Send me a text! In a world obsessed with getting noticed, it’s easy to confuse attention with impact. But the truth? The spotlight doesn’t make you shine, it exposes what’s already there. In this episode, Csilla explores the real difference between chasing recognition and becoming a person of depth, credibility, and trust. You’ll learn why substance is your most magnetic asset, how to cultivate it in your daily life and leadership, and why the right opportunities always find those who b...

Send me a text! If you’ve ever felt like the world is speeding up while your soul is begging for a nap, this one’s for you. I don’t know if it’s me getting older or just tired of the noise but I can’t stand speed anymore. Speed in how we talk. Speed in how we build relationships. Speed in how we chase results. Somewhere along the way, we started confusing being busy with being brilliant. But here’s the thing: fast talkers might get attention, however slow, intentional speakers earn trust. In ...

Send me a text! Speaking clearly isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence. In this episode, Csilla Muscan unpacks 7 simple but transformative habits that help you speak with more clarity, calm, and credibility without sounding rehearsed or robotic. You’ll discover: 💭 The mindset shift that instantly improves how people perceive you 🧘 Why silence isn’t awkward; it’s powerful ✍️ How to refine your everyday speech so your words land with meaning If you’ve ever been told to “just slow down”...

Send me a text! Lately, I’ve noticed something about my own message… it’s changing. And for a while, that scared me. Here's what I’m learning, evolution isn’t about starting over, it’s about becoming clearer, more honest. In this episode, I’m sharing what it really means when your message starts to evolve and how to follow that shift without throwing away everything you’ve built. Because evolution doesn’t mean inconsistency. It means maturity. Here’s what you’ll walk away with: ✅ The re...

Send me a text! Let’s be honest… most leaders talk too much. 😬 We think if we explain a little more, emphasize a little louder, or repeat it one more time, people will finally “get it.” But the truth? The more we talk, the less people actually listen. In this episode of Speak Like It Matters, I’m tackling a trap I see far too often — overspeaking. Because the secret to being heard isn’t using more words… it’s using meaningful ones. Here’s what you’ll walk away with: ✨ Why great leade...

Send me a text! Ever notice how some people seem to get instant respect when they speak… while others have to fight to be heard? Spoiler: it’s not luck. It’s language. The truth is, the way you speak teaches people how to treat you. Every tone, pause, and “sure, no problem” sets a standard. Whether you meant to or not. In this episode, I’m diving into how to speak with boundaries and backbone, without sounding bossy, cold, or defensive. Because confidence doesn’t have to come with a megaphone...

Send me a text! Here’s the uncomfortable truth: facts don’t change minds. You can throw out data points, charts, and bulletproof logic all day long, but if your audience doesn’t feel something, they won’t buy in. That’s why some of the smartest leaders I know struggle to get traction with their ideas because they rely on information instead of inspiration. In today’s episode of the Speak Like It Matters Podcast, I’m unpacking the hidden reason people don’t buy into your ideas (spo...

Send me a text! The fastest way to lose credibility as a speaker? Trying to talk about everything. Yep. If you’re juggling 10 different topics, you’re basically telling your audience, “Hey, I’m unforgettable for… nothing.” Ouch. But don’t worry, in this episode of the Speak Like It Matters Podcast, I’ll help you finally get crystal clear on what to actually focus on when you speak. Because here’s the thing: people don’t hire “jack-of-all-trades” speakers. They hire the voice that makes them l...

Send me a text! When the world feels heavy, it’s easy for leaders to either shut down or get swept away in the noise. This past week, with headlines like the tragic death of Iryna Zarutska, the assassination of Charlie Kirk, and the shooting in Colorado, I felt that weight too. And maybe you have. Here’s the truth: leadership in these moments requires more than quick reactions or louder opinions. It requires discernment. In this episode, I’m sharing three rhythms that have kept me steady: How...

Send me a text! Most people think influence comes from titles, charisma, or a killer LinkedIn headline. Spoiler alert: it doesn’t. Real influence comes from how you show up, day in, day out. Especially when it’s not convenient, glamorous, or Instagram-worthy. In this episode of the Speak Like It Matters Podcast, I’m pulling back the curtain on the Top 7 Traits of Influential Leaders. Not the fluffy kind you’ve already seen a thousand times on motivational posters. These are the raw, rea...

Send me a text! Not every good story belongs in your talk. I know, I know! But it’s true. I’ve seen too many leaders confuse “funny” or “entertaining” with impactful. The result? Their audience remembers the laugh but forgets the message. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the sneaky ways we sabotage our own talks by choosing the wrong stories. And don’t worry, I’m not just here to call you out. I’m here to hand you the tools so your next story actually lands. Here’s...

Send me a text! Think it’s hard to build a 45-minute keynote? Try boiling your brilliance down to just 3 minutes. That’s where most experts stumble. In this episode, I’ll show you why the shortest talks are often the hardest—and how to make yours unforgettable. Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter: https://www.speaklikeitmatters.com/weekly This Episode Will Teach You: Why ONE clear idea is the only idea that worksHow to hook your audience in the first 7 se...

Send me a text! Most talks don’t fail in the middle. They fail in the last two minutes. Because let’s be honest. ending a talk with “thank you for listening” or “I hope this inspired you” is about as effective as handing someone a gift with no instructions. They smile, they clap, they leave… and then they do absolutely nothing. In this episode of the Speak Like It Matters Podcast, I’m pulling back the curtain on how to actually close your talk so your audience takes action (instead of j...

Send me a text! Most speakers lose their audience in the first 30 seconds… and then spend the rest of their talk playing desperate catch-up. Let’s not do that. In this episode of Speak Like It Matters, I’m spilling the tea on why most talk openings fall flat — and exactly how to craft one that makes people sit up, lean in, and think, “Okay… I’m listening.” Spoiler: it’s not by thanking the organizer, reading your résumé, or starting with a bad joke you found on Pinterest. Here’s what you’ll ...

Send me a text! Let’s be honest, most messages don’t land. They float. They ramble. They vanish into the void of “meh.” But yours? Yours doesn't have to be generic. If you’ve ever poured your heart into a talk, a team meeting, or a content piece only to get crickets… this one’s for you. In this episode, I’m breaking down the real reasons messages fall flat, and more importantly, how to fix yours without sounding like a robot or a walking cliché. You'll learn: 🤯 Why over-explaining...

Send me a text! Some leaders stay calm under fire. Others unravel faster than cheap sweater threads. The difference? Emotional control. And here’s the thing: it’s not something you magically “find.” It’s a skill — one you build, habit by habit. In this episode, I’m breaking down 7 daily habits that help you master emotional control so you can show up unshakeable — on stage, in meetings, and even when your kid decides to test your last nerve before breakfast. We are building on last week’s epi...

Send me a text! Everyone’s out here chasing charisma… But no one’s talking about what actually earns you trust when the spotlight’s hot or the Zoom room goes silent: Emotional control. Yep. Not the sexiest leadership skill, but hands down one of the most important—and most ignored. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on why this quiet little superpower matters way more than that perfectly timed TED Talk hand gesture. Here’s what we cover (with plenty of real talk + practical t...

Send me a text! Let’s be honest: If you’re softening your message so everyone likes you... you’re not leading. You’re performing. And I get it. It’s human to want approval. ➛ But here’s the truth: You can’t inspire change while trying to keep everyone comfortable. That’s why today’s episode — Part 3 of The Speaker’s Code — is all about one of the most overlooked (and most magnetic) elements of powerful speaking: CONVICTION. Great speakers don’t perform to be liked. ➛ They speak from convicti...

Send me a text! Ever told your story on stage and walked away with applause… but no real engagement? No follow-ups. No “that changed me.” Just a few polite head nods and a “you’re so brave.” 😬 ➛➛➛ Here’s the truth: storytelling alone isn’t enough. Not if you want to lead, connect, and inspire action. In this episode — Part 2 of The Speaker’s Code — I’m sharing how to stop dumping your diary onstage and start using your story as the powerful, strategic tool it was meant to be. You’ll lea...

Send me a text! Are you performing… or actually leading when you speak? (And no — I don’t mean Broadway-level jazz hands. I mean that subtle, exhausting need to sound polished, perfect, and “on” every second you're on stage.) If your speaking feels a little too rehearsed, a little too robotic, and your audience still isn’t responding the way you hoped, this episode might be the slap-in-the-face clarity you didn’t know you needed. In this first episode of my 3-part series The Speaker’s Code: ...