Attraction doesn’t fade because you “lost the spark.”
It fades when polarity gets neutralized and most couples don’t even realize it’s happening.
In this episode, I break down what a man genuinely needs from a woman to feel devoted, confident, and connected in a relationship, without turning his partner into his therapist or his manager.
We talk about the real essentials: trust, space to process, appreciation, a woman who can receive, healthy boundaries, and why trying to “fix” him often creates the exact distance you’re afraid of.
If you’re a man, this will help you finally communicate what you need without shutting down.
If you’re a woman, this will show you how to bring back depth, intimacy, and that magnetic pull, without forcing it.
If you’ve felt the attraction dip, the dynamic shift, or the relationship start to feel more like logistics than love, press play.
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As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.
Most people think reality creation is about positive thinking, strategy, or trying harder.
It’s not.
In this episode, I break down the hidden law that actually determines performance, success, and momentum and why fear of failure doesn’t stop you by accident, it stops you through tension, over-preparation, and unconscious resistance.
We explore how “big game pressure” shows up in business, relationships, conversations, and launches, how shame sits underneath the fear of failure, and why resisting discomfort is the same as resisting success.
This is a practical, embodied breakdown of how to interrupt old patterns, detach from outcomes, and shift into a state of calm, play, and flow where results happen naturally.
If you’ve been doing all the right things but still feel tight, pressured, or stuck right before the moments that matter most, this conversation will show you exactly what’s been in the way.
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As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.
What if your future isn’t blocked by effort, timing, or strategy, but by how you’re relating to right now?
In this episode, I break down the overlooked connection between self-image, the nervous system, and the present moment and why most people stay stuck even while “doing the work.” We explore why ease, joy, and lightness are not rewards you earn later, but signals that you’re aligned now, and how performance, abundance, love, and creativity naturally flow from that state.
I also share a personal story of chasing results, hitting resistance, and the subtle identity shift that led to a breakthrough I couldn’t have planned.
If you’ve been hustling, meditating, visualizing, yet quietly feeling frustrated or impatient, this conversation will help you recalibrate the way you move through your life, your business, and your body.
This isn’t about forcing a future.
It’s about remembering who you are in the present.
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What’s up legends? In this episode, I sit down with Aaron Doughty for a deep, honest conversation about why so many of us lose ourselves in relationships and how people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and unexpressed emotion quietly drain attraction, polarity, and connection.
We explore how childhood conditioning shapes adult identity, why tension isn’t something to avoid but a necessary catalyst for growth, and how the pursuit of approval keeps us disconnected from our authentic power.
This episode weaves together inner child dynamics, masculine and feminine polarity, self-acceptance, neutrality, and the subtle ways urgency, ego, and validation run our relationships, business, and sense of self-worth. We unpack why worthiness is a concept rather than a feeling, how embracing discomfort restores respect and desire, and why becoming more yourself is the real path to intimacy, leadership, and freedom.
If you’ve ever felt drained in relationships, stuck in people-pleasing patterns, or caught between self-development and self-acceptance, this conversation will challenge the way you see love, identity, and what it actually means to come home to yourself.
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The Nikola Tesla Secret That Changed My Life
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What's up legends? In this episode, I sit down with Liam for a conversation that honestly feels like one of the most grounding and eye-opening ones I’ve had in a while.
We break down Tesla’s famous idea of energy, frequency, and vibration — not in a complicated, “quantum-physics textbook” way, but in a way that makes sense for real life, real emotions, and real decisions.
This is the exact perspective shift that helped me move from feeling stuck in a corporate routine to creating a life that finally felt light, purposeful, and aligned with who I actually am.
If you’re in a season where things feel heavy or repetitive, this episode will help you understand why — and what needs to shift within you before anything can shift outside of you.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN
How your energy and emotional state quietly shape everything you attract
Why every physical outcome begins as a vibration first
The subtle habits, beliefs, and thoughts that keep you tied to your current reality
How to tell when you're forcing versus when you're aligned
Why ease, joy, gratitude, and lightness aren’t luxuries — they’re indicators
How to step into the version of you who's already living the life you want
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#RealityShifting #Frequency #Vibration #Manifestation #LawOfAttraction #QuantumPhysics #NikolaTesla #EnergyWork #Consciousness #SpiritualAwakening #PersonalDevelopment #Mindset #QuantumLeap #FrequencyShift #5DConsciousness #RealityCreation #Manifestation #VibrationalAlignment #SourceEnerg
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How to Stop Being the “Nice Guy” & Start Leading in Love 💪
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If you’re constantly compromising yourself to keep the peace or win approval, this podcast is for you.
After working with thousands of men, I’ve seen how the “Nice Guy” pattern quietly destroys confidence, attraction, and trust in relationships. In this training, we’ll break down why this happens, where it comes from, and how to set boundaries that build respect, not resentment.
Here’s what you’ll learn:-
The psychology behind the Nice Guy pattern
- How childhood conditioning shapes adult relationships
- Why putting others first kills attraction and masculine energy
- The power of healthy boundaries and the “warrior” archetype
- How to say no with confidence and clarity
- Why guilt is actually a sign of growth
- The secret to earning respect through integrity
If you’re ready to stop seeking approval and start leading with strength and purpose, this one’s for you.
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Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
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#MensGrowth #MasculineLeadership #NiceGuySyndrome #MensWork #EmotionalIntelligence #MasculineEnergy #Boundaries #SelfImprovement #Leadership #MenAndRelationships #ConfidenceBuilding
When They Pull Away: 3 Mistakes That Push Love Further Apart 💔
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When your partner starts pulling away — fewer texts, less affection, more silence — it’s easy to panic and make it worse.
In this episode, I share the most common mistakes people make when their partner becomes distant — and what to do instead to create safety, connection, and trust again. Whether you’re dating, in a long-term relationship, or married, these practical tools will help you stop chasing, start leading, and rebuild emotional intimacy the right way.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
✨ The 3 big mistakes that push your partner further away
✨ How to regulate your emotions when you feel anxious or disconnected
✨ What to say (and not say) when they need space
✨ How to lead with groundedness instead of fear
✨ Practical steps to reconnect and rebuild safety
These lessons come straight from real coaching experiences with thousands of men and women learning to create secure, lasting love.
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Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
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#Relationships #LoveAndGrowth #EmotionalIntelligence #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #MasculineLeadership #Connection #EmotionalAwareness #MindsetMatters
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Your partner IS nature - constantly moving, expressing, changing. When you embrace this rather than resist it, you create space for real connection.
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Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual
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#EmotionalShutdown #RelationshipAdvice #TraumaResponse #NervousSystem #EmotionalIntelligence #RelationshipCoaching #MensRelationshipAdvice #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalHealing #RelationshipCommunication #FightFlightFreeze #TraumaHealing #RelationshipSkills #EmotionalMaturity #RelationshipGrowth #MensWork #CouplesCoaching
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What's up, legends? Got the whiteboard out today because we're breaking down why you emotionally shut down in relationships - and more importantly, what you can actually do about it.
This is the core of what makes or breaks your relationships. Not communication tactics, not date nights - your ability to stay emotionally open when things get intense.
Here's what we'll cover in this podcast episode:
✔️ The nervous system trauma responses (fight, flight, freeze, appease)
✔️ Why shutdown is instinctual survival, not personal failure
✔️ How your parents' relationship with emotion shaped yours
✔️ The difference between shutting down vs. slowing down
✔️ Why hearing the pain (not the blame) changes everything
✔️ New identity = new frequency = new reality
Your ability to stay emotionally open when things get intense is what makes or breaks relationships. Not communication tactics, not date nights - this right here.
The core truth: how someone feels around you determines the quality of every relationship in your life. When you shut down emotionally, the depth you can reach with your partner gets cut off immediately.
Most of us learned unhealthy emotional patterns from parents who weren't emotionally attuned themselves. They passed down unconscious behaviors around emotions, and now you're dealing with the consequences in your adult relationships.
Define your new response: Who do you need to be for the relationship you want? Someone responsive, clear, relaxed, and calm. Someone who leans into emotional intensity instead of resisting it.
The breakdown became the catalyst for breakthrough.
Remember: you don't practice this when things are going great. You practice your new identity when things go wrong. That's your training ground.
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Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual
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#EmotionalShutdown #RelationshipAdvice #TraumaResponse #NervousSystem #EmotionalIntelligence #RelationshipCoaching #MensRelationshipAdvice #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalHealing #RelationshipCommunication #FightFlightFreeze #TraumaHealing #RelationshipSkills #EmotionalMaturity #RelationshipGrowth #MensWork #CouplesCoaching
I’ve Coached 1,200 Men — Here’s What Kills Relationships 💔Join my men’s coaching group 👉🏼 https://embodied-entrepreneur-f2932d.webflow.io/program Access my FREE 30-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results:Men Click here 👉🏼 jordan-candlish.kit.com/female30days Women Click here 👉🏼 jordan-candlish.kit.com/male30days After coaching over 1,200 high-performing men, I’ve discovered that what destroys relationships isn’t cheating or money — it’s emotional disconnection.In this video, I break down the three subtle yet powerful factors that kill relationships — and how to shift them starting today. You’ll learn how emotional leadership, vulnerability, and purpose can completely change how your partner feels around you.Here’s what you’ll learn:✨ Why overworking and emotional suppression destroy connection✨ The power of emotional expression and self-awareness✨ How to stop shutting down and start leading with presence✨ The importance of staying connected to your purpose and aliveness✨ Practical tools for regulating emotions and communicating truthfullyThis is for the men ready to stop losing love — and start leading with authenticity, depth, and confidence.🔔 Subscribe for more content on men’s growth, emotional mastery, and relationships.Connect with me:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordancandlish01/🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlish📱 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jordancandlish01🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jordancandlish01ABOUT ME:Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: What Actually Kills Relationships02:15 – Overworking & Emotional Disconnection04:40 – Learning to Feel and Express Emotions07:10 – Building Emotional Awareness & Daily Check-Ins09:45 – The Importance of Safe Male Spaces12:00 – Shutting Down: The Silent Relationship Killer15:10 – How Avoidance Erodes Trust and Intimacy18:25 – Emotional Leadership and Regulation Practices21:30 – Staying Present During ConflictAlternative Titles:THIS is What Makes Someone Value YouWhy We Struggle to Leave RelationshipsDating Coach: #1 Sign You’ve Found the Right Person (Or If You’re SETTLING)How to know if your relationship is worth saving. #estherperel #relationship #therapyHow Friends And Family Can DESTROY Your RelationshipIf you think you’ll be single forever, watch THIS! ft. Matthew Hussey#MensGrowth #Relationships #MasculineLeadership #EmotionalIntelligence #MensWork #LoveAndGrowth #RelationshipAdvice #HighPerformingMen #SelfImprovement #EmotionalMastery #MindsetMatters #MasculineEnergy
Pursuing Purpose: The Secret to Thriving Relationships
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What if your purpose was the key to creating a deeper, more intimate, and thriving relationship? In this episode, I share how pursuing your higher purpose not only brings more meaning to your life but also transforms your relationships. From my coaching experiences to personal lessons, you'll learn how clarity, presence, and alignment with purpose directly shape the quality of love and connection you create with your partner.
In this episode, we'll cover:
• Why purpose is essential to intimacy and trust• The link between fulfillment and relationship success• Overcoming resistance and distractions• How to master presence and peace in the moment• Actionable steps to pursue your higher calling
The truth: Your love thrives when you thrive.
When you're disconnected from your purpose, that emptiness shows up in your relationship. You might seek validation from your partner, lose presence in intimate moments, or feel a nagging sense that something's missing. But when you're aligned with your calling and actively pursuing what matters most to you, you bring a completely different energy to your relationship.
Purpose gives you the clarity to show up fully. It creates the presence that deepens intimacy. It builds the trust that comes from being a man who knows where he's going and why.
This isn't about choosing between your purpose and your relationship. It's about understanding that they fuel each other. The more aligned you are with your calling, the more you have to give. The deeper your relationship becomes, the more it supports your growth.
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Alternative Titles:Women Love VALUE, Not Love – Why Most Men Get It WrongI Always Get What I Visualize In Only 3 Days Using This Belief System - Joe Dispenza MotivationThe Biggest Mistakes Women Make With Men (That Pushes Them Away) | E235 Lila Rose ShowWORLD'S #1 COUPLES THERAPIST: "If Your Partner Says THIS, the Relationship Is in TROUBLE!"LOVE EXPERT ON: When A Man TRULY LOVES You, He Will DO THIS! | Stephan Speaks & Jay ShettyDating Coach: #1 Sign You’ve Found the Right Person (Or If You’re SETTLING)#Purpose #Relationships #LoveAndGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #CouplesGoals #MindsetMatters #SelfImprovement #ThrivingRelationships #Intimacy #LifePurpose
Transforming Relationships: Principles for Deeper Love & Lasting Growth
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Are you ready to transform your relationship and experience deeper love, connection, and growth?
In this podcast, I share powerful principles inspired by Dr. Joe Dispenza’s teachings that helped me attract my dream partner and maintain a fulfilling relationship for over 10 years. These insights will show you how to:
✔️ Keep the spark alive
✔️ Build trust and intimacy
✔️ Stay in the “honeymoon phase”
✔️ Grow together through challenges
Whether you’re starting a new relationship or looking to strengthen an existing one, these timeless principles will help you create a love that lasts.
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Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
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The Exact Joe Dispenza Strategies I Used to Manifest My Dream Life
Dr. Joe Dispenza: WATCH THIS To Rewire Your Brain & ATTRACT Anything You Want
These 3 Words Will Manifest Your Dreams into Reality! - Dr. Joe Dispenza
The 3 Principles I Used From Joe Dispenza To Manifest A Dream Role
How to Raise Your Vibration INSTANTLY and Manifest Your Dream Life - Dr. Joe Dispenza Motivation
I Always Get What I Visualize In Only 3 Days Using This Belief System - Joe Dispenza Motivation
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Why She Doesn't Trust You (And How to Fix It)
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Trust is broken in your relationship. Your partner questions everything you say and do. The emotional connection is disappearing, and no matter what you try, it never feels like enough. Sound familiar?
I've coached thousands of men through this exact situation. The harsh truth? You can't rebuild trust by changing what you do. You can only rebuild it by changing who you're being.
In this episode, I break down:
• Why broken trust always comes back to your relationship with yourself• The common mistake men make trying to "fix" trust through actions• How self-abandonment patterns destroy relationship trust• Why controlling your impulses is the foundation of trustworthiness• The father wound connection to broken promises and integrity issues• How your inner child affects your ability to show up consistently
Here's the reality: If you don't trust yourself, you can't expect others to trust you. Every broken promise to yourself - whether it's about health, habits, or behaviors - creates "leaky energy" that your partner feels as unsafe.
This isn't about perfection or never engaging in certain activities. It's about alignment. When your behaviors pull you away from being the person you need to be in your relationship, that's when dysfunction starts.
Practical steps to rebuild trust:
• Examine where you're not keeping your word with yourself• Identify what has control of your attention when you're weak• Connect to a larger purpose - your why for change• Address the inner child that's been abandoned through years of pushing through• Get accountability through coaching or men's groups
Often, men only change when their relationship is about to end. Don't wait for that point. Reflect on how much it would hurt to lose this person right now.
The level of safety someone feels in your presence comes down to how much you trust yourself. Fix that foundation, and everything else follows.
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About Jordan Candlish:Jordan is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper.
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The One Thing Rich Entrepreneurs Do That Poor People Don't
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What's up, legends? Coming to you live from Hollywood Boulevard after just walking out of Lewis Howes' Summit of Greatness. I've spent a week in LA at mastermind retreats and high-level events, and this podcast is about the most important skill you can develop: putting yourself in the right rooms.
This has been the pivotal factor in attracting the right opportunities and people into my life. Not courses, not books, not online content - proximity to the right people in the right environments.
Here's what I learned this week:
✔️ Life is moving you in a certain direction - learn to become sensitive to it
✔️ When opportunity knocks (like Jim Carter offering Lewis Howes tickets), just say yes✔️ Start with the WHO, then you'll understand the WHERE
✔️ You learn more through osmosis than any online course
✔️ If you can see it, it's becoming real
✔️ The right environment creates energetic shifts that unlock new thinking
The proximity principle: You collapse years of online learning into a three-day event when you're around the right people. This is why I run retreats now - transformation happens through proximity, not information.Your mind will say you don't have time, money, or can leave your responsibilities. Find a way anyway. In 2019, working at a meditation studio in Toronto, I couldn't afford Robin Sharma's $6000 Personal Mastery Academy. But by being in the right place, someone offered me free tickets. Synchronicities happen when you keep taking the next step.
The practical approach:
It's not about how to get there, it's about who can help you get there. The right connections, mentors, and environments accelerate your growth exponentially.
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Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
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1. A clever way to motivate yourself
2. How to Network When You Have No Money or Connections
3. Mastermind Events: Are They Worth the Hype?
4. The Real Way to Meet Successful People (Not Online)
5. Why Proximity Beats Courses Every Time
6. The $6000 Event I Got Into for Free (And How You Can Too)
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The Relationship Skills Men Forget When Apart From Their Partner
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What's up legends? Just landed back in Lisbon after 5 weeks apart from Amanda, and I've had some eye-opening realizations about the relationship skills men often neglect - including myself. This podcast breaks down what I rediscovered about leading in relationships when you've been out of practice.
Walking through beautiful Lisbon to meet Amanda, I'm reflecting on how even after years of coaching men on relationships, I found myself slipping back into old reactive patterns within days of being reunited. The muscle of relationship leadership had gone weak from disuse.
Here's what I learned:
✔️ The #1 skill men must master: responsiveness over reactiveness
✔️ Why your subconscious defaults to familiar defensive patterns
✔️ How to catch yourself before damaging her nervous system
✔️ The weekly feedback process that transforms relationships
✔️ Why micro-moments of love matter more than grand gestures
✔️ When and how to give your partner constructive feedback
Being apart from your partner - whether through travel, work, or just getting complacent - weakens the relationship muscle. You forget the extra level of awareness and attentiveness needed around communication, emotional needs, and daily connection. Then old patterns may start to resurface:
✔️Defensiveness when she brings up concerns
✔️Not speaking emotions and projecting anger instead
✔️Reacting from energetic overwhelm rather than conscious choice
✔️Forgetting to notice what she needs in specific moments
The solution is building responsiveness. While responsiveness is crucial, you also need to address things that don't feel right. Don't withhold frustration - it stacks up and explodes later.
Learn to say:
"How you communicated that felt disconnecting in my body. I need more grace/cooperation/softness. Would you be willing to try this approach instead?"
You can only give love to the level you're willing to receive it. If you're not nourishing yourself, you can't creatively love your partner.
This is ongoing work requiring constant refinement, contemplation, and mindfulness. Get complacent, and your subconscious defaults to familiar defensive patterns.
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ABOUT ME
Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
Alternative Titles:
#RelationshipSkills #LongDistanceRelationship #RelationshipAdvice #MensRelationshipAdvice #RelationshipLeadership #MasculineLeadership #RelationshipCoaching #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipCommunication #EmotionalIntelligence #MensWork #RelationshipGrowth #CouplesCoaching #RelationshipTips #IntimateRelationships #RelationshipFoundations #MensDevelopment #ConsciousRelationships #RelationshipGoals #LoveLanguage
How The Universe Tests You Before Your Reality ChangesApply to work with me 👉🏼 https://bit.ly/3HoAy5TAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Alright, Legends? Ever notice how right when you decide to level up, everything seems to go wrong? Your car gets stolen, clients want refunds, unexpected bills hit - it's like the universe is testing your commitment to growth. That's exactly what I'll be addressing in this podcast. Here's what you'll learn in this podcast:✔️ Why life tests you when you're trying to level up (and how to see it coming)✔️ How to respond from your future self instead of your victim self✔️ The frequency shift that turns "problems" into growth opportunities✔️ Why taking full responsibility gives you all your power back✔️ How to mentally rehearse your new self before challenges hit✔️ The universal principles behind why bad things happen to good peopleInstead of asking "Why is this happening TO me?" start asking "What part of me created this?" When you take responsibility, you get your power back. You're no longer a victim of circumstances - you're the creator of your reality.When life tests you, it's actually checking if you're serious about stepping into your new frequency. Here's how to pass these tests instead of falling back into victim stories.Think about who you'd be if you already had your dream life. How would that version of you handle a $5K unexpected expense? They'd just handle it without drama because they operate from abundance, not scarcity.Life is built on duality - you can't have up without down, good without bad. When you understand this, you can start to love the challenges because they're opportunities to practice being your highest self. When you catch yourself judging something as "bad," that's your cue - you get to choose victim story or creator energy.The practice that works:✔️List your old self vs new self responses. ✔️How does each version handle stress, money problems, relationship issues? ✔️Then mentally rehearse being the new you before challenges hit.This isn't about toxic positivity or pretending everything's fine. It's about recognizing that your external reality mirrors your internal frequency. Change the frequency, change the reality.Connect with me:📸 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/jordancandlish01/🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlish📱 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jordancandlish01🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jordancandlish01ABOUT MEJordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good, not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.#LifeTests #SpiritualGrowth #Mindset #PersonalDevelopment #Manifestation #Consciousness #SelfDevelopment #MindsetShift #SpiritualAwakening #UniversalLaws#VictimMindset #FrequencyShift #NewSelf #SpiritualJourney #Awakening #ConsciousLiving #Spirituality
Reality Morphing: How I Escaped Corporate & Created My Dream Life
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How is it going, Legends? Today, I'll be sharing a reflection on reality morphing. Reality morphing is intentionally shifting your internal projection to change what reflects back in your external world. Using my personal experience at 22, I was trapped as a tax accountant at Deloitte in Perth, stuck in work I hated based on what society told me success should look like.
Here's what you'll learn in this Podcast:
✔️ The exact reality morphing process that took me from corporate to world traveler
✔️ How to access your future frequency before circumstances change
✔️ The train meditation technique that shifted my entire trajectory
✔️ Why taking responsibility gives you power to rewrite old conditioning
✔️ How I quit my six-figure career path with zero fear
✔️ The three-year game approach for massive life transformations.
My transformation started with daily morning practices on my commute, consciously tapping into how it would feel to live my dream reality. I made every train ride a no-phone meditation zone, practiced walking meditations without knowing that's what they were called. Because I'd already transcended my environment internally, quitting my chartered accounting degree felt natural, not terrifying.
The key insight: your imagination is the only limit to what you can access vibrationally. For something to exist physically, it must first exist vibrationally. You must become the frequency of your future before your external world reflects it back.
The process works because you stop looking for evidence outside yourself. When you ARE the thing you want, you no longer need it to show up to feel complete.
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Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
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1. Reality Morphing: How I Escaped Corporate & Created My Dream Life
2. From Tax Accountant to World Traveler: The Reality Shift
3. How I Quit My 6-Figure Job and Morphed My Reality
4. The Frequency Shift That Completely Changed My Life
5. I Escaped the Matrix Using This Reality Morphing Process
#RealityMorphing #EscapeCorporate #ManifestationTechniques #FrequencyShift #JoeDispenza #DigitalNomad #EntrepreneurMindset #CorporateEscape #SpiritualEntrepreneur #ConsciousCreation #SpiritualAwakening #HigherSelf #IntentionalLiving #WalkingMeditation #TrainMeditation #FrequencyWork #RealityShifting #QuantumField #VibrationalReality #FutureSelfVisualization
From Obsessed and Needy to 10-Year Drama-Free RelationshipApply to work with me 👉🏼 https://bit.ly/3HoAy5TAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/ema...Your first love hits different. For men especially, it breaks you down completely when attachment wounds get triggered. One day you're good, the next you're in the dumps because the relationship is struggling. You hate how much control they have over your emotional state.I coach men through relationship breakdowns regularly, and I see the same pattern - guys who let their happiness depend entirely on one person. This podcast shares how I went from being completely attached and needy with my first love to building a 10-year relationship with Amanda that's drama-free because we both have internal security.What you'll learn in this podcast:✔️Why first love destroys young men and how to recover✔️The exact process of cutting someone off completely ✔️How to build internal security that doesn't depend on others✔️Why relationships are here to make you aware, not happy✔️How Amanda and I handle months apart with zero jealousy✔️The foundation that creates drama-free relationshipsIf you're going through heartbreak right now, this is your dark night of the soul. Don't distract from the pain - use it to become someone who attracts love effortlessly. You have to earn the right to receive extraordinary love by becoming worthy of it.The uncomfortable truth is you may never end up with the person you're currently attached to. Can you be okay with that? Until you can, your relationships will be built on shaky foundations with constant drama.Connect with me:📸 Instagram: / jordancandlish01 🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlish📱 Facebook: / jordancandlish01 🎵 TikTok: / jordancandlish01 ABOUT MEJordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good, not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.Recommended Titles1. Why Your First Love Nearly Destroyed You (And How Mine Led to 10 Years of Bliss)2. From Obsessed and Needy to 10-Year Drama-Free Relationship3. How I Went Cold Turkey on My First Love and Found My Soulmate4. The Dark Night of the Soul That Saved My Love Life5. Why Men Get Destroyed by First Love (Recovery Guide)#FirstLove #HeartbreakRecovery #RelationshipAdvice #AttachmentIssues #DatingAdvice #EmotionalDetachment #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipCoaching #PersonalGrowth #MensCoaching #FirstLove #HeartbreakRecovery #RelationshipAdvice #AttachmentIssues #DatingAdvice #EmotionalDetachment #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipCoaching #PersonalGrowth #MensCoaching #relationshipadvice
Navigating Seasonal Energy Shifts: Why You Feel Different in FallApply to work with me 👉🏼 https://bit.ly/3HoAy5TAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Life operates on polarity - you can't have light without dark, highs without lows. Right now in the Northern Hemisphere, we've shifted from summer into fall, and this natural transition affects our energy more than most people realize. If you've been feeling less motivated or inspired lately, this isn't a problem to fix - it's a season to honor.Here's what you'll learn in this Podcast:✔️ Why your energy naturally shifts with the seasons (and moon cycles)✔️ How to work with your body's natural rhythms instead of against them✔️ The difference between resistance and gracious acceptance of change✔️ How to navigate the inevitable ups and downs without judgment✔️ Why your body gets sick when you don't honor energetic shifts✔️ The connection between seasonal changes and urges/impulsesI recently experienced this firsthand - had the best night of my life dancing downtown Toronto, then lost my girlfriend's dad's Mercedes keys and faced a $1000 replacement cost. Classic pendulum swing from extreme high to extreme low. But here's the thing: when you understand life's natural polarity, you can move through these shifts with grace instead of resistance.The more attuned you become to your energy, the more you'll notice these natural cycles. New moons bring new energy. Seasonal transitions invite different practices. Your body operates on 24-hour, monthly, and yearly cycles that affect everything from creativity to physical needs.What this fall season might be calling you toward:✔️ Less intense physical training, more gentle movement✔️More meditation and introspection✔️Increased time in nature and connection with plants/trees✔️ Honoring the body's need for rest and restorationWhen you resist these natural shifts, your body will eventually force the change through illness or other mechanisms. The key is learning to ask: "What is this season requiring of me?" instead of fighting what is.If you're in a low period right now, remember - God/Universe doesn't have personal judgments about your experience. You're not being punished. This darkness may be exactly what's needed for your growth and evolution. Your soul came here to experience the full range, not just the highlights.Connect with me:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordancandlish01/🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlish📱 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jordancandlish01🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jordancandlish01ABOUT MEJordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle. Alternative Titles:1. Navigating Seasonal Energy Shifts: Why You Feel Different in Fall2. Why Your Energy Changes With the Seasons (And How to Honor It)3. The Real Reason You Feel Less Motivated in Fall4. How to Work With Your Body's Natural Rhythms5. Why Fighting Seasonal Changes Makes You Sick#SeasonalEnergy #EnergyShifts #NaturalRhythms #SeasonalDepression #FallTransition #MoonCycles #BodyWisdom #ChineseMedicine #SpiritualSeason #EnergeticAlignment #NatureConnection #SeasonalWellness #BodyClock #EnergyManagement #SeasonalSelfCare