In this honest, unfiltered episode, Renee and Paula open up about the messy, emotional, and often unspoken phase of a relationship that comes after having kids. From the hormonal rollercoaster of the postpartum period to the emotional distance, identity shifts, and awkwardness around intimacy- they're talking about it all. With Renee still in the thick of toddler life and Paula reflection in hindsight and clarity, they offer two real and vulnerable perspectives on what it's like to become parents and still try to hold onto your partnership. Whether you're navigating this chapter now or know someone who is, this episode is a reminder that you're not alone- and that the messy middle doesn't mean the end.