Is it a green flag… or just a man doing the bare minimum? 👀

This week, KV and B are joined by the woman who’s been quietly pulling strings behind the mic, Megan Coleman, for an unfiltered deep dive into the wild world of modern dating red flags and green flags.

From opposite-sex besties and private Notes apps to “I don’t post on socials” energy and who really pays the bill, nothing is off-limits. It’s raw, real, and just a little too relatable.

💋 In this episode:

- The hidden red flags we keep excusing

- Why some “icks” are actually emotional maturity

- Read receipts, DMs, and why we overthink every text

- Separate finances vs shared futures

- Exes, keepsakes, and the cursed “private Notes app”

- How to spot a soft-launch specialist

- Late-night work drinks & blurred boundaries

🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Tell us your biggest red flag moment in the comments. (We’ll rate it on air 👀)

What happens when a joke about quitting your job turns into Australia’s most empowering sex-toy brand?

This week on Sex & The One, KV and B sit down with Justine, founder of That’s The Spot

, to talk about motherhood, pleasure, and how one offhand comment sparked a business helping women reclaim their confidence between the sheets (and beyond).

From working in construction to creating a sex-positive gifting experience, Justine gets real about:

- The story behind That’s The Spot

- How a vibrator named “Steely Dan” changed everything

- Why gifting sex toys should be as normal as sending flowers

- The surprising link between orgasms and calmer babies (yes, really)

- The toys Aussies can’t stop buying, including the viral Ducky

Whether you’re a new mum, a curious beginner, or just ready to drop the shame and own your pleasure, this episode is a cheeky, honest, and empowering must-listen.

🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

💋 Use code SEXYONE for 20% off your next order at thatsthespot.com.au

From loving your boobs to popping in a ball gag (yes, really), this week’s episode with Sex with Lex dives into confidence, kink, and how some men really love to submit.

New Sex and the One ep is out now! Listen wherever you get your podcasts, and trust us, you’ll want headphones for this one 😅

Ready to show off your sex-ed smarts? Join Cliterally Trivia for a night where the foreplay is the quiz.

Plus, treat yourself at thatsthespot.com.auau with 20% off using code SEXYONE 🧡

Got a story or spicy opinion? Come share it inside The Naked Circle 💋

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What happens when one wild idea, a tiny house, and a naked man kick off a year of the most unfiltered conversations about sex, love, and everything in between? 😈

In this first birthday episode of Sex & The One, B and KV look back on 12 months of chaos, connection, and confessions, from The Naked Man story that “broke the internet” to The Cougar Rule, blowjobs and menopause, AI boyfriends, and why they’ll never say “should” again.

You’ll hear:

- How a tiny house with no Wi-Fi started a viral podcast

- The Cougar Rule explained (and debated)

- Hot-seat moments, body counts, and non-monogamy myths

-The “plastic vs glass balls” lesson that saved relationships

- Why vulnerability, laughter, and sex talk changed everything

It’s raw, real, and laugh-out-loud funny, the perfect mix of chaos, heart, and honest conversation that made you fall in love with this pod in the first place.

Hit play, celebrate with us, and tell us: what’s been your favourite Sex & The One moment this year? 💋

Don't forget, you can keep up with all the fun in the Facebook Group, The Naked Circle https://www.facebook.com/share/g/17UZuBid5Q/

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This week, KV and B sit down with Karlie and Clayton, the founders of The Barn Brisbane, an exclusive adult play centre that’s redefining intimacy, connection, and exploration in Australia.

From building equipment by hand (including their now-famous milking table), to creating a safe, private space for couples and small groups, Carly and Clayton share the wild journey of turning an empty warehouse into one of Brisbane’s most talked-about venues.

We dive into:

- How The Barn came to life from scratch

- What makes it different from clubs and open-door venues

- The unique equipment (yes, we talk about that table)

- How privacy, safety, and cleanliness are prioritised

- Why couples are reconnecting, and even making “Barn babies”

If you’ve ever been curious about the world of adult play spaces, or how intimacy and innovation collide, this episode is a must-listen.

Follow The Barn Brisbane: https://www.instagram.com/the_barn_brisbane/

💌 Subscribe for more real, raw, and sex-positive conversations every week.

In this episode of Sex and the One, KV opens up about a weekend that didn’t go as planned, and the emotional aftermath that followed. This isn't to expose, it’s a reminder you don’t have to go through it alone.

We’re here to talk about what happens after the bad date, the shame spiral, the self-blame, the questioning. And most importantly, the sisterhood that pulls you out of it.

🧡 If you’ve ever thought that maybe you should’ve known better, this one is for you.

🧡 If you’ve ever blamed yourself for someone else’s bad behaviour, this one is for you.

🧡 If you’re carrying something heavy, you don’t have to do it alone.

New episode of Sex and the One is out now. Listen wherever you get your podcasts.

And if you need a soft landing and a safe space to share your story, come join us in The Naked Circle, our private community on Facebook. We’d love to have you 💋

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1173460901277122

In this week’s episode of Sex and the One, KV and B keep it raw, real, and way too relatable. Forget what you’ve seen in porn or rom-coms — real intimacy involves towels, tissues, splash mats, cracked knees, menopause sweat, and the awkward post-sex “waddle.”

They dive into:

- Real sex vs. TV & porn myths

- Towels, tissues & the wet patch dilemma

- Why real foreplay is dishes, affection & communication (not oral)

- Deal breakers in bed & why women shouldn’t settle

- The hilarious realities — from carpet burns to dead toys

- Travel tips (yes, even for your toys)

- Intimacy when the kids are home

- Double standards in the bedroom

Plus, they unpack what listeners had to say about whether being “bad in bed” is really a deal breaker. Spoiler: it’s not always the sex, but the communication behind it.

Don’t forget, your invitation to The Naked Circle https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1FecPUA4M1/. Join us for exclusive conversations, Q&As, and a community that keeps it unfiltered.

In this episode, Jay from Playfully Wicked shares insights into the swinging scene, discussing the importance of creating a safe and welcoming environment for connection and intimacy. He explains how to navigate consent, what to expect at sex parties, and offers tips for first-time attendees. The conversation highlights the diversity of experiences within the community and emphasises the significance of communication and respect in these settings.

Takeaways

- Jay emphasises the importance of creating a safe space for women at parties.

- Research is crucial before attending any swinging events.

- Consent is a fundamental aspect of the swinging scene.

- The experience at parties is about connection, not just sex.

- Attendees can choose to socialise without engaging in sexual activities.

- The parties welcome all body types and promote body positivity.

- Costs for attending parties vary based on exclusivity and location.

- First-time attendees should focus on socialising and observing.

- The swinging community is diverse, with people from all walks of life.

- Communication and understanding boundaries are essential in navigating relationships within the scene.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Playfully Wicked

01:16 Understanding the Swing Scene

05:48 Creating a Safe Space for Connection

09:42 Navigating Consent and Safety

14:08 The Party Experience: What to Expect

20:03 Cost and Accessibility of Events

26:30 Tips for First-Time Attendees

In this episode of Sex and the One, B and KV sit down with special guest Sex with Lex, a Melbourne-based sexologist and educator who’s reshaping the conversation around sex.

From breaking down what a sexologist actually does, to why sex education shouldn’t end in school, Lex opens up about:

- The importance of pleasure-focused education for adults

- Common myths, kinks, and misconceptions around sex

- Why arousal ≠ consent, and how to make consent sexy

- The real stats behind orgasms and sexual health

- Her mission to take the taboo out of everyday conversations

It’s raw, funny, and deeply insightful. Whether you’re curious about sexology, want to improve communication in your relationships, or simply love honest talk about all things sex, this episode is for you.

We played Never Have I Ever on this week's episode, and it went exactly how you think it would.

If you're into unfiltered chats about sex, dating, and all the stuff you usually save for your group chats, then this is the podcast for you.

New Sex and the One episode is out now! Listen wherever you get your podcasts. 🧡

Come spill your own secrets inside The Naked Circle, our private FB group. The link is in our bio! 💋

#SexandTheOne #Genx #Podcast #Podcastclips #Sexpositive

Why are we so hooked on teenage love triangles, and what do they reveal about our own messy breakups? 💔

In this unfiltered and juicy episode of Sex and the One, B and KV dive from The Summer I Turned Pretty obsession into the very real world of heartbreak, toxic exes, and revenge stories that will make your jaw drop.

You’ll hear:

- Why December 11 is the most common breakup day of the year (and what that says about us)

- A woman’s cancer recovery “proposal” story that turned into the ultimate betrayal

- The wild revenge tales: sleeping with the ex’s dad, baking cheating texts into a cake, and more

- How fear, shame, and the unknown keep people stuck in the wrong relationships

- KV’s dramatic breakup saga (featuring a stalker ex, a shrine rendezvous, and a mixtape CD)

- The surprising upside of breakups, including the couple who “reverse-engineered” theirs with love and respect

And… as always, we’ll take it back to real life: why we try to make it work with the wrong people, and what it really takes to leave.

This one’s raw, hilarious, heartbreaking, and proof that love stories (and breakups) are never simple.

Hit play, join The Naked Circle https://www.facebook.com/share/g/16yinVjjUd/, and tell us: what’s the wildest breakup or revenge story you’ve heard?

#SexAndTheOne #BreakupStories #DatingPodcast #Relationships #SexPositive

What really happens when an unsolicited dick pic lands in your inbox? And why do we all pretend we’re not sharing them with our girlfriends? 👀

In this unfiltered and laugh-out-loud episode of Sex and the One, B and KV spill everything, from workplace scandals and ruler-measured “packages,” to the secret lives behind The Hunting Wives and what fantasies people keep hidden.

You’ll hear:

- Sue’s legendary dick pic story that ended with a colleague losing his job

- Why women do share unsolicited pics (and why it’s different when they’re invited)

- The wild secret lives of “conservative” couples, and why we’re fascinated by them

- AFL star Mitch Brown’s bisexuality announcement and his ex-wife’s incredible support

- KV’s unexpected marriage proposal in her TikTok DMs

- Plus: why Taylor Swift’s engagement is giving us all joy vibes

And… big news: we’re launching The Naked Circle! Our new community for unfiltered conversations, cheeky confessions, and sex-positive connections.

This one’s funny, messy, real, and the perfect mix of stories you’ll laugh about and truths you’ll nod along to.

Hit play, join the Naked Circle (link below), and come and join the conversation.

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