Hard conversations at home don’t have to turn into shouting matches. We brought in Joe Dillon, a pioneer in divorce mediation, to show how the same tools that settle high‑stakes disputes can make family life calmer, kinder, and more effective. Joe’s story starts in corporate publishing, where he learned to bridge the gap between sales, legal, and clients. That real‑world training led him to master negotiation psychology—and today he uses it to help families preserve dignity, protect kids, and...
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Hard conversations at home don’t have to turn into shouting matches. We brought in Joe Dillon, a pioneer in divorce mediation, to show how the same tools that settle high‑stakes disputes can make family life calmer, kinder, and more effective. Joe’s story starts in corporate publishing, where he learned to bridge the gap between sales, legal, and clients. That real‑world training led him to master negotiation psychology—and today he uses it to help families preserve dignity, protect kids, and...
Hard conversations at home don’t have to turn into shouting matches. We brought in Joe Dillon, a pioneer in divorce mediation, to show how the same tools that settle high‑stakes disputes can make family life calmer, kinder, and more effective. Joe’s story starts in corporate publishing, where he learned to bridge the gap between sales, legal, and clients. That real‑world training led him to master negotiation psychology—and today he uses it to help families preserve dignity, protect kids, and...
What if the most powerful tool we have to reduce school violence isn’t a perfect policy, but a daily choice to truly see each other? That’s the heart of our conversation with educator and speaker Jesse Hansen, who has spent 21 years inside junior highs and high schools teaching the psychology of meanness—and how to break the hate cycle with sincere, strategic kindness. We trace common motives behind school shootings—justice, revenge, and fame—and uncover the deeper driver connecting them: th...
Ever ask “How was your day?” and get “fine”? We dig into why that question stalls and what to ask instead to unlock real stories, richer details, and genuine confidence. With strategist and storyteller Anna Tran, we explore the simple shift that changes everything: listen first, then guide with curious questions that help kids hear themselves think. We talk about transforming shy voices into self-assured communicators by making storytelling a daily ritual, not a performance. Think eye-level ...
Fear of failure doesn’t vanish with pep talks, and comparison doesn’t make kids try harder. We sat down with psychologist and author Dr. Kate Lund to explore practical ways families can trade perfection pressure for resilient growth—without asking kids to be fearless. Kate shares her powerful personal story of growing up with hydrocephalus and how her parents focused on who she was, not what she had. That lens—see strengths, acknowledge limits, stay connected—anchors everything we unpack, fro...
Ever feel the urge to “win” an argument with your kid and realize later nothing was learned, only lost? We sit down with licensed counselor and CEO Gino Titus Luciano to rethink conflict from the ground up—less power struggle, more problem solving. Gino brings experience spanning autism services, child welfare, correctional rehabilitation, and private practice to show why children copy what we model, not what we preach, and how accountability actually strengthens parental authority. We unpac...
Ever notice how a single word can flip a conversation with your teen from tense to trusting? We sat down with teen and parent well‑being coach Laura Ollinger to unpack the small, repeatable moves that turn blow‑ups into breakthroughs—without scripts, shame, or power struggles. Laura brings the compassion of a mom of four and the clarity of a coach who’s helped countless families navigate anxiety, curfews, grades, and all the messy middle moments of adolescence. We start with the simple truth...
What if the fastest way to help your child make better choices is to change how you show up as a parent? That question drives a candid conversation with author and mentor Richard Ramos, whose journey from at‑risk youth counseling to parent coaching revealed a hard truth: when the home isn’t healthy, everything else struggles to stick. We dig into practical, human strategies that replace power struggles with connection, and rigid rules with durable influence. Richard breaks down attachment an...
What if you could have a conversation with your great-grandmother? Not just read her diary or look at old photos, but actually ask her questions and hear her voice tell you stories about her life? This isn't science fiction—it's becoming reality through innovative storytelling technology that's preserving family legacies in remarkable new ways. Jeremy Horne joins us to share his passion for capturing family stories that might otherwise be lost forever. His journey began as a child in Perth, ...
Have you ever wondered why modern parenting feels more challenging than ever before? In this eye-opening conversation with licensed family therapist Todd Sarner, we explore how parents can transform daily stress and disconnection into calm, confident leadership at home. Todd shares his profound insight that effective parenting starts with placing relationship first. Drawing from decades of experience helping thousands of families, he reveals that most parenting should be proactive rather tha...
Gary Chubik, mental performance coach to pro athletes and organizations like the FBI, shares his journey from a shy, reluctant speaker to a confident professional communicator with practical frameworks anyone can use. • Building self-trust is essential for confident communication • The "Me-We-Topic-You-Us" framework provides a simple structure for effective presentations • Preparation and proving skills to yourself creates genuine confidence • The CAPE method (Control, Assess, Plan, Execute)...
The college landscape has transformed dramatically in a single generation. What once cost $7,000 annually now approaches $70,000, creating unprecedented financial pressure on families navigating the higher education maze. In this eye-opening conversation with Lee Norwood, founder of College Sharks, we unravel the complexities of finding the perfect college fit while managing costs. Contrary to popular belief, your child's most affordable option may not be that in-state university. Leigh reve...
Mallary Tenore Tarpley shares her journey through eating disorder recovery and offers guidance for parents navigating these conversations with their children in today's challenging social media landscape. • Understanding eating disorders beyond body image—Mallary's anorexia developed after her mother's death as an attempt to "stop time" and stay connected to her • The importance of recognizing the "middle place" in recovery where both progress and slips coexist • Teaching children that all b...
"Your psychology is everything. The way you interpret events matters more than the events themselves." These powerful words from licensed clinical social worker Yuri Mello capture the essence of a transformative approach to parenting teenagers. As a father of five and co-founder of School Pulse, Mello brings decades of clinical experience and personal wisdom to the challenging landscape of parent-teen relationships. Most parents find themselves stuck in reactive patterns, responding to each...
How do our own childhood wounds shape our parenting? Certified conscious parenting coach Shelly Robinson reveals that our most triggering moments with our children often stem from unhealed parts of ourselves - even when we had seemingly idyllic childhoods. Through a powerful story about a bath time battle with her four-year-old that escalated into screaming, Shelly shares how this moment became her wake-up call. "I didn't want to do that ever again," she explains, describing how the incident...
Kim Hartrum from the National Alliance on Mental Illness South Carolina shares her personal journey with mental health challenges and how she now helps students recognize warning signs of mental illness and suicide. Through her lived experience with anxiety since childhood and a suicidal episode as an adult, Kim offers invaluable insights for parents on maintaining open communication with children about mental health. • Anxiety in children often manifests as physical symptoms like stomachach...
Richard Reed, behavioral psychologist and organizational consultant, shares strategies for developing charisma in children through emotional intelligence, mindfulness practices, and creating psychological safety. • Charisma is fundamentally about connecting with others and generating appropriate emotions within them • Both extroverts and introverts can be charismatic in different ways • Emotional intelligence forms the foundation of charisma—recognizing our emotions creates capacity to consi...
Carrie Conrad, expert in prevention, protection, and defense for women and children, shares her "secret sauce" for raising safe kids in today's challenging world. • Communication is key, but listening matters more than talking when keeping kids safe • When children share concerning information, our reaction determines whether they'll continue to be open with us • Meeting children's need for attention is crucial—if parents aren't listening, someone else will be • The traditional "stranger dan...
Communication is a delicate dance requiring awareness of four critical layers: what we mean to say, what we actually say, what others hear, and what they think we mean. Amanda Schenkenberger and Elizabeth Green explore how understanding these layers transforms family dynamics and builds stronger connections. • The "yellow light" approach: slowing down when tension rises to respond thoughtfully instead of reacting • Using breathing techniques (longer exhales than inhales) to calm your nervous...
Navigating a child's addiction can be one of the most challenging paths a parent can walk. This week, we're honored to have parent expert Ann Kaplan with us, who candidly shares her own experiences with her son's addiction and guides us on how to tackle substance abuse within our families. Ann shares an honest perspective on interpreting signs of substance use in our children's lives, opening the lines of communication and setting boundaries. And even when diving into such a difficult stor...
Unlock the secrets to nurturing twice exceptional (2E) learners with our insightful guest, Melissa Muir. As an experienced online teacher and homeschooling mother of four, Melissa sheds light on recognizing and fostering the unique talents of children who are both gifted and have learning disabilities. We explore the diverse types of giftedness, from the academically inclined to those with hidden talents in coding and the arts, and delve into practical strategies to provide tailored education...
Hard conversations at home don’t have to turn into shouting matches. We brought in Joe Dillon, a pioneer in divorce mediation, to show how the same tools that settle high‑stakes disputes can make family life calmer, kinder, and more effective. Joe’s story starts in corporate publishing, where he learned to bridge the gap between sales, legal, and clients. That real‑world training led him to master negotiation psychology—and today he uses it to help families preserve dignity, protect kids, and...
