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Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
381 episodes
1 day ago
I’m not sure what the next step is for you. What needs to change to take you to new levels of joy and intimacy in your marriage. But, God does. So, instead of worrying about things never getting better… Or setting a plan on your own… Take some time alone and open yourself to receive the ideas, perspective changes or encouragement that God has for you. I had a very meaningful shift this week that I share in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email ...
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I’m not sure what the next step is for you. What needs to change to take you to new levels of joy and intimacy in your marriage. But, God does. So, instead of worrying about things never getting better… Or setting a plan on your own… Take some time alone and open yourself to receive the ideas, perspective changes or encouragement that God has for you. I had a very meaningful shift this week that I share in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email ...
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Society & Culture,
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Episodes (20/381)
Strong Men Strong Marriages
Using Prayer For Your Next Step As A Husband And Father
I’m not sure what the next step is for you. What needs to change to take you to new levels of joy and intimacy in your marriage. But, God does. So, instead of worrying about things never getting better… Or setting a plan on your own… Take some time alone and open yourself to receive the ideas, perspective changes or encouragement that God has for you. I had a very meaningful shift this week that I share in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email ...
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1 week ago
12 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
The Top 3 Ways To Take Care Of Yourself To Be A Better Husband And Father
We all have needs in relationships. The trick in a marriage is figuring out… Which needs are coming from a CHILDISH place… And which needs are coming from an ADULT place. If it’s coming from a CHILDISH place, it’s up to YOU to take care of that need. If it’s coming from an ADULT place, it’s time to have a conversation with your wife and ask clearly for what you need. But often to get to that adult place, you need to take care of younger you FIRST. And adult you as well. Learn ...
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2 weeks ago
15 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Developing Patience As A Husband And Father
Do you want your marriage to change RIGHT NOW? Do you want your kids to act better RIGHT NOW? Most of us do. But, when we try to force people to be something they’re not… It usually backfires. Like trying to force open a flower. You end up just destroying the flower. Or cutting open the goose to get more golden eggs. You just end up with a dead goose. Learn how to develop the patience to let people develop (including yourself)… While also encouraging that development in yo...
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3 weeks ago
23 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
How To Access Powerful Masculine Energy
Do you feel like your wife doesn’t appreciate you? That she cares about the kids more than you? That she can be nice to everyone except you, but is still willing to use the money you bring in? I’ve certainly felt this way. And this energy is not the powerful masculine energy that feels good and attracts your wife to you. It’s a young, immature energy that needs to be tended… by you. Learn how to take care of the younger you… So you can access the powerful, God-given masculine en...
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4 weeks ago
18 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
What To Do When You Feel Down In Marriage
There are going to be days when you feel down in your marriage. Sad. Overwhelmed. Tired. And, that’s OK. That’s normal and human. Instead of trying to “buck up,” take care of yourself first. Acknowledge you are feeling down, see what you need, and meet that need. Then, think about other ways you can think in the future. Heal first, fix later. Learn more in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a p...
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1 month ago
11 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
How To Be A Truly Powerful Husband And Father
There are two main forces of power available to you as a husband and father. One is a destructive force. This force is a “my way or the highway” energy. It intimidates to get its way. And, it is more powerful than doing nothing. And, it ends in people wanting to create distance from you, making you feel lonely in your marriage. The other force available to you is the TRANSFORMATIONAL force. This power allows you to stop what needs to be stopped… But in order to build what you ...
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1 month ago
27 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
The Beauty Of Boundaries In Marriage And Parenting
In our marriage and parenting, we’re often too hard or too soft. When we’re too hard, we are angry, frustrated, or overly controlling of what people do. This comes from our own discomfort of letting others do things differently. And, it leads to people distancing from us. When we feel that distance, we often go too soft. Too permissive. Too weak. And, our wives and kids kind of like that… But they don’t respect us or feel safe with us. And we don’t feel safe or respect ourselves...
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1 month ago
16 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
How To Stop Stressing Out As A Husband And Father - Inner Child Journey Part 4
You want to be the best husband. You want to be the best father. You want to be the best at your job. That pressure can help you perform… But it also leads to a feeling of pressure, stress… And even rejection and not feeling good enough. Unfortunately, those aren’t the best feelings to build a family foundation on. Instead, you can view your family as a garden. A garden that God is in charge of, and that you have a part in. A garden that if you make a mistake, God can heal i...
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1 month ago
14 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
How Your Past Affects Your Present - Inner Child Journey Part 3
I used to think that the way to heal was three simple steps. Step 1 –Identify your old, negative, unattractive patterns. Step 2 – Create new positive attractive patterns. Step 3 - Practice the new patterns until you can’t get them wrong And, that sequence does work. However, it misses some important things. Mainly, it misses acknowledging why the old patterns were there in the first place. It doesn’t give compassion to the younger you’s and the current you that are acting ...
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2 months ago
15 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
What To Do When Your Wife Or Kids Make You Mad
If you’re like me, your wife and kids make you mad. Maybe it happens a lot. If your anger seems extreme for the situation… (like when I got upset this week when my oldest son said goodbye to other people in the family or not me)... There’s probably a younger you that needs caring for. And the adult you also needs to recognize the hurt… And then choose from an adult mindset what to do about it. Learn how to do this in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. And to join us in ...
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2 months ago
15 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
How To Break Impossible Patterns In Marriage
I’ve had a pattern in my marriage. I feel hurt by something. The kids or Elizabeth ignoring me. The kids being rude. Elizabeth turning away from a hug or kiss. Then, I get mad. I pull away. I think to myself “Fine, if they don’t want me then they can pay for everything themselves!” I picture leaving them alone to fend for themselves. I can say mean things and get angry when I feel this way. Then later, I calm down and regret this… But there’s been damage done. I’ve scared my f...
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2 months ago
20 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Confrontation - A Manly Trait
This past week I had the chance to stand up for someone else. A large man was being threatening and eventually physically aggressive to his wife or girlfriend (not sure which it was).. Thanks to the MMA training I’ve been receiving from Ethyn Ewing (here’s a recent knockout of his)... I felt confident to confront the guy and stop him from continuing to abuse this woman. It felt great to join the ranks of men who will stand up physically for what’s right. It made me realize that conf...
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2 months ago
13 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Panicking When Your Wife Wants Space
When you wife says she wants space… It’s SCARY! Our brains usually go to thinking she wants to leave, whether that’s true or not. Usually we either go to pleading for her not to leave… Or we go to anger. Both of these are unattractive and push our wives away. Instead, we can share what we’re actually feeling… Ask for her help… And take care of ourselves. Learn more about this in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v5FvaokDOcY And joi...
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3 months ago
12 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Wife Doesn't Want To Pray With You? What To Do
It can be scary and frustrating if your wife doesn’t want to pray with you. Or maybe it’s that she doesn’t want to go to church or read scriptures with you. You can worry that your marriage won’t make it. That your kids won’t grow up with God. That your wife and kids are on the fast track to eternal damnation. Unfortunately, this fear usually makes you anxious and controlling… Which drives your wife and kids away more. Learn what to to instead… In today’s episode. Listen on ...
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3 months ago
13 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Your Wife As A Plant
What’s your goal for your marriage? A wife who is excited to see you? A wife who hugs, kisses and has sex with you? A wife who appreciates you? And that should happen all the time, right? And if not, something is wrong. Right? Well, this mindset of having an “endpoint” to marriage usually leads to frustration. God helped me see that it’s much better to see your wife and marriage as a plant. Something that has seasons. That needs consistent nourishment. Something living that do...
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3 months ago
15 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
The Grateful Flow - Tools For A Better Marriage #4
It can be easy to get into a downward spiral about our wife and marriage. The sex isn’t there. The connection isn’t there. We’re dealing with infidelity, separation or divorce. It can all seem pretty hopeless. And, when we feel hopeless, we don’t feel good, we’re not attractive, and we don’t solve our problems. Fortunately, there’s a way out of this. It’s gratitude. Not necessarily for our wife, but for the fact that God has our back. When we can see and feel that, we feel e...
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3 months ago
14 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
What To Do When Your Wife Seems Distant
Does your wife feel distant? Does she seem to not really care about you? Does she seem to care more about the kids than you? Do you tell her that she should be paying more attention to you, hoping to get more from her? Well, maybe it’s not actually about you at all! And maybe asking her to do more will create MORE distance instead of connection. Learn how to approach your wife in a strong, supportive, secure way when she feels distant… So you can feel the closeness you desire. ...
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3 months ago
14 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
The Gap And The Gain In Marriage
Do you wish you had more in your marriage? More sex? More conversation? More connection? More fun? It’s not a problem to want more. However, your emotional state when you desire and ask for more can be a BIG problem. Most of us ask for more from a place of whininess and “not enough.” This usually just makes our wives feel like they’re not doing enough and less motivated to do anything more. Learn a new and better way to get more in your marriage… In today’s episode. Watc...
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4 months ago
13 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
How To Be Fearless In Marriage - Tools For A Better Marriage Part 3 - Self-Expression
Are you hiding in your marriage? Do you avoid speaking your mind? About money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or free time? Do you get defensive with your wife? All of these symptoms are due to a fear… A fear of part of you being exposed or rejected. Learn how to overcome that fear… Through acceptance of your “Shadow…” Watch on YouTube here. And join the program to learn how to do this together. (This series is from the book The Tools https://amzn.to/42410JT ...
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4 months ago
18 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Tools For A Better Marriage Part 2 - Active Love
Does your wife make you mad? When she criticizes you? When she seems to care about the kids more than you? Do you feel like just a paycheck? When we get into this negative spiral… It doesn’t do us or anyone else much good. Thankfully, there IS a way out of it… A way we can feel FREE instead of TRAPPED. We can feel powerful no matter what our wife or others might be doing. Learn how in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y5fciTKrrSI A...
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4 months ago
16 minutes

Strong Men Strong Marriages
I’m not sure what the next step is for you. What needs to change to take you to new levels of joy and intimacy in your marriage. But, God does. So, instead of worrying about things never getting better… Or setting a plan on your own… Take some time alone and open yourself to receive the ideas, perspective changes or encouragement that God has for you. I had a very meaningful shift this week that I share in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email ...