In this episode of SuperPsyched, Dr. Adam Dorsay hosts Dr. Alexandra Solomon, a licensed clinical psychologist and author, to discuss the complex and sensitive topic of affairs and betrayals in romantic relationships. They delve into the reasons behind infidelity, the emotional turmoil experienced by both betraying and betrayed partners, and the potential for healing and strengthening relationships post-affair. Dr. Solomon shares insights from her extensive experience and research, offering practical advice for couples aiming to rebuild trust and intimacy. Highlights include the importance of emotional attunement, understanding the impact of stress on libido, and the value of open communication. Dr. Solomon also mentions her online course designed to help couples navigate their journey after infidelity.
00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched
00:28 Can Couples Survive Betrayal?
01:17 Introducing Dr. Alexandra Solomon
01:49 The Complexity of Affairs
03:03 Why Do Affairs Happen?
04:26 The Emotional Turmoil of Betrayal
10:45 Gender Differences in Infidelity
22:41 The Aftermath of Betrayal
24:51 Normalizing the Initial Disruption
25:29 Emotional Attunement Crash Course
27:19 The Importance of Daily Check-ins
32:23 Holding Yourself in Warm Regard
34:16 Rebuilding Trust and Integrity
36:46 Keeping the Relationship Alive
39:15 Exploring Sexual Satisfaction
44:58 Final Thoughts and Resources
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