OMG Hey… Didn't see you there… *blushes* **tucks hair behind ear seductively**
Yes we're back with episode 2 - yes it's a month late (you were warned). The incredible Sohae (she/her) and I have a chat about a whole lot of interesting things: COVID situationships, men being terrified of intimacy, the Homosexual Dress Code, the weird dynamic between labels & sexual identity, as well as so much more.
As always, thanks for listening! Love above all else <3
-JVDL
Contact by Email: SITUPodcast23@gmail.com
Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity
Once upon a time... there was a podcast... called Sex In The Univercity... that had one season but now has two... WOAHHHHHHH!!!!!!
On today's episode with my dear friend Liv, we get into the nitty gritty regarding high school sex ed drama, the female orgasm, the healing power of gay sex, centering pleasure in any sexual experience, compulsive heterosexuality, and literally so much more.
Thanks for listening! Love above all else<3
-JVDL
Contact by Email: SITUpodcast23@gmail.com
Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity
HEY THERE! Long time no see!
Though recorded a few months ago (Jonathan's Version) (From the Vault), I just couldn't let 2021 go by without dropping it. Special guest and SHAPE member Sydney and I chat about lots, including but not limited to: Dating apps, porn preferences, gray areas in the talking phase, and the c-word (communication).
Thanks for listening! Love above all else <3
-JVDL
Contact by Email: SITUPodcast23@gmail.com
Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity
GREETINGS!
I hope this podcast episode finds you well. Literally a million years ago (in the month of August), I hoped on a zoom call with recent Northwestern Alumni, long term aspiring stand-up comedian, and former The*tre Major Rishi Mahesh (he/him). You may know him as @Rishipuff on Twitter!
We chatted about a whoooole lot of things, including but not limited to: what it was like to grow up in a household where sex was considered taboo, how to get creative while asking for consent, myths about body counts in high school, and the relationship between Tumblr and the female orgasm. We hope you enjoy!! :)
Love above all else!
-JVDL
Contact by email: SITUPodcast23@gmail.com
Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity
BACK BACK BACK BACK BACK AGAIN!!!
In honor of National Lesbian Day (LETS GO LESBIANS LETS GO), I decided to finally get my act together and release an episode I recorded over the summer with the ICONIC Haniyyah Tobarri (she/her)! On this, our 8th episode, we discuss experiences on dating apps in college, and how people's personal experiences with their own sexuality can affect their ability to be mature in relationships.
We also discuss our totally real and not made up thesis work done on the concept of Gay Puberty<3 If you have no idea what that is then you MUST listen to the Ep<3 Or else <3
Love above all else!
-JVDL
WWHOOOOOOOO We're literally back hahaha unintentional summer break check am I right.
So happy to present to you this incredible episode that I may or may not have recorded literally over a month ago the first week of July hehe <3
I am so excited to have Sully on to talk about their experiences with turning to the internet when there were no other avenues to talk about sex! Links to the videos that come up in conversation as well as other videos that Sully was kind enough to recommend are linked below for your own personal exploration <3
Love above all else!
-JVDL
Stereotypical coming out videos:
Troye Sivan: https://youtu.be/JoL-MnXvK80
Ingrid Nilsen: https://youtu.be/Eh7WRYXVh9M
Aaron & Austin Rhodes's "Twins Come Out To Dad": https://youtu.be/L3K0CJ8usPU
Vids that break the mold:
Abigail Thorn (Philosophy Tube)'s "Identity: A Trans Coming Out Story": https://youtu.be/AITRzvm0Xtg
Daniel Howell's "Basically I'm Gay": https://youtu.be/lrwMja_VoM0
Other coming out videos I failed to mention:
Natalie Wynn (ContraPoints)'s "Shame": https://youtu.be/K7WvHTl_Q7I
Alayna Joy's "The wedding is off. | Coming Out Again": https://youtu.be/Nl_Ja4_7Rfo
Evan Edinger's "My Sexuality": https://youtu.be/I41cBuTMhDo
Phil Lester's "Coming Out to You": https://youtu.be/UqXFKSWniVU
Hannah Witton's "The Truth about Sexual Desire": https://youtu.be/XDOS6TwbPAc
Other sex-ed/LGBTQ+ YouTubers doing great work:
Kat Blaque: https://youtu.be/GCBMNVsvKrg
Khadija Mbowe: https://youtu.be/0EF1W91hfDQ
Jackson Bird & Ash Hardell: https://youtu.be/hcKZ2dxumgk
Dutchy: https://youtu.be/B3fYDikvs_E
Part 2 of our 2 part episode with Matthew Liu!!!!! Remember the last episode that you just listened to? It's kind of like that but more. The second half, one might say. In this episode, content warning: We get into the L word of it all - L o V e eeee!! Obviously, before that, we talk about a lot more about really fun awkward trauma hook-up stories <3 because YAY <3 But we also talk about: How is it that long term relationships change our relationship to casual sex??? We also talk about what it can be like to merge your family life and your love life, as well as drop some little nuggets of wisdom along the way
Thanks so much for listening :) Love above all else
-JVDL
Contact by Email: SITUPodcast23@gmail.com
Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity
On November 5th, 2020, Matthew Liu tweeted: "Anyways I have a bf and am happy and regularly achieve my goals."
On March 17th, 2021, Matthew Liu tweeted: "Northwestern university done - easiest shit of my life."
On June 13th, 2021, Matthew Liu tweeted: "First happy gay man to graduate college."
We on this day are very grateful to have the mind behind these glorious tweets as a guest on our podcast!!!! We talk about how complicated coming out to family can be, how weird is it to engage with straight people while you are going through gay puberty, whether or not Christmas is a gay holiday, what it's like to go on dating apps in college, and so many more nuanced, funny, and emotionally resonant things. How does one walk down this road that leads to happiness and ease of life experience?? LISTEN TO FIND OUT!!!!!
Thanks so much for listening :) Love above all else
-JVDL
Contact by Email: SITUPodcast23@gmail.com
Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity
I HAVE CELEBRITIES ON THE PODCAST!!!!!! WHat?!?!?
This week on the pod I am floored and honored to have Emilio Cabral (he/him) and Olivia Pierce (she/her) as guests!! We talk about a whole lot of things, ranging from growing up in conservative suburbs, to how coming out is much more of a long term process than people think, to what kind of queer love stories we would like to see more of in the world, advice for parents and queer youth who are working through their identity, and ever more!
Not only are Olivia and Emilio articulate funny and hot, they are make music!! Their first single released as a part of their album, Long Distance, is out now!! IT'S A BOP SONG OF THE SUMMER VIBES STREAM NOWWWW <3
Link to Long Distance by Moyana Olivia, available NOW on Spotify!!!!
https://open.spotify.com/album/4WkDQ66gwT8p7LxgUQxGb6?si=SgIZExnRRPCpf_47lzl7-w&dl_branch=1
Thanks so much for listening :) Love above all else
-JVDL
Contact by Email: SITUPodcast23@gmail.com
Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity
GAy! gaY! GaY!
Fun fact: A lot of people are gay. Hopefully if you are 4 episodes into this podcast that shouldn't come as a surprise to you, since it's kind of our whole thing. Today I chat with NU Twitter Gay and recent graduate Patryk Kot (he/him), who famously once told me "I once hooked up with a frat boy and it was terrible", about his (NOT CLICKBAIT) 'Love, Simon' tattoo, his thoughts on queer representation/coming out stories, how growing up in a homophobic town shaped his relationship to intimacy and sex, and how a lot of the stylized versions of sex we seen in the media are nothing like how things tend to go down in real life.
Thanks so much for listening :) Love above all else <3
-JVDL
Contact by Email: SITUPodcast23@gmail.com
Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity
Picture this: You're in 7th grade (I know, I'm sorry). You're seated in health class. It's hot. The AC in the room has broken. Someone loudly screams the word "Penis!" and the entire class loses their minds. It is the peak of comedy.
Sex education in the US is rotted. There are so many things and aspects of identity, safety, and basic information about the human body that gets completely left out. I chat with my incredible brilliant and wise childhood friend Olivia Zhou (she/her) about all of the things we feel were lacking in our sex education, how college has change our identities, as well as things that we wish we had been talked about when we were younger. Olivia also talks about her time working as a sex educator for Planned Parenthood, and how Asexuality has shaped the way she views relationships.
Thanks sm for listening :) Love above all else <3
-JVDL
Contact by Email: SITUPodcast23@gmail.com
Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity
Hey. Hi. Greetings. Hello. You. You there, yes, you. "ThE GiRl ReAdInG ThIS". I see you and I get it. Times have been 50 shades of messed up for quite sometime. But you're still a human being. With a personally defined sexuality that you deserve to love, explore, and experience in whatever healthy and positive way you want to. WELCOME TO SEX IN THE UNIVERSITY! A podcast intent on making a more sex positive culture by opening the door to conversations about sexual queries, thoughts, and feelings that at times can feel isolating, but that more of us share than we realize.
In this, the very first episode, we (Myself, and fellow college students Lunden (she/her), Sarah (she/her), and Genevieve (she/her)) get into navigating boundaries during COVID, the world of sexting, the power of trusting your gut, and oh so much more. Thanks so much for listening! Love above all else <3
-JVDL
Contact by Email: SITUPodcast23@gmail.com
Insta: @SexInTheUnivercity