friction Against Sabotage Habits
07:39 Step 3: Make Your Lock-In Enjoyable
10:08 Step 4: Energy is Everything
11:47 Step 5: Take a Dopamine Detox
13:05 Step 6: Set Your Game Plan
15:00 Step 7: Manifest Like a Pro
17:01 Step 8: Weekly Reviews and Course Corrections
18:26 Step 9: Challenge Your Identity
20:57 Step 10: Forget Your Feelings
22:31 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


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1 month ago
23 minutes 49 seconds

Self Obsessed
how to heal your INNER CHILD & reinvent yourself | self love, trauma release + mindset shifts

the ultimate guide to inner child healing ✨ if you struggle with people-pleasing, over-apologizing, or low self-worth, it often comes from unmet childhood needs. in this video, i’ll show you how to heal your inner child through re-parenting routines, journaling, and neuroplasticity to rewire old beliefs. this is your blueprint to emotional healing, confidence & self love 💗


♡ WHAT'S IN THIS PODCAST:

00:00 Introduction: Understanding Your Inner Child

04:52 Chapter 1: What is Your Inner Child?

07:36 Chapter 2: How to Heal Your Inner Child

13:45 Chapter 3: Homework

17:32 Conclusion


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2 months ago
18 minutes 16 seconds

Self Obsessed
the ULTIMATE back to school guide | mindset glow up, friendships, routines + study hacks

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this isn’t your average back-to-school advice video — this is the ULTIMATE Back-to-School Guide 2025 to help you glow up your mindset, routines, and study habits while reinventing yourself for the new school year.✨ instead of cliché tips, i’m sharing the mindset shifts and life systems that actually transform your high school experience: handling drama, making genuine friendships, romanticizing daily school life, mastering emotional intelligence, embracing failure as growth, and building effective routines that stick. this video is your blueprint to level up academically, socially, and personally — so you can step into your dream reality this year.


♡ WHAT'S IN THIS PODCAST:
00:00 — Introduction
01:15 — Chapter 1: Life and Drama
11:25 — Chapter 2: Studying and Goals
18:39 — Chapter 3: Homework
20:22 — Conclusion: Embrace the School Year Ahead


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2 months ago
21 minutes 3 seconds

Self Obsessed
Obsessed With Manifesting | the easiest way to manifest your dream reality

my new obsessed with manifesting journal is out! 🪄. this isn’t just another manifestation journal you forget about in a week. it’s designed to actually help you rewire your beliefs and step into your dream reality using neuroscience, self-concept work, and powerful manifestation techniques. inside, you’ll find:


✨ a vision board to map out your dream life

✨ gratitude immersion + daily affirmations

✨ law of assumption scripting & quantum leaping

✨ aligned action plans + manifestation prompts

✨ pages for detachment, self-concept & success tracking


basically, it’s everything i wish i had when i started my manifestation journey. and in this video, i’m also answering some of your most common questions — like how to manifest properly, how to build a journaling routine, and the psychology behind why these practices actually work.if you’re ready to stop manifesting the wrong way + finally create the life you’ve been visualizing, this video is for you.


♡  WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:

00:44 Chapter 1: Manifestation Myths 

02:18 Chapter 2: How is Obsessed with Manifesting Different?

08:02 Chapter 3: Why Does Obsessed with Manifesting Work? 

11:55 Chapter 4: Obsessed with Manifesting Q&A


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2 months ago
15 minutes 50 seconds

Self Obsessed
the ULTIMATE guide to friendships | advice I WISH I knew earlier to build lasting friendships
friendships are harder than relationships sometimes… and no one talks about it. this is the ✨ULTIMATE ✨guide to friendships — the advice i wish i knew earlier to build real, aligned, and lasting connections. we’re diving into red flags, green flags, setting boundaries, and why so many of us settle for surface-level friendships. if you’ve ever felt misunderstood, drained, or unsure of your standards, this video is for you 🤍

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:

  • 00:00 Introduction
  • 01:50 Chapter 1: What to Avoid in Friendships
  • 10:29 Chapter 2: Setting Your Standards
  • 19:36 Chapter 3: Being a Great Friend
  • 26:41 Conclusion

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Business enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com

*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

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3 months ago
28 minutes 3 seconds

Self Obsessed
how to MASTER self-love while dating | detachment, boundaries, & self-worth no one talks about

mastering self-love while dating isn’t always easy — especially when no one talks about the detachment, boundaries, confidence, and self-worth it really takes. if you’ve ever felt like you start shrinking in relationships, this video is for you. i’m sharing the exact mindset shifts that helped me stay independent, grounded, and fully in my power while navigating love. after spending time single, focused on building my dream life and reconnecting with myself, i learned that the right relationship should expand your world — not consume it. whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or healing from one, this video will help you protect your peace, stop overgiving, and keep becoming her — the woman you were always meant to be. 💅🏽💖


♡  WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:

00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Self-Love and Independence

02:21 Chapter 1: The Talk

08:44 Chapter 2: The Lifestyle

15:43 Chapter 3: Homework

18:48 Final Thoughts



🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:

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*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

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3 months ago
19 minutes 19 seconds

Self Obsessed
the 5 laws of self-obsession | how to build unshakable confidence & start choosing YOU

the 5 laws of self-obsession aren’t about being selfish — they’re about how to build unshakable confidence, protect your peace, and start choosing you. in this episode, i share the mindset shifts that helped me heal, stop people pleasing, and finally become the most confident, grounded version of myself. we’ll talk self-love, boundaries, personal growth, and how to rewrite the stories you tell yourself. if you’ve ever been told you’re “too much” for simply prioritizing yourself — this one’s for you. ✨ it’s time to reclaim your power and start living for you. 💅🏽💭💖


♡  WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:

00:00 Introduction: Why Self-Obsession Isn’t Selfish

01:11 Critique of Societal Views on Self-Obsession

02:41 Law 1: The Mirror Law

06:22 Law 2: The Boundary Law

08:25 Law 3: The Celebration Law

10:18 Law 4: The Upgrade Law

13:04 Law 5: The Rewire Law

15:52 Final Words of Empowerment



🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
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*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!
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3 months ago
17 minutes 34 seconds

Self Obsessed
watch this when you're in a slump

<p><strong>feeling stuck or in a slump? here’s your sign to reset and realign 🫶 i’ve been there. in this video, i’m sharing 7 reminders and mindset shifts that helped me break out of low-energy phases and reconnect with my higher self. we’ll talk about how to stop spiraling, reconnect with your future self, and turn quiet seasons into your biggest growth moments. whether you’re going through a rough patch or just feeling off, this is your sign to reset, reflect, and step into your comeback era.</p>


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<p><strong>♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:</strong><br>

00:00 – Overcoming the Slump Phase<br>

01:14 – Fact 1: Emotions Are Not Reality<br>

03:19 – Fact 2: It's Just a Phase<br>

05:27 – Fact 3: Stop Identifying with the Slump<br>

06:59 – Fact 4: One Decision Away<br>

08:32 – Fact 5: Future Self Knows Best<br>

10:32 – Fact 6: Resisting the Next Version of You<br>

12:28 – Fact 7: You Are Resilient<br>

13:28 – Final Motivation</p>


<p><strong>SHOP & LINKS:</strong><br>

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<p><strong>Business enquiries:</strong> <a href="mailto:tam@mvetalent.com">tam@mvetalent.com</a></p>


<p><em>*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s" target="_blank">@raaginder</a>!</em></p>


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4 months ago
14 minutes 4 seconds

Self Obsessed
relationship RED flags that are actually GREEN | 10 healthy dating signs every woman needs to know

<p>💚 you might be pushing away healthy love without even realizing it. in today’s episode, we’re talking about the 10 “red flags” in men that are actually signs of emotional maturity — and why your past might be making you miss them. from taking time to reply, moving slow, having female friends, or even being a little “boring”… these things aren’t toxic, they’re actually green flags 🫶</p>


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<p><strong>♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:</strong><br>

00:00 – Introduction<br>

01:45 – Debunking Dating Red Flags<br>

01:49 – Green Flag #1: He is Picky<br>

03:13 – Green Flag #2: He Rejects You<br>

04:54 – Green Flag #3: No Past Relationships<br>

05:55 – Green Flag #4: Has Female Friends<br>

07:11 – Green Flag #5: Takes Time to Texting Back<br>

09:03 – Green Flag #6: Challenges You<br>

10:36 – Green Flag #7: He Has His Own Life<br>

12:03 – Green Flag #8: He Moves Slow<br>

13:53 – Green Flag #9: There Are No Sparks<br>

15:48 – Conclusion</p>


<p><strong>SHOP & LINKS:</strong><br>

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<p><strong>Business enquiries:</strong> <a href="mailto:tam@mvetalent.com">tam@mvetalent.com</a></p>


<p><em>*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s" target="_blank">@raaginder</a>!</em></p>


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4 months ago
16 minutes 56 seconds

Self Obsessed
it’s time YOU became the center of your own universe | detachment, inner peace & true confidence

tired of people-pleasing, overthinking, and chasing validation? it’s time to detach, reclaim your confidence, and become the center of your own universe. ✨ we’re talking detachment, self-trust, and the quiet kind of confidence that comes from within. i’ll take you through the exact mindset shifts and weekly habits that help you stop people-pleasing, reconnect with your body, and protect your energy. this isn’t about becoming someone new — it’s about coming home to yourself. If you’re in your self-love era and ready to let go of external validation, this one’s for you 💌


♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Decentering
01:58 Chapter 1: Decentering Everyone and Taking Control of Your Life
09:59 Chapter 2: Centering Yourself and Becoming Self-Obsessed
16:45 Chapter 3: Homework: Practical Steps to Self-Centering
19:04 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


SHOP & LINKS:
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Business enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com


*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

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4 months ago
19 minutes 35 seconds

Self Obsessed
MID YEAR RESET: you have 6 months LEFT to make 2025 the BEST year yet. This is how.

we’re halfway through 2025, which means it’s time for a mid year reset. in this video, i’m sharing the 6-step process to help you get back on track with your goals, upgrade your routines, and shift into your highest self. whether you’re feeling behind or just need a fresh perspective, this is your sign to pause, reflect, and move with intention. let’s make the rest of 2025 count 💫


♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction: Realign, Refocus, and Re-strategize
01:51 Step 1: Back to Basics
05:02 Step 2: Progress Check
06:05 Step 3: Make a New Strategy
08:06 Step 4: Amplify the Wins
10:29 Step 5: Turn Losses into Lessons
14:26 Step 6: Scheduling is King
17:52 Conclusion: Action Your Midyear Resets


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SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
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5 months ago
19 minutes 2 seconds

Self Obsessed
GIRL TALK Q&A: toxic friends, dating drama, healthy relationships, goals and self love [PART 7]

ITS THAT TIME AGAIN GIRLIES! I'm answering all of your juicy dilemmas and sharing real advice you can actually use. from calling out red flags in relationships, dealing with toxic friendships, and setting boundaries, to healing your self-esteem, building confidence, and learning how to stop comparing yourself to others. we’re also talking about normalizing your wins, trusting your timeline, and how to stay focused on your own growth 💖 grab a drink and let’s get into it!


♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction
00:54 Dating Dilemmas: Identifying Red Flags and Breaking Cycles
10:42 Friendship Dilemmas: Setting Standards and Identifying Envy
17:16 Being Your Best Self: Achieving Goals and Self-Love
26:02 Final Thoughts


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SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL:
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5 months ago
27 minutes 30 seconds

Self Obsessed
REALITY CHECK: Why Your Life Still Hasn’t Changed (Even After All Your Effort)

REALITY CHECK: Why Your Life Still Hasn’t Changed (Even After All Your Effort) — if you’ve been doing the journaling, the meditations, the affirmations… but still feel stuck, this video is your wake-up call. we’re unpacking why effort alone isn’t enough — and how real transformation starts at the subconscious level. i’ll walk you through the shifts that helped me rewire my mindset, align my environment, and finally start seeing results. from identity work to consistency and the quiet habits that actually reshape your reality — this is the deep work that leads to real change 💭🧠


♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction: Why Your Efforts Aren't Paying Off
02:02 Understanding the Subconscious Mind
04:52 The Power of Meditation and Visualization
08:37 Reprogramming Your Subconscious Mind
10:42 Environmental and Lifestyle Conditioning
14:32 Mindset Shifts for Lasting Change
19:38 Conclusion and Additional Resource


RESOURCES & LINKS:
SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
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*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder !

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5 months ago
20 minutes 45 seconds

Self Obsessed
how to become UNRECOGNIZABLE by summer 2025 | daily habits, beauty hacks, mindset shifts & glow up

this is your ultimate "that girl" summer glow-up guide 🌞 to become unrecognizable by summer 2025. from beauty rituals that’ll have you feeling like her, to mindset shifts that level you up from the inside out—i’m sharing everything that helped me step into my hottest, most confident self. we’re talking self-care, daily habits, lifestyle changes, and the energy shifts that turn your dream life into your real life. get cozy, take notes, and let’s romanticize every moment together 💌

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction: Are You Ready to Become Unrecognizable This Summer?
00:52 Chapter #1: Mastering Your External Glow Up
08:25 Chapter #2: Mastering Your Internal Glow Up
13:57 Chapter #3: Living Life in Style
17:19 Chapter #4: Becoming Your Successful Self
21:22 Conclusion: Your Glow-Up Journey

SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL: Click here

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5 months ago
22 minutes 28 seconds

Self Obsessed
life is a movie & you’re the STAR so ACT like it | the ultimate guide to being the main character

This is the ultimate guide to becoming the main character of your life—because life is a movie, and it’s time to step into the spotlight. In this video, we’re diving into the mindset shifts and reality checks that helped me stop waiting for permission and start writing my own plotline. From rewriting your inner dialogue and ditching external validation, to building confidence and romanticizing your daily rituals—this is about becoming the kind of person your younger self dreamed of being.

So if you’re ready to glow up from the inside out and finally become the main character of your own story—this one’s for you 💌

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
  • 00:00 Introduction: Are You Living a Movie Worth Watching?
  • 00:57 Understanding Main Character Energy
  • 05:23 Lifestyle and Mindset Shifts for Main Character Energy
  • 10:36 Homework: Action Steps to Embody Main Character Energy
  • 12:31 Conclusion
♡ RESOURCES & LINKS
  • Self Obsessed Journal
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5 months ago
13 minutes 37 seconds

Self Obsessed
the ULTIMATE energy protection guide | stop draining yourself & start aligning

Protecting your energy is the ultimate form of self-care 🫶 In this video, we’re talking about the quiet habits that can shift everything—from avoiding draining conversations to being intentional with the content you consume. I’m sharing the small mindset shifts that helped me stay grounded, protect my peace, and stop pouring into things that don’t pour back into me.

If you’ve been feeling overstimulated, low-vibe, or just off lately, this one’s for you. Think of it as your reset: a guide to setting boundaries, raising your frequency, and creating a life that actually feels good on the inside 💌


♡ WHAT'S IN THIS PODCAST:

  • 00:00 The Importance of Energy Protection
  • 00:37 Understanding Negative Energy
  • 02:43 Lesson 1: Choose Your Battles Wisely
  • 05:31 Lesson 2: Stop Rehashing Negative Experiences
  • 07:30 Lesson 3: Visualize Your Protective Aura
  • 09:52 Lesson 4: Be Mindful of Your Words
  • 12:51 Lesson 5: Stop Chasing and Rushing
  • 14:32 Lesson 6: Curate Your Consumption
  • 17:59 Final Thoughts and Encouragement


✨ RESOURCES & LINKS:

  • SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
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  • ORDER MY BOOK
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6 months ago
19 minutes 4 seconds

Self Obsessed
10 lessons to LEVEL UP your 20s | mindset, self-growth & confidence tips

navigating your 20s can feel overwhelming—so here are 10 life lessons that helped me find clarity, confidence, and purpose ✨ from building self-worth and mastering your mindset, to creating financial flow and embracing failure, these are the tips I wish I had when I was starting out. this video is your guide to glowing up in your 20s—inside and out. we’ll talk daily habits, communication skills, manifestation, and how to truly step into your highest self. if you're in your self-growth era, this one's for you 💌

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS EPISODE:

  • 00:00 – Introduction: Level Up in Your 20s
  • 00:44 – Step 1: You Control Your Life
  • 03:15 – Step 2: Conscious vs. Subconscious Mind
  • 06:13 – Step 3: The Power of Manifestation
  • 08:24 – Step 4: Building Financial Abundance
  • 09:23 – Step 5: Embrace Failure
  • 10:43 – Step 6: Master Communication Skills
  • 12:05 – Step 7: Focus on Self-Love Before Relationships
  • 14:35 – Step 8: Stay Authentic
  • 16:24 – Step 9: Enjoy the Journey
  • 18:13 – Step 10: Let Go of Parental Expectations
  • 20:11 – Conclusion: Your Self-Improvement Journey


✨ RESOURCES & LINKS:

  • SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
  • PODCAST INSTAGRAM
  • LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
  • ORDER MY BOOK
  • THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER


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6 months ago
21 minutes 30 seconds

Self Obsessed
10 tips and habits to MASTER your mental health | break the cycle and start healing

trying to prioritize your mental health without getting overwhelmed? in this video, i’m breaking down 10 simple habits and tips that can help you feel more grounded, balanced, and in control. from journaling and setting boundaries to creating joy lists and resetting your mindset—it’s all about building a routine that actually supports your well-being.


♡ WHAT'S IN THIS EPISODE:

  • 00:00 Introduction: Personal Mental Health Struggles and Realization
  • 01:49 Understanding Mental Health
  • 02:33 Creating a Mental Health Routine
  • 05:09 The Role of the Environment on Mental Health
  • 08:05 Productivity and Organization
  • 09:53 Overcoming Negative Feelings and Rewiring Your Mind
  • 11:12 Slow Morning Routine
  • 12:47 Protecting Your Peace and Setting Boundaries
  • 13:37 Breaking from Toxic Familiarity
  • 15:48 Mind Mirrors Who You Are, Not What You Want
  • 16:33 Creating a Joy List
  • 18:29 Auditing Your Mind
  • 20:31 Conclusion


SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
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6 months ago
21 minutes 43 seconds

Self Obsessed
Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth. ‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions. So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.