Episode Summary (Re-Released episode)
Sober Banter hosts offer advice for Sober October, emphasizing realistic expectations, support systems, and self-compassion.
Chapters
00:00 Managing Expectations and Social Pressure
01:21 Finding Support and Accountability
03:32 Health Benefits and Personal Growth
07:19 Tips for a Successful Sober October
This episode is a re-release and goes back to our early catalog, before most people even knew Sober Banter existed. We are bringing it back because the advice still matters. Sober October is not about perfection, it is about managing expectations, leaning on accountability, and giving yourself compassion along the way.
Please give us grace on any audio hiccups. I (Rachel) touched it up as best I could, but wanted to share it for the message, not polish it into perfection. Between college, parenting, and chronic illness, I overworked myself and had to step away. It was the right choice for my sobriety and emotional health.
I also have a backlog of unreleased interviews. If one of those is yours, it will be out as soon as possible. I am pacing myself this time and will send updates by email. Thank you for your patience.
The good news is that Colin and I are still sober, and we plan to record a new episode soon to share how we have stayed grounded.
For now, enjoy this short audio-only throwback about Sober October. Let us know what you think, and remember to take it one day at a time.
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This is an early Sober Banter episode brought back for Sober October. We were new at this, so you may hear a few hiccups. The lessons still land. We cover the hardest parts of Sober October and the simple habits that kept us steady. Think of this as day one support with honest talk and practical steps. It also shows how far we have come as hosts and as people in recovery. If you are here to start strong or find your footing again, press play.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Sober Banter
00:43 Personal Sobriety Stories
03:33 Challenges of Sober October
06:36 Daily Check-ins and Support
08:58 Reflections and Rationalizations
15:07 Cultural Perspectives on Drinking
16:06 Conclusion and Wrap-Up
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Episode Summary:
In this powerful episode of Sober Banter, Rachel sits down with David McMenimen, who shares what 41 years of sobriety has taught him. From multiple DUIs and a life-altering car accident to his first AA meeting, David walks us through the raw moments that led him to recovery. He opens up about the challenges of early sobriety, the spiritual and practical power of the 12 steps, and how the AA community became his lifeline.
David also reflects on how sobriety has reshaped his relationships, his view of life, and his understanding of addiction as a threefold disease. Whether you're in recovery, sober curious, or supporting someone who is, this episode is filled with honesty, wisdom, and hard-won hope.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Introduction and Guest Welcome: David M.
02:04 – The Turning Point: Legal Consequences
04:38 – Embracing Sobriety and Working the 12 Steps
13:20 – The Importance of Consistent AA Meetings
24:30 – Growth Through Sharing and Learning in AA
38:56 – Understanding Alcoholism as a Threefold Disease
45:35 – How AA Has Evolved Over the Decades
58:29 – The Legacy of Bill Wilson
01:07:14 – Final Reflections and Gratitude
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Happy July 1st! If you're looking for a reset this month, this one’s for you. We sit down with Dr. Robb Kelly, an addiction expert who blends neuroscience, spirituality, and trauma recovery.
In this episode of Sober Banter, Colin and Rachel sit down with Dr. Robb Kelly - also known as the “Gordon Ramsay of Recovery”—to talk about his revolutionary approach to healing addiction. Drawing from neuroscience, trauma-informed therapy, and a spiritual mindset, Dr. Kelly breaks down why addiction is rarely just about alcohol.
With a 98% success rate, his 90-day recovery program goes far beyond talk therapy, using brainspotting, 9D breathwork, subliminal messaging, and more to rewire the brain for long-term sobriety.
Whether you're in recovery, sober curious, or supporting a loved one, this episode is packed with insight, humor, and powerful truths about trauma, identity, and the real science of recovery.
0:00 – Meet Dr. Robb Kelly: From Homelessness to Neuroscientist
2:00 – The 90-Day Program with a 98% Success Rate
5:00 – Why Trauma Is the Real Gateway Drug
9:30 – Rewiring the Brain with Breathwork, Brainspotting, and More
17:00 – Readiness, Mindset, and the Myth of “One Drink Away”
27:00 – If You Keep Relapsing, Look at Childhood Trauma
36:00 – Are Alcoholics Born and Addicts Made?
43:00 – AA, the Original Steps, and What Recovery Really Means
59:00 – Final Thoughts + Free Book Offer for Listeners
Bonus: Dr. Robb is giving a free signed copy of his book to the first 10 listeners who mention this episode—listen closely for details.
🔗 Connect with Dr. Robb Kelly
Website: https://robbkelly.com
Instagram: @drrobbkelly
Breathwork & Healing: https://breathbox.studio
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Eryka V. is a queer, sober, first-generation founder and the co-creator of Namari—a non-alcoholic digestif rooted in intention, ritual, and bold flavor.
In this episode, we talk about what happens when you quit alcohol, meat, and caffeine all at once—and how that radical choice led to clarity, creativity, and the launch of something revolutionary. From finding community to letting go of ego, Eryka shares wisdom on building a brand (and a life) that actually feels good. We dig into identity, connection, the power of ritual, and what it means to create something that tastes like love and intention—not just trend.
If you’re craving depth, joy, or just a better non-alcoholic drink—this episode delivers.
1:21 – How Eryka Got Sober (Dry January… Plus No Meat, No Caffeine)
4:52 – The Band-Aid Rip: Goodbye Booze, Meat, and Coffee
7:46 – Building Namari: A Drink With Intention
11:52 – You Can Taste the Love (Like a Lemonade Stand in Summer)
17:19 – Finding Your People in Sobriety
22:12 – Saying “I Don’t Drink” Without Apology
29:16 – Choosing What Serves You (and Letting Go of the Rest)
33:58 – The Best Way to Drink Namari (Spoiler: Pineapple, Lime or Neat)
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In this episode of Sober Banter, Rachel is joined by Brenton Sconce—the meme genius behind @OfficeRecovery, a former pastor, and a fierce sober ally. Brenton opens up about his path to sobriety, beginning with rehab in July 2022 and evolving through deep aftercare, spiritual reflection, and a whole lot of humor.
He talks candidly about the moment he finally admitted he was an alcoholic, how the pressures of ministry shaped his addiction, and how The Office went from background comfort to a powerful language of recovery and connection.
We also dig into his latest mission: The Bloomsday Bear Crawl, a year-long challenge and fundraiser to provide scholarships for those seeking aftercare support in recovery.
00:00 – Introduction and Guest Intro
01:39 – Brenton’s Sobriety Journey
02:47 – The Moment of Clarity
05:03 – Challenges and Support in Recovery
15:14 – Humor in Recovery
22:27 – Faith and Community in Sobriety
26:51 – The Importance of Aftercare in Recovery
32:51 – Advice for Those Struggling with Addiction
35:06 – Connecting and Supporting the Recovery Community
41:26 – Check out the Bloomsday Bear Crawl
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In this refreshing episode of Sober Banter, hosts Rachel and Colin sit down with Sarah Kate, founder of Some Good Clean Fun and a proud sober Canadian mom shaking up the world of non-alcoholic beverages. Once a self-proclaimed wine connoisseur, Sarah shares her transition from alcohol culture to alcohol-free confidence, offering candid stories about social pressure, parenting, and building a brand that celebrates sobriety without shame.
Together, we talk about:
Whether you're sober curious or a longtime non-drinker, Sarah's warmth, wit, and wisdom will leave you inspired to rethink the role of alcohol in your life—and maybe even mix up a Summer Shandy along the way.
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Some Good Clean Fun Website and Recepies - https://www.somegoodcleanfun.com
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/somegoodcleanfun_ca
Pintrest - https://www.pinterest.com/somegoodcleanfun
Chapters
00:00 – Welcome & Guest Intro
Meet Sarah Kate, founder of Some Good Clean Fun and self-proclaimed sober sommelier shaking up the AF drink space.
04:06 – From Wine-Lover to Alcohol-Free Advocate
Sarah opens up about her transition from nightly wine to a more intentional, alcohol-free life.
07:17 – The Birth of Some Good Clean Fun
How a personal decision became a public platform—and what “good clean fun” really means.
11:17 – Sober Social Life & Saying No
We get into awkward invites, boundaries, and how Sarah reshaped her social life.
18:06 – How Sobriety Changed Her Relationships
From parenting to partnerships, the ripple effect of ditching booze.
25:19 – The Changing Perception of Alcohol
Marketing myths, "mommy wine culture," and why public opinion is shifting.
35:22 – The Benefits of Sobriety
Mental clarity, freedom from shame, and unexpected perks of alcohol-free living.
45:05 – Behind Closed Doors: Alcohol’s Impact on Family
A raw look at how drinking affected Sarah's home—and what changed in sobriety.
48:32 – The Wine Mom Myth & Media Influence
Unpacking the glamorized image of alcohol in media and motherhood.
58:12 – Mocktails & Sober Rituals
Sarah shares easy, satisfying drink swaps—including her famous Shandy featuring Athletic Brewing.
01:02:13 – The Rise of Non-Alcoholic Beer
How the AF beer scene is changing and what to look for on shelves.
01:18:35 – Final Thoughts & Gratitude
A toast to real fun, new connections, and a future full of clean sips.
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What do you get when you mix a fresh perspective on the 12 steps, a sharp sense of humor, and some unexpected twists in recovery? You get Danny Henriquez. In this episode, we sit down with the host of The Hen Dog Half to talk about getting sober, showing up for sponsees, and how to survive weddings without a drink in hand.
Danny brings the kind of insight that makes you laugh, nod, and think, “Okay... this guy gets it.” If you’re into honest recovery talk without the doom and gloom, this one’s for you.
🔍 Topics Covered in This Episode:
What early sobriety really felt like
Why service work actually works
The unexpected power of the Lord’s Prayer
Marriage and relationships in recovery
That dangerous little word: yet
Making peace with “having a drinking problem”
Why the 12 steps apply to everyone (not just alcoholics)
How AA doubles as group therapy
Sober travel and weddings—without the weirdness
Finding your people and your podcast voice
To get into contact with Danny Henriquez
E-mail: hendoghalf@gmail.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hendoghalf/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/danny.h.henriquez
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This week on Sober Banter, we’re joined by Tim Lineaweaver—a therapist, dad, and four decades sober.
Tim takes us back to 1984, when he first got sober, and walks us through how recovery has evolved (and what’s stayed the same) over the past 40 years. From navigating trauma in sobriety to talking with your kids about alcoholism, this conversation is full of real-life wisdom, humor, and heart.
We dive into early cravings, drinking dreams, and what it means to help others while still protecting your own peace. Whether you’re newly sober or years into the journey, Tim’s perspective will leave you feeling seen and supported.
Want more from Tim?Episode Highlights:
2:36 – Back to 1984: Getting sober
5:13 – Sobriety in the 80s & How Tim got sober
8:43 – Growing up in an alcoholic home
14:31 – Trauma and addiction
19:39 – Upcoming memoir & Earning a degree in sobriety
23:33 – What people misunderstand about trauma
26:09 – Never met someone who regretted getting sober
27:43 – What’s changed in recovery since the 80s
33:09 – The core message Tim wants people to hear
36:49 – Talking to kids about addiction
41:05 – Drinking dreams
43:53 – Tim’s call to sober publishers
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In this episode, Sam Thomas, a writer and campaigner from Brighton, UK, shares his journey of sobriety since November 2019. He discusses overcoming alcohol dependence, including withdrawal and hallucinations. Sam also talks about his unique therapy with exotic pets, which helped him rationalize his fears. He reflects on founding a charity for men with eating disorders and personal sacrifices. Sam candidly discusses the ongoing nature of recovery, self-reflection, and his aspirations for a memoir. This episode explores addiction, mental health, and recovery.
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In this episode of Sober Banter, hosts Rachel and Colin Casey test some new wireless mics and their audio quality and discuss various ’50-50’ questions that elicit strong opinions, including pineapple on pizza, pets in bed, and billionaires. They also touch on more serious topics like sober influencers and harm reduction. The episode concludes with reflections on staying grounded and victimhood in alcoholism. Tune in for humor, personal insights, and candid opinions.
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Neil Rutherford, creator of Alcohol Free Warrior, joins Sober Banter for a candid, judgment-free conversation about the nuances of sobriety, breaking free from labels, and finding empowerment beyond alcohol. Whether you're sober-curious or long-term alcohol-free, Neil’s insights offer fresh perspectives to inspire your own journey.
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What happens when hitting rock bottom becomes the beginning of your biggest breakthrough? In this raw and riveting conversation, Rachel sits down with Kellie Adams—author of Shit I Do Sober—to explore her path from addiction to authenticity. From navigating postpartum depression to planning a sober wedding, Kelly shares the unfiltered truth about recovery, resilience, and finding purpose through pain.
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Can hitting the trails help you stay on the path to recovery? In this inspiring episode, Rachel and Colin chat with Nick Pearson, founder of Sober Outdoors, about how nature, community, and sobriety intersect. From the slopes to the boardroom, Nick opens up about the accident that changed his family’s life, his personal recovery journey, and how outdoor adventures became a powerful tool for healing and connection.
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Become a Sober Outdoors member today!
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What does it mean to heal across generations? In this deeply personal episode, Rachel and Colin sit down with Waylon, who opens up about his journey through alcoholism, receiving an ADHD diagnosis, and reconnecting with his Indigenous identity. Through raw reflection and cultural insight, they explore sobriety not just as a personal path—but as a reclamation of self, spirit, and community
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In this cozy and candid episode, Rachel is joined by writer Julie—author of Like a Normal Person—and Allison, creator of the Dare to Be newsletter. Together, they dive into the realities of sober creativity, from writing memoirs and navigating vulnerability to finding joy in kitchen gadgets and everyday rituals. It’s an honest, uplifting look at what it means to share your story and stay grounded while living—and creating—in sobriety.
Thank you to Allison Deraney and Julie Fontes for gracing Sober Banter with your insights, wisdom, and hope. Please visit their newsletters; they’re wonderful writers with even more valuable content to share in their weekly publications!
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Happy Valentine's Day from Colin, Rachel, and Evan!
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In this powerful international episode, Colin and Rachel sit down with Krys from Canada, who shares how loneliness led her to seek sobriety—and ultimately, community and purpose. With raw honesty, she opens up about the highs, lows, and real growth that comes from staying the course. This one’s all about connection, resilience, and redefining what sober life can look like.
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0:00 Meet Nathan Wary
0:42 Nathan’s Chicago Cubs Story
1:27 Colin’s Dallas Stars Stanley Cup Story
6:05 Nathan’s Sobriety Story
8:25 Working with Youth Prevention
16:09 Disposable Vapes
25:30 Empowered VS Disempowered
31:34 Flipping the Mindset
40:17 Yelping Bosses
56:40 Proper Preparation Prevents Poor Performance
1:04:30 Connecting with Teens
1:11:31 New lingo with teens
1:17:00 Bringing Light to Heavy Moments
1:27:22 Marriage and Sobriety
Information about Nathan Wray
https://www.nathanwrayspeaks.com
Instagram and TikTok @thatnathanwray
Email: nathan@nathanwrayspeaks.com
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