There’s a moment every driven woman faces where effort and evidence stop matching.
You’re doing the work.
You’re staying consistent.
You’re showing up in your business, your leadership, your life.
And yet… the results haven’t caught up yet.
This episode is for that moment.
In the 200th episode of the podcast, Laura Patricia Martin pulls back the curtain on what it actually takes to stay in the game when success feels delayed and why mindset, faith, and long-term conviction matter more than motivation ever could.
This isn’t about hype.
It’s not about hustle.
And it’s definitely not about timelines that pressure you into abandoning your own calling.
It’s about the internal strength required to keep moving forward when no one is clapping yet.
Inside this milestone episode, Laura shares:
•What 200 episodes taught her about consistency and long-term leadership
• Why real success often requires staying committed without immediate reward
• How comparison quietly erodes confidence—and how to opt out
• The mindset shift that allows you to stop chasing short-term wins
• What faith actually looks like when the outcome isn’t visible yet
• Why ego wants speed—but purpose requires patience
• The power of “borrowing conviction” from your future self
• How to make decisions as the woman you’re becoming, not the one who’s doubting
• Ways to measure progress without diminishing your growth
• Why honoring how far you’ve come changes how far you’ll go next
This episode is a reminder that momentum isn’t always loud.
Sometimes it looks like staying.
Sometimes it looks like trusting.
Sometimes it looks like continuing to build even when the proof hasn’t arrived.
If you’re an entrepreneur, leader, or visionary woman who’s committed to the long game, this conversation will anchor you back into yourself.
Not rushed.
Not reactive.
But rooted.
Because the women who create lasting success aren’t the ones who quit when it’s quiet.
They’re the ones who trust what they’re building—long before the world sees it.
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- Ep. 198: Becoming *Her* Again — Identity Shifts Before the New Year
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There’s a season of life that doesn’t fit neatly into a caption.
You’re building a business.
You’re raising a child.
You’re planning a wedding, redefining friendships, evolving your identity—and somehow expected to do all of it gracefully, quietly, and without disruption.
This episode is none of that.
In this candid, #unplugged conversation, Laura Patricia Martin sits down with Stefanie Elsperman to talk about the real middle seasons of womanhood—the ones where life is loud, schedules are fluid, babies wake mid-recording, and the version of you that once worked… doesn’t anymore.
This isn’t about “having it all.”
It’s about learning how to hold it all—without abandoning yourself in the process.
Together, they explore what it means to be a modern entrepreneur woman navigating motherhood, partnership, friendship, and career evolution in real time. The beauty. The friction. The identity shifts no one warns you about—but every woman eventually faces.
This episode is honest, human, and deeply familiar for any woman who’s building something meaningful while living a full life.
Not polished.
Not performative.
But deeply true.
If you’re in a season where your life feels layered, stretched, and sacred all at once—this conversation will feel like exhaling.
What we unpack in this episode:
•The realities of working while mothering—and why integration matters more than balance• How motherhood reshapes your identity, priorities, and pace
• Navigating life transitions without rushing yourself out of them
• Wedding planning as a mirror for personal growth and self-trust
• The evolution of friendships as you enter new seasons of womanhood
• Letting your career change as you change
• Why savoring each phase matters more than “getting back to normal”
• The unseen emotional labor women carry while building businesses and families
• Giving yourself permission to be in-between versions of yourself
• What it actually looks like to honor your life as it is right now
This episode isn’t a lesson.
It’s a reflection.
A reminder that you’re not behind—you’re becoming.
And that the season you’re in isn’t a detour…
it’s part of the design.
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- Ep. 197: Becoming Her Again Series: Routines That Make You Feel Hot, Whole & In Command Again
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This episode is the disruption of the year.
There’s a moment every woman hits where she realizes she’s not waiting for January, momentum, alignment, or whatever the industry loves to romanticize. She’s done negotiating with the watered-down version of herself, done performing stability for the feed, done pretending she doesn’t know exactly who she is when she’s not shrinking.
This episode is that line in the sand.
Inside, I’m walking you through the 10 shifts I’m actively making — in identity, in execution, in how I hold myself, my marriage, my motherhood, my business, my brand — to step back into the woman I *actually* am as we close this year.
Not resolutions.
Not goals.
Not “new year, new me.”
A reclamation.
A remembering.
A return to the standard.
These are the moves, the boundaries, the pace, the structure, the emotional intelligence, the non-negotiables, the feminine edges — the things that create a woman who walks into 2026 already fully seated in her identity, not trying to manifest her way into it.
If you’re listening to this, you’re likely in your own becoming.
This is your mirror, your ignition, and your permission slip to stop delaying who you were always meant to be.
What we cover inside:
• The identity pattern I’m eliminating for good
• The discipline that rebuilt my internal authority
• How I’m restructuring my days as a mother and visionary
• The Soft x Savage principle I’m anchoring into my brand
• The habits that create momentum without burnout
• The creative, spiritual, and energetic recalibrations that matter
• The standard I’m raising for how I allow myself to be seen
• Why “trying” is dead to me
• How I’m engineering demand without forcing anything
• The real reason this season required a different version of me
This episode isn’t motivation.
It’s a reclamation blueprint.
If you are ready to walk into 2026 as *her*, this is the episode you needed
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So many women whisper the same thing:
“I don’t feel like myself anymore.”
Especially after motherhood.
Especially after marriage.
Especially after a season of burnout or identity confusion.
And the truth is: you cannot rebuild your confidence, your identity, or your feminine magnetism
without rebuilding your daily habits.
In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the exact Soft x Savage routines that help high-caliber women feel like themselves again — confident, grounded, disciplined, feminine, and fully in command of their lives.
If you’ve been searching for:
…this episode is exactly where you need to be.
Inside, we talk about:
This is not a productivity episode.
This is an identity episode.
Because once your habits reflect the woman you’re becoming —
Your confidence rises, your femininity sharpens, your presence deepens, and your life finally starts matching your standards.
A Soft x Savage woman doesn’t hustle her way back to herself.
She *disciplines* her way back.
With elegance.
With devotion.
With desire.
If you’ve been craving consistency, confidence, creative energy, or feminine momentum… these routines will bring you home.Similar Episodes:
-Ep. 165: How to Stay Soft While Leading Like a Savage — Feminine Balance for Type-A High-Achieving Women-Ep. 166: Stop Trying to Be Who You Were — The Identity Shift That Prepares You for More
-Ep. 195: The Woman Who Forgot Who She Was — and the Holy Rebuilding That FollowedYour Next Move:
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There is a revival happening among women right now.
A return.
A remembering.
A rising of the full woman — the regal, elegant, sensual, spiritually grounded woman who holds herself to a standard that rebuilds her entire life from the inside out.
Not the watered-down version of womanhood we’ve been sold.
Not the chaotic, burnt-out, self-sacrificing archetype we silently normalized.
And not the “soft girl aesthetic” that’s all ambiance and no substance.
Soft x Savage is the whole woman waking up.
In this episode, we are naming the identity behind the movement.
The identity that rebuilt my marriage, my motherhood, my presence, and my business — but more importantly, the identity that is becoming the new standard for women who lead with depth, mystery, conviction, and class.
Inside, we talk about:
- The awakening of the *regal woman* — sensual, elegant, magnetic, and spiritually grounded
- Why every powerful woman goes through an identity crack before she rises
- How postpartum, purpose shifts, and marriage refinement expose the deeper standards you’ve outgrown
- The identity standards that rebuild a woman’s home, marriage, brand, and self—without forcing or performing
- The difference between feminine softness and feminine leadership
- The revival of women who want to be full, turned-on, multidimensional, creative, disciplined, wealthy, and deeply embodied
- Why identity must shift *before* your brand, business, or content can elevate
- The Soft x Savage woman as an emerging cultural archetype for 2026
This is not a self-help episode.
This is an identity recalibration for the woman you’re becoming.
The woman with taste.
The woman with standards.
The woman with presence.
The woman with emotional and spiritual authority.
The woman who makes her life — her home, her brand, her marriage, her body — a reflection of who she truly is.
Soft x Savage is not a vibe.
It’s a revival.
And you’re here because you feel it too.
Similar Episodes
-Ep. 195: The Woman Who Forgot Who She Was — and the Holy Rebuilding That Followed-Ep. 166: Stop Trying to Be Who You Were — The Identity Shift That Prepares You for More
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Identity first. Expression next. Premium presence always.
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Every woman has a moment where she quietly admits…
“I don’t know who I am right now.”
For me, it wasn’t dramatic.
It wasn’t cinematic.
It was a slow unraveling in the middle of postpartum, business demands, NICU memories, and a marriage trying to find its footing again.
Motherhood didn’t just give me a baby.
It exposed the parts of me I had ignored.
The places I was operating from self-sufficiency instead of surrender.
The ways I was hustling instead of being held.
And the subtle ways I had slipped out of alignment with the woman God was shaping me into.
This episode is the truth about the identity erosion that happens in survival seasons — and the holy, humbling, deeply personal journey of becoming her again.
Inside, we talk about:
- The moment I knew I wasn’t myself anymore
- How the NICU changed me in ways I’m still processing
- The emotional fog postpartum creates (and why no one prepares you for it)
- The quiet grief of losing the “old you”
- How God used depletion to rebuild my character
- The first small, non-aesthetic steps I took to come home to myself
- Why identity rebuilding had to happen before I could rebuild my brand, my marriage, or my confidence
This is the episode for the woman who is tired of pretending she’s “fine.”
The woman who wants to feel grounded again.
The woman who knows she’s in a rebirth… but hasn’t had the language for it until now.
No quick-fix identity hacks.
No “bounce back” pressure.
Just truth, refinement, and the woman God is forming in the fire.
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Everyone keeps talking about “10x energy.”
More action. More output. More expansion
.
But what if the real wealth — the rich-as-fck* energy — isn’t about going harder, it’s about going deeper?
In this potent conversation, Laura Patricia Martin sits down with Megan Hatfield, a feminine leadership mentor redefining what it means to be powerful, prosperous, and deeply feminine in business.
Together, they dismantle the hustle-coded version of success that teaches women to “go big or go home,” and explore what it means to live from open, receptive power instead — the kind that doesn’t burn out, but magnetizes.
They dive into the dark feminine, the truth about intimacy in high-ticket spaces, and why authentic leadership isn’t about the illusion of strength — it’s about depth, honesty, and wholeness.
If you’ve ever felt like you have to dim your power to be liked, or keep proving your worth to be paid — this conversation will unlock a richer, truer frequency of leadership and wealth.
Inside, we talk about:- Why “10x energy” keeps high-achieving women broke and disconnected
- The difference between *high-vibe* and *true-vibe* wealth
- How the dark feminine holds the codes for intimacy, magnetism, and money
- Reconciling the parts of yourself that have been shamed or exiled
- Why leadership isn’t about performance, but presence
- Power that doesn’t harm — how to lead without self-abandonment
- Reframing “quantum leaps” as homecomings to your truth
- The secret to high-ticket sales: it’s not proximity, it’s intimacy
Memorable Sound Bites
“What makes something high-ticket isn’t proximity — it’s intimacy.”
“For the deep feminine, a quantum leap is just a homecoming.”
“I disagree with the idea that a leader must always appear strong to be trustworthy.”
“Your power isn’t dangerous — your disconnection from it is.”
“True wealth is found in depth, not effort.”
Similar Episodes
Ep. 171: The Frequency of Wealth — Leading From Depth, Not Hustle
Ep. 182: Healing the Hustle — Reclaiming the Soft Power of the Feminine Leader
Ep. 189: Quantum Leaps and the Dark Feminine — Trusting the Depth Instead of the Drama
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Everyone keeps asking, “How has motherhood changed your marriage?” The truth is, motherhood did not just make me a mom. It refined me as a wife.
Not in the cute Pinterest-worthy “soft girl mom era” way.
In the God-is-sanctifying-me-at-the-core-of-who-I-am-while-I-am-wiping-milk-off-the-counter-and-learning-patience-in-real-time way.
Modern culture told us that marriage after baby means either:
• losing yourself,
• resenting your partner, or
• taking a “break” from your business & brand until the dust settles.
But scripture says something different.
In this episode, I am sharing the very real ways motherhood exposed the strengths in our marriage… and the places my ego, expectations, and independence had to grow up.
Inside, we talk about:
This is the episode you listen to when you want more than “survival mode marriage” energy—you want a kingdom-built home, real partnership, and a marriage that grows stronger as you grow.
No aesthetic wife era.
Just refinement, maturity, and peace in practice.
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- Soft x Savage Podcast
- Apply for Soft x Savage Society Mastermind — My 12-month mastermind for high-level women building legacy as wives, mothers, and CEOs.
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In this bold and unfiltered episode, Laura Patricia Martin sits down with Monica Yates — coach, speaker, and author of Becoming Her — to unpack the modern woman’s paradox: how feminism gave us freedom… but also left many women feeling disconnected, exhausted, and unsupported.
Together, they dive into the raw truth of motherhood, business, and relationships in an era that tells women to “have it all” — without showing the cost of doing it alone. Monica shares insights from her book Becoming Her, revealing how true feminine empowerment isn’t about competing with men, but about returning to internal safety, softness, and surrender — while still building powerfully in business.
If you’ve ever felt torn between being the high-achieving woman and the nurturer, this conversation will feel like exhaling after years of holding your breath.
Key Takeaways
- Modern feminism gave women choice — but not always peace.
- True feminine empowerment blends ambition and surrender, not one over the other.
- Motherhood and business both require strong support systems and emotional safety.
- The “independent woman” narrative often isolates us from the relationships we desire.
- Feminine leadership is about knowing when to lead and when to lean back.
- Becoming Her explores how internal safety creates the foundation for freedom.
Memorable Sound Bites
- “Support is the backbone of balancing motherhood and business.”
- “True feminine empowerment blends strength with vulnerability.”
- “Clear communication is the cornerstone of modern relationships.”
- “Internal safety unlocks the power of surrender.”
- “‘Becoming Her’ delves into the essence of feminine power.”Connect with Monica Yates:
Connect with Laura Patricia Martin:
- Instagram- @itslaurapatriciamartin
- Apply for Soft x Savage Society Mastermind
- Download Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training
Everyone keeps asking, “How do you do it all and still make money?”
Here’s the truth: I don’t believe in balance. I believe in systems.
In this episode, I’m spilling the tea on the backend that actually runs my business—the automations, workflows, and client systems that keep everything moving while I’m baking cookies, raising my baby, and living my Soft x Savage dream life.
Most coaches won’t tell you this part because it’s not “sexy” enough for Instagram. But these are the exact systems I built *two years before I ever met Edy*… because I knew the woman I was becoming—a wife, a mom, and a CEO—deserved a business that could hold her life, not consume it.
If you’ve ever looked at women who seem to “do it all” and wondered how, this episode gives you the full breakdown:
- The backend systems that automate my income and client delivery
- How I structure my calendar for energy management (not time management)
- The non-negotiables I protect as a wife and mom
- Why I built all of this before I ever “needed” it
This is the episode you listen to when you’re done glamorizing hustle and ready to build something that lasts.
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- Ep. 189: “The 5 Daily Actions I Take to Feel Wealthy and Magnetic”
-Ep. 158: “The Pre-Motherhood Structure That Made Me A Multi-6 Figure CEO”
-Ep. 165: “How to Stay Soft While Leading Like a Savage: Feminine Balance for Type-A High-Achieving Women”
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Everyone loves to talk about strategy, structure, and timelines…
But no one talks about the unhinged decisions—the ones that make zero sense on paper and total sense in your soul.
In this raw and honest episode, I’m breaking down the wild, intuitive moves that created my dream reality:
a thriving multi-six-figure business, a loving relationship, and a baby I once only prayed for.
If you’ve been doing “all the right things” but still feel stuck, this episode will shake something awake in you.
Because the truth is—your dream life isn’t built from logic. It’s built from leaps.
💡 You’ll Learn- The 6 “unhinged” choices that changed everything in my business, love life, and motherhood
- How feminine energy and faith create quantum results
- Why playing it safe keeps high-achieving women stuck in survival
- The mindset that turned my chaos into clarity and cash flow
🔥 SIMILAR EPISODESEp. 153: How I’m Scaling My Business for Motherhood & Still Hitting $1M
Ep. 158: The Pre-Motherhood Structure That Made Me A Multi-6 Figure CEO
Ep. 165: How to Stay Soft While Leading Like a Savage: Feminine Balance for Type-A High-Achieving Women
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What if feeling “rich” wasn’t about your bank account—but about how you move through your day?
In this episode of the Soft x Savage Podcast, I’m pulling back the curtain on the 5 biggest daily actions that keep me in my rich AF energy—the kind of energy that builds premium brands, attracts high-ticket clients, and creates the soft life of freedom, expansion, and luxury.
These aren’t random habits or fluffy routines. These are strategic, intentional actions that I use to regulate my nervous system, amplify my creativity, and hold the frequency of wealth daily—so the money, clients, and opportunities flow.
Inside this episode, you’ll learn:
- The exact mindset shift that makes me feel wealthy every single morning (no matter what’s in my Stripe account).
- Why structure and discipline actually create more freedom—and how I use them to balance motherhood and million-dollar moves.
- The wealth rituals that collapse time around results and keep me magnetizing high-value clients without burning out.
- How I weave both soft and savage energy into my daily life to stay powerful, playful, and paid.
- The secret behind building momentum that compounds into consistent high cash months.
If you’ve been craving behind-the-scenes of how I embody my “rich AF” identity—not just in business, but in my relationships, health, and lifestyle—this episode will give you the blueprint.
Who this episode is for:
Women building premium personal brands, coaches scaling to six and multi-six figures, and ambitious leaders preparing for their next era of freedom—whether that means motherhood, marriage, or million-dollar years.
Tune in, take notes, and start embodying your rich AF life now.
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Most women live like life is one big race — rushing to “get their body back,” rushing to hit the next income milestone, rushing to move on to the next chapter. But here’s the truth: when you trust yourself, you don’t have to rush.
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what this looks like in my own life right now. Postpartum, business, relationships — I feel safe in every chapter because I’ve built the practices that make me trust myself no matter the season. That’s the difference between living anxious and living anchored.
We’ll dive into:
If you’ve been feeling like you’re sprinting from one milestone to the next, this episode is your permission slip — and the strategy — to slow down, anchor in, and actually feel safe where you are.
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What does it really take to build a personal brand that not only makes you money, but gives you the freedom to live boldly and love deeply?
In this episode, Laura Patricia Martin (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Samantha Smith (@_samanthadaily)—7-Figure Personal Brand Consultant, creator of Million Dollar Messaging™️, and host of the Makeshift Happen Podcast (1.8M+ downloads)—to talk about what it means to chase big dreams while also building a fulfilling life.
Sam shares her raw story of moving to Spain, starting her business from scratch, and the challenges and triumphs that shaped her journey to seven figures. Together, Laura and Sam unpack:
- How to navigate the tension between ambition and intimacy
- Why courage is the secret ingredient to building both brands and relationships
- The role of supportive partnerships when pursuing your boldest goals
- What it really looks like to align your business with your purpose
This is a conversation about choosing courage over comfort, finding safety in your ambition, and building a brand that lets you live fully on every level.
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If you’re a high-level online coach, feminine founder, or multi-6-figure entrepreneur navigating big life transitions—this episode is for you.I’m sharing the behind-the-scenes of what it really looks like to be:
Inside, I open up about:
This isn’t a highlight reel. It’s the raw reality of running a powerful brand, raising a family, and reclaiming yourself in the process.
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This is a clip from the Brand Like A Rich Btxh Masterclass (you can watch the full thing here).
Most entrepreneurs are stuck selling from survival mode. Their income depends on hustling in the DMs, running random launches, or showing up daily online. The problem? That’s not freedom—and it’s not sustainable.
In this episode, I’m breaking down the Rich Bitch Brand framework that takes you from inconsistent revenue to a six-figure brand that sells on repeat. You’ll learn how to package your brilliance into premium offers, position yourself as the authority in your industry, and finally build a brand that funds the lifestyle you’ve been saving on Pinterest.
Here’s what we’ll cover inside:
- The real math behind the “dream life” lifestyle (and what it actually costs).
- Why most coaches and service providers struggle to sell their $500–$2K offers consistently.
- The shift from *selling programs* to *selling a brand*—and why authority matters more than price.
- How to position your brand so clients line up to pay you $5K, $10K, even $25K.
- The exact strategy that allowed me to go from crickets to consistent $15K–$20K months.
If you’re tired of piecing together launches, hustling for every client, and wondering why your “good work” isn’t selling… this episode will show you how to finally step into your Rich Bitch era and build a brand that pays for the life you actually want to live.
🎧 Listen now and start building your six-figure brand today.
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Apply for Soft x Savage Mastermind — My 12-month mastermind for those ready to build a legacy
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Connect with Laura:
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YouTube: @softxsavage
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If you’ve been told to “be nice,” “play it safe,” or “tone it down” in your business… this episode will flip that advice on its head.
The truth? Soft won’t sell. Customers don’t buy from polite, forgettable brands. They buy from bold women who own their authority, speak with conviction, and create exclusivity in the market.
Inside this episode, I break down the psychology of why customers love “rich bitch” energy—and how to infuse it into your brand so your content stops blending in and starts converting.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:- Why certainty builds trust and makes your audience feel safe buying from you
- The psychology of scarcity and exclusivity (and how to use it to raise your value)
- Why “nice girl branding” actually dilutes your power and authority
- How boldness taps into aspirational identity and creates demand
- The principle of cognitive ease—and why clarity closes faster than charm
If you’re ready to stop friend-zoning yourself online and start stepping into your rich bitch brand era, this episode is your permission slip to get unapologetically bold.
Resources & Links:
✨ SHOP + SUPPORTMy exact Amazon storefront — supplements, skincare, and home luxuries I swear by.🎧 SUBSCRIBE + SHARESubscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.
If you’re a high-level online coach, brand strategist, or feminine founder scaling your business with structure and soul—this episode is your blueprint.
I’m breaking down how I’m building Soft x Savage Society as a $100K launch by modeling Alex Hormozi’s $100M weekend… but in a way that actually works for women like us.
Inside this episode, I share:
- How I’m turning this into a brand-led launch (not a discount drop)
- The exact strategy behind my 6-figure launch plan
- Why I’m prioritizing digital assets, nervous system regulation, and scalable systems
- What feminine founders get wrong when launching—and how I’m doing it differently
- How to build a business that sells before you speak (and lets you rest in between)
This isn’t just a podcast episode.. it’s a real-time case study in brand, embodiment, and launch power.
🖤 JOIN THE MOVEMENT
Soft x Savage Society launches Sept 2.
We don’t launch offers. We build brand universes.
DM me “SOCIETY” on Instagram for early access + behind-the-scenes.
💸 FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES
🔥 SIMILAR EPISODES-Ep. 156: You’re Doing Everything Right… So Why Aren’t You at $100K Yet?
-Ep. 147: Creating an Online Brand That's In A League Of It's Own in 2025
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My exact Amazon storefront — supplements, skincare, and home luxuries I swear by.
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You sit down to create content… and nothing. The cursor just blinks back at you while your brain screams, “Why can’t I think of anything?”
Here’s the truth: creative blocks aren’t just frustrating, they’re expensive. Every time you stall out, you lose momentum, brand authority, and the chance to cash in on content that could’ve been selling for you.
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on:
If you’ve been staring at a blank screen wondering how to make your content land—and make you bank—this is the reset you need.
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DM “SAVAGE” on Instagram for insider bonuses.💸 FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES:
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The soft life looks effortless from the outside — the freedom, the fortune, the mornings without alarms, the space for love and family while your business runs itself.
But here’s the truth no one talks about… you have to earn it.
Your savage season is where you build the discipline, systems, and momentum that make your soft season inevitable. It’s the season where you go all in, create cash on command, and set yourself up so future you can coast without losing momentum.
If you’ve been craving both freedom and expansion, this episode will show you why your soft life starts with savage strategy.
IN THIS EPISODE, WE DIVE INTO:
— The difference between your soft season and savage season (and when to be in each)
— Why discipline is the fastest path to love, money, and momentum
— How to create cash on command in your “takeoff” season
— The mindset shift that makes a million-dollar year inevitable
— How to plan the season that buys your future freedom
🖤 JOIN THE MOVEMENT:
Ready to build the business that buys you the soft life?
Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand.
DM “SAVAGE” on Instagram for insider bonuses.
💸FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES:1. Download the Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant shifts in your content power
2. Join LIBERATED: $77 training showing you how to make a brand that is in a league of your own
🔥SIMILAR EPISODES:
- 5 Unhinged Things That Make People Completely Obsessed With You (That You’re Probably Not Doing)
- The Secret to Scaling Without Burning Out or Starting Over
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